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writes:what can i do to get my fiance pregnant. Like i been trying for the past couple of month to get her pregnant but everytime her period comes on. Am i missing her most fertile periods or something and when would her most fertile periods be...?
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reader, Farris  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 It becomes apparent from your post in the way you say that YOU are trying to get her pregnant, rather than "WE'RE" trying to get pregnant.
It's possible if she doesn't even know about your intentions that she could be on the pill!
If this is not the case, you really should post again explaining that you're both trying to get pregnant, in which case, my advice would be to go to the doctor for advice or fertility tests.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2007): well i would say when your married would be perfect, make sure that she wants this too becuase children are a big step to take, make sure your financialy ready aswell, on average it costs about $1,000 a month to raise a child, just think absolutly everything through.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 May 2007):
 The best time is after the wedding when you and the wife start saving up for that two-seater sports car you've always wanted. I guarantee she'll get p.g.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007): I think you should stop trying for now, until you've had the wedding.
Every women wants to enjoy there Wedding to the fullest and if you get her pregnant now she wont be able to (Baby Pains, Tiredness etc).
When you've become man and wife, you can start trying again.
(Maybe around 3/4days after the start of her period)
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (11 May 2007):
Does she know you're trying to get her pregnant?
If not.... STOP!!!!
If so, she'll know, and she'll tell you. Most women learn these thing from other women, or in sex ed classes.
However, for some reason it sounds like you're trying to slip a fast on by her, and I hope that she's taken precautions against an unwanted pregnancy, like birth control pills, and maybe using her own contraceptive devices like a diaphragm and spermicide.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (11 May 2007):
 If you both want a baby then the best time to try is about 10 days to 2 weeks after the last period (ovulation usually occurs around then, an egg is released ready for fertilisation). However, women vary and there are no hard/ fast rules. It is generally considered normal to try for a year - after that it is worth getting checked out for fertility problems (both of you). I am pregnant at the moment and doctors told me for years I would never have a baby due to medical conditions. After 3 years of trying we gave up...then I got pregnant (miscarried) and now I am pregnant again (unplanned)...fingers crossed...I can only put it down to relaxing and not focusing my life around that...perhaps you should do the same?
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (11 May 2007):
 I have a few questions of my own:
1). Why would you want to?
2). Have you told her about your plans?
3). Why not wait until you're married?
4). What's the rush?
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