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30-35,
*issprinsess2u
writes:hi i was in a relationship of almost two years in a half i broke up with him because he would lie and hang out with girls and never answer my calls and never write back to my text and then all the sudden everything was my fault its been 8 months since we broke up and i finally moved on and found an incredible guy but you see this killed him and he cried and told me how in love with me he is and everyone saids he looks so depressed and i feel horrible i dont know what to do he cries almost every day and my brother said he looks so depressed and sad but that maybe now when he notices that im gone he feels horrible i dont know what to do i know this is bound to ruin my new relationship what should i do?
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reader, elsie  +, writes (15 May 2007):
 yes i agree with everyones answers!hasnt it taken rather too long to be sorry?as the saying goes "too little too late"!he is eaten up with jealousy.if he had any care in the world for you when he was with you why didnt he make amends then?i wouldnt be surprised if his mates especially the females are tagging onto his horrible side and know how he treated you.he probably cant get or last with a new girl coz none of em put up with his treatment.you were the only one who did.you gave him enough chance and enough time and hes had way over the odds in terms of time to make it up to you.you are not a martyr dont waste your energy on this loser.youve got a nice fella now concentrate on him and building your own self esteem back up.
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reader, miss fit +, writes (13 May 2007):
you two are no longer a couple so you don't have to make your life revolve aROUND WHAT he wants. you're independent now.
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reader, NJmomabear +, writes (11 May 2007):
 Yep I agree. He's putting on a show until he gets what he wants, which is for you NOT to be happy. Then once he has you where he wants you...he will go back to the same behaviors you broke up to being with over.
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (11 May 2007):
The day you decided he'd lied one time too many was the day you ceased being responsible for his feelings. When you broke up with him, his depression, his so-called feelings for you ceased to be your problem. They're his problem.
Go ahead and get on with your life. He sounds like the controlling type, and his antics right now are just another attempt to make you dance to his tune. Forget him.
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