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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How do I get these negative thoughts out of my head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 557 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - I am an extreme pessimist but that never bothered be till now, I have a wonderful boyfriend who is amazing and treats me amazing he has never done anything to hurt me, but I have become paranoid in my relationship with my boyfriend due to everyone else’s (such as my friends) ... (235 words)

How can I move on from her!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 563 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) age 18-21 - hey, i like this girl that i don't want to like anymore but the thing is i can't stop thinking about her, has anyone got any tips of how to move on from this girl? please help im 16... (39 words)

I thought we were more than friends..she didn't! She is upset so how do I mend all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I have been in an internet relationship for almost 3 months. The woman lives about 460 miles from me. We have emailed on a daily basis, talked on the phone (since 10/17 over 700 long distance minutes)and we recently met. I received many compliments and aparently misread things ... (265 words)

How do I stop my jealousy ruining our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - I think I have fallen for my best friend, I have never fancied girls before but me and my best friend are really close and I think I have fallen for her. When we are together I'm happy and I love to cuddle her and I want to be with her. She is bisexual but she has a boyfriend ... (116 words)

He's quiet..I bore him with endless chatter! But we seem to argue a lot..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - hi, ok so ive been with my boyfriend for 18th months and its definately love, he might even be 'the one!' (if he's lucky!)... anyway, just concerned about the fact that when we go out together say to the pub or wherever we dont get along as well as we do wen we're sittin on the ... (149 words)

Should I tell my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - should i tell my mam ive had sex im 13 ... (10 words)

Been with my bf 3 years but I'm falling for my boss! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - Ok here it goes. Ive been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years but for the last 6 months ive got a huge crush on my boss.This isnt the only problem, im 19 and he is 9 years older than me. I know he likes me to beacuse we always flirt and text each other and a little while ago ... (162 words)

How can you get a guy not in your clique to go out with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - How can you get a guy not in your clique to go out with you? I like this guy but he is a big prep we talk but I want us to be more. All his friends are too and I just have my own style, and so do my friends. ... (51 words)

My affair ended and I learned my lesson, bigtime!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F)

- im 18 and had a 4month affair with my 35yr old married boss he wanted me to get an abortion so i dumped him but thank god i am not pregnant!that was very scarey! i found out today that his wife is leaving him after christmas because he not giving her money i am so happy i am ... (127 words)

He doesn't know I have clinical depression and an eating disorder! Should I just break it off with him to make it easier, all round?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F)

- Ok so i've been seeing this guy for a few months now and the problem is that i have an eating disorder and clinical depression. i don't want to be someone he has to deal with, if you know what i mean and i think he's getting quite emotionally involved. he doesn't know about my ... (68 words)

Is he coming on strong or is he just wanting to be friendly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 560 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I have been married for four years and have made friends with my husband friends which are also married. Now over the past few years every time we meet up or go to dinner the guy in question finds a way to sit next to me, this in it self is not a problem. i know he makes a big ... (171 words)

Due to conflict with my parents, he's not sure if he should come here for christmas! How do I keep my family and my bf happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - Hi. I've been with my bf for about 11 months now. He's 23, im 21 and this is our first christmas together. However, this holiday is turning out to be complicated and frustrating already. My bf really wants to see me on christmas eve or christmas day. He originally asked me to ... (385 words)

He left for no reason and left me in a lurch. Do I divorce or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - hi! my husbands left me for no real and meaningful reason,he just started making up lame excuses and reasons to leave.he hasnt shown any signs of divorcing me and has now left me in the lurch.ive tried to patch things up,but its like im going in one direction and him the total ... (75 words)

We have been separated for one year and now he wants a reconciliation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 559 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - hello. my husband and i have been separated for almost 1 year now with little or no contact.hes not interested in reconciliation but sent me a anniversary card. what do i make of this?... (34 words)

Found out she instigated a kiss with a guy from work! Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - i have recently found out that my girlfriend of five years kissed another man at her work.For the first four years of our relationship we were blissfully happy and got engaged.This past year i became controlling and emotionally bullied her, threatening to end it many times, she ... (115 words)

I love her but our relationship has had hard times! How do I regain my ground with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 563 days ago

22 December 2006 (M)

- My GF of 4 years (some good some bad times) isn't sure about how she feels about me. She said she was sure last year, but now she doens't know. I am unsure as what to do. I am late 30's she's mid 20's. We do enjoy being together, and she still loves me. She has been very busy ... (159 words)

Whom do I choose? My steady bf or another guy I like but it's uncertain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - Hey, i'm a little confused over what i shoud do. I was seeing this great guy but..he's slightly (a year)younger than me and it kinda freaks me out a bit! is that just shallow? on top of this i also like this other guy(a mate)...which was one of the main reasons I cooled things ... (94 words)

I am wondering wh he takes his cell phone to the bathroom with him? Other females? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 560 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - Am i being paranoid? My bf's friend was calling to see if we wanted to go eat. The the friend said he would call back. A few minutes later my b/f says i am going to the bathroom and i am taking my cell phone...i said why would you tell me that? He says so you don't get mad(... (210 words)

He's 26, aprofessional but he acts like a teenager! How do I stop all my jealous behaviours when he acts up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 563 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Sorry this is a long post. I've been with my boyfriend for 7+ years. I love him very much, but I don't think he feels the same about me. Lately, I've been thinking about marriage. All of our friends are getting married, and they've been dating for a sho... (666 words)

Afraid to tell this boy I like him-what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - i have a crush on a boy but i am afraid to tell him because i dont think he likes me and i might get embarassed what should i do... (30 words)

He's found another gf but still --he won't leave me alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - me and my boyfriend have been in love for a long time but he seems to have changed. he has cheated on me and done stuff that i hate such as touching me (on places such as the back)and annoying me. i dumped him but now hes gone off with another girl and still wont leave me alone ... (59 words)

Told him I am leaving to him sort out his marriage problems-would this be a good idea?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - hello ..I started chatting with this bloke on line he never hide the fact he was married althou we chatted he made comments on just think my rings not we had good mental sitminuation at first and I knew it wasnt going 2 long before it could turn 2 sexual he worked alone at... (233 words)

How can I ask her out again? I was rejected the last time I asked.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 361 days ago

22 December 2006 (M)

age 18-21 - there is this girl i love,when i asked her out the first time she said no,i guess because we were in the crowd.she then stopped talking to me.after me started talking to me.i would like to know how to ask her out a second time and to gain her trust that i don"t want her for ... (62 words)

She wants a divorce, so why does she still want sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

22 December 2006 (M)

- I split up from my wife 7 months ago and have since moved out. We were married for 9 years and have 3 children together. None of us have met anybody else, I dont intend to. We split because we were having communication problems and could not talk to each other. I developed ... (200 words)

Should I say sorry for this kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. her boyfriend of 9months is seein another girl, meaning his goin out places with her and is always round her house. my friend has been upset but they havent broken up yet but today i went to see her and i gave her christmas present. she loved it... (86 words)

My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't need sex, could that be true? He says he's getting old and his body doesn't function right, does anyone have a clue whats really going on? ... (31 words)

Is he avoiding me because he thinks I may end this 10-year affair?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have been having an affair with a married man for 10 years. We have split up during that period but after about 6 months or so we have resumed the affair. He has 3 grown up kids and he doesn't work--retired with a pension. His wife works as a uman resources manager full tim... (292 words)

If your hymen is broken already, does that mean sex won't hurt as bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - is there a way to tell if ur hymen is broken already? i havent ever had sex but i ride horses (daily) and also run frequently is there a high chance it is? if so does that mean sex will be not hurt as much the first time?? cheers and merry christmas xx... (53 words)

I want to remain friends with my ex, how can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - I am in a current 1 yr. loving relationship and have recently kept running into my ex. I broke up with him and tried to speak to him once;he barely responded.I still care about him and would like to remain friends,how should I go about it!... (46 words)

He acted as though he really liked me so why did he back off!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F)

- Help! How could I have been so wrong about his flirting behavior, he knows I like him and backed off? Is there any chance that he will go back to wanting what I thought he wanted? This guy I work with started flirting with me as soon as he was put on my team at work, an... (412 words)

He confessed hes a cocaine addict, he says he's given up, but how do I know he has!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - my boyfreind got sick the other day when i was with him and went to the hospital. he just told me he was having withdrawls from a cocaine addiction he had....he didnt tell me sooner because when we first went out i said i wouldnt date anyone who was doing drugs so he decided ... (139 words)

Any tips for flirting with older guys (I'm 21, he's 31)?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 536 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - Im 21 and a guy that i like is 31. The problem is that he is a manager in one of the departments at my the store that i work at so he's not my manager. But i have been developing feelings for him that i cant explain. Its freaking me out cuz i use to be sick with other ... (220 words)

Renewed my relationship with my married ex-bf! But he's so jealous of my past..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have a renewed relationship with my ex-boyfriend who is now married. We are in a long distance relationship, and he is constantly jealous of my past. I have vowed to be true and indeed have been so, and have changed my life over to make sure that there will be no ... (127 words)

Need some tips on how to give hand jobs!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - I'd like to give my boyfriend a handjob, and we've sorta skipped that step and gone further... but i don't really know how! i mean what do you du? squeeze it finger it what? and what do you do when he cums? help!... (43 words)

I think my BF views me as annoying when his friends are there, how can we be more lovey when people are around ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (?) age 16-17 - Hey everyone it seems like i'm asking the same question each time but my problem is i think my bf is seeing me as annoying. Like at times when he brings his guy friends over so we ALL can hang out its pretty much his friends hanging out and me watching. I bring everyone else ... (127 words)

How can I ensure things work out this time around ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 565 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been together over a year and he just got back from his semester in NZ. well he ended up breaking up with me 2 days after he got back because he felt when we were together he was wasnt feeling it anymore and he doesnt love me anymore. although earlier we ... (101 words)

He used to be a cheat but he reformed his ways... now I've gone and slept with another boy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - Hi. I am a 14 yr old who has been w/ a 17yr old guy who i love and adore( i kno u might think im a little too young to love but i do).. We have only been togther for 3 months but have known each other for awhile before our relationship. When we started going out he was chaeting... (328 words)

Im 16 hes 33.. thing is hes my ex teacher! Can he get into trouble for this!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - I am a 16 yr old girl and i am going out witha guy who is 33 yrs old..the only problem is, he is my ex teacher, i really do love him and our relationship has been going on for about 9 months now, but i want to know if he can get in any kind of trouble? he is not a teacher any ... (84 words)

Do doves symbolize love and friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I am gay. I do not know what to get my boyfriend for christmas, but I thought doves symbolized love and friendship (I got that from Home Alone 2). So that is what I got him. Is this interpretation correct? I have so many other qestions so I will be on here a lot... (63 words)

I feel like a little part of me died when my long-term relationship ended...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I parted ways with my long term partner about a year ago. He hurt me a lot but was honest I guess by constantly telling me that he was not in love with me. I suspect that he had someone lined up after he met me because he was involved again pretty fast. My problem is that I ... (178 words)

I've been making mountains out of molehills!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 564 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Our relationship has been great for the most part. However, over the last year I have been making a big deal over all these small things. I know that these things aren't really worth getting upset over, but I can't help it. I ke... (118 words)

He wants me to get bigger boobs and blonde hair and tells me if I get fat, he will leave! What should I do?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - Hi my boyfriend of 5 yrs wants me to get plastic surgery for my breasts and wants me to bleach my hair. I was always happy with my breast but he says they should be bigger and higher...he also wants me to become a blonde.....which I dont think would suit me...He watches a lot ... (98 words)