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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm stuck in the middle of my friend cheating on my other friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

12 December 2006 (F)

- HI all.. This is really wierd...but I just really want to hear someone's opinion on this: (I'm sorry it's so long) There's this guy who's been one of my closest friends for more than 8 yrs, we met when we were 16. He's one of my best friends, we love each other to bits.... (367 words)

This is the last chance I''ll ever have at love with someone I adore immensly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - Greetings to everyone at dearcupid. ive just literally found this site and im glad i did. for about two years i have had enormous social problems and other things that drove me to severe depression, anxiety but have pushed myself forward cos i dont like to dwell on things. i ... (551 words)

I don't want a heart anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - i fell in love almost four years ago, it was the first, i had never been in a long term relationship before and it hit me like rain on a window pain. i needed teaching every way to act, i found myself in situations that i know know were disrespectful to her and the relations... (421 words)

How do you know if someone is going behind your back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age - how do you know if someone is going behind your back?... (11 words)

Was the gay porn dvd his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months, we get on reasonably well and never argue. The relationship has moved quite quickly and he often mentions having children in the future and that he`d like me to leave some belongings in his flat. Due to past relation... (319 words)

We broke up, my best friend asked if she could have him, I said yes, now it's driving me insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - i just broke up with my boyfriend recently because he was way imature but 2 days after we broke up my best friend asked me if it would be ok if she asked him out so i told her yes. What was i thinking! Well,now its driving me insane! What should i do? from,young g... (72 words)

I ended a brief affair w/ my coworker, but I would like to hear others' opinions about it - any thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I can't believe I'm writing this, my head must be mashed! Well, where do I start? I've been married for 4 years and have a beautiful daughter coming up to three years old. I care for my wife deeply but cannot honestly say I'm in love with her any more. Our sex life ended wh... (321 words)

I have confidence issues and my bf thinks I'm just being moody - it's have a negative effect on us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months, we get on reasonably well and although I don spend most weekends together and I believe we have a good relationship. However I have a few confidence issues which my boyfriend interprets as moods and this confidence has a ... (54 words)

I'm 13, he's 16 - I want a normal relationship w/ him but it's impossible b/c of our parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I have a 16yr old bf and im 13, we cant tell our mums because of the age difference. But his mum found out we were meant to meet but my mum hasnt mentioned anything. We love each other so much and he has not asked for sex once. But i want a normal relaitionship bu... (71 words)

It was my decision to break up, but I can't get over it! Am I going to regret this the rest of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, Really need help! Broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about a month ago. And it was my decision so I know I should get over it but I can’t. He understands me, loves me and believes in everything that I do. Everyone wants a boyfriend like him and can’t und... (263 words)

Happy Holidays agony aunts! Thank you Dear Cupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F)

- I would like to wish everyone on this website HAPPY HOLIDAYS! All the discussions have really helped me a lot, and I have gained much understanding about love and relationships from reading everyones answers and the different perspectives! Has given me much personal confid... (64 words)

I told my friends a secret, and they told everyone and now spread lies about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - my friends never believe me, well here's the thing, i slept with someone i shouldn't have and i completely regretted it so i went to confide in my friends! When i told them at first they promised not to tell anyone and i felt much better after i had confided in someone, ... (281 words)

I don't understand bra sizes - what's the number for? what's the letter for?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M)

- I bought some lingerie for my girlfriend (and a vibrator but I'l0 give her them two items when I leave her parents house). But the one thing I don't understand about Breast size is what something like 34C means. What does the 34 mean and what does the C mean?... (51 words)

I like him and he said I'm special, but he got with my friend! I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - I feel really upset at the moment, because this boy i really liked, got with my friend on saturday on her 15. me and him like muck around, he said he loved me. we've been quite far and i have given him head. but i want more with him, i want him to see me different and no... (133 words)

I like this boy, but there are reasons why I think it wouldn't work - what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I like this boy and people think he likes me and we would make the perfect couple. Problem is 1) my mate likes him 2) when i asked him out for my mate he said he didn't want a gf 3) i told my mates i didn't like him 4) i want him to know i do 5) he seems to like my other... (92 words)

Why would I tell this peson, I didn't love them ...when I really do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - Have you ever told someone who you really loved and said that you didnt love them but you do but you told them that you didnt even tho you do? If you do love the person but you tell them that you dont to there face but you didnt mean it (and i dont mean joking wise) Wha... (74 words)

We argue and I want to leave...but I love him too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - me and my bf always argue a lot and we don't solve our problems coz we just don't understand each other and i can not take it anymore, i feel like leaving him but i couldn't do that coz i love him soo much. what do i do?... (49 words)

New to dearcupid..is it okay to post a question that is quite long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi. i'm new to using dearcupid. most or all posted questions and answers are viewed by everyone, right? is it ok if posting a question is that is quite long? probably even take nearly whole page to write or discuss problem. what do you suggest?... (45 words)

I'm in an abusive relationship, but I want out. I'm afraid nobody would want me b/c I have three kids!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - help. ive been with a bloke for nearly 5 years and we have 3 very young children together (17 months and twin 7 months). our relationship started out great but over the past 12 months ive slowly grown out of love with him for many reasons. he has hit me on 5 seperate occasions ... (178 words)

How can I get him to talk about sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me about sex at all and he gets very uncomfortable when I ask him any questions. I know he watches porn but he doesn't want to talk about this either. how can i get him to open up?... (45 words)

I hardly see my live-in gf anymore - when I asked her to spend more time at home, she said no!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) - I have asked my live in gf to spend more time at home so we can spend time together but she seems unwilling. She said she is going to hang out with her friends once a week and if it makes me mad than shes sorry. she has two jobs so between them and me watching my son and ... (110 words)

School and work is coming between me and my son and I don't know what to do - I'm so upset! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - hya i am just having a few problems my head feels all over the place at the moment i am doing a full time course at college and then hopefully going to uni next year. i also have a part time job with i do on my days off college, but i am feeling a bit unsure now because i have ... (173 words)

I'm in love with him but he's afraid of commitment. I this this fear is also affecting our sex life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Im have been seeing a guy for 6 months. He is jsut getting over a bad two year reltionship and has had a problem committing to me but has been honest about that from the beginning. he is a fraid of doing somehting wrong and hurting me. He has said I am the first person he has ... (170 words)

Two months ago he was talking of marriage, but now says he can't see me in his future! How do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Having a hard time coping. My boyfriend of almost a year broke it off with me. This came as a shock. At first he said that we may get back together. He just couldn't picture spending the rest of his life with me, and he needed time to think. So, after 3 weeks of him saying ... (153 words)

After being married 3 months, I drunkenly kissed another man in front of my husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6336 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I have made a major mistake!! I have only been married for 3 months and already have sort of cheated infront of my new husband! Its was works night out and I got really drunk I cant even remember the night I had difficulty getting a cab home when one finaly turned up I was ... (130 words)

My coworker is spreading lies about me around the office and making my life hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - there is this horrible person at work and she is making my life hell. When i first started to work with this company almost 2yrs ago she clung to me and made out as if she was my best mate, it all started to get a bit scary when she started to copy me...had her hair cut like ... (340 words)

Do men only flirt w/ a woman if he fancies her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - I was having a chat with my partner last night (which turned into a bit of a heated debate) about men flirting and generally whether they only flirt with women they fancy. He reckons that men will only flirt and also speak innuendo with a woman if he fancies her or wants more. ... (123 words)

My gf slept w/ her ex while drunk. We sorted it out, but I still feel upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Ive been going out with my gf for 3 months, we are both 20. Last week she went to a club and got incredibly drunk, met her ex bf, went home to his house, slept with him, and came home the next day. When she rang me to tell me what had happened i flipped out. I am so ... (217 words)

Condoms are ruining our sex life! What can be done about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, Me and my girlfriend are both 20. Shes my first sexual partner and 3 months into our relationship im still getting nervous problems. I always go soft when the condom is brought out. I dont know why! Its really annoying me and even upsetting me as i feel bad, and she get... (183 words)

She says she loves me, but she refuses to stop seeing other guys! Should I let her go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (?) - Please I need everyone's help on this situation. My problem now is that, I have a girl friend which I truely love, and she told me she really love me and the same time have another guy which she loved as well just like the way she love me, that she will not want to lose me nor ... (182 words)

I feel ashamed of my body since he's been looking at porn - I feel this could break us apart

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Pornography - How do I cope, I can't compete Found out my fella has been using pornography when he stays in hotels.....this comes after an event 2-3 years ago when I found out he had been looking at porn on my computer.....nearly tore us appart then, feels even worse now. ... (185 words)

He and everyone else says my partner has not been seeing someone else, but I have doubts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Everyone is telling me that my partner of 6 years has been not seeing this women and he swears on our three kids lives that he hasn't, My heart believes him but my mind has doubts, we have so much to loose if i walk out but will i always wonder if he has been with her? ... (59 words)

I get w/ all the wrong guy and find myself jealous over my friends' relationships! How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F)

- well the deal is i always seem to fall for the wrong man or when i do find a man all he wants is sex. since my spilt with my baby's dad( of seven years) i've lost al ot of my confidance and can only seem to talk to guys when im drunk. i'm feeling very lonley at the moment and ... (76 words)

For the past 2 years it's like we've been going out, but with no intimacy. She said she doesn't want a bf - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - I'm so confused about my best mate. Help. When I came to Uni I met a girl and we got on great. She split up with her boyfriend that christmas and for the next 2 years we appeared to be going out but not actually having any intimate moments. Our best friends and families kep... (171 words)

My husband said he texted another girl b/c I made him feel worthless. This hurt me so much - please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Got very very drunk no I should'nt but I did went home and started on my husband about him text and phoning this girl, he said it started because I made him feel worthless and unloved, I asked him if it stoped coz I found out and he said no he stopped before it went any further ... (180 words)

Shots, pills, patches...what's the best birth control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - birth control Hi, I was wondering if some of the women out there could help me out? I have thought it out carefully and decided I want to go on birth control. However, how do I get it? What's the most convenient, in your opinion? I hear there are shots, pills, patches..... (110 words)

He tells his numerous girl friends that they are beautiful - I feel threatened and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - can girls and boys be only friends? hi, my boyfriend has tons of very close girl friends. as his girlfriend, i feel slightly threatened by their close relationships, especially when i hear him calling them pretty, beautiful, etc. my take on this is that you have close same... (167 words)

This new girl is everything my girlfriend is not - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a girl I truly care about, and we have been together for 2 years, but now this new and interesting girl has come into my life she is totally different than my girlfriend and it intrigues me. I feel bad for feeling attracted toward this new girl and ... (115 words)

What's a good present to give someone who has everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - xmas present? i've been with my boyfriend for about a year, actually a little over, and i am trying to find something amazing to give him. but he has everything he needs, hes up to date on the latest gizmos and gadgets, so id end up giving him something he already has or h... (70 words)

He texted another girl that he wanted to be bad! Should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend always locks his cell phone in his truck and one day he brought it in so i looked in it and he had sent sum emails to another girl saying he wanted to be bad and what did she think of that? and now i dont know what to think of that. can anyone tell me what they ... (70 words)

My relationship seems totally one-sided. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am 19 (turning 20 in 2months) and I have been in a relationship with this guy for 2yrs now. He was the first guy I had a sexual relationship with and I really love him. But for the past 6 months all we've been doing is arguing, well i'm usually the one arguing. I feel ... (218 words)

Why was he afraid to hug me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) - ok my ex and i break up a few wks ago. We remain friends for now. Well he got into a fight with his ex bestfriend/roommate. Of course me being the kind of the caring wonderful person that i am went to comfort my ex. Well trying to comfort him i go to hug him and he hug... (372 words)

I have fallen for my internet guy and I am jealous of his friendship with other girls. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I'm friends with this guy over the net and kinda has fallen for him by accident and I'm jealous of his friendship with this other girl he talks to, I really don't want to be jealous and just ignore the feelings I have for him. Plus I'm quite insecure. What do I do?... (53 words)

He says he needs time and space to resolve a past issue!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. He recently has said he needs a lot of space and time to himself. He is trying to figure out what to do. His head is all mixed up. He says he loves me and wants to be with me. He says he doesn't want to break up or see ... (152 words)

I have a 2 year crush on this girl I have never talked to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - ok, there is this girl at school, ive liked her for like 2 years maybe more, she doesnt know this, i dont think, but i dont think we have ever talked to each other before, what should i do?... (39 words)

He can't take teasing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - What do you do when a guy you like, can not be teased, because his ex-girlfriend caused him to no longer take a tease? I've tried everything...I need help?... (29 words)

My husband of 19 years has a dirty secret and I just can't bear to be near him anymore!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 19 years told me on my birthday that he was at the police station and was charged with abusing someone 17 years ago( which he denies) since that night he told me we have not slept together. I cant get it out of my head. I have put on 2stone in weight, i will not ... (148 words)

Would someone please bang our heads together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6334 days ago

12 December 2006 (?) - I'm a 18 year old girl and I’m fairly shy and wary or getting into relationships because of previous boyfriends. I’ve been single for 2 year and I’m fed up of it and of guys treating me badly. But recently I’ve became quite fond of one of my good mates wee brother (hes 16 ... (195 words)

Is she just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

12 December 2006 (?) - i asked this girl to the christmas ball. i asked over msn. she said she may not go but i still asked her, she accepted but said only if she goes. i was suprised she accepted. anyway is she just being nice? anyway i can ask her at school tomorrow? she's very shy so it's hard to ... (118 words)