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My boyfriend and I broke up and I slept with another person during the break... we're now back together and he doesn't know, should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - my bf decided he wanted a break for a while following a big row we had. i slept with someone else in the time we were apart and the next day he decided he wanted to try again. i didnt tell him about this other person because part of me feels as we were on a break, its ... (108 words

I find it really hard to hug my girlfriend, I'm just nervous I guess... who can I be less nervous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 2 weeks. But i really find it hard to hug her. I just feel really uncomfortable. Everyone is pressuring me and it is really annoying. Please help... (40 words

I sent him on his way and now he has another girlfriend and I regret doing it!

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9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - So there is this guy that i was hooking up with and hes had a gf on and off but i finally ended it with him telling him if he was still going out with her then im done hooking up and now i kinda regret it because he is wtih his girlfriend but he still looks at me and i stopped ... (90 words

I have a "shag buddy" but now I want a proper relationship with him

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9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been sleeping with a close male friend for about 2 years, you could desbribe him as a "shag buddy". I was coming out of a long term relationship when it began, but am now single, and would love to have a go at taking things to another level with my friend. He doesn't want ... (130 words

Enough is enough and something has to be done... but what???

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9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been split for coming upto a year now, and things havent been good since my new bf came into the picture. Gradually over the passing months things between me and him have been getting progressively worst and last wednesday was the final straw. Me and a few p... (143 words

Is being "friends with benefits" a good idea?

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9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - is being friends with benifits ok?...this guy at my skewl wants to be more than friends but he doesn't want a relationship...i really like him but i'm afraid i'm gunna get hurt...like if he finds sumone he wants to be with and just forgets about me!!... (46 words

I can't wear tampons and don't want my new boyfriend to notice I am wearing pads... help!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well i come on my period today and i am out with my new boyfriend sunday night and i don't know what to do as i have tried and tried and tried to wear tampons and just cant seem to get it right! and i dont want to wear a pad so im really stuck! any ways of making my period stop ... (86 words

I keep worrying what would happen if I were ever to break up with my boyfriend, we get on great and love each other to bits but what if........?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He is my first boyfriend. I love him so much but I am so worried that I don't really, maybe I just think I do, after all how do I know when I've never had another one! We talk about the future as if its a definite... (164 words

How do I get over my boyfriend? I got on so well with his family too and find it hard to move on.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi there... my boyfriend broke up with me nearly three weeks ago and i still cant get over him. He is all i think about and its effecting everything i do. I cant concentrate in school and i have no motivation to do anything socially... I was only with him for a month but knew... (167 words

Why do I find it so hard to initiate a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - I am 24 years old, and have never had a relationship (Romantic or Sexual). I am not unattractive, and I am relatively smart. I have a great work ethic and I believe I am an all around nice guy. I get along with people very well, and I am liked more than I am disliked. In fact I ... (145 words

I really don't like this boy and he won't leave me alone! What can I do?

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9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - This boy fancys me and he is really disgusting but he won't leave me alone What should i do?... (20 words

How can I teach my husband to be a more skilled lover?

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9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I got married few days ago, it was the first time for both me and my husband. he pushed his penis in my vegina once and i bled. I cried, so he stopped and that was it. Nothing before it and Nothing after it. few days later, i took the doggy position and he did it, the whole ... (114 words

My girlfriend slept with a married man before we got together and I can't accept this. How can I get past this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - i ended my relationship with my gf cuz she slept with a black dude that is old enough to be her dad and has kids and a woman. she didn't cheat on me cuz this happened before we were together, but i can't accept this. can anyone suggest how i get past this? i love her very muc... (68 words

Why is she kissing me if she thinks we can't be together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - my best friend is a girl and i have liked her for some time. she knows that i have liked her, and told me she cant see us together because she dosent want to lose a good friend, ova the last week or so she has become more flirty with me and we have shared a number of kisses now ... (80 words

Is this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi im 16 and i think i might be in love with my boyfriend. we have been together for about a month and a half now and i never stop thinking about him! i love it when he cuddles me and he makes me feel special. sometimes when im not with him i miss him and i just wanna phone... (78 words

Should I stop texting my best friend's brother because of the family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have fallen for my best friends brother. We shared kiss on holiday and recently had been texting each other and its clear we both wanted something more however due to other people being around we never had the chance to be alone. Recently his family realised we were tex... (182 words

Do you think my boyfriend really likes my "love handles?"

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9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - heya im 16 and have a boyfriend, we have been going out for just over a month. i am small for my age (about 5 ft 1) and i am average weight i think (around 8 stone). i have quite a curvy figure around my hips and i have love handles! (curvy hips kind of if you dont know what l... (137 words

I just can't seem to do anything right as far as my kids are concerned, how do I win with my kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (? - hi there i have a 12 yr old girl and an 11 year old boy and since their dad left and we divorced 6 years ago i have always tried to be there for my kids. throughout this time i have struggled with an alchol addicition but have really tried to turn my life around. now im getti... (223 words

He told me he liked me but nothing came of it, now I'm friendly with his mate and he's fallen out with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well heres the deal... At school i liked this lad and he told me he liked me too. Nothing ever really happened! We flirted etc but nothing came of it. Now his best mate has been flirting with me and i like his mate too. But when he seen me and his mate holding hands yo... (133 words

My teacher is getting too close for comfort! I think he fancies me and it's freaking me out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok well... I am 16, and I am in my last year at school. I will be leaving school this summer. Basically my problem is that I think my teacher and I have some kind of weird relationship that neither of us really understand but it's kind of just THERE. Things are getting real... (432 words

My girlfriend has had such a wayward past! I can't get it out of my head, do I break up with her? I'm so confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - I met this girl in the summer, and there was an instant connection. I am a mechanic and she needed her car to be fixed, so I offered to help her out just so I'd have an excuse to see her again. Things were going well, and one night she spilled to me her past. She was married ... (284 words

How can I control my insecurities? I feel like I'm driving him away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and he is a great guy. Everything i have been looking for and we had an awesome relationship until about a month ago and he has a girl working for him that i dont get along with. I have brought it up to him because ... (136 words

I had sex for the first time the other night and I didn't feel nothing, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - lost my virginity the other night went quite well however i didnt feel nothing! i mean it hurt for a bit then was fine, but every1 seems 2 enjoy sex and i felt nothing! is this normal... (39 words

My husband’s sex drive is lowering and mine is increasing. I don’t want to resort to a vibrator – what do I do; any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6210 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a 29yr old married woman that has a very healthy sex drive. My husband on the other hand I don’t know what’s the matter with him. If I leave sex up to him, we’d have relations once a month. In anger I have in the past told him that if he doesn’t please me that I’ll have to ... (195 words

Is he really busy with work or does he not want to be with me any more? I'm so confused.

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9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been with the same guy for 9 months and he has a very busy life. I have told him since the beginning that i was fine with how much he works and that we can still have a good relationship even when theres times when we hardly see each other. But lately he has gotten an ... (174 words

He doesn't seem interested in me any more and I don't know what I've done?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really love this guy a lot, and i think he loves me too, he says he does but im not quite sure if its true love or he just loves the idea of loving me. The thing is we arent going out wid each other or anything, but i want to,i dunno how to hint it across to him, but the ... (105 words

Should I stengthen my friendship with her or forget about friendship altogether?

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9 February 2007 (M - My girlfriend and I broke up after a wonderful six months. We were and still are in love but she broke up with me because she wanted to prove to herself that she can be independent and live without relying on someone else. So unfortunatly I have to suffer because of that. ... (218 words

I love this married man but I didn't know he was married when I got involved with him... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I started a relationship with a man and after a few months he told me that he was married. He's not in love his wife but he loves his children. He lives in my country now but she's at home. I love this man a lot. His work is causing problems now and maybe he must go away, what ... (62 words

It's soooo obvious he fancies me yet when friends asked him outright he denied it and said he likes me only as a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, everybody. So there's this guy I have been crushing on and he has been giving me non-stop hints that he has feelings for me as more than just a friend (he is basically going overboard to get my attention). However, when my friends told him that I might have a crush on... (93 words

Is he cheating, cybering to this other girl and asking for pictures?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - I am feeling so distraught. my boyfriend signed into msn hotmail on my computer to check his e-mail and the details as in password and address were stored on the computer, my curiosity got the better of me and i had a look at his e-mail. i was really upset by what i saw, there ... (169 words

Should I send him a rose to tell him how I feel? If so, what colour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have just joined a new school and have made friends with a boy but I really fancy him and he knows, him and his other friends that are girls have a really strange relationship where he pokes and touches them in alkinds of places and there is a thing for valentines day at ... (79 words

Haven't had a serious bf in 3 years and it's getting me real down! Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi im 22 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend for 3 years ive been on dates but nothing serious but now its really getting me down everyone says how attractive i am and funny and all my mates say they cant belive never met anyone but know one ever chats me up we go out ... (108 words

I'm worried I may be depressed...any ideas to cheer up and be happy all day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - Lately I feel very tired and I always think I can do things better and that everything I do or buy or wear or do at work is never good enough, I try to relax I also have negative thoughts about my social life as I do not quite enjoy it very much I also try to be nice to all my ... (214 words

He's online and I sent him a message and he won't reply! What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - ok this is another question like the one before i know this guy is for real i know it i sent him a message but he hasent replyed and i know he is online so wot do i do i really have the hots for him and i know he will understand me its just so hard to talk to a guy.... (62 words

He left me at the party to go talk to his ex...and now he stopped contact with me! What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Here's my problem: I don't like the way my boyfriend gets on so well with his ex. Example: Last week we were at a mutual friends party, and for the first few hours everything was fine, until my bfs ex decided that she needed to talk to him. They then disappeared away... (140 words

I saw her stealing money from his wallet and he plans on marrying her! Should I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hello there one of my really good friends who is in his 20s is getting married in the july after less than a year with his girlfriend.One problem though she is dodgy she is always asking for money and gifts from him even though he is just an ordinary guy who has a normal ... (79 words

Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

9 February 2007 (M - Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're not too snowed-out. Thanks ... (78 words

Should I continue to contact her or wait until she contacts me?

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9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - I met this girl through some friends, and I was quite attracted to her, however I am completely oblivious to any sort of signal from women so I had no idea how she felt about me. One of my friends told me she had had a bit of a crush on me. That's all the boost I needed a... (377 words

Why did my boyfriend refuse to kiss me in front of the receptionist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - Quick question. My boyfriend had started new job and had taken the receptionist mobile number and was texting her when i wasn't about. I told him i knew and he was to put a stop to it cos there was no need for it. Today we got dropped off outside his work and i asked him ... (104 words

I think my fiance has fallen out of love with me. How do I know for sure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - i love my fiance so much but i think she has fallen out of love with me. she says she hasnt but how do i find out if she dont talk to me?... (33 words

How can my husband be so cruel to me?

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9 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - Help!, Me and my husband been seperated for over 20 years and are still married!. I am young lady! he owns an estate and i am homeless.(HE SAID TO ME HAS IS GONE ON WITH LIFE)!telling to me leave him alone! I need a lot of HELP and answers! how can my husband harden his heart, ... (68 words

I saw this guys picture on line and he blew me away! How can I talk with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - i like some one on-line and i dont know them i saw there pic and it was like i was run over by a bus he seems a nice guy but i dont hink i can talk to him.... (39 words

He can't get over the fact I've given myself away so cheaply in the past, we have different morals and I see sleeping with someone as just sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 51-59 - Hi I've got a problem. I really love my boyfriend who i've been dating for around 5 months. I made the mistake of telling him about my sexual past, including a series of one nite stands which he finds repulsive because he has high morals. He would never sleep with anyone... (141 words

We agreed to a break but would stay mates! So why is he so cold whenever he sees me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - my ex and i broke up because we both realise we rushed it, he was confused when telling me that he aint ready, but says he still have feeling for me n that im his ideal, i asked him not to avoid me and he says he won't and that we'll stay mates.. he said he's sorry if im hurt, ... (135 words

I met him on the internet and I liked him but he sent me a reccent picture and now I don't find him attractive! How do I break it off with him?!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - Dear cupid I am in a very difficult situation right now. He lives in Chicago and I live in England and I'm 18 and he's 27. Ok well basically I've been talking to this guy on the internet and we've agreed to meet up and everything, I've seen his pictures from his myspace profile ... (290 words

I don't think my husband loves me anymore! He looks at porn and then lies to me about it, we are barely speaking. What shoul I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years, however i feel my husband is not in love with me anymore, He hardly ever pays any attention to me and on the odd occasion he does want to have sex, i feel that that is all it is - that he just wants sex - not that he wants to be intimate with ... (165 words

I love my husband but I can't trust him any more. What can I do to regain that trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years, however i feel my husband is not in love with me anymore, He hardly ever pays any attention to me and on the odd occasion he does want to have sex, i feel that that is all it is - that he just wants sex - not that he wants to be intimate with ... (166 words

What did I say that annoyed him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy for a year and we are friends who sleep with each other but to start out with we were just sleeping with each other. Over the past few weeks Ive asked him if he wants things to go any further and he said he didnt but didnt know why. He said I was impo... (144 words

My hubby never pay attention to me, he lies, he views porn and I don't trust him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 3 years, however i feel my husband is not in love with me anymore, He hardly ever pays any attention to me and on the odd occasion he does want to have sex, I feel that that is all it is-that he just wants sex-not that he wants to be intimate with me, ... (160 words

I'm not one to buy into the whole popularity fake thing so am I being taken in by this popular girl at school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - There's this really popular girl and she sits next to me in lessons and often copies from my book. The other day she said that I was really nice, which I was quite surprised at. However, my friend mentioned that a piece of writing I'd done was about being mentally trapped,... (95 words

Crush on actress character, but she took it personally, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age - i have a crush on an actress's carector unfortionaly she has taken it personaly to herself .i have had cast cards and i have meet her , i'v tried to exsplain and ihave apoligised . but now i think i have been blaklisted or something .i only whant the latest cast card but she ... (80 words

Who should I go with?

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9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - hi, i just want to ask some question. whom would you prefer to go with in the church, your bestfriend or your boyfriend? ... (23 words

How can I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I fancy this boy who's one year younger than me (he's 14), but dont know how to ask him out. we were on talking terms untill he decided to "zap" me every time he saw me(he pokes me hard in the waist so i-embarasingly- collapse). how should i ask him out? i can hardly even talk ... (59 words

What's going on? Do I just wait around for him to call me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - Dearc Cupid I have been without my boyfriend for a week now he refuses to pick up my phone calls and he never calls or comes a sees me. In the past we have alot of trust issues and we argue and fight most of the time I feel like he is Dr Jeckle and Mr Hyde one moment he is... (334 words

The only time he calls is to ask me to come over and have sex. Is he just using me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 10months now,when I met him I was a virgin, I held out in our relationship for about 5 months Before we had sex. In the beginning the relationship was going great we got along and spent time together almost everyday, but now he never ... (159 words

My wife and I have seperated, should I still send her flowers for Valentine's Day?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, please help me on this, for two years I dedicated my life to this girl, I loved her, care for her, look after her, did everything in my power for her to be happy, and it was never enough. I married her last year. Our arguments continued and in fact got worse as she had ... (548 words

Is my mother in law coming on to me? I'm her daughter in law!!!! Helppp!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age - New developments into my problem/dilemma with my mother in law(she is 68, I am 57) so I copied my previous post for reference. I am even more confused now as she did something. Anyway, she calls on Sunday and tells me that she wants us to go for a lunch as she discovered a ... (925 words

Are my periods normal or is there something dangerously wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - ok so im 14, ive had my period for 3 years now and they've been extremely heavy for those 3years, i always spend atleast 10-15mins in the toilet and i go atleast every 1-2hours. im pretty sure i suffer from menorraghia but i havent done much about it. Anyway this morning ... (190 words

Should I confess to my husband what happened or should I forget it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a 28-year-old married woman and have a one year old child. My husband is a nice guy but he has some how lost interest in romance and sex. Conversation too has gone down really low because of his eratic shifts. Even if we do have sex, he just rolls over and sleeps after he ... (290 words

He's been visiting men for man-on-man BDSM sessions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age - Help I am dating a guy and we are pretty serious, I am intending to give up my business and way of life to move in with him, he tells me he loves me and I feel the same but due to other difficult relationships in the past I am always wary ... We have an interesting sex ... (196 words

Just split up with my fiancee after a row... what now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - Hi everyone. I've just split up with my fiance in the heat of the moment of an argument and I don't know what to do. It's definately over and he's not answering the phone or texts and I regret finishing it. Im texting him saying can we work it out as we were both tired when we ... (84 words

Paranoid that she'll find someone better than me and live happily ever after!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for just over 6 months. I love her to bits, things are going great. I have what I deem to be the usual male paranoia, as we live about 50 miles apart that she'll find someone better than me and live happily ever after. She is at uni, and I... (342 words

Found my girlfriend on a porn site.. but don't want her to know I've been looking at porno!

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9 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - I found photos of my girlfriend on a porn site but I don't know what to do. If i tell her i found them she'll know I look at porn...... (41 words

I have a really bad anxiety problem, especially when I'm with a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

9 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - i need help big time! im 20 years old and i think i have a severe anxiety problem! i have a girlfriend and have done for 6 months now. im just going to cut to the chase as this problem is pretty much ruining my love life now! everytime i have had a girlfriend in the past i have ... (299 words

Worries about my weiner, my wife's lack of sex drive!

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9 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - hi i am wondering is a 6in penis a good size or is it to small? what is a good size that women prefer? i also have a very high sex drive and my wife dont. i have been thinking about going else where to help my needs/ i have tried talking to her and making things romantic ... (68 words

Should I ask him to be my valentine?

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9 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - should i ask him to be my valentine? for the past 2 years i've spent valentines day alone then i met the most AMAZING man in the summer and we started a relationship. unfortunatly he broke it off, but we are trying to maintain a friendship. i'm deeply in love with him and try ... (80 words

Should I keep him as a friend... or more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

9 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I hope someone can help me out with this. well i like this guys who is over 20yrs older than me. He flirts with me all the time and i am always finding myself visiting him while hes at work. hes always joking about me and him going for coffee or him bringing me home for ... (95 words

Or is it just me... ?

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9 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - Do all girls always think about male's sex organ?... (9 words

Guys...are you serious about these kind of questions??

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9 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - My bf asked me one time if what is my ideal age to get married and to have a child, i asked him why? He said because he said that he wants to be prepared for it. I told him that 27 or 28 would be fine with me...may i ask, is it a sort of a joke? Or are guys who are serious ... (145 words

I'm involved with a "two-year" man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6248 days ago

9 February 2007 (F - Help! I think I'm involved with the "2-year-man"....meaning, none of his relationships ever last longer than 2 years because he gets bored and the women eventually get frustrated with being ignored or feeling distant and end up dumping him. I thought our relationship wou... (295 words

I asked if she was single and she replied "its complicated...not really"

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