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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband is communicating with an old hihg school girlfriend, how should I handle these emails?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has been emailing his old high school girlfriend who is a single mom. He states that he has looked to her for advice regarding having a teenage daugther. The emails also show that he has been confiding in her with our marriage problems about me in regards to not ... (114 words)

How do I stop myself from doubting him and why does he go off at me when I flirt yet he does it all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

- Hey, okay this is kind of two questions in one. Right well to start off with... I've been hurt in the past I was heartbroken and now find it very hard to trust people in a relationship and to believe that their love for me is genuine. So my guy worships me...He's alway... (224 words)

Why does my husband have to work all the time? I mean it's work work work all the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a question. My husband he works all the time from 6:00p.m. to 6:00a.m. and my mother will have my kids into i find a job and get things going for my self and my kids and even on days he has off he might still have to go in. Now there would be some problem going on at ... (114 words)

It's went from a kiss on the cheek to a kiss on the lips. Is this a sign that our friendship is getting closer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known my friend for about a year now, we go out usually with her sister and her hubby, whenever we say goodbye I give her a kiss on cheek as friends do, however, this went to kiss on cheek hug and anotha kiss on cheek, and over the last month I gave her a kiss on cheek ... (83 words)

Why am I so sensitive sometimes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey! im 16 and i have a boyfriend that i have been wiv for a little less than 2 months. its all going really well and everything. but the wierd thing is that sometimes when i am with him, if he says a comment that offends me - such as yesterday he said something about me being... (142 words)

How do I win her back? I broke up with her and want her back but she's having none of it and says I'm too late.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - recently dumped my girlfriend who I'd been going out for nearly for no real reason. I was not in contact with her again until 3 weeks later when I called her to see how she was getting on. She said she was good and had not missed me. after our brief conversation when I should ... (245 words)

A boy asked me out 6 months ago and I said no, now I can't stop thinking about him. How do I start talking to him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i've written before about this guy who asked me out like 6 months ago and i said no but now i think i want him back. i don't know if i want him as a friend or more, right now i really just want to get my friendship back with him because we don't talk anymore and i miss that ... (85 words)

I'm a bit confused about everything, I've been seeing my boyfriend's sister's fiancee but don't know if he still likes me...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all. im finding things quite tough at the moment. well few months back i slept with my boyfriends sisters fiancee. it happened more than once but eventually we were found out.it was all over then after time i got back with my boyfriend but his sister didnt get bak with her ... (209 words)

I'm bullied at school and everyone hates me! What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Everyone In my Year Hates Me. I only have one friend and everyone else picks on me in lessons and Kicks me and hits me and says its an accident. I told my teachers but they dont Do anything. I dont want to move schools because I dont want to leave my friend. I had other friends ... (80 words)

We haven't kissed and it's been 4 months! How can I speed up the process?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months but we still havent kissed yet is there a problem? can u give me hints on how to make it go faster?... (36 words)

How long will it take to get over a six year relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - how long will it take to get over a six yr relationship? i'm 23 and i really do feel like he is the one.... (24 words)

He was the love of my life...how can he stop loving me..just like that? Help me understand

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Please can I have some advice! I met my NOW ex- boyfriend 8 months ago. From the very first moment he saw me I could see he fancied me.. he even stuttered when he spoke to me. He made all the effort and I was chuffed because all the other girls in the office fancied him. He ... (823 words)

My bf is breaking up with and playing games with me! What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my bf wants a break for two months. when i asked if we could meet other people he said he wouldn't comment and we'd talk in 2 mths. when i told him fine that I respect his decision and leave him alone he sent an sms saying are you giving up on us all together or giving us a 2 ... (139 words)

Is this guy I know, gay or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I think this guy is gay because he always makes comments about gays and laughs. Does that mean he is gay or he just sick minded. P.S we are both 12 - 13 years old so we cant get drunk also i dont want to want to lose my reputation or our friendship if he is not a gay and i ask.... (62 words)

How much emphasis do guys put on a girl's past sexual experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How much emphasis do guys put on a girls sexual experience? Although I've fooled around a bit and have done various things, I've never had a proper relationship and have never felt it was the right time or place to go all the way. But now I'm very wary about how to approach ... (90 words)

I need advice for being able to cope with my elderly Mother. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me to cope with my elderly mother who is now living with us.She is very weak and sickly and I worry about everything that happens, I cannot separate my anxiety from reality and now find that I am losing my temper and yelling at my husbanc and even at her. She has ... (141 words)

Once guys I date get me to date them, the seem to lose interest! What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Here's the thing, my dad has been cheating on my mom since i was 5, i can't trust men and everytime that i have tried to love i ended up heart broken. i think guys are always attracted to me sexually but once they get me they lose interest,and that heightens my fear even more, ... (92 words)

He asked me out to dinner and spent half the night talking about his ex gf! What's up with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out to dinner with an ex boyfriend last night after he asked me out. He split from his girlfriend over 4 months ago but he spent possibly half the night talking about her - he even showed me a picture of her. I found this to be extremely hurtful as I thought we were ... (156 words)

He and I have been dating 4 months and now he's ignoring me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating a guy for around 4 months. We met online and i've been seeing him regualrly about 2/3 times a week, and he normally calls 2/3 tims per day. Up until the last three weeks. I've asked previously before whether his dating anyone else, his replied no, and ... (293 words)

I am a teen (15) and I am fat. How do I lose this fat...any tips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

16 February 2007 (M) - dear cupid i am a teenager 15 years of age and i am fat, i would like to know can i lose this fat and get a thin stomach and also can i also lose the man tits that come with being fat, as i am always being bullied n told to go and by bras because im fat? and im also told tha... (88 words)

How do I control my insecurities and prove to her, I am the guy for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i have been very stupid !!!! I've been with my fiancee for 2 years we have a 1 yr old son together. the problems is all my fault i have accused her of cheating or wanting to cheat on a number of times when she hasnt done anything wrong. its my jelousyand insecurity that ... (222 words)

Is this love...what do you all think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I miss him when Im not with him and when Im not talking to him. I love spending time with him. Enjoy listening bout his likes/dislikes and how his day has been. Is this love?... (35 words)

I really love him and want to keep him, What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 4 months.im really in love with my boyfriend and im doing all i can to please him even stuff i cant im trying my best, he can see im tryin hard but its not good enough for him, a day after valentine we had an argument and he told me ... (91 words)

Any idea how we can have more fulfilling sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I both haveflabby stomachs and his penis is small. We have tried man-on-top a few times but he can't seem to penetrate me this way. Is there a way to get this right?... (36 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to be a more considerate lover?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have generally have sex at least once a day, although it's not always as fulfilling as I'd like it to be. My boyfriend masturbates to fall asleep and when he wakes up and doesn't take into consideration that I might want to have sex even though I've ... (91 words)

My boyfriend is mentally and sometimes physically abusive to me and I don't know what to do! Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together going on four years. We have a two year old daughter together. We have broken up 3 times in the last year, because I kicked him out. I just feel fed up with him he is mentally and sometimes physically abusive. I think what scares me the ... (119 words)

Am I being a fool thinking things could work out for us? Where should I go from here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I received the email below from my boyfriend, who I did not realize was seeing someone else.. we live in separate cities and saw each other at Christmas and we talked about our relationship and he stated he wanted us to do things right... that he loved me more than I realized ... (419 words)

Why she is finding it hard to leave a relationship where there is no love, intimacy and no respect and lots of head games

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I met my Girlfirend over the internet she has been married for 7 years for the last 5 years her marriage has been dead and love has been replaced neglect and verbally abuse and other forms of abuse i would rather not say. We met 6 months ago 4 months ago we proclaimed our love... (419 words)

My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. Am I just being sensitive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

16 February 2007 (M) age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me that she can't remember what I look like when I'm not around. She obviously recognises me when she sees me of course. Yet she says that she can remember what my brothers look like! Does this mean anything? or am I just being sensitive... ... (54 words)

Why am I always so paranoid it's going to go wrong? We get along great!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my b/f for 3 months and everything is going really well. We have great times together and had a lovely valentines day. The problem is that when i dont hear from him all day or he doesn't answer my tex msgs or e mails i get really upset and start to think 'oh ... (131 words)

I am happily married, but my guy on the side drives me wild! I don't want to hurt my husband, though. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Im very happily married and met someone on a works night out - i have really fallen for him (have only kissed him so far but he drives me wild)i have very strong feelings for him, but love my husband and dont want to hurt anyone. Please help... (49 words)

How can you tell the difference between love, lust and obsession?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How do you know when your in love? Because sumtimes you think you are and it could be lust or obsession or sumthing else?... (24 words)

After living w/ each other for a year, the spark is gone! I've tried to get it back, but he doesn't really seem interested. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together over a year.We also live together and have been for a year.He and I have known each other for over ten years.And in the beginning it was great.But,over the last several months things seem to be dying.Sex life has died down and that's okay.He used ... (170 words)

What are a realistic set of duties in a male/female relationship? I don't want to get overbearing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I read through one other post that you get nervous when get a sense of duty towards someone but don't know exactly what you should be doing, especially in male-female relationship. I believe this is exactly what is getting on to my nerves right now as i am to be getting engaged ... (88 words)

I didn't have sex w/ her b/c I'm against one night stands. She wants to get closer and I like her, but don't like how she is so "loose" w/ guys!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I wanted to ask for advice. I went to a works weekend and shared a flat with a friend and two girls. After lots of drink one of the girls started getting very close with me. Then she started kissing my mate (i didnt know this until after the weekend!). Soon after she ... (209 words)

I want to introduce this site to my boyfriend. Is it a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok guys....i have been with this site for 3 months now, with a huge issue that, should I have not discovered this site. I think I would be crazy and lost my mind....... Thanks to your meditating advices and your warmness.... However since i am letting go and giving up on my ... (232 words)

I really want to try anal but it was so messy! How do I do it so it's not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

- This is probably a weird question.. well what it is is i want to try anal.. the other day me and my boyfriend attempted to do it but it hurt too much and 'messy stuff' you know what i mean was on his penis.. is this normal because i was sooo embarrassed. Also how do you clean ... (65 words)

I had my chance and blew it! How do I move on now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my husband when I was 19 and we were best friends. He is a funny, kind, lovely guy who always treated me well. Three years ago I began a new job and started an affair with a man who had quite a reputation as a womaniser. Our affair was very passionate, not something I ... (389 words)

Am I paranoid here or could he be cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F) - hey have been with my b.f for about 2 years. This morning in the kitchen he says there is a red rhinestone on the floor (from i guess could be clothing) he said it must be from one your dresses..i said i havent worn any dress(and i havent for a long time--its way too cold and... (210 words)

What has happened here and how do I sort it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Over the last few months a man has been paying me special attention, asking me questions about my views and attitudes in life, asking advice and he is always complemeting me about my appearance and my sense of humour. Everyone has noticed. One night he made a speach ... (91 words)

Why do nice guys always finish last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do nice guys finish last? If so, why? I never appreciated why women go for guys who treat them bad.... (24 words)

Why am I feeling like this? Should I break up with him or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

- i need help ASAP.I've been with this guy for 2 weeks. i havent known him long and have a feeling it may of been a bit fast. when im with him its fine, a bit quiet sometimes as we dnt have that many of the same interests i've recently realised. But when im at home i cant help ... (186 words)

We are both very shy but I know he likes me. Should I take the initiative here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello I have got a problem i really like this boy at my school, in fact i mite even love him but im not sure he feels the same way. this is what he does to make me think he mite feel the same way - he will smile at me for no reason , look at me and than turn around quickly or ... (196 words)

How can I win my boyfriend back again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I want my ex-boyfriend back. I'm 15 hes' 16. We made plans to stay together forever. He cheated on me first then 4 mths later I did the same to him. His dad doesn't like me. Now he's dating one of my friends. My heart is broken real bad. I've been with him for 8 mths. How can I ... (100 words)

I have the feeling my husband is watching porn behind my back. He very rarely wants to have sex with me and it hurts. Should I confront him about his porn habits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone answer me this question please, do all or most men masturbate even though they are married and do it behind their wife's back, and why do they do this. Does it stops them from having sex with their wife because I think that's what's happened to us and I do not ... (255 words)

My boyfriend has a temper problem and is waiting to see a shrink about it but can't see one for 2 weeks, should he try and get an appointment with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in a serious relationship with a younger man. my family is dead against it and will cut ties with me if i ever marry him. trouble is he has a temper problem which leads to most of our fights. he promised to see a shrink but gets complacent after every visit which is usually ... (123 words)

I'm really worried about my cousin, she never eats anything and I seen laxatives in her drawer. Should I tell her parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi im looking for advice on my cousin and would apprieciate any replys i get thanks. Well she's a size uk 8 32 D bust, yes sounds a great figure i wouldnt have minded it a few months back, until recently. I was over at her house at dinner time three days last week and no... (232 words)

My boyfriend can't get an erection unless his penis is in contact with my genitals! Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

16 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend can't get an erection unless his penis is in contact with my genitals. Plus he often loses it halfway through sex or can't get it up altogether. No amount of foreplay or oral can get him back on track. He says "it's not you it just has a mind of it's own"... (54 words)

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, he is marriage material but I feel like things are getting a little boring! Should I break up with him or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Relationship advise wanted! I am 24 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for just over 5 years, but I am starting to feel like things are getting a little boring. He is awesome, but I am not ready for marriage and I have not had a sexual relationship with anyone other ... (119 words)

Is it a bad idea to date a work colleague?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone...I am in need of advice. I like a guy I work with...we like each other. I am afraid to get any closer though. A lot of problems could evolve when dating someone you work with, right? I'm not too sure. but would like some advice on the situation and while i am here ... (90 words)

Why do people always seem to go for partners who are already with someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F) - Why do people always go for guys that have a bf/gf? I hate these girls that always hits on him and invites him to party and drink with them even though they know he has me. Why do they do that? Are they just getting too old and desperately need to find a man to marry that th... (100 words)

What is true love? How do you know when you REALLY love a person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Dating is when you go out with someone...and having a boyfriend is like a relationship...but how do you really know when you love that person...does it mean that you know that that person is the person you want to spend your life with...does it mean that its just romantic all ... (67 words)

How can I appeal to guys more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I really want a boyfriend but i don't want to be all desperate and make a fool out of myself... I guess i look ok but not like really pretty or beautiful or anything... My friend is a bit slimmer than me so when she wears mini shorts and when we walk on the pathway outside ... (142 words)

Why does this keep happening with guys? What's up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I haver dated 3 different guys within the time period between June and now (which is February). I am begining to become a bit unsettled by the fact that each guy I've been with has given me the clear impression that he's very interested in me. Whereafter... I had either walked ... (129 words)

Should I send her things in the post or should I meet up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - so my GF and i broke up about 1 month ago. we were still talking until last week when i told her i needed "space", to think whether i could remain her "best friend", something she asked of me... we haven't spoken in a week. i receive a sms simply saying "you have my thi... (130 words)

I want to suck on this guys toes but he thinks it is gross!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I really like guys feet, but it's not like a full-blown fetish. But I want to suck on this guys toes...but he's not my boyfriend, and he's got a girlfriend! He knows I like feet (he also knows that I don't like them to the point of obsession), but I'm not quite sure how he'll ... (116 words)

She seems so into him but makes passes at me!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I am 16 years old. I have a close female friend who I have very strong feelings for. We met last year around April or May, and were going out for some time. It has been about 3 months since the last time we hooked up, however, we have remained close friends and still are. ... (236 words)

Caught my gf with a date site profile.....can they fill out automatically??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I walked in my girlfriend,and saw a date/chat and text site on her computer.All the details date of birth etc were all correct.She say`s she doesnt know anything about it,then began to fire allegations of her own at me. Can chatrooms automaticaly fill profiles in correctly,and ... (50 words)

I love her but she writes down my behaviour and i'm always in the wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How do i get around this? I have been with my woman 3 years. I seem to be always wrong about something. If i`m tired,i`m falling asleep on her.If she`s tired,she`s tired,end of story. When we go shopping its a case of hours,if i look at something i`m hurried. My behaviou... (204 words)

Is it weird to love a celebrity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Is it weird to love a celebrity more than normal? Do I like that celebrity or is just fan love?... (20 words)

I get really nervous and self conscious around girls, any advice agony uncles?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

- help me. every time i get close to girls and make good conversation to them, and i know they like me, although im not sure as a friend or more, i get stuck. i start getting really nervous around them, well not in class talking and all, but like outside the classroom when im ... (130 words)

How do I get him back or do something to get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

16 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my ex boyfriend have been dating off and on for about a year and a half a total of eight times, this last time, he broke up with me and now he is dating another girl who he seems to like alot and it kills me to see them together, But all i can think about is him and i ... (84 words)

I think I am losing her big time! Does anyone have any ideas how I can prove I love and want to be with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

16 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, i am 20 nearing 21 and she is 25 nearing 26. We met on a work night out and we wheve been in love ever since. From the start she has always asked about my ex girlfriends, what i did with them, if i ever cheated on the... (373 words)

Is this true love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 439 days ago

16 February 2007 (?) age 16-17 - hey guys I have an important question. I love this guy named Josh Thompson we have been boyfriend and girlfriend since 7th grade now we are in 8th grade and we are still togther he says he loves me and i love him is this true love? i'll take any advice... (53 words)