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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Do I bring up how I feel about him or do I leave it unsaid because of the distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - Well I am back again with another problem. I recently broke it off with my boyfriend of 3years. The problem Im having now is with one of my close friends who Ive been talking to online for the past 6 years. (im now 23 and hes 24) He and I were always close. In the time leading ... (302 words)

I'm paying all his bills since I kicked him out! How can I get him to take them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hoping someone can help me! I have been with my fiance for two and half years, and for the past 2 years he has had some serious medical problems through which I stood by his side. The problem is that he has had two seperate instances where he was caught having very intimate ... (125 words)

Should I tell my bf I lied to him about liking other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a couple things to ask... ok well, I LOVE my boyfriend. We've been "going out" (not counting all of our break-ups) 2 years. everynight we talk on the phone and sometimes get into fights about me liking other people. I've lied to him about not liking his brother and some... (157 words)

I've been with a guy 22 years older than me for 7 months but he's living with someone and I seem to be his little secret. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well hear goes, I am 19 years old nearly 20 and i have been with my over half now for 7 months. He is 42, i have never minded about the age difference, he also has a little boy who is 2 which i also get along with, but the thing that is really getting to me is he also lives ... (182 words)

Should I try and make the first move.... again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey i have been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and a half. and im 16. one day when we met up he asked if he could kiss me and i said yes. so we kissed. then we kissed about 4 times in that day. now that was about a month ago and now we havent kissed since! :... (165 words)

He's cheated on my twice but I always go back to him because I love him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Im 19 been going out with my partner for nearly 5 years, he's cheated on me twice each were not one night stands but was actually forming relationships with them. When i asked him he lied and i finished it but i always come back because i love him, but at the same time i know i ... (78 words)

How can I persuade him to go out with me and that my ex (his best friend) is not a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I dated a guy for 6months and unfortunately that finished, but now I feel I'm ready to start dating again. Typically for me, I have started liking his best friend and his best friend likes me alot too. There's just one thing standing in the way. My ex. His best frie... (101 words)

We had a disagreement and he's been gone a week! Why is he doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fella for 3 years now (I am 37 and he is 40). A week ago today we had a disagreement, we don't really argue, but my fella does tend to go off and will sulk and maybe not speak for a few days? We do not live together. Anyway, I have not heard from him via txt ... (101 words)

We do everything together, including living together and she tells me she doesn't want a serious relationship! Huh???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - ok.... i have known this girl for over 7 months, we have been to the maldives, regulary have sex, cuddle show affection do the usual couple things, and tell each other we love each other daily, and live together, but she says she doesnt want a serious relationship? i dont know ... (62 words)

Should a guy shave down there? I'm curious to know what is socially accepted.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

- hi, should a guy shave down there??? if so how and when should he.because in how can i put this..adult movies they always seem very neat lol. im curious what is soicially accepted and shuld be done thanks... (41 words)

Have I scared him off already? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

- Ok...last night n this club i met this amazing and great lookin guy (im 18 hes 25) i very rarely feel a connection with someone but with him i did. we instantly clicked. he was sayin that he could imagine himself with someone like me. i was kinda acting less interested than i ... (206 words)

Do long relationships work? I'm moving to New Zealand at the end of this year and my girlfriend is in the UK

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I am 16 and am in love with a girl of 17. We've been going out for 6 months, and are really happy together. However, I've just found out from my parents that we are moving to New Zealand at the end of this year. (We both live relativly near to each other in England) I will ... (103 words)

I can't be his friend when I know I love him but I can't sit on the sidelines any more either. Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing this guy for 3 years now, it has been an on/off relationship because his ex is still infatuated by him and uses there son to get his attention. I havent met his parents or anyone of his friends so on that side of the relationship hes a total stranger, but i ... (315 words)

How can I get my girlfriend to open up more? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hope some of you out thyere can help me with this. Well my gf who ive bin with for 5months and have been best friends with her all my life has just lost her cousin through a long term disease that went un noticed for so long. The thing is she has agreed to be a mum to her ... (326 words)

Is she being emotionally abusive? I'm beginning to think I'm the problem, what do I do here?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 26 and have been dating my gf (20) for 4/5 months now, known her (off and on) for 2 years, first 2 months were great, but things nosedived and have been progressively getting worse the last 3 months. First off she tries to make all my plans and decisions for me, when to ... (853 words)

I lose it when I put on a condom...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - how can i keep an erection when wearing a condom because any other time it is fine?... (17 words)

I get angry when my bf drops everything for his adult children and doesn't do the same for me! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age - i am dating an older man in his 60's. we have been dating 2years, 2 months. he is wonderful to me but he will not get engaged to me. however, if his two older children want him to do something or have a need, it only takes 1 minute for him to respond. it ticks me off to know ... (105 words)

I have a perfect bf but out of no where I've started to think about my ex. Will this pass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'll try to make this quick. I've been totally in love for the last year, moved in with my bf, started talking about marrige, everything was perfect. His BFF died 2 months ago. Since then I havent felt the same. I don't think he's really changed that much (He's still perfect ... (131 words)

I think he's using me and cheating on me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing one have my friends i have no for a while and i think he is cheating on me or just using me what should i do? plez help me out i mean he dont tell me he loves me and he only kiss me 2 times and we have been seeing each other for a while now.... (61 words)

I have a crush on my cousin, should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

17 February 2007 (M) - hello agony aunts i have had a crush for my cousin for more than 2 years now and they are not going away, my problem now is that i have been dreaming about her and she is also going around my head 24/7, is this normal, as i have asked once but got turned down for my look... (101 words)

I believe I still love him, I'm just not IN love with him any more.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I still love him? My husband was in a severe depression for the last 5 years. Then last May I told him I wanted to separate and he promised he would change back to the man I married. He has been trying severely and doing everything I asked, however I find myself just ... (145 words)

She hasn't answered my messages on MSN? Why do you think this is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi! there is this girl at my school and we have become good friends this year. we speak to each other in our classes and i will often walk her to her classes. in thie last week we haven't been at school for exam leave. i have left messages on her msn profile but she has neve... (87 words)

Why does my fiance discuss things with her family without consulting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Why does my fiance discuss things with her family and make decisions with them without even asking what i think or feel,i feel as if i dont exist,should i walk away as i know no matter what i say she will side with them and ignore me for days.... (49 words)

Do I belong to a family of sexually obsessed maniacs? How do I prevent myself from thinking the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I am getting way too much obsessed about sex as i am getting near to my engagement. I don't know whether this is true, but my family members, especially my elder brother and father seem to have a concept of "marriage = abundance of sex" and it means nothing else. I think ... (135 words)

Always been a faithful wife but another man is interested and I'm tempted! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help! i am a married woman who has been faithful to her husband, but the problem is, hes away working for long periods sometimes 2-3 months. its not possible for me to go with him, but i miss him and i get so lonely sometimes, another married man is interested in me, we ... (81 words)

My wife died..and I want to get close to her twin. Would my wife have wanted this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M) age 51-59 - my wife passed away i want to get close to her twin would my wife want us to be happy... (20 words)

He wnats a 2 month break to see if we really love each other but I'm afraid I might lose him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - its the 4th day of our 2 month break.should i sms him and tell him i dont wanto get back together or should i wait and c how i feel at the end of the two months. the two month break was his idea-its to c if we really love each other,i know he doesnt truly trust me but now im so ... (265 words)

How do I tell my parents I want to move in with my LD bf and that we are to be engaged this summer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

- ok i have this bf that i met on the net he lives 200 miles away and i spent a few days at his but my parents thought i was clubbing in Sheffield. he should be coming to stay few days in april then im back to his in may and he back down in july for 2 weeks. how can i tell my pa... (130 words)

I think I 'nearly' had an orgasm but am not sure! Did I or didn't I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

- I was masterbating and I have never had one before but I think I NEARLY had an orgasm it felt like it was going to happen then i coudnt be botherd anymore it was too much effort did i nearly have one?... but i went weak at the knees after it . Was I about to have one ?... (59 words)

What could be some reasons that my boyfriend doesn't want to move in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - What could be some reasons that my boyfriend doesn't want to move in together? We have been fighting a lot and were trying to work things out and that is the reason he told me he doesn't want to move in together. It could be very true that its just that reason, but then... (92 words)

He went back to his ex...I need closure on this! Should I email him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a guy Id been talking to on a dating site. We seem to hit it off really quickly once we'd met and things became prety intense. We were in contact everyday.He spoke about us going away to visit his friends and he met some of my friends and children. I was going ... (145 words)

Body building and muscle toning advice needed! Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I hope this gets posted, I would appreciate some advice on this. I'm 22yr, male, excellent health, average height, 73kg weight, my metabolism is very good, and my body has the potential to look great, I'm slender, but can tone my body, and improve what I have. I know ... (133 words)

I am no longer clingy and I can do my own thing.. yet I still find myself waiting for him to call/text? Why am I this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up a couple of weeks but got back together again. We rowed after something pretty stupid. I used to live with him and used to be emotionally dependent on him. I used to also be housebound. He didn't want this (and neither did I, obviously) so he... (323 words)

How do you get the passion back in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you get the passion back in a relationship. We love each other but she said she has lost the passion.... (22 words)

I panic and freeze whenever my husband wants sex! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i split up last year for four months, i found the sexual part of the relationship difficult. we got back together, i thought it might be ok, i bleed each time we have intercourse and get pains, now my body goes into a panic at the thought of sex with him, i make ... (127 words)

He cheated on me and is now treating me very well. Does he really, genuinely wants me or willhe do this again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Does he really want me?..this time? so my boyfriend cheated on me, but i have given him another chance. But as usual it is hard for me to get over the fact that he cheated. So when i feel like i can't take it anymore i tell him its over, and within the next 5 minutes he is at... (170 words)

Ex bf (whom I love) has asked me to do a 3-some with him and another girl! Should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - query on threesomes. never been there but often curious. My ex boyfriend (who i'm still madly in love with) has asked me to have a threesome with the woman he left me for (they are no longer together). My first response was an emphatic "never". I think this is an emotional ... (98 words)

How do I know if a boy wants to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - how do i know if a boy wants to have sex?... (11 words)

I don't understand his sudden changes in his behavior. What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help! I've been working with a guy I have had a crush on for over three years. We've always flirted, had lunch together and talked about almost everything! Everyone in our law office told me that he liked me... but he had a girlfriend at the time and I couldn't pursue ... (245 words)

When he comes here to visit his family he doesn't seem interested in seeing me! He doesn't seem genuinely interested..any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - If you're genuinely interested in someone, wouldn't you want to see them more often? I've gotten to know a guy for around 4 months now, he lives 4 hours away but we email each other pretty much every day. He's 41, and he did mention that he does want a family of his own in the ... (556 words)

His mother hates me and broke us up. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in love with this guy, and i was with him 8 months last year we got enagaged never had a argument or anything we were so happy but his mum hated me and he lived with her she made him leave me, we still love each other loads and want to live with each other and be a fami... (160 words)

Both married to other people and having an affair. Is this just a disaster waiting to happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - This might take me a few to sort through,to the actual question. Few basics,I am married ,been married 19 years now,been through alot,husband is 10 years older then me,have 2 boys ,both grown and gone now,Husband has cheated on me 3 times in those 19 years,but i alwa... (629 words)

What do I do here? Do I stick with him or let him go for now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am desperate for help. I am depressed and feel lost. I will try my best to make it short. I met a man 1 year ago, who was still living with his wife, and they had a very young baby. He fell out of love with her and was contemplating leaving her for a while. We met, a... (662 words)

I have a major crush on my professor!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

- Ok So I have a major crush on my professor.. The problem is that I am getting horrible grades- I want to go in and get tutoring but its soo hard becuase i like him so much its hard enough to focus. I really care about school and I am just not doing very well in his class- and ... (188 words)

I'm married and this man made advances to me in my job, I went weak... what am I going to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been with my husband for seven years and another man has never crossed my mind, since i started working at this new job, a married man who is older than me and also friends with my husband has made advances at me, at first i just thought it was flirting, but he put his ... (80 words)

should two married people have an affair if they have known eachother for a while, but sparks just started?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - should two married people have an affair if they have known eachother for a while, but sparks just started?... (19 words)

How can I get my husband to spend more time with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my husband seems to not want to spend time with me. he's in a car club and he's always there. when he is home he's not very nice. what do i do?... (32 words)

I fancy one of my STUDENTS... how can I stop my judgement getting cloudy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) age 30-35 - Hi there, i have a little problem regarding one of my students. i think he fancies me, and the problem is i like him too. And because of this, i think my judgement is getting cloudy. I am more leniant with him than the other students, and when he crosses the boundaries i do not ... (152 words)

How can I get over him? He won't return my emails or texts, it as if he's died!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im having a very hard time getting over a married friend of mine with whom I had an emotional affair. After knowing him for 3 years we started becoming closer and ended up going from an odd email to chatting and texting pretty much every day for 3 months. About a month ... (150 words)

I don't fancy this girl physically but her personality blows me away! Should I ask her out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

17 February 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 27 and i've never had a girlfriend. Thing is i know a girl i met in college last year (she's 21), i honestly don't find her physically attractive, but her personality blows me away, in that respect she is truely beautiful. Because i have no experience w... (155 words)

How can I rebuild my confidence and self esteem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, Im feeling kinda confused in my relationship with my boyfriend of two years...i love him to bits, and he says he loves me but sometimes i really annoy him by nagging him and i dont know how to stop!! he says stuff like ' ur boring me' when i complain that he doesnt love me ... (408 words)

Is he still holding out for this female friend or am I still in with a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

17 February 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been seeing this guy for about two months now. He lives about 2 hours away, so we've went out about 6 times. He's quite shy, especially at first, and has only had one girlfriend who broke up with him 3 years ago. After the first date, he was really sweet and asked if he ... (268 words)