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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

All my husband does is watch porn or play video games. I have nobody and am extremely depressed. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My husband and I never have sex and our two toddlers cry all day. I feel like I am going crazy. He's always at work. When he is home he looking at porn or playing video games. I have no one and extremely depressed. Is this normal?... (47 words)

We broke up but I'm pursuing friendship because I still love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I've recently got out of a relationship that I was in for two months. The girl said that she wanted to be single and "right now isn't the best time for me to have a bf." I was kinda feeling the same so we broke up. I can't get her out of my head and we recently went out to ... (136 words)

I want commitment, but am scared of pushing her away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hiya, I've been reading about other people's experiences and hope someone has a few ideas for me. My girlfriend of 3 years went travelling last September for a year and we decided we'd try and stay together but neither of us realised how hard it would be (she was in a lo... (339 words)

Sex with woman on top...does the guy move or does he just let her move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - when having sex and the woman is on top... does the guy stay still and the woman moves? the guy moves? or both? ... (23 words)

I'm married, but I'm sleeping w/ others! I feel so guilty but can't stop. What do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I am married to a fabulous woman but i am sleeping with a woman at work.I also have a lover off the internet and i have another lover who lives close by. I also have a fuck buddy lady who goes to swingers partys with me i sound like a rite scumbag but i cant help it . I... (84 words)

I'm 16, female and I fancy my female best friend! Never felt this way before...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - Hey, Well Im 16 and started a new school quite a few months ago, I've made a lot of good friends and its all going great, but I can't help fancying my best friend who is also the same sex as me, Is this wrong? Im really confussed, shes everything to me, and im not going to ... (107 words)

I have an IUD, so what are my chances I can get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - hi there, i have a iud, but was wondering how soon i could take a pregnancy test after sex anyway, and what my chances are of being pregnant.also if i push down hard on my stomach (near the bottom) and it hurts/ causes pain does that mean im pregnant- i have no other signs / ... (75 words)

Any advice on tattoo removal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 December 2006 (M)

- Has anyone out there had a tattoo done only to find a few years down the line you don't want it. I had one done on my left bicep, a sort of band that goes right round the top of the arm in black. I started to have some lazer treatment on it which really hurt, and it blistered ... (170 words)

Who do I choose..my current bf or the father of my son?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - what is the diffrence or what you will choose between the person which you really have a feeling of love and to stay with him ( which my bf now ) or you want to stay with someone else which your past and a father of your son that you feel only pity because you know that he ... (130 words)

I have a bf, but my son's father keeps following me. I love my bf, but should I go with my ex instead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - what is the diffirence or what you will choose between the person which you really have a feeling of love and to stay with him ( which my bf now ) or you want to stay with someone else which your past and a father of your son that you feel only pity because you know that he ... (130 words)

How do I suss if he's a 'player' or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - Dear All, Would appreciate some dating advice please! I am 33 years old, attractive, successful and single. I've had a string of heartbreaks after dating one "player" after the next... However, I've now just met a new man who I do hope will be different! He's 41, and ha... (319 words)

Could she have gotten pregnant like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) - Okay well me and my girlfriend have been together for about 5 and a half months now than that, well I am 15 and she is 14 (im 16 in 2 months and she 15 in late april), we have never had sex although we have talked about it, we have dy sex quite often but today we were realy ... (215 words)

I'm 13 and he's 19 w/ a gf. We kissed - does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6142 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey, I rele love this boy and he said he loved me. A week ago we kissed, I knew he had a girlfriend but it just happened. He's 19 and I'm only 13. I don't know whether he is using me or if he rele means he loves me how can I tell??... (53 words)

I'm feeling insecure... Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

17 December 2006 (F)

- Hi everyone I feel a nervous wreck at the min and dont know what to do The tears are flowing as i type this I am going out with a great guy He treats me so well I dont know if im imagining it but the last few dats he seems to type sweet words like babes and sexy in his... (198 words)

Two questions... How long until a relationship is "serious"? And how long to wait until the "L"-word?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

17 December 2006 (F)

- Hey people I have two questions i have never really been in a relationship before and now in my 20s am a lil confused Q1 How long is it till a relationship becomes serious I have been seeing him or sixth months Friends for three before that I feel serious about it but won... (117 words)

My husband gawks at every woman but me, stores nude pics on his phone and hides the porn on his computer! Are these red flags?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - my husband had nude pictures of girls stored in his phone and not one picture of me. sexual deprives me for porn, constantly clears the history and cache on our home computer and his cellular phone. stares women down when we are in public and says what she is pretty etc. he ... (64 words)

Is she being honest or is something going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I have been married for 14 years and suspect my wife is now having an affair. She attended a night out with the girls and had arranged a lift there and back with a female friend for midnight. When i woke at 3.30am i found her still not home, on calling her mobile she stated she ... (183 words)

Is watching porn like cheating on your spouse?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - If your spouse believes porn is cheating and you are watching it are you committing adultery?... (16 words)

Is he using me or does he truly mean he loves me? How can I find out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey, I really like a boy and he said he loved me and we kissed, but the thing is he has a girlfriend and he is 19, I'm 13. I really love him. Is he using me or does he truly mean he loves me? How can I find out?... (50 words)

Dad's affair, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - My Dad is having an affair with another woman. I first read some texts on his mobile fone in September and i still find those sorts of texts on his phone now. I hate the way that he is with me and my family every day as if nothing is happening but when I read txts from this ... (107 words)

What can I do to make her love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I have recently been dumped, and am finally starting to get over her, I have tried to find a friend to confide in, and as usual its one of my male friends. recently I met a girl, and now i feel I love her but she has a bf. however I feel her bf isnt making her happy, and feel ... (156 words)

My bf refused to pay for my food. Should I dump him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I ordered a piee of pizza last night and the guy behind the counter looked at my boyfriend and said "it's ready". I looked at him and he looked at me and said, "What... aren't you going to pay?" I felt instantly insulted that he didn't offer to buy me a piece of pizza, ... (111 words)

My ex tried to dance his way back into my life, while his gf was present.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - i was with my first love when for 6 years we met when i was away to turn 15. All in this month he asked my mum about getting engaged to me, we sorted out a morgage showered me with gifts for my 21st and we went away to Paris and had a ball, where he told me he was going to take ... (538 words)

He buys another girl flowers, now he says I am playing games

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age - I have just found about 2 hours ago found out that my partner of 5 years had 2 - 3 weeks ago, a £50 bouquet delivered to a sales girl in a jewellers he bought an expenisive watch from. He told me she had flirted with him. He went missing a few times after he bought the wa... (175 words)

Would it be cheating if you viewed porn and bashed the bishop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Is enjoying porn cheating if you masturbate to it? What if you don't masturbate to it would that be considered as not cheating. ... (23 words)

Internet Businesses? Which one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am a stay at home mother do anyone know any real internet based business that can help me bring a income in?... (23 words)

Can you regain trust in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - It is possible to regain trust in a relationship? How will I go about doing this? I love my husband in this point in our relationship I am trying to glue broken pieces together. I won't it to workout I am just having trust issues. He looks at other women in public places and ... (73 words)

She want's to let her hair down and live the single life! I am devastated! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now, im 22, shes nearly 19 and gorgeous. She has just told me that she has been txting another lad from college more often than she should be. She told me that she likes him because he makes her feel special. She says that ... (177 words)

How can I make 'it' sensitive again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) - Up until 2 months ago i hadnt had a girlfriend in a long time. So in order to relieve sexual tension i masturbated. Me and my girlfriend only started to have sex a couple of weeks ago and ive found it hard to feel it when my enter her. I heard that if you've been masturbating ... (146 words)

Why do others recommend a guy have a 'wank' before having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hi Just a quick random question here... If you are about to have sex for the first time, why do people recommend having a 'wank' before? Is it meant to help keep an erection or something? Thanks!... (46 words)

We have a troubled relationship..and when I try to talk to him he shouts at me and says he doesn't care! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, im 21 years old my boyfriend is 20 we're both at university at the same one we met here and have been together around 19months, recently ive felt he's neglecting me a bit but he swears hes not and that he loves me the same as always and is a great boyfriend to me. He has ... (198 words)

Is it possible to be in love with someone who you feel does not respect you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6334 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Is it possible to be in love with someone who you feel does not respect you? I feel my husband has betrayed me several times in our marriage, In several different aspects. He says he has never cheated but honestly I am not 100% convinced he has not not. I have no trust towards ... (149 words)

Talked to like dirt! Help me be more assertive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My BF's friends talk down to me. How do I get them to stop talking to me in a condescending manner? These last couple of years I have had a problem with people talking down to me. Before that I had no problems. What has changed in personality that people think that they can ta... (80 words)

Not even a teen yet and I'm sooo ashamed I stripped for him, when all he wanted was a laugh!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - hi i'm not even a teen yet and i stripped in front of this lad who i thought liked me when really he just wanted to have a laugh. that was like a year ago and i still have nightmares and visions of what happened. i see him every day pratically and i know he remembers. i 'm so ... (92 words)

Slept with a friend's ex bf and now I think I'm pregnant...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i slept with my ex-mate's boyfriend, she doesnt know but i think im pregnant! what do i do?... (18 words)

In a love triangle with her and her ex bf! Is this worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (M)

- I have to fight for her love, I'm in a Love triangle with her and her ex. but she wants me not to give up on her. Sometime times i feel like its not worth it But i do really love her. I feel like im always losing as it being her ex and they have all the history ... (70 words)

Worried about: my weight, lack of a girlfriend, sex, and shyness... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - Hi, i am worried about my weight, im not really fat or anything but im alight over what i normally should be, i am currently on a diet but its taking its time and i havent had a proper girlfriend, i always worry what girls think and i just want to be able to love a girl who ... (100 words)

Feeling guilty as he was so nice to me and now I have to tell him..I don't want to go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi i have a big problem! im friends wiv this boy (not close friends) but talk sometimes. and i found out he fancies me and i told his mate i think i fancy him a bit too. cos i thought i did. anyway, we arranged to meet up just to get to know eachother i thought but we met up a... (272 words)

I had sex and now feel uncmfortable that I may have been too young to do it. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i am a teenager and i have had sex and am not regreting it but now i just feel uncomfortable a little and as though i may be too young to have done it. i now cant stop thinking about him either. is this normal?... (45 words)

He's my sister's ex bf and my best friend. I really like him..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6330 days ago

17 December 2006 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this boy who is 14 a year younger than me but he is my sisters x and my best friend. I have really strong feelings towards him and i really dont know what to do! Shall i tell him and ruin our friendship or not tell him ... help please... (53 words)

How to tell her she has let herself go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) - Ok, here's a tricky one.....I met my gf bout 2 yrs ago. She's 5 yrs my senior (30) and physically she looks ok. The thing is , I get bothered by the fact that she has been a model in her early 20's, only for a few years, bcoz she didnt like the idea of being used for looks. Now ... (196 words)

I was going to date her but my feelings have changed. How do I tell her this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6332 days ago

17 December 2006 (M)

age 36-40 - I just want a girl to know that i was gonna ask her for relationship although the feelings are no more now..!!! Anybody could suggest something?... (32 words)

Torn between hanging out with two groups of friends..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - i have a good friend who is a girl (lets say emma). i have been friends with her for about 4 years now. she went out with another good friend of mine(rod) for about a year and a half and they broke up about 4 months ago now. they both hate each other and never want to meet up, ... (184 words)

He cheated and we are trying to rebuild trust. Now I find out he's up to it again! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Id like some opinions/advice. My boyfriend and i dated at college but he cheated on me a few times so we split up. Now we are 25 and we have got back together. He started a new job and had a xmas nite out with them and i found he had taken a girls number who was at least 12 ... (135 words)

After being with bad boys I found someone who treats me well. But..I found porn under his bed and I'm upset. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am 22 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year now. I have a low self esteem because I got bullied at school (I didn't wear much make up so I guess the other girls were jealous). I had 2 boyfriends when I was at uni early on who were "bad boys" although ... (177 words)

How can I tell when a man is quite keen on you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

17 December 2006 (F)

- When do you know that a man is quite keen on you? Iv only just met this fella and he is so nice and im besotted with him but i dont want to scare him off,he's very affectionate towards me and has a brillant sense of humour.He doesn't txt me every day but i just want to know how ... (68 words)

How do I ask Mom if I can go on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i recently had unprotected sex with my long term boyfriend and had to take the morinig after pill. i want to go on the pill and i am 16 but i dont know how to ask mam or how she will react. any ideas? x x x... (47 words)

This guy likes me but I'm holding out for another, who shows no interest in me! Whats the best thing to do, here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - There's this guy that really likes me and i also like him but i cant bring myself to saying ill go out with him or anything because theres someone iv liked for over a year who i dont think likes me but i still hold onto hope that one day he will... what should i do im so ... (78 words)

I have a bf/co-worker but I want to have sex with our new good looking boss! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I've been secretly going out with my bf/coworker for more than 2 yrs and everything was fine until I met our new boss. Whom I find extremely attractive. He is in a relationship as well but he doesnt actually live here. He wants me just as much as I want him but i work with my ... (102 words)

Is my husband's gay tendencies show that he's really gay? Help me out..advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I am really scared and confused. My husband and I just had our one yr ann. We have a very good sex life, sometimes we watch porn. The past few months he has made more and more comments regarding other mens penises. He also has a lot of naked men from gay porn sites saved on ... (215 words)

He pays no attention to me and always looks at other girls? Should I let this one go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hey there i need help how can i get my boyfriend to pay attention to me he never does. he is always looking at other girls should i break it off with him ?? ... (34 words)

How do I fend this married guy off, in a polite way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, I am a very conservative person and do not believe in relationships that cross limits before marriage....waiting for Mr right. Problem is recently an ex collague, who is a friend has been hitting on me. He is married so I refuse to acknowledge his advances. Unfortunately a ... (92 words)

Why does my boyfriend orgasm so soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - why does my boyfriend cum so soon?... (7 words)

Instead of a peck, I kiss my ex for a few seconds on the lips! Do all friends kiss like that..is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) - Is it right for me and my ex to be kissing each other on the lips? Cuz we kiss when i leave but its on the lips but "we are just friends.........and its not a peck its a few sec of a kiss. Is this wrong? Cuz my parents think it is cuz we arent dating and "just friends" ... (76 words)

I'm a man in my 40's and I'm still a virgin! What is wrong with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

17 December 2006 (M)

- I'm a man in my 40's and I'm still a virgin (I know it's embarrasing). I have a good career ad I try to get to know people but people just seem to avoid me. Even my co-workers, I know I can be a typical boss and despite people thinking I am happy, deep down I'm miserable. What ... (62 words)

In the last 10 years, all my past gf's have broken up with me! Why am I failing at this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

17 December 2006 (M)

- i don't know what is wrong with me. in the last 10 years (i'm 30 now) I have not had 1 serious relationship. I have had 10 "girlfriends" and I've been nice to them, I've listened to them when talking, I've done everything that a respectable boyfriend should do (give them space ... (105 words)

He unsure about taking my virginity as he hurt someone else in this situation in his past! What can I do to convince him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have been dating a guy for a year and a half now and I am ready to lose my virginity to him (I have been waiting for the right guy to come along, and he's the one). The problem is that he made a promise to himself that he would never take a girl's virginity again because of ... (204 words)

Being friends with my ex gf is messing with my head...should I just let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) - Recently me and my gf broke up 3 months ago, we were together for 3 years and it just ended. Well after three months she starts calling me and asking me if i want to go out and eat with her. I would call her acouple times and she would always tell me that i would get her mad ... (213 words)

Tips needed on how to talk to a boy on the phone. I never have anything to say!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i just started dating this boy and everytime when we are on the phone i have nothing to say. can u help me?... (24 words)

I'm a 15 year old virgin and he's 20. Should I give up my virginity to him to make this relationship better?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

17 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i am only 15 years old and my boy friend is 20 years old i now this relationship is not good..i say this because of the age. well my question is should i give up my virginity to him? i am scared to end up pregnet.but i cant control my orgasums no more..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!... (55 words)

My gf is selfish and lacks self-control. What should I do about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6339 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - My girlfriend of 9 months is a strange one, she acts like shes single all the time, getting over exited and showing me up when were out with our mates (which is all she talks about doing which frankly does my head in). before we got together she was very close ... (274 words)

I've got my arm round her... what do I do next?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

17 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - jus a quick question which only needs a simple answer, when im with this girl i really like and she really like me we get to the point where we're sitting down, i've got my arm around her and shes laying on me. i think she is waiting for me to make the next move but im jus not ... (79 words)

I want my boyfriend to kiss me!

This question has 78 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

17 December 2006 (?) age 30-35 - hey evereyone, i really want my bf to kiss me, but we are still on our hugging phase. i think he wants to kiss me but is to scared and i'm just as nerves. i'm just to shy around him i need to know how to open up! Plus he says he is the cuddley type but hasn't shown... (89 words)

I haven't hear from in 2-3 weeks. I miss him so bad! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

17 December 2006 (F)

- Recently split with my boyfriend and its been about 2/3 weeks and not heard from him! i miss him so bad! xx... (22 words)