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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

he lives with this girl at college, although it's purely platonic but he talks about her all the time and they're very close friends... How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Hi I am not sure if this is even a problem or all in my imagination...I have been going out with a lovely man for eight mths (we are both 20). I really love him and I know he loves me, we have a very close friendship and good sex life. However we go to different colleges and ... (295 words)

My girlfriend says she wants to take things slow, seems like she's stressed out, any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - dear cupid me and my girlfriend just broken up and well she says that it was too soon to start going out, and wut ever, and now she tells me that we need to be friends and take it slow, but check this out we both still wana have a relationship but the problem with her is she ... (193 words)

How can I look more cool and with it? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

- I need help. I look crap. Every time I go out I always look like a real tool (I'm a guy by the way). I can't gel my hair properly, I have a crap dress sense. I look nerdy basically compared to the rest of my friends. Can anyone help, please?... (53 words)

It could be I'm extra sensitive right now, why might this be happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

- Thank you in advance to all who respond here. I know everyone is busy. I work in a high stress field and have great co workers. There is a mutual attraction between one of my colleagues and myself. It has happened slowly and we are going to meeting up in a couple of weeks. ... (156 words)

I think im driving myself mad with jealousy. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i just cant trust him at all.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Really need some advice. I think im driving myself mad with jealousy. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and i just cant trust him at all. he's a bit of a closed book and something just isnt right with him. Sometimes i wonder do i really know him at all. Even ... (167 words)

How can I tell my parents I want to be a pornography actress without them blowing a fuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i no this sounds weird but i would love to become a pornography actress and im choosing my opitions as i type this but i dont no how to tell my mum and dad with out them putting me in a bording school or in a high up castle with a dragon for a gaurd!! how can i tell them???... (60 words)

Does anyone think its possible to have a relationship with someone when you're not physically attracted to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Does anyone think its possible to have a relationship with someone when you're not physically attracted to them? Im really falling for a guys personality (hes lovely!) but im not physically attracted to him as in i cant imagine kissing him and things like that yet hes all i ... (137 words)

My boyfriend of a few weeks is moving way too fast talking about marriage and kids already and it scares the shit out of me, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 we ve been seeing each other for a few weeks and he doesnt live very near me and hes already talkin about marrige and having kids with me he also keeps sayin he wants me t be his last relationship and it really scares me help me please??!!... (56 words)

I was given a pill at a party, it knocked me out and I woke up in my underwear with a guy in bed beside me, I have absolutely no idea what happened not my boyfriend has dumped me, it's all soooo unfair.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am head over heels in love with my exbf as of 11 february 07 who i had been with for over a yr... around June last year I went to a guy friends house with all my friends and bfs friends and I was drinking and hanging out and having a good time... So i thought.. I had ta... (570 words)

I'm worried he leans on me too much.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I and my boyfriend seem to be having the same argument over and over. I'm still young, but I've had enough relationships to realise that this one means a great deal to me, and I am determined to make it work. My boyfriend has been through a lot over the past year; his dad ... (129 words)

He hates me talking to others on MSN. Why should I cut off all my friends for him? I'm not doing anything wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey my bf hates me tkin 2 otha ppl on msn, myspace or bebo etc, i dnt see the problem with it, but he has a big stress about it. we agreed a couple of months ago that we should only tlk 2 each other but i found out he tlked 2others so i started again, he finds out n has a big ... (154 words)

I think my friends are being really selfish here but they say I'm the selfish one!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - So once upon a time, I was head over heels in love with this guy named Danny. Then all of a sudden, his parents received new job offers, and he ended up moving to England (I'm in Florida, USA). I was heartbroken. It's been 1.5 years since we've seen one another but we'v... (412 words)

I keep dreaming I'm sleeping or massaging men (I'm male but NOT gay) why do I keep dreaming of men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i am sorry if i offends eny one but it has been bugging me for years since i was in secondary school i have had dreams about men not having sex with them but holding hands kissing and this one when i was in bed and he was hugging me i thought that it was just a phase and it ... (132 words)

It hurts my feelings that he ogles big busted women! Should I just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My present lover and I have been together for over a year and a half. We get along petty good, until it comes to sex. Soon after we first got together, I found he had been viewing bare chested woman with big breasts on the internet when I was not around. My breasts are small. ... (229 words)

I am desperate to get my ex back again, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi again! can anyone tell me how to get or at least to try get my ex back any ideas?? there must be some way!!plzz help me plz thank you ... (30 words)

Can I pluck the hairs from his mole or would this be dangerous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 438 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) age 22-25 - My bf has a mole on his back that has ugly hairs sprouting outta it. For anyone who has a mole or is in a similar situation could u tell me is it possible to pluck the hairs out or is this painful and dangerous?... (45 words)

Any tips on taking this relationship further or just staying away from this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been seeing a guy for 18months on an ad hoc basis and to be honest, when we see each other its always for kinky sex. I've tried dating other guys but they just don't compare to him and always keep being drawn back to him. Now I'm not naive to think that he wants an... (104 words)

I want to try different positions with my boyfriend, any ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my boyfriend have regular sex and i want to try differnt positions and i want to try new things any one have any ideas?????... (26 words)

Why do guys have a habit of messing our heads up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Why do guys have a habit of messing our heads up? I constantly always have him my head, all the live long day. Its not fair- they are so confusing- they need to say how they feel- than use silence or expect us to mindread how they feel.... (49 words)

I want to make my ex jealous of me, any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 433 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi guys, i hope you all ok! and we all have problem in here i hope there will be a way to solve it anyway i got a question guys! im a female and i want to impress others around me especially my EX lol can anyone help me out plzz?? and i want to get him jealous of me!!i... (83 words)

Should i just be happy that i finally know where i am going in my life and accept that it is over or should i go with my dream of him and being at the college

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - Hallo ..i have been dating a younger man (29, pisces) for the past 1,5 years. It has been on and off because he has said there is no future between us and that we are not the same "class". Most people would be very upset with such comments but it gave me "fuel" to want to be ... (512 words)

How do I play the social scene?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

- Heya, I hve a question about friendships. I have recently started sixth form and all my friends left to go to different schools for the sixth form. I sort of have a group of friends but it is quite small and two of the members of the group are dating - which sucks! There ar... (171 words)

Should I tell my parents that my sister's having a party while they're away even although they've told her no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

- I found out that my sister might be having a party. Now I don't now all the details (where, how many are going etc.) but me and my parents are out that weekend and there are guys older than me, who might be going. My parents say she can't have a party (she'll be 16 in April) ... (109 words)

What should I do? Who should I choose? My current boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i need help here.... it all started when i got back in contact with my ex. my ex and me had been friends before for 7 years and then one night we kissed and everything changed and we started dating. i fell in love with him but he just walked away and broke my heart. i came up... (545 words)

I have a serious feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a serious feeling my girlfriend is cheating on me. She's really close friends with this guy in Singapore ( she lived there for six years but now we live together in Australia) who is supposedly her "best friend". I have met the guy a few times. She texts him constantly ... (209 words)

How effective is emergency contraception?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) age 22-25 - How effective is emergency contraception? Last night I had sex for first time and it was going great until my bf realised the condom had come off and had lodged itself right up at my cervix! He didn't come cos he realised before that condom had come off but when iv given him a ... (276 words)

Why did he not cum? I don't think I could put myself through such a work out again!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) age 22-25 - ok I'm really inexperienced here so help needed. I recently had sex for the first time and like most people was extremely disappointed. To start with my bf did not rub my clit properly so i wasnt wet enough and it hurt more than when I've used a vibrator in the past. 2ndly I ... (330 words)

Have I made the right choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

- im 19 im goin out wit a 21yr old guy but i was really drunk last nite and i texted my ex boyfrend(my ex boyfrend is my boss,35yr old, married ,2 kids and he almost got me pregnant and he suggested an abortion) so we wer chattin away about work(we all work 2gedder) and we wer ... (176 words)

I'm meeting my online love on Saturday and I'm excited but shy and nervous, I don't want to come across as boring.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i'm meeting my online love on sat. i've only just plucked up enough courage to decide to meet him. I know who he is who he says he is and were meeting in public. although i've known him online for way over a year now i'm terified... I'm an extremely shy person..and he's quite ... (101 words)

He married and he wants me! Do I upset my parents by being with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi All, I'm in love with a colleague. He is damn cute, a perfect gentleman, 12 years older to me, is in an unhappy marriage and has a 2 year old son. We're not even of the same religion. In the begining, we just used to talk alot, mostly about music, cause that's the one... (413 words)

Lately he doesn't call or come over! What can I do to gain more interest from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i met this guy about a month ago, we started off, attracted to each other. We kiss and touch but, no sex. I decided it was too soon. He is a perfect gentleman, opens doors and the like. However lately he doesn't call, and he does not want to come over. He wants us to start of... (142 words)

Do other girls around my age masturbate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - im 14 do other girls around my age masterbate? thank x... (13 words)

Any dangers involved in getting 'love bites' or 'hickeys'? How long do they last?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

- hi i have few question about love bites if you can answer them all or even one i will happy... thnx 1. ow long do they last? 2. ow do you give one? 3. wat should i do whn im bein given one? 4. are there any dangers involved? thnx ... (62 words)

He says my daughter and I provoke him-we make him take things out on us! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I are both in our mid 30's and have been married almost a year. Prior to getting married, we dated for 7 years. He works in law enforcement and I believe that is the root of his temper. He gets upset over many different things and takes things out on myself and ... (129 words)

Sex is down to once per month as he says he's too tired...what should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years, we have been living together for 1/2 that time. As time goes by we hve sex less often, we are down to once a month..... have tried to talk to him about it but he says he always to tired....What should I do?... (54 words)

He put his friends first, so I broke up with him. Now he won't reply to my calls or texts? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and i have being goin out for three years, lately he has been putting his friends first (in my opinion) i told him on Friday night that i was upset and he laughed at me and said i was talking rubbish. I then said it was over, and we argued some more over the ... (105 words)

Two women to choose from..which one do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hello i have been trying to find the perfect girl for a long time now and proud to say still a virgin unlike most of me mates. but as soon as i stop looking two walk in i have never been interested in the shape of o womans body just personalty the one i have been friends with ... (192 words)

He loves me but is going ahead and marrying his finacee! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in love with a man who is currently engaged, and i know he feels the same way about me... We have been working together for 8 months and ever since we met we have had a really strong connection. He has been with his fiance for 7 years now and he has never cheated on ... (228 words)

She talks about her ex sometimes..is that something to be worried about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone!!! When you in a long distance relationship and your gurl flicks back to her ex once aweek with her memorys with her ex... is it something to be really concerned about... (51 words)

She claims to like me but is still hung up on her ex bf! Advice, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Well, to save everyone from a life story, I'll do my best to summarize the important points. Basically, this concerns myself and a female we'll identify as "Jane." She's a junior and I'm a senior, both in high school, and we've been the best of friends ever since I was a fr... (575 words)

He was drunk when he said he loved me. Can I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Ex drunkenly told me he loved me 3 nights ago. We went out for a leaving do and i didn't drink. My ex kept looking at me all night. I hardly said a word, other than i can do better than him. He was sick on my car and he's coming to clean it tomorrow. I know he's seeing someone ... (114 words)

Do I try to get him back or should I just walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - hi, last year i met a lovely man after coming out of a 10 year relationship we got on really well. After being together for 4 months i had started to develop feelings for this man and it scared me as we he was 13 years older than me ( he is 43 )I was foolish enough to go back ... (198 words)

My girlfriend never lets me go clubbing with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been going out with my gf for 8 months she never lets me go clubbing with her (always with her girls only. we argue alot now over silly things and its beaking my heart what do i do ?... (41 words)

Sacred I am going to push this perfect man out of my life..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have found a new man and he is perfect he gets on great with my kids, he tells me he loves me after 2 weeks being together my heart tells me he is the one but my head is telling me different, i have been hurt very badly in the past and i don't want it to happen again. am i ... (110 words)

I find it hard to get the bigger picture when forming some kind of opinion about people.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I find it hard to get the bigger picture when forming some kind of opinion about people. Like i notice an imperfection in someone that is hard to tolerate, for example -fat women. Similarly, people who don't use their own brain and instead use politics in dealing with a ... (68 words)

My husband has a horrible temper. I've told him we need to work on it and he doesn't take it seriously. I'm attacted to someone else now! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

- I've been married for just over a year. My husband has a very bad temper to the point where all he does is yell when something bothers him. I tell him he has to calm down, but he doesn't. He never wants to talk things through rationally. He just yells until he gets red in ... (364 words)

We live with his mother and she's driving me craaaaaazy!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok my husband and i have lived in his mothers house for about 7 months and i have hated it sence we have moved in here. his mother is ocd and she is really getting on my nerves she is always telling me to tell her and anyone what i think about things and to not hold them in. ... (427 words)

How do I know for sure her and her ex ARE only friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i really need some help, so can someone out there give me some advice. i really don't know who to turn to or what to do... (sorry this is so long) it all started over Christmas, i talked to my girlfriend everyday (we go to school together but live in different states so we we... (567 words)

We broke up and he told his friend "I was The One" now I want to go back with him but I told him no second chances. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My Boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me in a text, it said how much he cared, but he thought trying to have relationship would hurt us in the future. He wants us to get back together after i move home(we go to different colleges, but he still lives at home). His friend texted ... (96 words)

She says she suffers from "Winter Depression."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

25 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey there, I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year. At the first 5 mounths we were crazy in love. But it seems sinse then she has started to change into this other person. she is less emotional and less touchy , lovey kind of thing but of course she suffers ... (93 words)

Is he trying to gather information so he can tell people and have it backfire on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

25 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I like this guy and his best mate, and i think his best mate likes me cause he wont stop calling and he held my hand yesterday! He keeps asking me questions like what are your 5 favourite guys, and i told him that himself and his friend are in it, and they ask me what i'd say ... (196 words)