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writes:I have very deep feelings of affection for a teacher of mine and it's slowly killing me inside - I've already posted a question on this and everyone said to tell someone, but I tried to today and got too scared and couldn't speak. Is there any other way I can forget about him? I see him practically every day and in two lessons a week so it is hard :( Reply to this Question |
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reader, bazookabob +, writes (3 April 2008):
 Its impossible to say based on what little i know about uyour feelings, what you can do to make it better- unfortunately sometimes there really is no cure except time, and believe me i know how much of a bugger that is! If you wanna chat in more detail about it, and maybe get a teachers point of view on the whole situation, you're more than welcome to send me a message anytime! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've felt the way i feel for him for about a year now, and maybe it isn't love, just an infatuation, but i know in my heart and soul Bazookabob, that it is not a crush. i may be 15, but the way i feel for him... its indescribable the way he affects me, i think about him from the moment i wake up, i swear, and everything i do, everywhere i go, every thought is linked almost directly to him.But i didnt ask in my question whether or not this was love, i just need to know what i can do ABOUT it, becuase whatever it is, i don't know how much more of it i can take becuase i feel unhappy and anxious all the time, and like i said, i just couldn't talk to the councellor about it, i was too afraid, i'm still too afraid, but i see him almost everyday and each time i do, i die a little more inside, so please can someone just tell me if theres anything else i can do to just dissolve these crazy irrational, soul-destroying emotions??
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reader, bazookabob +, writes (1 April 2008):
hard to believe, i'm sure, but its 99% certain that you'll get over this sooner than you can imagine because it almost certainly is just a crush- and yeah i know it feels like so much more. Do your teacher a favour though, and don't let anything happen that could get you both (and especially him) into big trouble... good luck! x
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 You need to stay away from older men, much less your teachers! Find someone your own age to fall for, NOT him.
He's going to get into trouble, lose his job, get arrested, and whatever else could happen should you pursue him. NO, NO, NO!
Get him out of your mind and go on with being a teenager, not a trouble maker. DO talk to a counselor or close friend about this...away from school.
Gena
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