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writes: Im in a new relationship but scared i'll disappoint him in bed. He is a bit older and has been with lots of women, whereas im not really experienced in this department. I love him so much, we talk openly about sex and he says theres no rush but the worse case would be that he hated it and i wouldnt be able to see him any more.P.S. I have told him im scared that i'll disappoint him but he just says he loves me and he'll never think that.Whats your opinion?Thanks x x Reply to this Question
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reader, hit-the-road,jack...  +, writes (30 September 2007):
i told my boyfriend how worried i was about the fact he was older than me and had more experience and i thought he was better in bed, and that i was worried he wasnt enjoying it. onmce you tell them it gets a lot easier. so communication is the key thing and cos youre talking about it, its good. if he knows youre worried about it he might help you out like telling you what'd make it good for him or whatever. but if he doesnt say anything then i guess that means hes enjoying it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): Its great that you shared your fear with him.It sounds like you all have a pretty open relationship since you can talk freely about things like that. It's also great that he isn't rushing you to have sex and that he is reassuring you when you brign up your concerns. I highly doubt you will disapoint him since he seems to love you. When you are ready to have sex with him, just take a deep breath, relax and let him do all the work at first! You will learn what he likes as he will learn what you like and (in my experience) it just gets better with time. Basically, just relax. He loves you and unless you have an epileptic fit during sex, I'm sure he will love it. best wishes xoxo
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (30 September 2007):
 as long as ur confident within yourself there is no problem....and he prob wont hate it... if he loves you, you wont disappoint... you dont say how long uve been going out.... if time is your problem then wait...
sorry if i wasnt much help
sparkii x
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