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writes:My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because at the time she was pregnant. I confronted him about it but he said he did that so I will get mad. This last time I read his messages and it was saying that he wants to take her out for lunch and chill with her. I confronted him about this situation he says they're just friends. So my question to you is do you think he is cheating?53 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): if they were just friends he would have told you up front. and why do a man need a female friend if he has a woman.
you're suppose to be all the friend and love that he needs. if not so -- it's not gonna work.
because one moment you try to be cool with it cause you love him and another minute later it is tearing your heart apart. i know cause i go thru it everyday. i pray to god he take me away from this man ----- --- god bless you and good luck
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (31 March 2008):
 Until you can prove the cheating, I would be concerned that your boyfriend is texting inappropriate messages to this other woman. His messages are not funny and I don't think it was just to make you mad.
And then, why on earth would a loving partner try to make you mad. This is a nonsense answer and I think he would need to come up with something else before I would forgive him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): This certainly sounds as if he is lying to you and being totally disloyal. Not on. Why would he need to contact her at all.
I am sorry honey, but this all sounds like a typical cheating partner, coming up with stories to cover his arse!
It makes no sense at all. If his excuse is to make you mad, it worked and why on earth would he want to do that in any case.
I would certainly be questioning my relationship with him if I were you. I would also be ready for him to try and make this something your just overreating about. Not so. If he trys to turn this back on to you, then you need to make some difficult decisions.
The content, actions and behaviour of your man points to him either cheating or wanting to. I am sorry, but that is my opinion.
I wish you all the best and thank goodness you are on to it!
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reader, Jmo +, writes (31 March 2008):
 I personally think this could be considered cheating, especially if he says that it was to upset you. That proves that he knows what he's doing is wrong and that he shouldn't be doing it. I can't say whether or not their relationship has become physical or not (as of yet anyways) but he is being openly hurtful towards you and that's not cool.
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