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He has lost trust in me because of my past. How can I make her see I would never cheat on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 months and she just broke up with me because I lied to her about my past. I had told her that I cheated on my gf that I had in high school(4 years ago) but left out until now that I cheated twice and I slept with one of the girls. ... (175 words

I'm losing interest in sex! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - I’m not bothered about wanting sex anymore is something wrong with me? I’m a guy who’s 24 years old and I’m really not bothered about wanting sex anymore. The truth is I’ve never actually had it, I’m still a virgin, I’m abstaining from sex till marriage, but it seems the old... (107 words

It's hurting me that she is dating another guy...how do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (? - i've been lookin forward to meeting this girl i'm crazy about! she told me herself that she's goin out for a meal with someone. i know for sure it's a boy because she didn't tell me. we are goin cinema, day after. it's so hurtin she's datin another boy where i'm crazy over her! ... (94 words

She stopped e-mailing me after I found out she was living with a man! Should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - I've been rekindling an old high school flame and I'm having a lot of trouble lately. A few years after a messy divorce she has just (late 2006) relocated out of the area and is now living on the east coast. We had a short visit over the holidays and I really felt the ... (120 words

My boyfriend likes me to go on top but I feel I'm totally useless in this position... any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - Hi, My boyfriend and i have a really healthy, enjoyable sex life. However, my boyfriend likes me to go on top a lot - which i dont mind at all, I am however absolutely useless in this position! I have recently become sexually active for the first time and i find that it can... (140 words

I have a thing for my sister's best mate, in fact I think I'm in love with her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I have always had a thing for my sisters best mate since i was 10 and she was 13, she's always been nice to me and well i'm now 19 and she's 22, we lost contact for a few years because my sister and her lost contact. Recently we got in contact again all of us and i've gon... (149 words

I want to kiss this girl badly but she doesn't want to, I'm only 12 so what will I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - Im 12 and i have already hit puberty ( it runs in the family ) and i am dating a girl but we dont really kiss or do anything but i want to kiss her so bad, but she dosnt want to and now i have started hitting on other girls what should i do? ... (58 words

We're so close, I really love this guy but he just wants to be friends, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

15 February 2007 (? age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I need advice please! I am in love with this guy… and have been since I met him almost 7 months ago. After a couple of months, I told him I like him and after a while asked him how he felt. He said he only liked me as a mate. So, I was a little upset, not long aft... (543 words

Should I tell him the valentine card I sent him is from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - there is this boy ive liked before summer and i think hes so nice but he doesnt really know me and ive never really talked to him. i sent him a valentines card through my cousin and now he thinks my cousin fancies him and everyone keeps asking if she does and who sent the card. ... (80 words

Is my penis normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - I am 12 and i asked a question a while a go about if it is normal for my penis to point up when i get an eriction but i guess i din'dnt state it clearly when i get an eriction it points up like if im sitting down it points up at the ceiling, is this normal? ... (60 words

If it is wrong to view women as sex objects then why is there things like pornography and prostitution?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - If it is wrong to view women as sex objects then why is there things like pornography and prostitution? It’s seems kind off contradictory doesn’t it? I mean how are people suppose to learn that viewing women as sex objects is wrong when things like pornography and prostitution ... (54 words

Is it okay for me to like my cousin's cousin? She's 12 and I'm 14.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - im 14 and thers this girl that i like. shes only 12. im writing to ask if this is ok. and also she is my cousins cousin. is this ok to.... (31 words

I found an old dating site profile of my gf - Is it inappropriate to bring up? I found it funny!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

15 February 2007 (M - Going through my old email messages I was searching for email my girlfriend once sent me with a phrase she uses for herself. I accidently hit the search web tab in Gmail and it came up with an old profile she had on a matchmaking site. At first I was worried then I saw that the ... (147 words

My on/off again bf says he "appreciates" me and "needs" me - what does he mean?! He constantly cheated on me w/ his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ive been with my bf for 2 yrs now. On and off. We break up alot, then get back together. We fight all the time about nothing. I found out he's been cheating on me with his ex. Don't know if i really believe her though, since we have never liked each other. Like every 3 mos. ... (170 words

How do I get an accurate measurement of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M - dear cupid i would like to know if this is accurate, im 15 yrs of age and i measure my penis with a ruler and it gave me 2.5 un erected and 5-6 erected, is this accurate or is their another way to measure it, any help will be greately appreciate... (54 words

After his climax, he's dressed and ready to go out for food! What about my needs?!?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - It's like it's all about him! How can I make him see I have needs, too? My boyfriend and I are really close. We've been together for a year, but after the first five months of having sex (It's month nine and a half), he kind of lost interest in doing anything for me. He likes... (212 words

He asked me to marry him after dating 2 weeks! I told him to ask me again in 5 months. Is this acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - last night my bf of 2 weeks asked me to marry him i said if he texts me every day and see me at least twice (long distance relationship) until july and gets me a nice ring he can ask me again and ill give him a answer that will make it 5 months of dating is this acceptable as ... (77 words

My bf of 6½ years broke up w/ me and said I'm more like a sister. How do I move on? I'm also a bridesmaid in his sister's wedding and am dreading it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3899 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - How do i get over my boyfriend of 6.5 years? He split up with me just before xmas and then said he made a mistake and we got back together. On new years eve he wanted time again. He dumped me a month ago. He said that he cared and loved for me as a sister. He wants to be ... (202 words

My husband said he hates me, but still loves me. He is blaming me for wanting and trying to commit suicide! I'm hurt and scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have been with my husband for 15 years although only married for 7 in may, i have been sexualy assaulted and lost a pregnancy, which i have blamed my hubby for over the years as he used to run away and leave me stranded before i got attacked, we have 2 small children and ... (186 words

How can I help my guy to get a higher sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 51-59 - HI I am in a six month relationship with a 26yo professional male. Our relationship is ideal on a number of levels. We have great respect for one another and our interests and hobbies align perfectly. Socially our friends and family all get along great and have comming... (127 words

How do I find out if my friend is gay or not w/out acting suspicious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - How do you get an opinion of gays from a guy that you dont know if he is gay or not without making him suspicous. P.S i cant be straight up with him because he is my mate and we go to school. Please any advice would be great. ... (49 words

My bf's friend tries to hook him up w/ other girls! They say they're joking, but my guy almost cheated on me last year! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - I have a problem with one of my boyfriend's close friends, let's call him Jake. This guy Jake spoke crap (really bad stuff, like calling me a whore, a slut and stuff) when my bf n I just started going out. He said all this behind my back and was a sweetheart to my face. My ... (423 words

I came home to find a note saying my husband moved into a flat! I think he's seeing another woman again. I am devestated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - What do I do? My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married 7). About 3 years ago he had an affair, it was completely unexpected and I didn't realise we even had any problems. I forgave him and he promised me it was all over. About 6 months-1 year later I ... (252 words

He wants to try being friends, but I feel pressured to "perform" so he'll want me back. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - Hello everyone, I need some advice. I moved in with my boyfriend after only being together for 4 months. Before we moved in together everything was perfect and we got on so well. When we lived together we used to bicker as we saw each other literally every single day and ... (367 words

The guy I'm with wants to date other women, too! I'm uncomfortable with that. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - Im new to the dating scene I guess, always been in a relationship. Right now, I'm dating one guy but to him it's okay for him to date other women. I'm not really comfortable with that. I'm sort of selfish when it comes to men I dont like to share especially when we are ... (103 words

We're great friends, but his ex and him are very close. What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - We love each other very much,we are great friends even.He lives 2 houses from his ex-girlfriend. They are very close friends. they are sometimes together at his house at night or in the street at night. he walks here home at night. she's free to talk to him about anything ,even ... (106 words

I've been w/ my gf for 3 years, but I've loved another for 6 months, too! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi, i'm having a girlfriend (lets call her girl A) for over 3 years now and i think she really is the one for me. she feels the same way about me too. but now there's a girl at my school who i love too, but she's also one of my best friends. i found out that this girl (lets ... (110 words

How can I stop my friend making me look a fool all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - My friends are constantly patronising me and making jokes about the stupid things i say or do. I admit that i come out with the occasional "blond" comment and yes i do do stupid or naive things every now and then but who doesnt? The worse thing is that my closest fri... (217 words

How do I get my boyfriend back? Any ideas anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have cheated on my boyfriend of 3.5 yrs. We were going through rough times just bought a house, was turning into the party house but I wanted to settle down. I told him I didn't love him anymore and we went to the bar, he continuously ignored me, so I went home with someone ... (114 words

My husband and I have separated (but still live together due to financial circumstances) He's a changed man now he's met someone new. Why was he never like this when we were together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi - my husband and I recently agreed to separate, we had been drifting apart for years mainly due to his job in a record company which entailed a lot of nights out, socialising etc. I understood this requirement of the job but he got into recreational drugs and started ... (423 words

When my girlfriend orgasms she never releases any gooey stuff! Has she really orgasmed???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi I have a problem regarding the female orgasm. My current girlfriend has NEVER released any cum/liquid etc when she orgasms. She believes that she has orgasmed but she has never released any liquid/goo stuff in any of her relationships. She's worried that she's never... (76 words

My husband has no hobbies and no friends. How can I get our marriage back on track?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 747 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married to a kind and loving man for 9 years. It's a good marriage, but like everyone we have our ups and downs. One issue in particular raises its ugly head every couple of years. My husband has no friends. He has no interests or hobbies, bar watching films or ... (213 words

I hired a PI and found out my wife had cheated. I want to forgive her but how can we move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 51-59 - I am a man who adores his wife of 6 years. I am not at all a jealous man, and I see the world in shades of grey, which means I consider why, not just what. 2006 was a bad year, misunderstandings all year long. To keep this short: 1)I have facts\evidence of lies a... (402 words

I would rather find out that he no longer cared for me than suffer in this limbo.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hello Readers, I am desperately in need of your advice. In particular I would appreciate input from people who have experienced meeting their "soul mate" and you can't understand what this is like unless you have been through it. By that I mean have you ever met someone ... (1487 words

She has done oral sex and I am against that. Should I still date her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I am dating this girl,who show a lot of interest in me,and she is good looking the problem is that she has told me that she has done oral sex once in her past, the thing is I am against oral sex practice. Should I continue to date her?... (51 words

What can I do that's exciting and erotic for my friend when he comes to see me next week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - Last year I made a stupid mistake. I flew across the country to meet and stay a week with an online friend I'd known for 6 months. I lost my virginity to him, but when I got back home, he wouldn't talk to me and eventually told me that he had started dating someone else the ... (283 words

Do I tell this woman who I really am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi im 29.and my sons 4 and i found the techers name on friends reunited, i sent a message sayig hi hows you, and she set 1 back saying hi but she dont know who i am, should i tell her she teaches my son at school, or wat im confussed dnt know wat to say or do next . i talk to ... (78 words

I'm getting married next week and have no idea what my husband to be can write for a speech (I said I would help him) Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - Hi there,you may remember me from my last post, about how to organise a wedding cheaply, and before our baby is born! Well the big day is next Sat 24th February, and I need help for my future husbands speech! He is not one for talking in public so I told him not to worry, I ... (71 words

Am I breaking the law pretending to be 18 and posting pics to a website, or is it the site that will be to blame ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I've been posting pics of me onto an ameteur porn site. I'm 16 but pretending to be 18. Ignoring any moral issues, am I breaking any laws or is it the site who would get the blame if my real age is discovered?... (43 words

Is it possible for a gay man to feel anything other than friendship with a straight female?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, I'm a straight female, 47, 3 adult children, single. I have experienced a lot where relationships are concerned but recently I find that I am falling in love with a gay man - we have everything but the sex. Its the most amazing relationship I've ever experien... (153 words

He contradicts himself all the time, what does he REALLY want? I can't get my head around it at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I had a boyfriend for about 7 months. He was the sweetest guy. He had his flaws, but I loved them all. There are a few things you should know about "John" and I. We live about an hour and a half away from each other. We only got to see each other on the weekends, except when a ... (571 words

I got a valentine's message on my phone that this person loves me. I haven't cheated and this has caused so much trouble. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - yesterday was valentines, my boyfriend and i started the day as usual in a loving way, he dropped me at work and i left my cell phone with him, sometime during the day i received a valentine msg from a friend who i know from a long time which said" coz i love you too much i ... (189 words

I've split up from my boyfriend and don't know if I've done the right thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm jst going through a break having been together for two years. At the begginning of the relationship everything was great.But as the second year past i found that it felt as though things were missing,i loved and still love my boyfriend but am not 'in love' there are things ... (214 words

My girlfriend is only 16 and she keeps talking about marriage all the time which is really irritating me! Why is she like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M - When my girlfriend and I started going out, she used to go on about marriage and say things like 'When we get married' and things like this. I told her that I don't want her to say things like that as we are still young, im 18 and shes 16. She then calmed down a bit and was a ... (263 words

What can we do to take our relationship to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello Me and my boyfriend having being seeing each other for about 3 month now. I've known him for about 3 years and we finally got together, i was so happy when we did. The problem is we are both very shy and find it difficult to communicate about how to go to the next le... (152 words

I'm in a relationship with a lovely man but I don't really think I can be with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - Can you help me? I am in a relationship with a man I think is lovely but I don't really think I can be with?! Does that make any sense? I think we ought to break up but I can't bring myself to do it as I think he is going to hate me and that he is a good friend and I will l... (87 words

I'm due to meet a guy I met online and I'm so shy and nervous. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi there... ive recently been talking to a local guy who I met online. He's a couple of years older than me and has a 2 year old daughter. We've agreed to meet for the first time tomorrow for lunch. We've exchanged photos and Im worried im not what I look, ive put weight on ... (179 words

He is making me feel guilty for not loving him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - Why is my husband blaming me for not loving him anymore?, and accusing me of cheating on him (im not). We have been together for 10yrs he has cheated on me , lied about numbers on his phone, looked at other women on the net and commented on their bodies,got us into debt, he... (147 words

My husbands affair is over but the women wont go away!! Any advice to get rid of her ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband has had an affair which is over.The woman involved keeps phoning and texting both of us.She is now involving work and his ex wife.She says all she wants is to talk to him and needs answers.I told him he was not to have any contact with her,but she will not go ... (56 words

How did I get loved up so quickly??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - This is kind of a follow up to yesterdays "I met this guy on the internet..." question. So far my boyfriend and I haven't talked properly about what we're going to do (at the moment he wont talk but he's texted a few times) but I'm making myself ill now. I can't eat, I feel ... (127 words

He feels pressured for sex, I feel neglected, What can I do to make this right again!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - My bf and I dont see eye to eye sexually and its now causing major issues. Been together 4 years. Love each other immensely, but I'm down about the whole relationship because of the sex. its not an overnight thing, and has been going on for a while but has been made worse ... (556 words

I cant talk to anybody my own age!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - I am 18,and i am very shy,and i cant talk to any one my age very easy. It's so hard to find some thng to say and its hardest to talk if to a girl,. What do i do? How do i get over this? I can't go on for ever,i just wish i could make some friends. help!!!... (60 words

Should I dig deeper??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I recently broke up.... we had a long due issue and he decided to part. I dont know anyone that knows him personally,except I pick up stories from him or id be included in their mail list when they send each other junk email jokes. I was always curious to ... (253 words

Things are going slow...any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

15 February 2007 (F - hello, happy valentine everybody... Well I'll go straight to the prob...there's a guy with me at work but he's in a different dept so I don't see him much; he's sooooo great we've recently been getting close... ast week we went out it was our 1st time to ever meet outside wor... (362 words

She just confessed that she cheated, I dont know how to cope with this now!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years. She just told me that she cheated on me with a friend of mine. They went out 3 times(as friends) but the last one ended up with a kiss and he asked for a hand in which she did.. I am feeling very lost, she means the world to me ... (143 words

She called me by the ex's name, does this mean she isnt over him !??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - i am in my second marriage. we've been married for two months now. both of us were previously married. on valentines morning, she referred to me by her ex-husbands name. i feel hurt and cheated on. some advice please, as i think that she may not be over her ex as yet.... (52 words

Could he be my mr right??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi all, I am a 25 yr old confused lady. I have 3 male friends that i fancy. One i have known for over 3 yrs,he's over 10 yrs older than me,i thought he would have proposed by now but things didn't workout and we are just friends now though he calls often and doesn't seem to ... (156 words

Will our different values drive us apart???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is a white supremicist. I am white but i have a very diverse family (my aunt, from my grandpa's first wife, is half black and he also has a son who is half mexican). He tells me he doesnt mind because he loves me and some of my family knows (not my aunt or uncle... (156 words

Im 15 and pregnant, the father is 18, would he go to jail if I put his name on the birth certificate ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3908 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - Im 15 years old and im 3 weeks pregnant. but the father is 18 can he go to jail if i tell my mom. or put his name on the birth cirtificate... (32 words

Broken up but she still loves me!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Im writing is as I am in need of help and advice ASAP Basically me and my girl split up 2 weeks ago. We've been together for nearly 3 years, in that time we have split up 3 times. I truley love her and am certain she loves me. Up until a week before she ended it things seemed g... (604 words

Is my crush leading a double life??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - I've been worried crazy for the last few days if my crush was gay or not (im a guy, hes a guy). Did alittle bit of investigating online and turns out that on one of his profiles he says hes bisexual. The thing is that I've also just found out that hes an emo..... He doesn't ... (82 words

It's like he can't wait until I am out of the way so he can view porn!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for almost six years. A few weeks ago i checked his history on the computer and noticed he had been on quite a few porn sites and adult sex finder ads. When i asked him about this his response was he was only looking and didnt mean to look on the a... (313 words

Our sex life has changed since our son, he looks at porn, and doesnt show much interest me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs.six months ago we had a baby boy, it seems to me our sex life has gone from almost every day to almost every week. he has always watched porno's (dvds/vhs) but it never bothered me as much then than it does now. if i was to leave for a ... (206 words

Does this mean that I have had a miscarriage ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I am 3-4 months pregnant. My boyfriend and I were having sex and I felt a sharp pain. When I went to the bathroom I was heavily bleeding.... I looked up the signs of having a miscarriage and I'm not getting cramps or vomitting. Did I have a miscarriage?... (49 words

Will women only be interested if i talk in a certain way??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - I am a single guy and find it difficult to engage myself in a conversation that is either not romantic or one trying to please the other person. This is especially true about conversations with the opposite sex. What i believe is there is a particular way of talking with girls ... (111 words

Are successful relationships possible after the person has cheated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - has anyone ever taken back a person who has cheated on them, and things had ended up good and happy?... (20 words

Should I tell him and hope he forgives me, or forgive myself and not mention it!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been toguether almost a yr we decided we would start seing echother the day we met he lives hours away from me so we only visit a few days a month. i lost my job a week after we met and i had sex with 2 men,and gave head to a couple for money during ... (216 words

Been together a year and things about him are really started to bug me about him now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - Okay, so I have been dating this guy for one year. I have known that I loved him for a long time and we have even kind of thought about marriage in the future, but for the past month we are fighting on and off and on and off. At first I thought it was just me being moody but ... (109 words

My own insecurites are causing me to think he is judging me when I'm on top during sex!

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15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend says he gets tired of being on top when we're having sex. But me being on top just feels awkward. I feel so vulnerable and judged. I know I probably shouldnt feel this way with someone I love and its not a question of can we be open to each other or something like ... (81 words

Am I not fitting his ''pornstar" fantasies anymore because he masterbates to it in the mornings?

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15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - ok so i usually dont have a problem with anyone watching porn. Like, I dont care if my boyfriend watches it, its reality'; everyone does. But then when it comes time for me to try and get him off i can't because he was masturbating that morning or so. It just bugs me because i ... (97 words

My BF isn't very well endowed, is that why the only 3 times I've had sex I haven't orgasmed?

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15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have had sex three times and all of the times the only way i have reached an orgasm is by him giving me oral. I did have one the first time but it was very brief and quick. Is there a reason behind this? He isnt all that big, could that be it?... (57 words

I'm severly depressed and I feel my BF has given up on me...

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15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - i'm very scared. i've been severly depressed for some time, and its affecting my relationship with my bf. i cant bring myself to look at him the same. i've changed, i still love him, but sometimes i feel that he's given up on me, like he doesnt love me anymore. i dont know what ... (58 words

He didn't love me back in the end - how do I get over this?

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15 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - how can i get over someone who i love but he didn't love me back or treated me well?... (19 words

Three is definitely becoming a crowd! Do I hurt my ex or lie to my GF?

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15 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - My ex still needs my conversation but my GF isn't taking it well. Advice? I was living with a woman ten years older than I since i was 17. At 25, I lost physical attraction and left her for someone I had strong attraction too. I also moved 400 miles away to be closer to my ... (567 words

I really want to leave him because he hid that he was a smoker from me!

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15 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - Recently I made my boyfriend quit smoking. I have a big problem with smokers. My mom smoked when I was a kid and I hated it she finally quit when I was a teenager and we became a lot closer. I vowed from then on I wouldn't have to deal with smokers again. So, he started smoking ... (199 words

We broke up coz I was too controlling but I have realised the error of my ways and now he won't speak to me!

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15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had been together for 3years and 7months, and a week ago, he told me, look, our lease is up and i dont want to rent another place with you. I dont love you anymore. He said he is sick of being put on time restrictions and not being allowed to go to his ... (204 words

My long distance fiancee of 3 years dropped a bombshell - he killed someone 8 years ago!

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15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm getting married in July to a man I love so much and have been with for over three years long distance. We met when his job brought him overseas and we have been inseperable ever since. We speak on the phone everyday, sometimes up to 8 hours at a time and visit each other as ... (355 words

Is Semen supposed to be fully white or can it be a bit clear ??

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15 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, this is abit of a up front question and it's quite embarrassing but i wondered is Semen suposed to be fully white might has never been really white more of a clear colour also i seem to always need to goto the toilet once i've had sex or ejaculated. Another question i have ... (167 words

Sweet 13 and never been kissed....

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15 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - hey, i am 13 years old an ill be 14 in june and i haven`t kissed a guy yet!!! help!!!... (20 words

He is always causing fights! What can I do to stop him treating me this way?

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15 February 2007 (F - It will be almost 2 years for my boyfriend and I in March. I love him dearly, but lately he hasn't been treating me differently. I do admit that when he began his new job, I was a bit leary of this woman that kept wanting him to work with her, but that has been done and passed. ... (288 words

Do you think she was scared to meet my family, and is no sex yet a good or bad thing ?

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15 February 2007 (M - On Monday 12th Feb i planed for my new girlfriend to come to my house for the first time to meet my family and see where i live. On Tuesday 13th Feb She told she had some bad news she told her lil sister had 2 have an heart operation and she couldn't see me at all v-day. an... (455 words

I have really fallen for my friend but am scared to tell her in case it ruins our friendship. Any advice?

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15 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - i have fallen for a friend that i have known for ages. we grew up together and recently my feelings for her have grown to the point where i can't stop thinking about her. we are really close, even our families think we are seeing each other. i want to tell her but can't seem to ... (89 words

Is the lube on a condom enough lubricant for anal intercourse?

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15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is the lube on a condom enough lubricant for anal intercourse? My boyfriend and I have used one before, and it was okay. That was my first time, and I knew it would hurt like hell anyway. This last time, the second time, we had vaginal intercourse with an unlubed condom (lubed ... (116 words

We've been together 6 years and he's asking me for a 2 month break so he can be sure I'm the right one!!!!

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15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi. ive been dumped well it feels like iv been dumped he says we are on a break for exacty 2 months and that he wasnt goin to change his mind,he says if he loves me after 2 months then he'll know he really loves me..wat is this about. we've been together 6yrs..is he trying t... (97 words

How many relationships started by teenagers last throughout their whole lives

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15 February 2007 (F - does anybody know how many relationships started by teenagers last throughout their whole lives (in the U.K)? thanks for any help...xxx... (22 words

I care about both men in different ways and don't know what to do for the best...?

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15 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with this guy that I was dating for 2 and a half years because I didn't feel compatible with him at the time. He was my first everything. He was the sweetest most gentle guy and I knew he loved me but I wasn't quite ready for love. We fought all the time for no ... (497 words

Any ideas what to get my boyfriend of 3 years for his 25th birthday?

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15 February 2007 (F - its my bf's 25th b'day in about a week and I have no idea what to get him, we have been together 3 years and Im sick of getting the same thing every year (clothes and alcohol), anyone have any tips you can give when buying something different for him?, he always goes out of his ... (74 words

How can i get my girlfriend to try anal sex and three somes?

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15 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - How can i get my girlfriend to try anal sex and three somes, these are my fetishes and would like to fulfil them. I've asked her and asked her but she keeps changing subject when i mention them. How can i approach her with the question? ... (48 words

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