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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): I ended up having sex with my guy friend and ended up in a relationship with him.
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reader, Just a Girl...  +, writes (12 May 2007):
 huni the thing youve got to worry about is will YOU be able to look at him the same way afterwards?? sex is a bug thing (even if it doesnt seem like it) and things do change after sex wether its the first time with your bf or just a friend. as long as you think you will be the same with him afterwards then i see no problem but you have to remember that it will have consequences huntake care xxx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (12 May 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Sex changes friendships. It really does. Sometimes, VERY VERY rarely does it work, everything is peachy and you just have a little fun on the side, but most of the time, something happens. Being friends gets weird. He will see you kind of differently - he's seen you naked and been as intimate as you can be. Also, be careful about feelings... a lot of times with these arrangements, somebody grows to have feelings about the other and somebody ends up hurt.
If you do decide to do this, be very careful and communicate VERY openly with each other.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206 +, writes (12 May 2007):
 It's okay to have sex with him if that's what you want but I think you need to accept he'll see you as a sex buddy rather than as a human being if you do. You shouldn't be sleeping with anyone you can't talk to about the aftermath anyway. Why not ask him?
CD
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