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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My girlfriend lied to me about her past relationships, should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 323 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I recently went through a break-up. We did our fair share of dirty deeds while we were seperated, but when we got back together we asked each other about the things we had done(not really the best idea we ever had). I told her of the four girls I had been ... (142 words)

She's my friend and has just broken up with her boyfriend, I like her... should I step in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - So one of my close friends (a girl) just broke up with her boyfriend.. i have liked her for a while and i just wandered what you think i should do?... (31 words)

My boyfriend has been depressed for a while now and I don't know what else to do to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - i dont know what ells to do! my boyfriend for the last year is going through a depressed point and is allways accusing me of hateing him and wanting to find someone ells to be with, i have done all i can to get past this object so far, i dont want anyone ells and am verry ... (115 words)

He heard I was divorced and gave me a call! I haven't heard back..so why did he do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - A man I dated and was in love with a long time ago called me up on Valentines Day to tell me he remembers very intimate details about me, such as how I smell, feel, talk, etc. and that he can't get me out of his mind. He would not give me a reason as to why he was calling. He ... (88 words)

I'm scared to discuss with her and I want to be open with her and honest.How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have this amazing girlfriend who I love so much and we have been together about 3 weeks and I'm having a couple of issues that I'm scared to discuss with her and I want to be open with her and honest. But when we are like around each other we don't talk like at all, and it ... (132 words)

I left my ex bf for him..now he's too busy for a gf! Should let this go and give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i like this guy for 2 years now. we're friends he knows i like him when i had a boyfriend he wasn't too happy about that so i told him i would leave him 4 u any time so i did and he knows....now he tellin me he 2 busy 4 a girl...should i stop talking 2 him? Should i give up ... (66 words)

How can I suggest to my boyfriend he needs to take care of his personal hygiene better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

- How can I suggest to my boyfriend he needs to take care of his personal hygiene better? I mean, he showers and brush his hair and stuff. But how can I make him to shower every night and wash his clothes when it gets dirty and brush his teeth twice a day. Maybe I'm a clean ... (86 words)

I'm very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up I always back away because I'm scared he will be turned off . Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - im stuck in a complete rut and dont know how to get out of it!!!! ok im very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up (which isnt very often) i always back away cz im scared he will be turned off of me when we get intimate and he sees the truth a... (200 words)

Who is best for me..the new guy or the old friend (who hurt me) but I feel is my soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I went to a party in the weekend and discovered that it was the home of a guy I was friends with for 7 years, but who I lost touch with over the last two years. During our friendship I was totally in love with him and he kept dating other women. We kissed a few times but he ... (211 words)

What type of special gift can I get my new little sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I no this isnt the type of question on here but im stuck. im 22 and want 2 no what i can get my new baby sister as a special present that she can keep 4 the rest of her life? And e help would be great coz i want it 2 b special but not mind-blowingly expensive! thanx!! ... (62 words)

I made a big mistake! How do I build the trust with her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - can someone help me, i really need it... me and my girl (shes not my girlfriend anymore) are in a bit of a pickle right now. i screwed up big time, i accidentally read her myspace messages and saw that she was talking to another guy. it was her ex but she has always said they... (160 words)

How do I catch a cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 299 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, Do you think it is alright to accuse someone if they recently started not coming home from work and coming home late when they have not done it before? What should I do stop accusing him until I get proof. Any advice on how to catch a cheater if in fact he is ch... (59 words)

My boyfriend isn't opening up to me, I'm telling HIM everything about me and he keeps quiet about himself. How can I get him to open up more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend of two years is having a hard time opening up to me. I feel like I'm telling him to much about my personal life and he's not telling me much of anything just things that he fells comfortable discussing with me. With that being said its really hurting our ... (103 words)

Sometimes I feel my friends get just too much for me....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i know this is going to sound like the most selfish problem in the world but its really getting me down. I love all my friends to bits and would do anything for them but im constantly the one they all turn to when they have a problems. I am completely flattered and pleased that ... (300 words)

If a woman I like is from work, should I ask her out as a friend first or should I ask her on a date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - If a woman I like is from work, should I ask her out as a friend first or should I ask her on a date? ... (25 words)

Would you kiss a girl or man who does oral sex in her/his past? a question for male and female.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - open question would you kiss a girl or man who does oral sex in her/his past? a question for male and female.... (22 words)

My ex has a girlfriend but he's being so nice to me. Does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - My ex cleaned his sick off my car today. However, he said he wanted to clean it inside and out, checking the oil and doing the tyre pressure. He then offered to do my weekly shopping! He's got another girl, but we did flirt and pretended we hated each other. I still get the ... (82 words)

Does he really want me and he's just too scared to admit it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - theres this guy and wev been friends for like 2 years but not like realy close close friends. and well everytime we wld get drunk together we wld fool around even tho he had a girlfriend. and well the first time he told me stuff like he wanted me but then the next day he tryed ... (344 words)

Shes Fakeing A Period The Day before i met her what does it mean

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

- Shes Fakeing A Period The Day before i met her what does it mean? i'm meeting my new girlfriend tomoz (27th) first time shes staying over shes 16 shes had sex she told. she put of comein over for a whilie and tomoz seems to be day shes willin 2 stay over. i know she fake... (138 words)

I feel depressed, can any one give me any help or tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

- hey, i think that im gettin depressed again and it affecting my a-levels studies. im having problems at skool and i also feel generally lonely and unloved, i dont have a clue what i can do please help me as all my other posts have been rejected and i dnt wana self harm anymore ... (55 words)

My mates keep making a fool out of me, what can I do to stop it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

- i have a group of mates at skool, and mroe and more frequently the make fun of me and make me feel lousy and i cent ever seem to make them happy, its either the clothes i wear, the music i listen to or things sya, or jus how i look? i dont rly have another set of mates so i ... (127 words)

Any suggestions on how to stop my mobile addiction and to help get rid of some of the pressure off him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My fiance has just started up his new business from scratch, but it's a lot of presure on him, but its cauisng us to argue, he shouts and it scares me hes never ever hurt me. I just wonderd what i could do to help take the presure off a little. I also have a phone addiction and ... (88 words)

What is the connection between the French Maid and Sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I Was Just Wondering what The Connection Between The French Maid And Sex ? I Would Find It Really Helpful For A Quick Responce A I Wanna Giv My Boyfriend Somethin he Will Never Forget thank you x... (44 words)

I'm 13 and really like this boy. Should I make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - please help me i am 13 i realy like this boy in my class my friends say he likes me should i make the first move... (26 words)

He said he was confused, that I deserved better, he's not worth it. Should I wait till he gets his mind together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Alright...I started feeling a little itch. This weird feeling came over me one day when we were together. It was doubt. I mean not from my own feelings but from him. I don't know why but I did. The next few days I began to think and think about the possible thoughts in his ... (410 words)

How can I get rid of my embarrassing problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - This is so embrassing. When me and my boyfriend sleep together, i always feel im going to fart. so i dont keep it up for long. i dont want to carry on just incase i do.... (38 words)

If I hear whispers or laughing in school I automatically think they're talking about me! How can I stop feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, I have a very annoying problem, and was wondering if any of you could give me some advice. It's nothing too serious just I am totally paranoid, in class if I hear whispers or laughter I assume they're talking about me (not in a nice way obvoiusly) and I want to believe ... (75 words)

How can I get skinnier? I'm 5 foot 9" and 149lbs.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone, I have a question, Im 19 and in vet school. I have an amazing boyfriend, who is at university about 3 hours away. I know I should be happy, but I cant help but worry. Im 5ft 9 and I weigh 149.6 lbs. I feel nauseous every time i look in the mirror, or catch site of ... (160 words)

He told me he was confused about our relationship and wants to hook up with other girls, he apologised later for it but now I can't get it out of my head! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half now and for the past 6 months we've been having a long distance relationship, but we've managed to be able to see each other at least once a month. the other day my boyfriend called me and told me that he was confused ... (175 words)

Guys... can a man masturbate while sleeping and NOT realise it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 435 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - the other day I woke up to find my boyfriend masturbating next to me. we had had sex earlier on that night so i could'nt understand why he was doing this. I spoke to him about it and he denies all knowledge of it happening. he claims that if he was doing it he must have been ... (83 words)

Do I let him know I'm here for him? I really like him but he's not answering my questions....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Over 2 years back I fell for an older married friend. He offered a shoulder to cry on through hard times and I got closer to him. He gave me all the signals he was interested too. But then pulled back. Not being able to handle this well I moved away. We kept in touch but not ... (156 words)

I am quite depressed but hide it. I would love to swap my life with someone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

- I would like to swap lives with someone. I'm unhappy with the life I have, yet I know I should be happy because I've got my health, both parents still happily married, a university place at Manchester, and I'm going away travelling. Yet I have nothing to smile about. A lot of p... (147 words)

Is there a strong connection between me and this guy or am I imagining it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for 5 years and he has a pretty high profile job. Recently I met a few of his work colleagues whom are older, but there is one who is around the same age as me and my boyfriend. People at work think he is arrogant and they don't like ... (140 words)

I can't get my beautiful therapist out of my mind, now that my therapy has ended. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a very feminine, attractive, educated lesbian. I have never had any trouble meeting other women for relationships, but I recently had some emotional issues that needed sorting out, so I sought the help of a therapist. Ah me, that is where the trouble started. I saw h... (252 words)

He says 'he doesn't want to marry' due to being hurt in the past. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

- I'm in a serious relationship with my bf of 1 1/2 yrs. I'm 23 and he is 25. I love him very much and I know he loves me very much too. We are now planning to move-in in the next few months. My bf had a divorce 3 years ago because his wife cheated on him. He was very young when ... (234 words)

Because of money problems..I may end up losing my bf! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm afraid I'll lose my boyfriend forever because of not making enough money. We are actually pretty much on a par in terms of earnings, but he makes a little more, but also has many more expenses. He doesn't want to care for me that way, though he still pays for me sometimes. ... (111 words)

Just wondering if anyone have a different definition of "fiance" other than those who got engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

- This past weekend, I spend my weekend at my boyfriend's. I had dinner with his family (parents, siblings, cousins). My bf's parents start introducing me to others as my bf's fiance. Me and my boyfriend is really close and we are seriously looking into living together in the ... (105 words)

How can I get him to be more interested in ME and not keep looking at porn all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 407 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I have been married for 1.7 years we are both 22 and we have a beautiful daughter who is 14 months and we have been together for 2.6 years now I love my husband sooo much and I know he loves me but the thing is he looks at porn online he promised to stop when i caught him ... (156 words)

My friend has just broken up with her boyfriend and I've always been her shoulder to cry on, she's asked me over, how do I know if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (?) - my very close friend has had a boyfriend for over a year. she's been through rough times and i've always given her a shoulder to cry on and she appreciated it so much. anyway she's just broke up now, and she's been texting me quite a bit, she's upset. she asked me to come to ... (96 words)

I need different sexual positions to spice up our love life, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ive been with my fiance since i was 13 and im now 21 and we have had regular sex since then but i want to try something different maby different positons and things!!!! buti dont want to say anything to him as he might think im getting bored help? x... (50 words)

I love my wife but she is ALWAYS telling me how to drive from the passenger seat!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have 1 of 100s of other problems with my wife, for which i need some urgent help. On this specific problem, I would explain as below- when i am driving, she continuously gives instructions, like where to park, how to park, (as a matter of fact, i am driving since a decade, ... (482 words)

My current bf doesn't see how I could sleep with someone else when I was in love with him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my ex boyfriend at the start of the summer last year because I fell out of love with him... Partially because he treated me badly, partially because I'd fallen for my best friend. My ex and I stayed friends until recently. A little after the summer, my ex an... (357 words)

I'm 26 and a christian and want to wait till marriage before I sleep with someone but it's so hard as I have "wants" you know? How can I get through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

- I am really struggling in a particular area of my life at the moment. I became a christian a year ago and beleive that I should wait until I am married to have intimate relations. I never have been one to have many boyfriends etc before I was a christian, so my Nun like ... (210 words)

He called me a spiteful bitch so I dumped him, should I take him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well all i ca say is it isnt my first time of breaking up, so why is it so god damn hard? I've been with Gav a year ad a half things was great..(thats how it is) and month after month we was getting fed up of each other, he knew i wasnt happy but i had to try and change myself ... (221 words)

He says he doesn't lie.... but does he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been goin out with this guy for 5-6 months now and he tells me the truth about everything and doesnt lie to me.BUT DOES HE? thats what i cant get out of my head because ive been hurt before its hard to trust but it just feels like that he does lie but he is so good at it ... (81 words)

Help! I've just found out my boyfriend is using me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - help i just found out my boyfriend is using me, he lives with his parents and i met him online he had me send him stuff all the time for him and his son thousands of dollars said he needed money needed toys for his son, he was doing without food. His parents told my mom who ... (166 words)

He says he loves me but I've heard that before from guys and been hurt before. How do I let my guard down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - About 4 months i ago my ex and i break up cuz he didnt want a gf or a relationship anymore and it really destoryed me cuz he was my best friend since 8th grade and we are both in our 20's and we dated for 3 months. Anyways i just started dating this new guy who i have been ... (324 words)

When meeting guys in the future, do you think there is anything wrong with 'not' telling them about past sexual experiences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I've recently lost a partner because he couldnt deal with the number of one night stands I had (4) before meeting him. When meeting guys in the future, do you think there is anything wrong with NOT telling them about that stuff (i.e. just say that I've had 6 s... (81 words)

He wants to go clubbing with his single mate...why would he do this when he has a perfectly nice gf at home?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi i was just wondering what purpose is there for two guys wanting to go clubbing what can they do especially if one is single and the other isnt? So really what can the the non single one do while the other is dancing and kissing maybe even more stuff with girls. just stan... (149 words)

Help! I feel stuck in a time hole...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help please.. I am stuck in a time hole, I can’t move on or even more forward with my life because I freeze with the reaction of the women that loved and I spent almost one and half year of my life with. We had our arguments and things were not so good, she suddenl... (643 words)

He said that I'm flawless/ sweet and I deserve the best man ever! I mean isnt this similar to the line "it's not you, it's me" line? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

- hey, hope your fine! I've a huge crush on this guy with me at work, recently we started talkin more often and he asked me out once and it went gr8, he kept tellin me all about his previous relationship, he's very decent and just too good to be true... I dont get to see him a... (655 words)

She wants the 'wow' in a relationship so she obviously isn't finding that with me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) age 36-40 - My girlfriend looks at other men and says that she looking for this 'wow' in a relationship. I said 'well you obviously aren't getting that with me then' and she didn't deny it, instead she said that she didn't trust me because my best friend is a dog and because I've told her ... (198 words)

Is it true that women dislike being judged for their physical appearance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - Though i am pretty sure on this, but i still want to know. Is it true that women dislike being judged for their physical appearance? I have observed some of them getting conscious about covering up themselves when i look at them and try to measure them based on physical and ... (90 words)

My boyfriend took his sister's side over mine and it really hurt me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I hope someone can help. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and over the time had a few probs with his sister. They are very close. Anyway every time she gets drunk she becomes all needy, turns her back to me, and makes comments that make me think that she has a deep ... (259 words)

We are both seeing other people but can't stay away from one another. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I have been with my partner for 3 years. He is caring and i love him-but dont think im in love with him. About 4 months ago i met some1 else in a club.Nothing happened between us we were just dancing and having a laugh. A couple of weeks later i saw him again and we just ins... (266 words)

I lost my husband in December and don't know whether to get involved with an old flame? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) age 36-40 - In December, my husband whom I love very much, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly... We lived in another state, and I've since relocated back to my home town, where I'm staying with my parents for a couple more weeks before I move into my new home.. Before I came back here... (582 words)

Any tips on how I can lose weight and tone up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - has anyone got any tips or know of any websites showing exercises that i can do in my home that will help me loose weight and tone up? i really cant afford to go to the gym and am too self conscious to go running in public. thanks!!!!... (48 words)

Do guys prefer experienced girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - do guys prefer experienced or inexperienced girls? im nearly 20 and lost my virginity and did alot of "sexual exploring" with my first boyfriend when i was 16 but thats it. ive kissed guys but havnt felt ready to do anything more untill now, but now im worried that if i tell a ... (140 words)

What can I do to make things more understanding between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi there myself and my boyfriend have a son of 4yrs old.in the past 4yrs we were experiencing lots of problems. his been cheating on me with lots of women and we broke up and made up.then last year july we made up and things were just perfect between us. we had a close couple ... (261 words)

she told me she wants to make out with another woman and it is seriously worrying me that she would want to do that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 439 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship that is fairly new (4 months). I really care about her and she has reciprocated these feelings. Things were going great up until a few weeks ago when we hit some bumps in the road - dealing with the distance and how fast things were moving. ... (436 words)

Should I tell her how I feel about her before it's too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a question I'm in need of advice. I have a friend who I have liked for many years but never told her. The reason why I never told her was because she was always in a relationship with this guy who has no backbone. The back drop to my question is, for the past 6 years ... (461 words)

The only place I meet my boyfriend is at school but we're not allowed to kiss there, any ideas where we can kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I turned fourteen a few months ago and my boyfriend's a few months short of fifteen. We go to a school with rather strict regulations, namely that there can be no public displays of affection such as hugging between opposite genders if they're dating, no kissing, etc. I re... (116 words)

Ifa girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks, (no contact at all) does that mean he's a bit of a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - If a girl hasn't heard from a man for 2 weeks (absolutely no contact at all, no texts, no phone calls, no MSN, no emails) does that mean (he's a bit of a player) that he is leading a double life or has got something to hide? When he does say something, he tells her he left his ... (79 words)

Do you think he told me his true feelings when he was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I fancied this guy for some months (we lived in different countries). and he stayed at my place for one month and went back to his country recently. During the month he stayed at my place, we spent a lot of time together. We had sex, too. Occasionally, he came home drunk and ... (279 words)

Am I stupid that I keep taking her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 436 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey. I'm a 16 y/o boy and i need help. I'll start at the beginning, I met this girl wen she was going out with my best m8. She started texting me, telling me she wanted me and not him. I tried to keep away as he is my best mate and it wouldn't be fair to do that to h... (531 words)

Hes suddenly gone silent, and dispondent!! What can I do ? I'm really worried!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I’m worried about my boyf for the last few days… we’re together over a year and everything is great with us. We have a healthy relationship in every way and love spending time together, going away on w/ends and normal things like that… Last week I suggested goin a... (320 words)

I got told to back off by this guy, from my own girlfriend!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

26 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, This is a strange one. At the weekend i went out with my girlfriend (drinking). She's a smoker and ran out of cig's, She ask some guy for a fag and sat down chatting for 30 mins to this guy while i was playing a game of poker with friends. After 10 mins i went up to her and ... (216 words)

We got divorced, but I want him back, How can I make it work ?

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my ex-husband we got divorced on the phone after a two years spent apart, never seen him once, seperate countries... we come from different religions and that caused another problem, we got divorced 5 month ago after i found out about some lies and now i decided to go ... (242 words)

I'm convinced he doesnt want to be with me and its wrecking the relationship!!

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi hope you can help. For some reason I seem to be self destructing my new relationship with a really nice guy. This past week im not sure what has come over me I have become very insecure about it all, I panic if he doesnt reply to texts or answer the phone to me. I have ... (284 words)

I need someone to depend on, But dont want them taking over my life, any thoughts ?

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26 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I am in need of someone who understands me and will stand by me in face of uncertainity. Currently there is no one in my own family. The only person i have some support from is my cousin. Another problem is, whoever has been a support to me in such an uncertainity in past, i ... (197 words)

I've fallen for my boss!!! Should I quit my job!?

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - during last year school term break,i got a job at this food and beverage place.everything was normal.till three weeks ago,i started to develop feelings for my boss.he is plump and 29.totally not my type.suddenly it hit me that im in love with him.he makes me smile when im down ... (122 words)

Am I being nasty by not telling him about the abortion while hes away ?

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im pregnant and i want to get an abortion ok... im not in the right place to have a child right now as i am at uni and i still have 2 yrs left! the tricky thing is my boyfriend is in the navy and hes just gone away, i know hed respect my dission but i feel like i shouldnt ... (104 words)

Shes wants to suddenly end it, and then come back later, does she just not want me ?

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 months and everything has been going great until yesterday she said she wanted to end the relationship and still be friends as she wants to concentrate on being a good mother to her 2 year old son as she gets very busy with ... (142 words)

How can I get her to fall back in love with me!?

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - how can i make the love of my life of 4 years fall back inlove with me after falling out of love. She really is strong minded and hard to break, help me!... (33 words)

I plan to propose to her soon, but Im so worried that we have not intimacy, we are like family members, not lovers!!

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for a while now. i plan to propose to her in a short while and she is aware of it. the problem i'm having is on the intamacy side of our relationship. i have been patient over the period of our relationship but i'm starting to... (285 words)

I'm really confused, Am I gay, or Bi, or straight!?

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i am so confused right now and need some advise and have been awake since 8.00 yesterday thinking about it i was curios about some thoughts i had about men so i talked to one of my gay friends about it and he told me to try fantasizing about it i did and found out that it is a ... (133 words)

I'm still very good friends with my ex but am with someone else who I'm terrified hurts me again.

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i need some help, and have two questions. 1. about 4 months ago i split up with my boyfriend of 15 months but told him that i still loved him and wanted to go out with him again at some point in the future, which i genuinely did - i even spent a few nights with him over the... (443 words)

I love my ex, and know she is being cheated on, should I say something even though she may not believe me!?

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i posted a question a while ago about how my ex girlfriend was hurt by her new boyfriend and how she came to me for comfort. i also feared that he would do it again but chose not to say anything as i felt my advice would fall on deaf ears. however, i have recently learned that ... (124 words)

Is this the way all men are ? Are his doubts about marriage meaning he never will marry me ?

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26 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my b/f for almost 2 years...He made a joke about marriage but in a negative way..I said you don't ever want to get married in general to anyone?(he is 30 by the way and i am 23)..he said he doesn't know, its a big decision..i told him he needs to figure this ... (259 words)

Is my fiancee behaving inappropriately towards these teenage girls ??

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26 February 2007 (F) - I want to know if my fiance is being inappropriate. My fiance is 33 and I am 24, but I never really thought the age difference was a problem. However, he talks to girls on myspace (that are his friend's younger sisters) and they are 15. I think it is a little weird. He also ... (210 words)

I am scared of throwing up!

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi! I'm 16 years old and I have had a huge fear of throwing up for 6 years. I'm embarassed to even tell you I'm scared of throwing up because everybody I have told just laughs at me. You probably think I'm just scared of it. You don't understand how serious this is. For ... (336 words)

Hes seperated from his wife, but often stays at the marital home, am I right to refuse to see him until this is sorted ?

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello readers, I have fallen in love with a man who is married, but separated from his wife. He lives with a mate who he doesn't really get along with. He and his wife own a lovely city apartment together and as he works different hours to her, he often stays at the marital ... (320 words)

I told my work colleague I couldn't keep seeing him because of age differences, one month later he's getting married and I'm shocked!

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - All my life.... i have met guys that have not treated me right. They said they wanted to be my friend but in the end they really want the sex. I am very shy, compassionate person and i am also naive when it comes to things like that b/c i want please everyone b/c if i don't i ... (308 words)

I have lumps on my nipples and my breasts are very painful. What can this be?

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hay im 21 and i have really sore painfull breasts and i have really painfull nipples too! and i have i few little lumps on my nipples there like hard and they are so painfull! plz help cant wear a bra or tight clothes! ... (48 words)

I think she only wants me back because my mate is with someone now

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi i was going out with this girl for 2 to 3 months and she was txting my m8 the week before we finished and she said she wants me back but i think she only wants me back because my friend is back with his fianci but she told me she loves me what do i do i want her back in my ... (93 words)

How do I know if she likes me? She's so shy and it's very hard to tell.

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26 February 2007 (?) - i really like this girl in my year. how do i know she has feelings for me? we're both 16. she is extremely shy and never talks to boys etc. however over few months she has been talkin to me online alot. and recently she talks to me everyday online and we talk a little at ... (261 words)

Why do I seem attracted to older guys?

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26 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a problem...i'm only attracted to older guys! i'm 17 and it seems like people that are 23 and older grab my attention...the oldest crush i had was 38. i have no idea what to do because im in high school and i want to have a relationship with a guy my age, but i'm just ... (84 words)

I really thought there was a connection between us but she hasn't answered my text. Why?

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26 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi friends, please help I could really do with some advice, from anyone!! I met this girl called K 2 weeks ago at a geography open day at Exeter university, whilst waiting in the lounge and being put into groups, i turned and spotted K amongst the whole crowd, she was d... (781 words)