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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He was my one true sweetheart but that was over 10 years ago! We are still in contact but hes married, I love him more now than ever, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,I HAD to talk to someone about this because I am so confused and devastated. I was only 16 but found the love of my life and he had said I too was his first true love and I never stopped loving him. The only reason we broke up was because his mom didn't like me and even ... (314 words)

I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago and now I'm getting itchy! I'm married and he is seeing someone too although he said it's not serious. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago. We had such a great time. He sent me an email afterwards saying what a great time he had and asking if we can have dinner again in the near future. He is dating someone on and off but did say he wants to meet someone else. He knows I ... (102 words)

I just found out my boyfriend has been having a sexual relationship with another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 26 with a young child, i have just found out my boyfriend of 8 months has had a sexual relationship with a much older man for the last 5 years (including the 6 of months with me). at the start of our relationship i did not see much of him as he spent more time with this ... (141 words)

Should I continue to see my girlfriend who's bi polar? We get on great but there's problems too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - im 15 years old and going out with a bipolar girlfriend.I used to go out with another girl and she left me and went out with my bestfriend which i was devastated over and kinda got depressed over and my current girlfriend was with me all the way. Now once she was acting so ... (1012 words)

How has she persuaded him to abandon his son??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - What kind of woman can make a man turn his back on his children and all his responsibilities? I am talking about my ex here. He has been with his new woman now for about 3 years and ever since it's as though he has no responsibilites or care for our child or any of his othe... (555 words)

He "cybered" with this girl two years ago... now what?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am so confused about what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We have been so happy most of the time and have discussed that we are soulmates and cant imagine not ending up together. Last year and then again just last week I received a sketchy email ... (212 words)

He has a new girlfriend that he works with but still calls me, now I don't know where I stand.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex and i split about 2 months ago and recently we decided that we should meet up because we both felt ready. We ended up getting on really well and he was ringing me all the time and told me he still loved me. However he has a new girlfriend who he works with in America and ... (84 words)

Do you think it's better to start college off with a relationship or without one??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Hey, everybody. So I've liked my guy friend for awhile now and he feels the same way towards me and things might get to the point where we may start dating sooner or later, but the problem with this is next year, we are both going off to college (the same college). However, I ... (138 words)

Should I call him first or should I let the next move come from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- Hi there - I'm hoping you can help me with this... I was out with my friends at the weekend. I had some eye contact with a guy - and he started chatting to me. He invited me and my friends to join his friends. So - he spent most of the night chatting to me (around 4 h... (388 words)

I'm sticking with it for now to avoid being on my own, what shall I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years. We used to have a good time together but over the last 6 months my feelings have changed and we've really drifted apart. I have a son who's 11 from my previous marriage and he has two lads aged 13 and 16. We ... (128 words)

Do you think she likes me? I'm totally confused by her actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello, I wonder if anyone could help please. I have known a girl for three years, each year we have become closer and closer but we are not going out. All my friends have told me that she likes me and I have noticed especially over the last year, but I don't know if she does ... (284 words)

Why can she never express her love to me or say those three little words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for the past four months now. She claims she can never say the words " I love you" and even when I express my love to her she doesn't respond. she avoids intimacy and only kissed me once. on valentines day I bought her a teddy bear, some flowers and ... (155 words)

Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Does anybody know something I can do in bed to really impress my boyfriend!! We have fantastic sex I just want to do something different that will really blow him away!! Any of you ladies or gents out there got any useful tips!! ... (44 words)

Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Do you think it's normal that my girlfriends mum agreed to us having sex when she was under age? My girlfriend asked her mum if she could get the pill a month before she was sixteen and her mum said 'Okay' and was not shocked. My gf claims her mum said that 'We would do it ... (173 words)

My girlfriends relationship with her mum really annoys me, its so childish!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I really hate my girlfriend and her mums relationship with one another. They are far too close and irritating. Whenever Im round my gfs house I get uncomftable when her mum comes in because they are giggling and jokey and try and embarass me. Her mum is very childish and act... (180 words)

He still has pictures of his ex girlfriend up and he won't take them down even although they bother me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has pictures of his ex girlfriend in his home, both with him and her and her with his kids. i have mentioned on 2 occasions that it bothers me but he said they are just pictures and his kids are in them so he's leaving them up.... (50 words)

Hes been divorced for 10 years but still seems to be obssesed with his ex!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How would you view a man who has been divorced for about 10 years, whose ex-wife calls him about 3 times a day (keep in mind their kids are all mid-late teens so they can call him themselves). He constantly complains and speaks of her even though its all negative and although ... (84 words)

How can I get over my fear of exams?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a fear of exams i have done since secondary school and i have exams this week in college and im scared. when i sit to take the exams i freeze up and forget everything and i cant concentrate everything i hae revised disappears. people just say " relax " but i cant its not ... (59 words)

He doesn't trust condoms and I don't like taking medication including birth control pills. How can we combat this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - when my boyfriend and i are messing around to the point of possible sex, it always ends because he doesn't trust condoms and im not on birth control. he has asked me before if id think about going on it, and i have thought about it, but the more i think about it the more i ... (148 words)

When we argue I'M always the one who's wrong. He also doesn't want to marry me. Does he think I'm not good enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my fiance for 3 years and he cant be honest with me, he refuses to accept any kind of blame if we argue and im always in the wrong, he thinks im trying to change him but im not, just trying to make him grow up an to stop thinking all females are the same. im ... (132 words)

Been with him for 4 years but the chemistry has gone. I feel as if I'm out with my mate or brother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my current partner for just over 4 years. I was married previously and I knew him as a friend when I was married. We got together not long after the split from my husband and we seemed to have loads in common. Our combined kids get on well and he's re... (131 words)

How can I get him back or at least get the feelings going again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get him back or at least get the feelings going again if we only see each other when we drop our daughter off to each other and his girlfriend is always with:?... (35 words)

I'm enjoying his attention and don't want to lose it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im 18 and have a boyfriend whom i love . He doesnt work he is still in matric. i have a full time job and there is someone that works with me who is 33, married with one child who is extremely into me! we both wont let anythin happen because of the obvious! but we both think ... (112 words)

My boyfriend is really sweet buthe lies all the time. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I love my bf a whole lot, we have been together for two years. He used to be the sweetest thing ever, but know he lies, all the time, and he's started being really rude and mean to me. What should i do??????????? Please help... (47 words)

How can I lose weight off my face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - weird question but is there anyway i can loose weight off of my face? its so sound and i want to define my jawline more... (25 words)

He seems more interested in this other woman (who's married) than he does me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The man I have been dating seems to constantly talk about a woman he works closely with. Although she is married with small children, he seems interested but doesn't persue becaus she's married. He seems to find every opportunity to talk about her when he can even to me. He ... (80 words)

We're seeing each other less and less, is this boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating someone from work for about 5 months. when we first started dating it seemed as though he couldn't get enough and now I feel like i'm seeing him less and less and he doesn't seem as affectionate as when we started dating. Is it just comfort or could it be ... (57 words)

How do I approach another woman after my 4 year relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been with her for 4 years and dont know how to approach another woman after the breakup, wat do i do and what do i say if i am interested in another girl. Also she heard a rumor that i was checking another girl while we broke up and she was pissed what does this mean.... (61 words)

Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Im engaged to the woman of my dreams yet have issues with her past. We've been together for 18mos. We're both early 30's so obviously there are going to be people before us, but I have a feeling that if I asked for her number I would probably cringe. I cant say I was an angel, ... (172 words)

My girlfriend wears the pants! How do I get the pants back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend wears the pants. How do I get my pants back?!? I feel this problem stems from her making alot more money than I do. It isn't really possible for me to make more money because I am at uni full-time and she isn't, so I don't have the time to work to catch up to h... (250 words)

How much more should I give and take?

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27 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How much more should I give and take? Based on mistakes in past relationships i've made myself a very open and honest person. I have learned that keeping things inside and not openly communicating in a relationship can make it rot from the inside out - until it cant be saved... (406 words)

I want to look after my mum but can't stop thinking how horrible she was to me as a child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- Hi all, I really need some help, I had a terrible relationship with my mother when I was growing up. She constantly put me down and was often violent to me, she locked me under the stairs, but not my brothers. I suffered with asma and eczma really badly, so i can understa... (381 words)

I'm so confused about these texts. What do you make of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, im very confused.... im just gonna show you all exactly the messages i have received today, but let me tell you all this.... first.... things have been fine between me and my boyfriend (me 26 him 23, atleast i thought they were....weve spent a lovely past... (903 words)

I am in a wonderful relationship. Why is my head filled with negative thoughts all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - well lets see, my head is filled with negative thoughts about relationships even though im in a wonderful relationship. I constantly ask myself, "what if we break up? "what if i fall inlove with someone else a need top break up? what if we get married one day and we get ... (124 words)

I have a girlfriend but I've met someone else. What's the best way to tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - ok i have a girlfriend that goes to school in flordia and i think she's in love with me but i found someone else that i really really like and i dont know wat to do how should i break up with my current gf i want to do it over the phone cause i am not goin out to flordia ... (79 words)

I like this guy and have been out with him once, there's only one problem.... the EX!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so there is this guy that I really like, and I know that he likes me! But there is one little issue, the exgirlfriend! We did go out to dinner once already and had a great time! He is friends with all of my friends and that is how I know that he likes me too! He is the one ... (131 words)

How can I balance my new job and continuing to see my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- I'm thinking about taking up a job that might affect the number of times I'll be able to see my boyfriend. He lives 2 hours away from me, and we spend every weekends together since we dated 2 yrs ago. If I take on this job, I know most of my weekends will be toward work and ... (137 words)

Do you think a woman would be happy in a relationship that would never lead to marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- Do you think a woman will be happy in a relationship that will never lead to marriage? What's the pros and cons if a couple lives as a common-law vs. as a marriage couple? (kids are out of the question)... (41 words)

I like this guy but have heard he's a bit of a player. Should I still show an interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi im 16 and not had a boyfriend for over a year now. I went out a few months ago and this lad started talking to me, he's 18 tho. ive seen him around a few times as well and i do lie him, but my friend knows him and she said he's slept with girls that are 12 and 13 (dont know ... (77 words)

Do you think one guy was jealous of the other and that's why he called ME a loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- I sent my cousin (same age as me 18) an angry email complete with profanity and insults. I was angry at the time and said it all out of anger. I didn't mean any of it, but I wrote it anyway. I said that in the email (that I didn't mean it). I feel so guilty and I sort of regret ... (605 words)

I'm seeing a man 20 years older than me who I love very much, we're very close but not sexually, I don't think he's done it before, he seems really shy. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - PLEASE HELP! Im in desperate need of advice. Ive been in love with a man 20 yrs my senior for more than 2yrs. I know that he feels the same and we have been close although not sexually, and i dont think he has done it before. I have told him how i feel but he is very shy and ... (83 words)

She's broken up with me but says she still wants to keep in touch but I don't think that's wise. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - can anybody help me pls! my ex broke up with me coming up to a month now cos we were arguing a lot! we got together just 3mths after my dad passed away so I had alot to deal with! I wanted to break up with her first cos I knew it was coming to an end, but she talked me round ... (264 words)

We have 4 months left together before she goes to Canada to study for a few years. She has suggested seeing less of one another but I really don't know, I don't want this relationship to end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone... My gf is going to Canada to study for a few years. We love each other very much but we arent' sure of how to keep a long-distance relationship going... She's going to Canada in Augest... We have about 4 more months left with each other... I'm trying to see her as ... (107 words)

What can I do to make the first move and kiss him? He's too shy so I want to take the initiative here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My bf and i have been dating for about a week. Im not trying to rush things cuz im not that type of girl but usually in the first few days of dating a guy i always end up kissing them. Now with this new guy he is shy when it comes to physical stuff like kissing cu... (143 words)

Went to a party, got drunk and went overboard with another guy! How do I tell my boyfriend what I did?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - okay. so i'm completely inlove with my boyfriend. we've been going out for six months. right now he's in the airforce; basic training, and he's been gone for 3 solid weeks, and 3 1/2 to go, at that. i havent talked to him or seen him. i miss him dearly. but back to my problem.... (518 words)

How can I tell my housemate that I really dont want the new girl to move in?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - im in my 2nd year of uni and am livin wiv my best m8 but we ave a spare bedroom. we have always agreed (since we moved in in year 1) dat we wuld stay in the house wiv just us 2 but now suddenly she knows a girl off her corse who has asked 2 move in wiv us. in her defence, she... (247 words)

My husband only wants to debate and talk about politics and world issues! It's driving me crazy! Ahhhh!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- Hello. I'm having a bit of a problem with my marriage. My husband doesn't stop debating and doesn't want to talk about anything other than current events. It's in his nature to debate everything - his father is the exact same way - that's just how most of his family is. And ... (390 words)

Do I wait for her or do I move on? She said she wants to be with me...but is not ready right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have recently come out of a two year relationship, after my fiance found she had feelings for another man and when he returned those feelings she put me to one side and started ignoring me and leaving me alone. We did split up, however every time we have seen each other since ... (450 words)

He found out I sent naked pics to other guys before I dated him! I'm depressed and sick over this. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends i am a 40 year old woman,i suffer from depression which makes me very confused about things and unable to think clearly which is why i need an outside oppinion.i began my relationship with my fiance last year after meeting him on a dating site.i lived in liverpoo... (1604 words)

I feel like I should have been a more "dominant" male instead of treating her as an equal...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) age 36-40 - I've screwed up I guess, I should have taken charge early on. I should have tried to take her in hand so to speak. I guess that I'm a bit naieve to be honest in that respect. I lost my father when I was 7yrs old, so didn't have a father figure. My step father didn't really gi... (156 words)

Can a relationship survive long term knowing that there is a very good chance that you will never live together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of two years was spending almost 5 nights a week at my house, he has never been married/engaged or had children but has now said that he needs to spend more time on his own, which i am ok about as he is most of the time very much against any sort of routine and I ... (112 words)

She picks on EVERYTHING I do! She even says if I fall asleep before her, I'm neglecting her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 3 years into a relationship.I`m aware of my bad points.I even told her my negative points from day one. Now 3 years down the line she`s constantly nagging and bringing up my bad points. She organises everything we do,without a thought. I am expected to be in bed at the ... (243 words)

I shared my fantasies w/ her to spice up our sex life, and she won't tell me her's! How do I get her to be more open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been married for a couple of years now and before our wedding me and my wife were seeing each other for a few years more. Our sex life has been good over the years, but i would like to spice it up a bit. I have heard that one way to get closer is to share fantasie... (201 words)

When sober my bf is wonderful! When drunk he's loud, obnoxious and aggressive! Do I get rid of him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend is wonderful when he's sober, we have a great time and get on really well. However, when he's drunk, I hate him. He's loud, obnoxious and very aggressive towards me for no reason. It doesn't take much to start him off then he just shouts at me all night. Do I get ... (68 words)

My ex secretly filmed us having sex and put it online! My new bf now calls me a slag! What can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hay really need help im 22 and ive just found out 2 years ago some guy filmed me and him having sex and took pictures with out my consent god knows how i didnt see the camra or owt! but now there all over the internet i dont know what to do? people are coming up to me mostly ... (150 words)

I don't know if he wants to get to know me or if he's actually just after one thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am looking for a relationship. Not a serious one just a relationship involving 2 people who are comitted to each other and have fun. I am currently getting to know this boy, but i am not sure of his intentions. He has just come out of a 2 year relationship and I am assuming ... (127 words)

I cheated b/c I thought having sex w/ this other guy would lead to a relationship, but now he's ignorning me! I'm humiliated! Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i need advice, i have been in a 12 step programme for 2 yrs and met a guy at the meetings i really felt a connection with 1 year ago. nothing happend because i was in a relationship of 12 years already,i left my boyfriend for 4 months to sort out my feeling and this other guy ... (162 words)

I kissed by flatmate...but I love my boyfriend! Now my flatmate's trying to make me jealous! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I need help!!! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and we are really happy together, but i moved away to uni last september and i think i fancy one of the lads i live with, we kissed but i felt so guitly coz of my boyfriend, now my flatmate keeps pesterin me or tryin to m... (106 words)

Since the ring on my finger I feel that that I am constantly judged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Recently the relationship im in took a turning point were we gave each other engagement rings as the relationship has been a very happy one and i thought we understood each other.Since then i have had all my negative points brought up,The fact that i smoke,im too outspoken at ... (160 words)

I'm a virgin but how do I trust a girl and have a proper relationship with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I would only trust a girl if she surrenders herself to me physically. I will be one of the nicest guy for her if she does that. Otherwise, i am not interested. Not many girls would be able to get this thing about me and would think of me as wanting them just for sex. But it is ... (110 words)

I found out the beginning of our relationship wasn't what I thought. How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 20 and I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. We've been living together for 9 months. Last week we were both talking about previous relationships and flings when we got on the subject of the last person we'd slept with before we met. I hadn't slept with ... (236 words)

My husbands persisting affair! It's kept a secret but what can I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have decided to divorce my husband after his second affair in 5 years ( we have been together for fifteen). It is very difficult for me because we moved to a different country with our children and I have no family of my own or close friends. This affair he had was with his ... (238 words)

For the agony AUNTS - I like this girl but do you think she'll be put off by a little acne?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

- Question for the girls: Do you care if a guy has a little bit of acne? I mean if a person always has a few pimples and when they go away briefly it looks like the skin is not smooth but a bit rough? Is it really the person's personality that matters and how he gets along wi... (128 words)

I'm 15! He's 18! Does he like me or want to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - write where to start , iv liked this boy well he is 18 now and im 15 anyway iv liked him for like years but he never really payed attention he new i liked him all this time, and only now i started ringing him and talking to him he was acting like he was getting annoying so i ... (137 words)

Once a cheater always a cheater? Will he cheat on me too or should I give him a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im in a dilema im in a new relationship with a guy and I really like him. Last night we ended up getting into a conversation about cheating. He admitted that he had cheated on his ex twice basically she cheated on him so he cheated back. Im a bit insecure and hate ... (298 words)

The girls at work like me for my friendliness but I don't want complications.. I'm getting engaged!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I can't really feel a difference when i am engaged in a conversation with a girl at work and the one i am dating outside. I turn mellow sometimes in work with them for this reason. Some girls at work find me quite friendly and try to have a go after me. It was all fine till ... (83 words)

Is this the beginning of the end for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Having recently seperated after 21 years of marriage I met an amazing young lady on the internet during December last year. She is eleven years younger than me - I have three kids two living with me - and she has not been married nor has any kids. We email regularly and sms ... (275 words)

Married and have feelings for my married boss. What should I do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am married and so as my boss. We worked in different states. However, I do communicate with him constantly through IM, emails, phone call ... etc. I only see him once every few months. Lately, I looked forward to see him in person, his phone call, his email, and IM. ... (166 words)

She broke up with me, I told her I loved her and she called me "Pathetic." What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girl friend broke up with me and I have been trying to get her back. I tell her i cant live without her and i always remind her of how much i love her, she then calls me pathetic, what should i do now?... (45 words)

I love my girlfriend but she hasn't given me any reason to trust her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I love my girlfriend and she loves me, so she says, but I cant tell if I should trust her or no. She hasn't done anything for me not to trust her but she hasn'1 given me a reason to trust her niether. What should I do?... (47 words)

What does it mean to become "comfortable" in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - what does it mean to become comfortable in a relationship, like when you get past the honey moon stage what does that feel like?... (24 words)

Why do I find it impossible to ask anyone out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Dear Cupid, I find it completely impossible to ask anyone out. even if I am alone with them and chatting about stuff I just don't seem to be able to ask them. do you have any advice?... (37 words)

He stares at me then turns away as if he's afraid. What will I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i like this boy and i told his best friend to tell him. he said he liked me a little but all he does when he sees me in the hall way is stare at me and then he just turns away like he's afarid. what should i do?????? ... (52 words)

I dont know if I have something wrong with me, but I think mentally cheating on someone is way messed up.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with myboyfriend for one year last month. During that year I found out that he was emailing his stripper ex girlfriend and telling her how much he needed her and she would write back the same, never mind that she was MARRIED. I dont know if I have something wrong ... (103 words)

I am emotionally attracted to this person but not sexually... yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I am in a relatively fresh relationship with someone, we have deep feelings for eachother, they want to take it to the bedroom with me and have sex. I myself am emotionally attracted to this person, but i am not attracted sexually. I don't want to end it with someone who has ... (65 words)

My boyfriend keeps saying things to me to freak me out. Am I over reacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Am I freaking out for no reason? My fiance went on vacation for two months and it wasn't a business trip. He did fly me down once, and I'm going two more times. I trust him, but he says weird things like "I met a couple last night and they asked me to come over so I could have ... (87 words)

How do I stop being so guilty regarding my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Dear Cupid, Recently, my crush admitted to me that he is still in love with his ex-girlfriend, who is one of my closest friends. Well, during Spanish class today, I passed her a note asking her if she likes him, too. She said that she does "somewhat"...but that she would "... (234 words)

Am I being jealous and controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Am I being jealous and controlling, and if I am how do I stop? My fiance and I just got engaged two months ago, and a month ago he left for a vacation by himself for two months (his dad and friends are going down two separate weeks). I saw him last weekend, I'm going down this ... (325 words)

My partner has been engaged 3 times in the past, he says he loves me but never talks about our "future." Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He was engaged 3 times before. First time he was in his early-mid 20s. Second time he was was in his early 30s and last time in his mid-30s. I have never brought up marriage to him. He tells me quite often that he ... (327 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him. He still keeps in touch and has had lunch with her since. Is it time to finally let go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend cheated on me with his friend. I decided to stay with with him but i told him that i could never forget what happend. I have forgiven him for the incident. But lately I've found them eating lunch and dinner together. He doesn't like to talk about her but how can we ... (95 words)

I am male and love this guy, he says he has feelings for me too but wants a family so has been met a female, he says he loves her but still has feelings for me....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with a much younger man and we have had a relationship for 5 years (though he is not gay). he has always wanted and has a deep need for a family. he met a girl and fell in love (she has a child, not his), and has being seeing her for 6 months. now i have found ... (144 words)

Met a guy on internet dating, met up, emailed him afterwards, he replied once, emailed him again and haven't heard back from him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Did the internet dating site. Met a nice guy and went out to lunch. After a lunch of about 2 hours, we walked around for 2 hours just talking. I emailed him the next day, then he emailed me back. I emailed once more - that was a week ago. No word from him. We got along so ... (121 words)

How do you "jack off?"

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) age 13-15 - Ok im a bit embrassed by asking this question but how do u jack off? i dont know how and i think all guys should know how to. sorry if this sounds stupid ... (34 words)

Do I need my parent's consent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

27 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i am 15 currently going to be 16 in a few days i live in the united kingdom and wanted to know.. if i can stay at my boyfriends house without concent of my mum.... (37 words)

I am gay and love my partner very much, he wants to come out the closet but is worried as his mother would tell him to pack his bags.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 434 days ago

27 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I am a gay guy (23) and I am in a relationship with the most perfect guy (22) I am just worried about him because I know he hurts. See I am out to my parents and everyone is very happy for us. But he is not out to his parents yet. He does want to tell his mother about him being ... (224 words)