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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She said she loves me and really fancies me---help..I don't know what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (M) - Help!! This girl fancied me at a mates party and she tried to call me all the time. She called me and said she loves me and that she fancies me, I don't know what to do. She smiles at me all the time and looks at me a lot. What's going on? Thanks for your help... (72 words)

I'm thinking of taking a break from him--but I fear losing him for good! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

3 December 2006 (F)

- im losing my mind at the moment i fallen for this guy that im dating but there a few problems he has a gf that he claims he gonna dump for me he has a ex that he see more than me and there rumours they are still seeing each other he hardly has time to see me as his gf mum... (117 words)

Mum doesn't care about me. She doesn't even know I'm depressed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - I've been VERY depressed lately. I've been in my room for three days and haven't gone anywhere. I know this is nasty but I haven't even showered. My mom is downstairs in front of the computer all day and has never asked me what's wrong. She just cares about herself. I can't ... (68 words)

My BF didn't want to double-date because it was too "couple-y" and now I don't even know if we're over, or what!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Hi there, Need some help please. I was seeing a guy for a couple of months. I then asked him on a double date (not intending it to be like that but just to go out with my mate and her guy). He replied saying he thought it was too soon to do this and he thought it was to... (266 words)

After I've graduated, should I let him know about my feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Hello everyone. I'm 17, a feamle senior in high school. I took a two-semester class last year with the same teacher. I realized after getting to know him for some time that I felt like I really connected with him. Obviously, this progressed into deeper feelings. This year, I ... (265 words)

He only went in about halfway, but he we didn't have a condom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

3 December 2006 (F)

- Hi I had sex for the first time this weekend with my boyfriend of 6 months (we're both over age so its all legal etc!) It happened as he had an erection and was rubbing me with the end of his penis, and then he kinda pressed it against me and it went in about half way (it onl... (109 words)

He says he's "busy with a new job", but I have doubts...

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3 December 2006 (F)

- My bf has been acting strange all of a sudden. He seems distant. When we first started dating he wanted to see me whenever he could, but all a sudden I have to beg him to see me. He claims he got a lot of work at a new job of his, but his best mate told me that he doesn't have ... (113 words)

Do guys like the first move to be by girls?

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3 December 2006 (F) - I like this guy but he is going out with another girl off and on. I have become friendly with him and want to make more out of the relationship. Should I make a move? In general do guys like the first move to be by girls? How can I say what I want to convey but have it be ... (64 words)

I want to ask her asap within 16hours

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3 December 2006 (?) - i want to ask my friend to the christmas ball, how can i ask her? i'll see her around school, but i dunno how to ask her alone? how should i react if she say's no? how should i react if she say's yes? please help i want to ask her asap within 16hours which is when i see her. ... (60 words)

How do u know when a teenage boy has an erection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - hi how do u know when a teenage boy has an erection?... (12 words)

Why dont men get erections when they are ballroom dancing

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3 December 2006 (F) - hi i went to see this show where 2 people are doing ball room dances and all sorts of dances. there was a thing at the end where men could go up and dance with the lady dancers. i am wondering y the men dont get erections when they are dancing those sort of dirty dances wit... (86 words)

MY BOYFRIEND IS PRESSURUNG ME

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - IM 13 AND I HAVE HAD SEX BEFORE AND IT WAS A HUGE MISTAKE AND I DONT WANT TO DO IT AGAIN WELL AT LEAST NOT FOR A WHILE LIKE YEARS ANYWAYS MY BOYFRIEND IS PRESSURUNG ME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT DO... (43 words)

He makes promises he doesn't keep

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3 December 2006 (F) - My partner and i got married in September but i dont think i did the right thing, as i am really unhappy and he makes promises he doesn't keep please help me i dont know what to do?... (38 words)

He says he can't come when he's drunk

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3 December 2006 (F)

- I need some advice from the guys especially. . . me and my boyfriend have a good sex life but I'm a bit worried and want to know if he's telling me the truth. He sometimes doesn't come when he's drunk and blames it on that. Is it me doing something wrong? How come he can have ... (90 words)

Whats he playin at ?

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3 December 2006 (F)

- hi all, i like this lad who i go to school wiv he is in the same year as me nd he has told my mate tht he fancies me we flirt alot and i think he likes me but we havnt had a chance to talk lately at school so we mainly talk on msn but when i talk bout me and him he always goes ... (81 words)

Can Love Alone Make A relationship Work?

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3 December 2006 (M) - Can Love Alone Make A relationship Work ? Hi ! I'm a young guy, just finished Uni, and I really have some issues about my love life that I hope some of you can help me untangle. Here's the situation. I'm in a long-term relationship with this nice person that I met ab... (442 words)

I had sex in the shower

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3 December 2006 (F) - I had sex in the shower about a week ago and since then the inside of my vigina has been hurting whenever i do anything sexual. I was wondering what it could be and how can i fix it?... (39 words)

Three time I have been dumped and told "can we be just friends?"..Is it me-did I do something wrong? What?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Story about Unwanted person OR Can we be just a friends.. And its starts all over again and again and just cant see the end of my love story .. I mean its not only one case! it always goes fine for several months , we have dates , our company of friends , picnics , sex.. ... (169 words)

My man used to be all over me...now he's cooled off and I don't know what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Hi I've been with my man for over a year now. He used to be all over me and give me kisses. Now, I can't even remember the last time we ever made out. I see him everyday but he never kisses me that way. Whenever I try to makeout with him he pulls away or just ends the kiss. I ... (77 words)

My twin sister is having too many one night stands and I am very concerned for her...what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - hi im 18 and i really worried about my twin sister, she has now slept with 7 people all were one night stands and 6 out of them she has taken the morning after pill! its getting ridiculous she says it will never happen again but it keeps happening! lads usually take advantage ... (82 words)

Can anyone tell me how to keep a conversation going? Tips appreciated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

3 December 2006 (M) - hi can anyone tell me how to keep a conversation going? in school i have a free period and go to a spare class where a girl i like goes. we are good friends and get on well but i never know what to say to her. i will ask her a few questions and she will reply and ask me a ... (81 words)

He wasn't sure if he was in love with me or not (long post)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - If someone said to you after you had sex together for the first time that they weren’t sure if they were in love with you or not, what would u do given that is only 2 months into our relationship? Stay with them in the hope that they fall in love with you or split up with ... (1113 words)

I dont want to push it with him

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3 December 2006 (F)

- hi ive been split from my boyfriend for 6 weeks,(after 2 yrs +) we have sort of kept in touch (the odd textmessage) he wanted to 'split up'rather than take a break but said he still cared alot for me, and wasnt certain is was the right decision, also his head was messed u... (178 words)

I have recently started to develop these feelings

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3 December 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and i have never been in a sexual relationship before. i have recently started to develop these feelings. i was just revising for my mock science examination coming up and it was biology and there was a question on sex and sperms and things. and i got excited. i just... (76 words)

I still hope he really does love me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - I am in love with one of my great friends whom I have known forever! We tried dating for awhile but he was still too immature and I ended it. Recently he moved three hours away and he blamed the distance on the reason we are not together. He tells me that he misses me and ... (144 words)

I'm thinking about the every three month shot

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - i'm sixteen. My boyfriend and I started having sex a few weeks ago. He's been using a condom, but I think I'd feel better with something that's more effective so I don't get pregnant. I'm thinking about the every three month shot. Anyone have any input, or a better choice ... (62 words)

My husband swears up and down he has only been with me

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3 December 2006 (F) - I have been married for 7 years, when i was 3 months pregnant i found out i had trichomoniasis. my husband swears up and down he has only been with me(yeah right). how else could i have gotten it? ... (40 words)

I still dont know what its like to have an orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Hey, with my partner for 6 years, im not the very confident person but people have said im really good looking towards my partner. he's attractive to me in a bit of an abstract way. my partner isnt well endowed, and that never bothered me at the start, we both agreed its not ... (196 words)

The guy is always askin about her..n it hurts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - hiya, i have liked a guy for over a year and a half but he is 5 years older then me..at a party last year he ended up meeting my cousin who at that point in time had a boyfriend..i let the guy and my cousin talk coz i thought it was ok..but after my cousin broke up with her ... (203 words)

She wants me on a casual basis

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3 December 2006 (M) - hi heres the deal.im 43 my gf is 40.we have been serious for 19 months till oct when she said she needs a break and wants to be free to date other men.ive given her a 5 week break in which the only contact has been from her.she called me yesterday and says she still cares ... (152 words)

She is very open with her other boy mates, but not with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

3 December 2006 (M) - Im 15 and i live in cornwall uk, ive been going out with my gf (15) for 5 months now and i love her to bits and i think she loves me alot (well she tells me alot, the thing is im quite shy and shes not with the touchy feely kind of things (ive learnt from past relations ships ... (169 words)

She brings her father into the picture and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6352 days ago

3 December 2006 (M) - My partner and I have been together for a year and a half mostly long distance. I have finally moved and got a place close to her. The problem I have is that she is back and forth. She lives with her parents (she is 48) and her mother has alzeimers and was recently put in a ... (334 words)

He wants total control of the relationship

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3 December 2006 (F) - I got involved with my best friend of 5 yrs. last dec. he was sweet, kind, gentle, and in need of attention all the time. We would go everywhere together when he was here on the weekends. He was also married but had been apart from her for 2 yrs. The agreement was that if he ... (479 words)

I dont think i can tell him I'm pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6346 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Hi I have just found out i am pregnant, and i am absolutely thrilled a little bit scared, but still, so happy i suppose thats only natural however, it was not planned, i wasnt on the pill, but i got drunk and ended up taking a risk and having unprotected sex now... (275 words)

I fancy dying my hair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6350 days ago

3 December 2006 (F)

- I have VERY VERY pale skin, at the minute I've got a light brown/dark blonde hair colour. But have got bad winter roots and it doesn't look very good. I fancy dying it. But can't decide what colour? I've got grey/blue eyes in case you were wondering and dark brown eyebrows. ... (55 words)

Anyone got any tips to be popular with guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F)

- Anyone got any tips to be popular with guys? And to be their mates? Most of my friends are mainly girls, and i think that if I let guys get to know me a bit more, they might fancy me more. Anyone got anytips?... (44 words)

I love this site so much, it really helps

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - hi i was the one who write a letter here last 2 days ago, and i am the one who is with a boy friend who got a family which is all professional., i just wanted to say thank you so much to miss sally, it gives me feel better thanks a lot. and more power to this site, i love it so ... (70 words)

We have mention seperation and she has left that decision to me

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3 December 2006 (M) - Hi, My wife had a brief afair with a married man at work 6 months ago. She says she's not interested in him now but I find that our relationship is more strained than before. I feel that my wife dosen't love me although she says she does but she dosen't show much affection ... (203 words)

He gets unwanted erections when we meet

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - I'm a woman at the beginning of my forties receiving private English classes from a 29 year old American guy who is employed by a company to teach ESL. I have found out that several times he gets unwanted erections when we meet at my home. He suddenly crosses his legs, moves ... (165 words)

He seems very driven to meet this summer

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3 December 2006 (F) - Nine months ago i met a guy online and since then we have talked on msn daily, sometimes for hours on end. We have alot in common, we don't get in fights, and we understand each other. A little over a month ago i emailed him my true feelings, that i liked him but i thought it ... (271 words)

We are having sexual problems it hurts her virgina

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5971 days ago

3 December 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are having sexual problems it hurts her virgina when we having sex, is their any tips for me... (22 words)

I know he loves me but why can't he admit it? Tell me--what can he be thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid i saw my ex the other day since not seein him for over a month , and yes you guess it i fell so in love with him again. i got there and he kept looking at me and he asked to kiss me and cuddled me and stuff. i felt so loved and everything was right again. he made... (234 words)

Sent gifts, cards to this woman I like but she still doesn't love me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (M) - ther is a woman i have liked for the last 3 years i have don all that i can think of. i have sent her b-day gifts v-day gifts but she still dos not love me. what do i do?... (42 words)

I'm a mess over this but who do I date--Steve or Jeff?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - When I was on vacation last year I met this guy, let's call him Steve. So Steve and I hung out and really liked eachother. We exchanged e-mail addresses and all that, and have been talking for the past year and a half. And I really, really, really, REALLY like him. The only ... (325 words)

Dating a guy for a month and I can't get anything affectionate from him...except a hug! What can I do?

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3 December 2006 (F) - I am 32 and dating a guy for a month - he is 31 - we have been out to movies and he met my parents but he won't do anything more than hug me...and i have to ask for it...and when he does hug me its quick...other than that whenever we come into physical contact he says ... (84 words)

He is dating another woman to 'test' our relationship? This feels wrong..should I walk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

3 December 2006 (F) - My (now ex) boyfriend and I have been together for a little over six years, and until about four months ago we had been talking about marriage, children, and settling down together in general. Out of nowhere he then told me that he was unsure about everything, and he thought we ... (308 words)

If he's sincere then why doesn't he ask me out for a date? Possibly afraid of rejection or what?

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3 December 2006 (F) - May I know if a guy kept sending love signals to a girl yet the girl didn't respond much in return will the guy feel dishearten, it happens more than a year already till now, is this guy sincere but how come he don't dare to ask the girl out for a date? Is he afraid of rejectio... (82 words)

I thought I could let her go after she got married but I can't! What should I do?

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3 December 2006 (M) - She just got married with this guy, but we still having strong feelings and we can not stop caring and feeling for each other. I'm 34 and she is 23, we met one year ago and we dated for 8 months we felt in love, our work made things difficult, but we took a chance. I am suc... (592 words)

Everytime he wants sex and I don't, he gets mad at me then goes to bed. What should I do?

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3 December 2006 (F) - I took my boyfriend's virginity and he keeps telling me that we need to slow down, now everytime that he wants to have sex and I don't, he gets mad at me then goes to bed. What do I do?... (40 words)

Friends with this great guy but his gf is driving a wedge between us! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

3 December 2006 (F)

- Right, since I started university I've become close friends with this guy. It's the first time I've been really good friends with a straight guy and I'll admit that I did have a pretty major crush on him at first. I don't have a crush on him any more (he's too much of a fr... (339 words)

Been dating my boss for about a month. Lately, he has been avoiding me..has someone else come along?

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3 December 2006 (F) - my story is like a fairytale. im 18 and my boss is 23.we have been seeing each other for about a month in a romantic non-professional way. i really like him, not because he is rich or to get a raise, i just like him for he is sincerely. but lately he has been avoiding or ... (88 words)