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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She said she was interested in me but started dating another guy! Why would she tell me she liked me then?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Yo i like this girl n im pretty sure she likes me too she even said she did but before i could ask her out she started goin out with this other guy and i was just wondering if you thought she did actually like me or if she was just being mean... (53 words)

Confused about my sexuality...can you help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi I'm so confused about things at the moment. i could really do with some advice. okay my problem is about my sexuality. I'm confused because i am only attracted to guys and am not interested in doing anything sexually physical with a girl, yet. i get turned off by penises in ... (116 words)

I love her and the baby so much and I want them back! Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (M) - I am so much in love with this girl and i asked her to marry me then a couple of weeks later at the end of May she found out that she was pregnant then things started to change between us, she told me that she was pregnant to her best friend who she slept with before we got ... (156 words)

I have a bf but I am crushing on another guy! Waht should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, here go's nothing... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 weeks and he has already told me that he loves me...which is fine i think its really sweet and he knows that i dont feel the same way yet. Heres the problem when we started going out i sort of s... (170 words)

He stares at me but tells others he doesn't like me! What's his game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, i dont quite know if this guy likes me he keeps making eye contact with me at school and kinda stares at me too. He keeps telling his friends that he doesnt like me even though he speaks to me all the time so i was just wondering what other people think does he like me? if ... (65 words)

I'm 14 and I am thinking of giving him my virginity on Valentine's Day! Got any sex tips?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

1 February 2007 (F) age 16-17 - hello i 14 and still a virgin, by bf is 16 cummin on 17( not a virgin) i reali reali lyk im n we av been totching each other and so on, n he sed e wud neva kiss and tell (all his mates say e wodnt as well) i thinking of losin my virginity to him on valentines day to make it ... (135 words)

Is there any decent, good websites where I can meet new people to go clubbing with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i live in the UK and really enjoy clubbing but all my mates have settled down and have little spare money. Does anyone know of some really good UK websites (that get results!) for people who want to go out clubbing with others? I don't want to go out with people who get ... (85 words)

He signed up on a casual sex dating site! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I know this might not sound serious, but I'd really like to get some other people's opinions! I found out (from a girlfriend, humiliatingly) that my boyfriend of a year had signed up for an account with a site that enables users to meet people for casual sex or flings. He ... (184 words)

We broke up-so how do I stop texting him and staring at my phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner of 2 years has just ended our relationship due to us arguing, he says he still loves me and always will but has made the right decision, how do I start again, why do I feel so bad and how do I stop myself from texting him or staring at my phone.... (54 words)

Two guys like my gf and I don't likethem talking to her! How do I controlmy anger over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M) age 16-17 - hi, heres my problems ive been going out with my girlfriend a month and a bit. shes older, an we both go school. a guy in her year likes her, and says and does stuff to her such as stroking her hair or tickling her, he says he thinks boyfriends are a challenge. this annoys m... (179 words)

Newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, I laugh uncontrollably. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I`m newly marrried and everytime I have sex with my husband, tend to laugh uncontrollably. we`re just not able to have sex because of ths. pls pls help!!... (30 words)

Should I be worried about his porn viewing? We're getting married next year...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner looks at porn every day.When I confronted him about it, he showed no emotion at all and just replied;it doesn't mean anything. Its you I want to be with. I'm pretty relaxed about things but feel odd about him spending so much time looking at porn. We are due to get... (80 words)

Foolishly told her a lie at the start of our relationship, now it has been exposed how do I regain her trust in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a woman for whom I am totally amazed with, and found myself falling for. The problem is that early on in the relationship, I lied to her. I had been living with the mother of my daughter for awhile, even tho we werent together, shared a house but not the bedroom. I know ... (299 words)

My friends are all having sex and I've never even been kissed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 422 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 15 and i have never kissed a boy before. All my friends are now having sex and i have never even kissed one. They always tease me and i dont like being round them when they are talking about things like that. Do you have any suggestions about what i could say to them when ... (65 words)

She has a bf she hates, says she loves me but won't end with him! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I've got a dilemma, this girl I know who has a b.f told me that she thinks shes falling in love with me, i said to her you think? And she said I've fallen in love with you...this was on the phone, i was with her that night before we spoke on the phone, when she was with me she ... (154 words)

I kissed him and felt nothing! Do I like this guy with the good looks and the amazing smile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - do i like him? he's got a smile that would make people melt. the most amazing good looks. but how do i know if i fancy him? i did go out with him, but i had doubts and ended it. he's still interested, but am i? i dont think we'd be friends if his feelings weren't invo... (99 words)

Does kissing another guy mean I don't love my bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend a year and a half, we are suited in every way, want the same things out of life, never argue and always have fun together. We moved in together for the first time 4 months ago, and set up our own business. It has been stressful and both of our sex ... (168 words)

How do Iget over this regret of not losing my virginity, back in high school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (M) age 18-21 - I'm 20, and at first, i was just depressed about still being a virgin, (almost lost it a few months ago, done everything but that final step) i waited through high school, for a few reasons- at first marriage was a possibility, but realistically babies and rumors and nothing ... (230 words)

Was he just awkward around me or does he really not like me? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

- Yesterday the guy I fancied found out some how, that I fancied him. He's told some people he would go out with me and everyone says he fancies me. But that was yesterday ... today he was all off with me. Maybe it was just awkward, or he's making a point he doesn't like me? ... (55 words)

He's married and I love him. But I don't want to be a homewrecker! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm in love with a married man, he has a one year old son. He loves me too and he told me so. I don't want to break another woman's home, but, i really love him, what should I do?... (40 words)

If she loves me, she should desire me as a man.... right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

- Okay, I need some advice please. I'm a male, 39 who is in a relationship with my girl, who is 26. We have been together 4 years, and while we've had some rough patches, it is still special and we do love each other, and are committed to one another. My question: When we met, ... (276 words)

I feel cheated and used... am I being taken advantage of?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing a guy now for about a month, I say seeing, its more sleeping together occasionally and friendship. At the beginning he wanted me around a lot, now he brushes me off often and I get to see him once, maybe twice a week at the most. Its starting to ... (177 words)

My husband has been using adult dating sites and met two women... how can I trust anything else he says?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been married for 7 years but just recently found out that my husband has been on several dating sites for the last 3 years , eroticy and adultfriendfinder plus several more and has a secret email address.. there were emails from many different girls and he has met up ... (164 words)

He''s older and in a relationship...how do I know if her really likes me?

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1 February 2007 (F) - How do you know if older guy likes you? K im 21 and hes 31......Hes a manager at my work in a diff department so hes not my manager. I dont know if he likes me like that cuz he cant really show he has interest in me since we both work together and stuff. He was th... (354 words)

I ask her out and she ignores me! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - please help i realy like this girl and i keep asking her out to her face but she ignores me she thinks im joking around and ignores me by doing this how do i tell her my true feelings despite what other people. Thanks L.knighton... (46 words)

My husband says he can't see himself as a father!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, what do you do when your husband has stated that he can't see himself as a father. Before we were married - we even spoke about baby names whenever we decided to have children. I would love to have children someday, not ready at the moment, possibly in another 3 years. ... (128 words)

We lost a baby and I want another one desperately.My bf says no! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i, got pregnant last year, but we lost it, my boyfriend now says he is not ready to try again but i am desperate to have a baby and jus feel lost and empty without being pregnant or having a baby! Please help me i dont no what to do and i think it's going to ... (64 words)

He is a brilliant man but does he have a self-dutruct button or something? I have lost all confidence in his stability and I am scared witless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend is under huge pressure and so am I. He is going through an awful divorce which is causing him to lose contact with his kids. He is giving up all his assets. He persuaded me to buy a house with him. My little boy and I have been through hell in recent years and ... (274 words)

My mother in law is causing problems between me and my fiancee... Now I've been banned from all their family events!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is my mother in law. she is very involved in mine and my fiance life. we have 2 kids together and she is always insisting on spending time with her son and the kids and excluding me. I have now forbid her to see the kids with out me being present as she has left the ... (181 words)

Can I ever find a man who will just love me straight away, without having to leave and then...deciding to come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids I have been very unfortunate with relationships. I ve never had a longterm affair with a guy. The longest would be between three weeks and six months. My ex boyfriends are either were not ready for commitment at the time we were together, or they would just pull ... (426 words)

How can I meet someone who doesn't abuse me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have several failed relationships, i honestly think it is me. I meet the wrong type. They either hit me or abuse me mentally. I get away from them but the next one turn up and is just as worse, if not worse. How do i meet someone lovely, kind and gentle? Instead they all seem ... (119 words)

Mum said because "he cant give me anything" I can't marry him! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 and my bf is 21 we were engaged and parents were OK about it. now,my mum has stopped me from talking to him and has said the wedding is off, he is looking for a job mum said because "he cant give me anything" i can't marry him.i am currently looking for a job, my ... (106 words)

I'd have to turn into a high priced call girl to afford the food for the month, let alone the mortgage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Money as the root of all evil? My husband and I have been happily together for 5 years. Six months ago we moved from the US to the country where he was born. Since then we have had some tensions, mainly from ironing out issues that we didn't have before (imagine startin... (484 words)

The girl he cheated on me with, is still in his life! Leave or stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have grown really close to one another he's been through alot of struggles and I've helped him I've let him stay with me in my house for months whilst he was sorting himself out. Over a year ago I went on holiday for 2 weeks ... (330 words)

I know he still loves me, but he writes inappropriate texts, emails and poems. Should I just turn a blind eye?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband had an affair two years ago. I took him back. He was accused of sexual harassment at work 3 months ago and it turned out it was a relaitionship although they never slept together. I find love poems he writes, trying to figure out who he is. And i found one to his ex ... (131 words)

She has a boyfriend but has feelings for me as well. They are having problems and I feel like I'm intruding. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i'm in love with this girl and she has a boyfriend. i expressed my feelings and turns out she is currently facing some problems with her bf. she currently has feelings for both me and her bf. she is on a "break" with her bf but i feel like i'm intruding and i hate the way i am ... (65 words)

The guy I'm seeing is a jerk and turns things around like I'm to blame for everything! I'm so confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

- i don't even know where to begin with my problem. I've been seening this guy for a year and a half now. I really love him but he has serious mood swings. For example I was supposed to meet him monday nite, i phoned him when he didn't come at the time he was meant to and I got a ... (243 words)

We split, he said he hates me, but we still work together and he owes me money! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I hope someone can shed some light on my problem... I met a guy abroad 5 years ago and when i decided to return home a year later he came with me and we set up home together in my home country where we lived happily together until last November. When we first came back he cou... (393 words)

He has a girlfriend but I think he really likes me. I caught him looking up my skirt! But we're just friends though so what's he up to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

- I'm a bit confused. I have a male friend who has a girlfriend - a pretty serious relationship - but recently he's been quite flirty with me. He stares at me when he thinks I'm not looking and the other day, dropped behind me on the stairs to perv up my skirt! (I pretended not ... (187 words)

I get emotional about small things and fear being taken advantage of - how can I stop this behavior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am a 25 years old guy and am planning to settle down. It seems i get emotional about small things and fear that i would be taken advantage of by people because of this. One big threat i have is that of getting forced to do something by women when having some... (138 words)

My husband of 25 years slept w/ a prostitute and got an STD! He doesn't want to leave me and our daughter, but I can't face staying w/ him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 25 years, have a 5 year old daughter. my husband has come home with a sexual disease. he admitted he has been with a prostitute. i told him to leave and he said he was sorry and that he loved us both and did't want to go. i can't face staying with him... (107 words)

We seemed pretty close but since he's come back he's been really cold to me. It's hurting me inside. What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'm seeing this guy quite sometime right now,actually he's my classmate..we watched movies,talk several hours on the phone,hang-out with his friends and we even kissed..what i can't understand is that,for 2 days that he has been absent,the moment he showed up to me...he didn't ... (59 words)

We broke up because she wanted to commit her time to her education. I still want her in my life! Will she come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

- I just broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months. She and I were perfect. I truly loved this girl with all of me. She just got back from her break from school and she had changed. Our relationship was SOO strong before she left and I knew something was up when she got back. W... (342 words)

My bf and I want to have sex on Valentine's day to make it special. But I can't because of my mom. How do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months febuary 7th and me and him want to have sex on Valentine's day but my mom won't let me have a boyfriend or even close to have sex but anyways, he wants to make it perfect because it is my first and his second and i don't ... (71 words)

His beer belly gets in the way of sex! We can't do our favourite positions anymore! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't enjoy sex anymore with my hubbby cause his waistline has expanded which causes his belly to get in the way of our best 'sexual positions..I tried to get him to exercise but he won't!. we are married 30 yrs.I have tried to initiate other places in the home to have sexual ... (68 words)

She dumped me because I made remarks about her wieght. But I think she still loves me and is with this new guy on the rebound. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my fiance had a great relationship. Till i said remarks about her weight, "I know horrible right". I joined the Marine Corps and run and work out all the time. I also said this while I was drinking and my drinking was becoming a problem. We havn't spoke in a month. She ... (167 words)

When your bf or gf stops doing 'the little things' does that mean that they don't care anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've seen a lot of posts on here about people saying after xx years (usually 1-3), their bf/fiance/husband just doesn't seem to do the 'little things' anymore (like call alot, text, want to cuddle not just for sex, bring flowers, pay compliments, say i love yous, etc). When... (163 words)

His feelings for me have changed and it seems like he's avoiding me. I'm so confused. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - If a guys actions don't seem to match with what he said, what should you believe, what he says to you, or the message you seem to get from how he acts? Like, if he tells you things are fine and don't worry but he's still acting weird and almost seems like he's avoiding you? ... (146 words)

HELP ME! I'm an emotional wreck! He's acting really strange and frequently lying. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - im 22 and in in my first relationship, my boyfriend of 2 and a half years moved in with his cousin and has changed , he doesn't like me asking him anything anymore for example, i can't ask him what time he's done work,where is he going, what is he doing. Lately for about 2 ... (166 words)

My sexist boyfriend thinks it's the womans job to cook & clean. He refuses to do the housework, I'm so fed up. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

1 February 2007 (F) - hi i have been with my b/f for over 2 years..he is great in some ways BUT he is a momma's boy..meaning he grew up in a household where it was "women's work" to cook, clean. The men did not do this. I definitely know this because i have seen his mom and have heard comments from... (565 words)

My girlfriend seems to prefer her friends over me.We never hang out anymore and I feel neglected. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - My girlfriend and i have been going out for about 4 months i'm 14 and so is she. it seems to me like she would do more for her bestfriend then me as it looks, and she won't ever go to partys or hang out with my friends with me. what should i do?... (54 words)

I want us to be closer and I plan to tell him but I don't want him to think we're going too fast. How do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

1 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello! I have a question...but I will start from the beginning so you have more of an understanding of the question. In fifth grade, most of my friends (including my best) had boyfriends and what not. I did have a crush, on one guy though, who had been my best guy friend ... (551 words)