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I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

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Question - (31 March 2008) 15 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009):

You have nothing at all to worry about. It is impossible to become pregnant from anal intercourse. You do not need to take a laxative. However, you should be aware that the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases is increased almost 10 times by having anal intercourse. Please use a condom. I am a physician in Georgia.

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A male reader, mrflip United States +, writes (19 January 2009):

It would also be extremely unlikely for a girl to get pregnant from loose semen around the vagina. To reach the egg it has to be injected up into the uterus, "balls deep" as they say. If you feel like you have a baby in your colon, maybe you need to cut back on the fiber or take some ex-lax.

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A female reader, helpfulperson Anguilla +, writes (26 December 2008):

I think you do need to follow your mom's advice and take the laxative so you can sh*t out that little baby that's growing inside your @ss. Before it gets too BIG!!! ZOMG, could you imagine passing a full term fetus out of your anus?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 June 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou cannot get pregnant from anal sex if you are wearing a condom.

There is a risk of getting pregnant if no condom is used as

there could be leakage as the penis may hit the wrong target

or he ejaculates on your outside or when you washed up and

some sperms get to swim or swept towards your vagina.

The risk is very low but not impossible.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008):

You can't be pregnant unless you have intercourse,which

happens in the front,between your legs.So don't worry about harming the baby cause you don't have one.

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A female reader, Bobbyjo United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2008):

Bobbyjo agony auntgo back to school and learn some more biology, u cannot get pregnant from anal sex. Subject closed.

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A female reader, happy9497 United States +, writes (1 April 2008):

if u r pregnant from vaginal intercourse then yes a laxative will harm the baby so please do not take consult with your ob/gyn or where ever u go for prenatal care. for future reference u can not become pregnant from anal sex theres no way. talk to your mom this is a part of life and u do not wanna go through all this alone believe me when I tell u, she may b upset but she'll get ova it she's your mom always

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

I dont understand....you think that you have got pregnant from anal sex? or you have had 'normal' sex before and thought you were pregnant before the anal sex? Where do laxatives come into this? Does your mom know you had anal sex and wants you to take a laxative to rid of the contents?

You really need to explain this post better - and just incase your not sure, you can not get pregnant from anal sex, unless the sperm made its way to your vagina on the outside. You shouldnt be having sex at your age either.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

stop taking those pills it can harm you babby.this is the truth please listen to me.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (1 April 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntIf you think you're pregnant, then you're going to have to tell someone, soon, and who better than your mother?

Unless you're planning to be pregnant and bear a child without anyone noticing, I think it's time to talk with her...

If you're old enough to have sex (and yes, anal sex counts as sex) then you're old enough to bear the responsibility that it brings.

Just tell her what you posted here, and while she may be very disappointed in you, she will still be your mother and will do what she can to help you through this!

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (1 April 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntI'm assuming that you have had regular sex as well if you think that you are pregnant, but why on earth would you not use a condom either way?

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (1 April 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntYou can read the directions on the box. It should tell you whether or not you should take that medication if you are pregnant. Don't you think that you should confide in your Mom if you are worried about all of this? She's bound to find out one way or another, and it sounds like you could use her help right about now. She may be cross with you at first, but no one is ever just a little bit pregnant. It does eventually show, whether or not it's a secret now. You might still have options and you certainly need the right kind of medical advice, which you obviously know by asking this question in the first place. Good luck with everything, dear.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntIf you think you're pregnant through having anal sex, then my sweet, let me tell you - it's very highly unlikely.

If you think you are pregnant through unprotected vaginal intercourse, then you could very well be pregnant.

Take a pregnancy test to be sure as soon as possible..and yes ~ it is also not safe for pregnant women to be taking in laxatives of any kind.

BigSis xXx

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (1 April 2008):

rcn agony auntI think this is a duplicate questions, and possiably not a true question. All I have to say is, for those who don't know you CAN NOT get pregnant from anal sex, need to study up a bit before having any kind of sex.

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2008):

MissKin agony auntOkay i'm thoroughly confused. You do know you can't get pregnant through anal sex right?

Not unless the sperm found it's way to the vagina outside of the anal opening there's not much chance that you could be pregnant from this.

Why is your mum making you take a laxative?... To help you with anal sex? Because you had anal sex?

Take a pregnancy test.

As for the effect of laxatives on your unborn child (if there is one) - avoid strong laxatives as these can affect your uterus and you don't want that at all. Taking a laxative that is lighter such as Fybogel will be fine for your baby.

This question slightly confused me and i feel it didn't contain enough detail but still, i wanted to help.

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