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writes:Hi my problem is that I'm torn between two guys and I don't know what to do, it's getting so messy. One is my ex (we broke up a year ago) and another is a guy from the same place as us. We are all living in the same small town and they know each other well: they play soccer together but they aren't good friends. Okay so I was totally in love with my ex after we broke up and I think he felt the same but was unable to tell me how he felt. Since then we've both been with other people but nothing serious at all, now I have started kinda seeing this guy who is so sweet, gorgeous but very shy, my ex who has been in regular contact throughout the year seems to be taking it badly that I'm with him now even though we aren't official or anything yet.He is texting me all the time now and seems to be making a real effort to win me back but can't seem to just say "I want you back". I've continued to text him back and I'm completely torn about my feelings.. I really loved my ex and for so long all I wanted was for us to be back together and my new guy is so shy with me I just don't know if it's going anywhere. Some of my friends think I should just forget my ex and move on, they say he's playing with me but I dunno.. I dont wanna make a fool out of myself, please help thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): I need help, 4 years ago I met this guy, Ryan and we started dating a couple of weeks after we met we were so in love, and we split up earlier this year (June), then in August I met a guy named Luke and it was love at first sight. We were going out for 3 and a half months then he over heard me talking to my friend about how i thought i was still in love with my ex boyfriend. And my ex did want me back, they both told me i had 1 week to make a choice i only have 5 days left help me please i realy need some advice !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! I think I may do what bigsister is suggesting and see how it goes but its hard because i dont wanna make a big mistake. Anyway maybe more developments after the weekend!
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reader, meggiej +, writes (31 March 2008):
 get a piece of paper, do a table with 4 columns in. two about the good + the bad about one of the guys + th other two about the good and the bad about th other guy. To add them up put one of thier named down, add up all of th good things about that guy plus th bad things about the other guy. Then the same with th other guy. The guy with th hightest number is the best, + u should go out with him
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