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Why do I always go for the wrong type of guy?! It's so annoying!

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - why does it always seem that i always seem to fall for the bad boys? and then if its not a bad boy its a pretty boy but either he thinks im ugly or he has a girlfriend or they are too fresh?? its like im never gonna find someone..and i dont wanna find that ONE person for the ... (84 words

I'm 12 and my brother is SO much cooler than me and I'm jelous! How can I be more like him? I also need advice on girls. Thanks.

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13 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - Plz help. i'm not at all popular at school, btw i'm 12, and never had a female friend before. well, my brother, same age, is becoming mr. popular at school. he has had few friends like me our whole life untill a few weeks ago. we used to be alike in everyway, but now he listens ... (468 words

What's the average number of sexual partners for a 17 year old in the UK?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - im 17 and only slept with 1 person, all my mates have slept with about 5 by now lol whats the avergae for a 17 year old in the UK?... (30 words

My boyfriend is everything I want him to be except I want him to open up more. Now I'm attracted to this womaniser at work even though he's no good for me. Help!

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13 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's sweet, sexy, good looking and everyting he is supposed to be, but he isn't very good at talking about his feelings. At my work Christmas Party i was feeling a bit neglected and ended up having a very drunken kiss with a g... (148 words

How can I put back the spark in our relationship? Its like we're not even lovers anymore! Help.

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - Lost spark. My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years told me that she is considering breaking it off because she feels that we have become more like good friends than lovers. Any suggestions on how to convince her to stay and to reignite the spark?... (46 words

In a fit of anger I slapped him! I regret it so much and I apologised but now he is distant. How can I put things right again?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am in a complicated situation at present. Two years ago I had a beautiful baby boy. The situation with my little boy's biological father hasn't been good, nor was the ending of our relationship while I was pregnant(he cheated). I started dating an old friend of mine whom I ... (307 words

What should I write in his Valentine's card? Any sugesstions?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I don't know what to write in the valentines card I got for my boyfriend.Because he has already given me mine,and he had written a long sweet note plus a poem on the inside. I dont want to write a note that sounds stupid but i want to get the point across that I love him and he ... (67 words

Should I agree to my husband's threesome Idea? Even if I don't want to?!

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13 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for over 10 years now. My husband has this fantasy about having a threesome. I am deadset against it. He says that it burns a whole in his heart and it is something he is going to do, but he wants to do it with me. Will this ruin a already somewhat ... (71 words

I'm only 12 but if he finds out I don't think he'll be interested. Should I lie to him about my age?

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13 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hello. Ok i am having trouble with this boy. I really like him but hes 3 years older than me hes 15 and im 12. Do i lie to him about my age?. I met him about 1 week ago. and we talk on msn and everything. We get on great. But im scared that if i tell him im 12 he wont like me ... (84 words

Out relationship feels like it's getting old... where from here?

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13 February 2007 (F - My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and 2 months. but now i just feel that i don't love him anymore and its just getting old. he gets really upsetwhen i tell him this but i don't know what to do he doesnt drive yet and it just seems our realationship is kinda ... (92 words

We met online, we dated, had a great time but now she's ignoring me! What's going on here?

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - met a woman online a month ago. She's in her early 40's and I'm 39. I was very attracted to her and when we met, I was even more attracted to her. We met to watch a game at a local bar and half way through, left and had an intimate dinner at a nearby restaurant for al... (301 words

I think I am gay

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - The thing is i haven't fancied any girls in ages and i used to be really into girls. i still wana have sex with girls but only ones i have had experiences with in the past bar a couple. Sometimes i think i am just bi but im not sure. When i see a naked guy sometimes i get a ... (154 words

Fallen for my driving instuctor... But he's 30 and I'm a virgin!

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi During my time learning to drive i got on really well with my instructor. Since passing my test we have been texting flirty/dirty messages. i want to take things futher but he is only up for fun and i am a virgin. he make me feel so good and is gorgeous. Help!!! He is in... (66 words

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend spends more time with my brother (who stays over!) than me...

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have a question wich is causing a great problem in my home and personal life. me and my boyfriend live together, i'm pregnant and tend to get emotional. my brother very occasionally stays over at our house for days and days in a row, now the only problem with this is tha... (223 words

I am 12 and I need to know...when should I kiss my gf?

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13 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - Im am 12 and i have a girlfreind but we have never kissed iv have kissed before but i dont think she has and every time i look at her i want to kiss her but im not sure if she wants to when should i kiss her ... (48 words

Is it normal for an erection to point "up"?

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13 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - Im 12 and I know all about sex, but i dont no if it is normal for my penis to go point up when i get an erection is this normal? ... (31 words

We started out as booty call buddies then we became friends... Not I'm not sure what we are!

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - The last yr, Ive been seeing this guy- we started out by just having sex and then we became friends who sleep with eachother. He said he didnt want it to be anything more than that but I was important to him. I saw him again last night. It was a nice evening. I stayed ove... (125 words

Condoms are too big for my penis and it's creating problems for me...what should I do?

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - Condoms, they're all too big for me. My penis is 4 inches big, but condoms are 6 inches if you buy them from shops or machines. This problem became worse when i was having sex and it came off in the girl I was shagging, things got worse wen i shot my cum in her and the cond... (98 words

New bf is kind to me and old bf abused me. Why do I like someone who's was so mean to me more than someone who's so good to me?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - i broke up with my boyfriend 4 months ago he treated me really badly and hurt me physically and mentally. i have a new boyfriend and he is really kind and loving, but i have 2 problems 1) my previous boyfriend was quite aggressive and often went into a rage, and so sometimes ... (242 words

I want to meet my msn, online girl but I'm worried. Has anyone else gone through this?

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi, for the past year or so I hav been talking to a girl on msn, I met her in a chat room and "clicked" instantly. we're both 17 years old. Last nyt I asked her if she would like to meet up for the first time, but im worried that she might not be the same girl i know from ... (151 words

Is my curved penis a result of masturbation?

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - As any normal teenager will do, i masterbate at least once a day sometimes more. within the last 12 months i have noticed that my penis has begun to curve towards me. should this happen or is it an effect from masterbating? ... (48 words

It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he LIKED it, i mean it was just a ... (216 words

I'm really sick of my mum, sick of trying with her...

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13 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - ok my mum h8s me this may seem lyke all 13yr old girls goin through a stage but she really does im sic of tryin wif her any more and i think her and my dad r spilittin up (agen) so ill just live with him is it too late to even bother wif my mum nw she does my ead in all the ... (107 words

I feel so depressed every Valentine's day... Help!

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13 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - every single valentines day im alone, lonely spinster im constntly depressed all the time i doubt the day will eva come wen i find the 1 infact i just know it neva will i know this iz hardly a positive attitude but ive given up now ive just ad enough i mean y is the world lyke ... (128 words

Hoping he acknowleges me on Valentine's Day. Are there any ways to ease the anxiety?

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13 February 2007 (F - Are there any ways to ease Valentine's Day anxiety? Over the years, many bad things have happened to me relationshipwise with boyfriends on that day (is Valentine's Day a popular day to break someone's heart?) so I have built in huge scars. Anyway, I felt so stressed out this ... (104 words

My husband's friend jokes at us about hubby and I having sex and it bothers me! What's is up with this guy?

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - My husband’s best friend is always joking about sex and at times he would say stuff about my husband and I in intimate cinereous i.e. “Oh im can just picture it” and he’s looking at both of us with these dirty sexual eyes and we all laugh it off of course. They are great pals ... (122 words

My gf's behaviours have me confused! Does she see me just as a play thing?

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - I'm confused by my girlfriend. She's very affectionate, cuddles me all night long, kisses me and stuff. Cooks me meals. She talks about us doing stuff in the future too like going away to places. Then when I ever say that I missed her or anything like that she just goes qu... (160 words

Want to tell her, how I feel but I'm afraid if the answer is negative it will affect our friendship ...advice?

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13 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I have been at uni for two and a half years now and i have been living with this girl ever since the first year. We get on very well and are best friends however recently i have really wanted to get with her and have had very strong feelings for her. Whenever we go... (163 words

He's been looking for free sex and escorts..He claims innocence but I found the records! Who do I believe here?

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - dear all. i'm not a native english speaker, so apologies for eventual mistakes. I've got married with this guy for three years and I've found out from phone bills and internet records that he's been looking either for escorts and free sex for a long time. When I've confront... (175 words

I have had romantic feelings for both genders...How do I know if I'm bisexual?

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13 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - I need help with something, it's been bugging me for a while. How do I know if I'm bisexual? I've never had a girlfriend and I've never had a boyfriend but I have had romantic feelings for both at one point. How do I know? and what do I do?!?!... (50 words

My best mate took the guy I wanted! I am so hurt,,,how do I get over this?

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13 February 2007 (F age 22-25 - this guy i liked kept askin me out in the end i gave in we went out. a lot of stuff happened and we finished he wouldnt get over it, he kept sayin he still loved me and i did rethink about gettin back with him. i told my best mate all this she listened and gave me advice the ... (171 words

I'm 3 weeks late with my period, should I take the big "P" test?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - hey am 16 years old and am late for my period by about 3 weeks, i started a new pill and it says that i shouldn't be expected to have a normal period until after the first packet, however i started the packet 2 days after i was already late and am feeling very tired all the ... (79 words

I like a guy and he likes me too, only problem is he friend also likes me so he won't act!

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I like a guy who likes me too, the only problem is that his best friend likes me too, so he won't act on his feelings. I feel like I'm backed into a corner, what should I do?... (38 words

Why is it scary for me to be ill treated by someone?

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - Why does it matter for me if i am in the spotlight and i am judged or criticized by others in public? Many people don't care even if they are hated by many in general, then why should it be scary for me to be ill treated by someone? ... (51 words

This is a bit unusual I know, tomorrow is V's day. (I'm the female) but I want to stay in and watch the FA cup replay!!! How do I tell my boyfriend?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am in a bit of a pickle here! My partner and I have arranged to go out tomorrow night (we try and go out for a meal at least once or twice a week) - now, unless you live in a cave, you will realise that tomorrow is Valentine's Day... It also ha... (177 words

she is the one and I hate myself for being who I was how can I prove it??

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Right where do i start im martin 34 and my girlfriend ended the relationship nearly 3 weeks ago now. She ended it because she didnt trust me and i lied about so many things. firstly i lied about having a job i had lost it but didnt tell i had lost it. Then i pretended i ... (397 words

I like this girl so much but I'm so mixed up in my head. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - I was just wondering if u offered relationship help, because I've got myself worked up over a girl, and i really dont know what to do. I started a new job last year, and one of my old friends from school worked there too. I got to know everybody, and one girl in particul... (1503 words

How can I reassure my boyfriend that I'm not interested in my ex, it's HIM I love?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi there, I have a bit of a problem, I have been going out with my bf for over 2 years, however, I get texts from an old flame who thinks that he might be in with a chance (though I have been clear to him that it's not going to happen) - I have since changed phone numbers. ... (185 words

I feel the age gap is just too much. I want to go out and do things, he seems content to stay at home. I'm thinking of calling it a day... Any advice?

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13 February 2007 (F - Hi, I have been seeing my bf now for neally 2 years. I live with him in his house and have been doing so for about a year now. Thing is he is 19 years older than me, I'm 20 he's 38. He has his career, his house, lived his life etc etc so when he comes home from work at night he ... (268 words

My girlfriend has just dumped me, I think she wants to sample the scenery. How do I move on?

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13 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Relationship has finally ended after 7 months and this is the third time we have split. The day before valentines day and 2 weeks before my 21st birthday. We had an hour chat over the phone. Her feelings no longer exist for me, she has tried hard to get them back but they ha... (194 words

I think my husband has Erectile Dysfunction. Anyone out there had this problem or had to deal with it in their husband's?

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13 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - Has anyone out there got any experience of dealing with Erectile Dysfunction in their husband. Did it take a long time for the husband to admit he had a problem and what treatment did he get. I suspect my husband has got a form of ED, he can get an erection and he can finish ... (187 words

The boobs on his phone were his mates having a laugh he said. But he calls "these boobs" every day!!! What should I do about it?

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - About 2-3 months ago I found a picture on my boyfriends phone of someones breasts while trying to bluetooth an image from mine to his. I calmly asked who it was and he insisted that it was a mate winding him up but I had already called the number and a girl answered. I left it ... (109 words

Are there really principled men out there?

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13 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm a married lady; been married for nearly 10 years now. I'm mostly happy with my husband, and don't want to leave the marriage. Last year i met a great guy i had chemistry with. At the time, we were both honest about our feelings. But as i told him, i'm married and didn... (169 words

I have liked this girl for 8 years but we've never dated. She's just came back into my life and I'm so in love with her but she's taken... Advice?????

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13 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hello, im a 25 year old dude with a problem thats around 7 or 8 years old. Yes its a girl, who i'm truly madly deeply in love with. She's seeing this guy from down the country and lived with him for the summer, that was fine cos it was easier for me not to think about her, but... (148 words

I'm new at all this dating stuff and have never had a boyfriend. I think my boyfriend wants more than just a kiss. Help!!!!

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - I have got a problem with my boyfriend. He is 2 years older than me and had a few girlfriends. But I had no boyfriend before. But I don´t know how to say this to him. And I think that he wants more than just a kiss next time. What should I do in this situation? ... (59 words

Is the traditional male attitude of being a protector in the family is justified anymore?

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - Marriage no more seems to be one man's job for it to work. As i see gender roles becoming quite varied, i wonder if the traditional male attitude of being a protector in the family is justified anymore. I mean i see married women who commute everyday for work and certainly they ... (112 words

My partner wants to give me a ring on Valentine's Day, now I'm not so sure!

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hello. :) Im in a situation where i dont know what i should say or how to approach the situation.I have been in a relationship now for around 18 months everything has been great and the relationship has been fun, Tomorrow is valentines day and we are doing the ring thing, ... (383 words

I'm a guy and REALLY like this other guy but how do I know he's not straight?

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - The school year just started up a few weeks ago, and it started way better than any other beginning of the year. For some odd reason I seem to be quite approachable to the new students and i've already made heaps of friends. But heres where my problem comes in, Theirs this new... (213 words

This guy asked me for my email address but I still haven't heard from him yet. Do you think he likes me or should I forget him?

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13 February 2007 (F - Hi I have been seeing quite a nice guy for only about a month. I am 26 he is 24. A week ago he went to stay with his dad who lives in another country. They don't see one another often. He is there for valentines and he asked for my email but as of yet I have heard nothing ... (104 words

I have good morals and she has a boyfriend. How can I restrain myself?

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13 February 2007 (M age 26-29 - I am currently living in a university dormitory and live on the same floor as a very attractive girl. She and I have many things in common and share similar morals. In fact, we have almost ritually gone to dinner together every night for a while now. Now here's the probl... (156 words

What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues?

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues, and whether you're gay, straight, or Bi, when you're from over protective, anti gay family who expect you to be perfect, and live under the same roof till you get married, and talks about moving out, are not an option, ... (96 words

A question for the male aunts: What do you think about women who give BJ's and swallow on their first date?

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Question for guys (but all replies welcome)... What do you think of girls that give BJs and swallow on a first nite? Would you have less respect for them? Do you think they are just liberated? Would it be the kind of girl you would just use for sex?... (61 words

I think I'm depressed but what exactly are the symptoms?

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - How do you know when you are depressed? What are the tell tales that someone is depressed? and who can you go to, or talk to?... (30 words

Is my boy too young to start puberty??

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - When do boys start puberty? The reason i ask is because my 7 year old son has started getting pubic hair not under his arms! I thought this was a bit too young but anyone who can help would be much appreciated. Thankyou... (43 words

My husbands ex is back living with him!!!

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13 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for seven years and recently separated 8 months ago but we have both decided to work on things. My husband has daughters from a previous relationship. I live with our children and my parents. He has just informed me that his ex that he has ... (149 words

I am so ashamed of how I acted when I was drunk...should I even try to get him back??

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13 February 2007 (F age - I've been with a man for 2 years. I used to live with him,I was drinking which he did not like.,He kept giving me chances to stop and I didn't. One day I went to his house and another woman was there. I got so upset, I went out and drank and had a car accident. He came to ... (158 words

What are my honourable options??

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - OK, here is my problem. I need help. I was married at 18 to my high school sweetheart. She has had many serious emotional problems. She had an affair on me (with a 53 year old, and they lived in OUR house while I was gone) when we were first married (I was working outside ... (1146 words

We live together but I feel so lonely!

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - My fiancee is always playing xbox360 and that is all he wants to do. I'm trying to be very understanding because he just got laid off and we are in the middle of planning our wedding. But i am getting lonely and we live in the same house. He doesn't even want sex anymore. What ... (77 words

How can I learn to let go from those that hurt me? Is there something wrong with me?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - i just need someone to teach me about letting go. i have such trouble doing it... everytime one relationship ends i hold on to so many things.... so much that it sometimes ruins my next relationship... is there something wrong with me? why is it so hard to let go, even if the ... (64 words

He is just so uncaring and he lies...but I love him!

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13 February 2007 (? - I've written before about my problem, but that was couple months ago. I've tried almost everything to resolve the issues my husband and I have, but it seems that nothing is working. I desperately want to work things out with my husband, but I don't know how. I love him so much, ... (470 words

The pain of leaving this man is unbearable but I am scared he still has feelings for his ex-wife!!

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid What should I do? I have been dating a man for one year. When we met he told me he was married but separated from his wife. I met him on an online dating site. He said he had 'stuff' to sort out but he still wanted to see me. He told me he thought I was really l... (700 words

Should I lighten up or is he picking on me??

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13 February 2007 (F - I have been with my b/f for 2 years. I love him but he isnt the best at expressing himself..he will say i love you but i had to tell him i need to hear it more often. He doesnt compliment me..BUT his actions are pretty good. The thing is i dont know if i am too sensitive or... (269 words

My boyfriend is mentoring this other woman, should I be concerned?

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13 February 2007 (F age 51-59 - How do you know when to be worried? My boyfriend of 2 years recently started "mentoring" a young, single college woman. At first I wasn't too concerned. He said he met her a conference he spoke at a few months ago, in a neighboring city where she was attending school... (363 words

My boyfriend talks to his ex but she doesn't know about me. Why won't he tell her?

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13 February 2007 (F - I know my bf talks with his ex gf sometimes, and he doesn't want her to know that he has a gf, he told me that the reason is because he doesn't want her to ask him so many questions, should i believe him, is this just a lie? Is he not telling her because he wants her to fall ... (117 words

I am bi sexual and want to get to know this guy better but I don't know if he is.

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi kaleb here i am really cofused cus' i am a bisexual and i like this really cute guy at school but i don't know if he is a bisexual or not. I am confused cus' he always looks at me and sometimes we make eye contact. Also i wrote a note to him but somebody else found it and ... (144 words

We've been together 7 years and I was going to ask her to marry me on valentine's day but now she's dumped me

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - ok here it goes, my girflriend and i starting dating 6 years ago, she was 17, i was 19, about 4 years ago my gf cheated on me , and lied for a about a year about it, even though i knew , and asked her about it, finally she told me, i wasn't ok with it at first, but i guess i ... (282 words

Why is he calling me the day after we broke up when I wanted to give him some space?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my bf 2days ago, for all those lies he comitted towards me with a reason that he dont want to lose me but all i can decide for that time is to break up my relationship with him,it hurts me so much for i did love him but i dont want to be a fool out of love. a ... (327 words

I'm living with my boyfriend but I kissed my ex. I still love my ex and he feels the same way but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. Help!!!

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - Okay so about 4 years ago i was with the guy (number 1) of my dreams and we got together and were intimate but because i was so young i left him but regretted it from the moment i did it. About a year later he got another girlfriend and i used to cry my self to sleep every ... (208 words

I'm having erotic dreams about my girlfriends teenage sister!!

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13 February 2007 (M age 30-35 - For that past few months, I've had a few erotic dreams about my girlfriend's younger sister. My girlfriend is 21 and her sister is 19. We chat alot online and I sometimes go crash at her place out of town when we go skiing together. I just want to know what I should do... (73 words

I sooooo like this guy in school but don't know how to tell him.

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13 February 2007 (? - Hey once again! okay so there is this guy in my grade that i really like. he has a great personality and is one of those guys that can just make you laugh at nothin, and he's a ball to be around. well, i want to tell him that i like him, but i don't know the right way to go ... (102 words

I'm seeing my ex while she's still with this guy and I want her to tell him.

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13 February 2007 (M age 36-40 - Need some advice please. OK so my ex-girlfriend and I broke up like 9 months ago after dating for like a little over a year. We were serious. Anyway, she broke up with me but we still fooled around and still acted like bf/gf. It was weird for me obviously because I wanted ... (232 words

What is the secret in attracting and nice guy and having a long term relationship with him?

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13 February 2007 (F - Help! iam 19 but have never had a boyfriend. I don't think I am unattractive but I never get any guys interested in me. This is really getting me down as I feel like I want to be in a long-term relationship. How can I attract men and get a boyfriend?... (51 words

Do you think he's checked his email yet or has he freaked out that I asked him to the prom?

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13 February 2007 (F age 26-29 - Ok, in my last question, I asked about a guy from camp. The problem with this situation is that the only contact I have with him now is over the email. I actually invited him to prom a few weeks ago over the email, cleverly(or so I thought) phrasing it like so: "...go to prom ... (174 words

Should you remain friends with your ex after they cheat on you?

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13 February 2007 (M age 41-50 - Should you remain friends with your ex after they cheat on you? After 4 years of being in a relationship with my girlfriend. She met a guy a work. She went out to lunch with him and kept it from me. After 2 weeks she told me about it. My girlfriend told me that she and thi... (163 words

I just gave my bf my first blowjob and it was horrible! Now he wants me to do it again-what should I do?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - I just had oral sex for the 1st time it was horrid and my boyfriend wants me to do it again...should i or not..im scerd if i say no he will dump me...but im in love with him and i dont want to lose him over not sucking his dick..what should i do..please help xxIMLOVEFOREVE... (58 words

I have a crush on a girl but have never dated before, any advice?

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13 February 2007 (M age 22-25 - Ok, so can u help me? i have a crush on a girl in class but was never was involved in anything relating to a girl. In fact, i never even had a friend that was a girl... and i'm an absolute computer geek that programs and stuff, and don't do any sorts. i'm 12 btw, and don't have ... (69 words

How and when do you go about telling a person you've recently met that you're saving sex for marriage?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - This is regarding the other two question here about the 24 yr old guys wanting to save sex until his wedding night. I am also a 24 yr old virgin waiting for marriage, I replied to both questions but now I have a question for them. How do you go about telling a person you've ... (140 words

Why doI crush after this other guy when I love my bf sooo much?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi..I've been with my bf for one and a half years and we are sooooooooo very much in love!! Things are going great, could not be better and he's become even more loving than usual of late, we're so crazy about each other, it's sooooo obvious to everyone and I could not be ... (203 words

How can I get rid of my jealousy?

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - how can i stop being so jealous?... (7 words

Why can't I leave my husband? What is this hold he has over me?

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13 February 2007 (F age 41-50 - my husband and i have been through so many things and as a result we held on tight even when we probably shouldn't have. Now our marriage is barely hanging on. he is constantly angry, goes out almost every friday and often a night or two during the week and most of the time he ... (111 words

I want him to want me! Do I text him every day so he doesn't forget me or what?

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13 February 2007 (F - My boyfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago but I didn't think it would be for good because everytime something happens we say its over but we always work it out and carry on because we really do love each other. (the thing that happened is a bicker about a girl he was texting) ... (541 words

Want to ask my wife's sister out for supper...how do I go about this?

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13 February 2007 (? age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My sister in law is currently living with me and my wife, well over 5.5 years. I am 34, the SIL is 45, and the wife is 42. My sister in law is very sweet. Soon, my wife is taking a trip to London the last Tuesday of next month, and the SIL is scheduled ... (244 words

Any 'handjob' techniques you can share with me?

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13 February 2007 (F age 30-35 - hey guys I've been with my boyfriend about 2 monthes and when he fingers me, it turns me on and i really really like it, but when I try to give him a handjob, sometimes hes shivers and goes Oh and stuff, but it's very hit and miss. can I ask how maybe I could better my techni... (76 words

This guy I saw makes my heart race! Should I make the first move?

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13 February 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi, im a 27 year old female, n i need some help here. I saw this guy in town last year, lets just say he made me stop in my tracks. i was involved in 5 year long distance relationship (a really bad one) but i managed to get out of it. anyway, there is something about him which ... (137 words

Is it appropriate to kiss her on a second date?

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13 February 2007 (? - i wanna go further and kiss this girl. i've dated this girl once before. it all went well. 3 weeks later we are goin again to cinema and to eat out after. i really like her. i ring her twice a week for about 20 minutes. i wanna meet her but she's always busy but now we got ... (109 words

I masturbate 3-4 times per week. Am I the only guy who does this?

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13 February 2007 (M - dear cupid i am 15-16 i masterbate atleast 3-4 tymes a week or evn more, i would like to know how to stop as i cant be telling anyone i masterbate, as they will be taking the piss and also another thing why do people say its disgusting and am i the only boy that does it ?... (64 words

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