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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm pregnant with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - I found out a month ago that I was pregnant with my ex who has also been a close friend for a long time. After we ended the relationship we still spoke on the phone daily, slept together, got jealous when either one was with someone else and so on. He got a great job and was ... (238 words)

I have a huge crush on my housemate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) age 18-21 - Hi, I have a bit of a dilemma. I'll give you some background information. I'm a student and I share a house with 3 girls, 2 guys and myself (I'm a guy lol) . Over the past few months I have started to develop a huge crush on one of the girls in my house and I'm not sure wha... (562 words)

Has he bailed out on me already?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - How long is a reasonable length of time when you haven't heard from your boyfriend to presume that the relationship has finished? We went out on Wednesday evening and it didn't finish on the best of notes. I was quiet all evening as the situation we were in was making me feel ... (228 words)

I'm thinking about him... should I go back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - I went out with a lad on and off for 3 and a half yrs. We split up in august and recently i cant stop thinking about him and make myself really upset. I know he'll have me back but i dont know if i want him or if its just a relationship i miss. I dont wanna go back and realise ... (76 words)

I feel sick whenever I eat

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - i dont know if this should be here, so sorry if im wrong. but following up on my earlier question about the ex, other things have happened. but its nothing to do with him, its me. this is a health related problem and im very scared. when he broke up with me i didnt eat for a ... (147 words)

How do I cope with this hurt and pain and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - A week ago I found out that my boyfriend of seven years who is also the father of my one year old son, has been cheating on me for a whole month! I moved out of our apartment and I've been miserable ever since. To make matters even worse, he's not even sorry for what he did. ... (233 words)

Will me friends make fun of me if I ask him out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 10-12 - I really like this boy at school and I know that he likes me to but I am to chicken to ask him out.I am afraid that all of my friends at school are going to make fun of me what do I do?... (45 words)

Does he really mean that he is sorry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 546 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

- last night me and my bf had our first argument (not bad after 2 months of dating) he meant to meet me after work and after standing outside for 20 mins i rang him and he said he was at work and he forgot to tell me. this upset me so we had a little argument. but a hour later he ... (109 words)

What does dating mean??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - I was on a date with this guy and he asked me: Do u want to start dating? What does that mean exactly?... (23 words)

Will he be back??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

- I wrote recently bout my boyfriend of eight months not seeing me much. I then had a chat with him where he told me he loved me and wanted a future with me and wanted to live with me one day. Then only six days later he has finished the relationship, saying he really loves me, ... (157 words)

My new man and I just don't click sexually! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - I had sex with my new boyfriend a few nights ago and I didnt enjoy it. Ive just come out of a long term relationship (3years), infact I kinda left my X for him. Ive spent months dreaming about our first time together but it didnt go as well as I hoped. He's very inexperienced, ... (136 words)

I found out he is still married and talking to his wife behind my back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - oh my God, it's happened to me. what do you say, cupid, about a 42 year old man who lied to me about being 'amicably divorced', then sob story when i found out he is still married, promises 'he's mine' and 'he's prayed for me'..then i go to call a freind and he's been on the p... (136 words)

I am so shy and it is causing my loneliness...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 567 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

age 18-21 - I have no one to love, I feel so lonely. There was this one guy That I really liked, I gave him my number, that ended becuase he never called me. I am a really shy girl, and I find it hard to talk to any guy I really like, I am 19, and me being shy really holds me back. It's... (153 words)

His parents are splitting up - how do I help him get through it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - ive been going out with this lad for nearly 6 months and we are in love. but the other day he told me his mum and dad are splitting up and he is getting really upset about it. my mum and dad split up when i was 18 months old so i don't remember much but what can i say to him ... (75 words)

I am about to lose my virginity and I need tips on how to make it spectacular!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 559 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

- Hey! Im 17 and about to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of 6 to 7 months. Any tips? I want to make the first time good for both of us! (I know i cant expect fireworks or choirs singing 'hallelujah' chorus) But i want to make him and me feel really good! We've got protecti... (78 words)

"Hooking-Up"What does it mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

- What does "hooking up" mean these days? Long ago, being "hooked" meant being married. But now, does it mean immediate physical relationship?... (24 words)

I like him but I don' t do well asking a guy out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - I think I like my best friend. I don't get on with girls so I hang around guys. I hang around my best friend a lot. We laugh together. We're nearly in all the same classes. He's so cool. What should I do? I don't do well when I ask a guy out and I pretty sure he doesn't feel ... (66 words)

Not sure if I like him..because we're good mates or if i really do like him to date. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 570 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

- Im 15 next monday. I have kinda liked this guy for a while but ignored it coz we are really close mates. When i first met S i knew he was BI. However since i've known him he seems to of got more gay by the day.We get on really well and i sometimes think he's flirting but thats ... (118 words)

I have an identical twin sisiter...so if a guy likes me, does that mean he could like her, too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 570 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - hi i have an identical twin sister. we look very very alike and people get us mixed up a lot. if a boy fancies me then does that mean he fancies my twin sister aswell? i really really hope not. ... (44 words)

My BF just doesn't notice me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I’m annoyed with my bf but also annoyed with myself. Went out with some friends (N and his girlfriend, S) the other night. S said to N ‘have you noticed anything different about me?’ To which N said ‘yes, you’ve dyed your hair, etc’. Anyway, she was really pleased he noticed ... (226 words)

I am letting past issues affect my present dealings with friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 545 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 months and I are not communicating our feelings at all. We went out with his friends (another couple) on Weds and when his friend and I were teasing him, it seemed to me he got defensive although he says he never does. Anyway, I didn’t say anything for the ... (825 words)

He is acting distant with me but still says he loves me! Should I believe him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - well my boyfriend says he loves me and he says he cant love me more than anything and because im only 14 and hes 18 he can go out clubbing and he promises me he wouldnt go out with anyone else, well yesterday he sed aload of people from work were dragging him out from a night ... (165 words)

I'm developing feelings for our 18 year old neighbor...how can I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 553 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - my parents recently went to florida for a week leaving me and my sister home.. we had to stay home for our sports. my 18 year neighbor stayed with us the whole week.. my neighbor and I are very close and i find it very easy for me to talk to him about basically anything. i feel ... (269 words)

How do I know if my husband wnats to be with me for a lifetime?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - How do I know if a man (my husband) loves me to such an extent that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me? ... (27 words)

I don't want the typical short lived, teen relationships, nor do I want an intense long term relationship...but I miss having someone in my life! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - Between the ages of 12 and 15 I had a couple of childish relationships that last about a week, and not much happened other than kissing and holding hands. About this time last year when I was 15 I ended up falling for my friend's ex, and we've had a very intense on/off ... (205 words)

I like this girl from church but don't have a clue what to say to her! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I've met someone I really like through church and I think she likes me, but I'm not entirely sure; I'm quite inexperienced. Anyway, I've known this girl for a few weeks now and I think I need to act soon if I don't want to get labelled as just a friend. Trouble ... (155 words)

I'm a teacher. Do you think it is wrong that bossing students around turns me on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 409 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) - I am a bit of a power freak and I enjoy bossing people around. I am a teacher and I love my job, sometimes I do go little too far but not often. Thing is though, the power thing relates directly to my sexuality. I enjoy bossing students around making them do whatever I want ... (165 words)

Was it a man talking in the background or a woman with a deep voice? Could she be cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (M)

- As My Girlfiend Cheated On Me or am i being silly? last night my girlfriend planed a night out with some work friend's. she went out 9.30pm she was going to the night club down town. i agreed she could go i give her money 2 go. at 3am the night club shut she txted me at ... (289 words)

Can a relationship continue when only one person has a sex drive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - hi my question is it reasonable to expect a relationship to continue when only one of the couple has any sex drive my partner wont disscus it its been a problem for three years now we are both 39 years old.... (41 words)

Do you think he likes me back or am i just annoying him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - Hi, Theres this guy i really like but his really shy and it takes a while to get him talking but once he does its ok but i dont c him much and everytime i do c him again its like his too shy to talk to me all over again! He did once invite me to catch up with him which i said o... (123 words)

My husband of 27 years looks at shemale porn. Should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Should I be concerned if my husband of 27 years has been looking at shemale stuff behind my back for the past 2 years? We have only had sex 2 times in 2 years... (34 words)

I just cant get my ex out of my mind. I so desperately want to see him and tell him I love him. I just dont know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - I just cant get my ex out of my mind. I seem to spend so much time during the day thinking about him and when I wake he is the first thing I think about, and my heart just aches so much. It has been 4 weeks since I last saw him, and 3 months since we were together. I love... (224 words)

Why do I always think about him? My partner (his bestfriend) is wonderful, he is everything a girl wants and I sit here wondering, why do I think of my old friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - I have known this guy for 4 years, he is attractive and has the most beautiful personality. We became very close and there were a few 'spontaneous' moments where he would 'kiss' me when I was unaware. I thought he was interested in me and all as everytime we went out on the ... (236 words)

Is it ok to date my father's half brother's son?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - I need to know if it is ok to date my father's half brother's son? My dad and his dad have the same mom but different dads. Not that it makes a difference but they weren't raised together. They were raised on two different sides of the island. Please confirm this question for ... (54 words)

He says he's too tired and lazy to kiss me? what is going on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - he says he's too tired and lazy to kiss me? what is going on??... (14 words)

I asked him out and he said no! I can't get over him-any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 10-12 - i really like this boy in my class and he flirts with me a lot but when i asked him out he said no!i can`t get over him what should i do? from,young girl in need... (51 words)

I have a gf but every other girl I chat to on IM...falls in love with me! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) - HELP! i have a girl friend (my first) and now every girl i talk to on IM falls in love with me.i even tell them that i have a girl but they dont care some have evn told me the want to have my baby but im only 16! and now my girl is getting possesive and says im cheating... (72 words)

What are the signs that a shy guy likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - What are the signs that a shy guy likes you? ... (10 words)

I like her but she no idea! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) age 16-17 - what should i do if i really like this girl, but we dont talk hardly ever, and she has no idea i like her... (24 words)

Attracted to my best friend,,but she has a bf and has told me to 'leave her alone'. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - i'm really attracted to my best friend. she's straight and i'm bisexual. when we was drunk about 2 weeks ago, we ended up in my bed doing heavy sexual things, but we didn't have sex. i think she regets it because she doesn't act the same around me anymore, it's like as if she ... (146 words)

Am i gay or bi or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 541 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - i am really confused, i only fancy gay or camp men, i only watch male gay porn, but women sometimes really turn me on, is it because i like what they are doing or because i like them? can i ever be straight if i cant fancy straight blokes? there are all sorts of blokes out ... (162 words)

Do I have some fun with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I split with my ex 6 years ago but we have always remained very good friends. I still love him and he says the same. We have been through a lot together since we split, losing parents, losing partners. We have a child together. The problem is he lives with someone else and ... (210 words)

Is it just me or is my mom being really unfair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 571 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) - Ok..is it just me or is my mom being really unfair? ever since i dated my bf she's been going psycho. The only reason i think she doesn't like him is because of his nationality. She picks fights with me everyday, and each time i go out with him. She says ever since i met him ... (249 words)

I fancy my friend... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (?) - i really fancy my friend. were both 16 and go same school. i really want to ask her out but fear she'll say no and i wont be able to accept that. it's come to a point where i think about her day and night even in my dreams. i asked her to the christmas ball she said yes but ... (228 words)

I have no confidence to talk to girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) age 16-17 - I need help, i am 16 yr old (M), haven't had a relationship in a while. the thing is i can never find anything to say to girls when i first meet them and because of this i dont have the confidence to go up to them and talk. i really wanna get over this shyness coz there is ... (79 words)

What can I do to stop a married man coming on to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

10 December 2006 (F)

- Its this guy that I work with who keeps coming on to me because he think he love me. but I dont see him that way and I have told him that so many times he is also married with 3 kids. I told to talk to god about whats going on with him to see why he is thinking about going out ... (105 words)

A few drinks and a dance or two with my ex bf has made me question my relationship with my current bf! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - I went out last wednesday night with a few mates from college one of them happened to be my ex bf. We met up in a pub my current bf came out too, When i first got in there i felt so awkward especially since me and my ex dont get on very well atall only since my current bf has ... (398 words)

We are both married men but bi curious. We have had sex but I think he's in denial. Any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 569 days ago

10 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - I am a 42yo male. I've been struggling with same sex attraction for years. But I had convinced myself it was something that could be supressed and never acted on. I've been married for 10 years and have a child. Over the last 3 years I've become very close friends with a guy at ... (564 words)

I'm fed up of always coming last behind my sister in everything! How do I cope?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 440 days ago

10 December 2006 (M)

- I'm jealous of my older sister. I'm 17 she's 20 and she got 4 A's at A-Level, seems to be doing well at Manchester Uni doing Maths and she's popular(and has a boyfriend). Meanwhile I'm struggling with my A-Levels, and I'm getting beaten up everytime at school (the teachers ... (102 words)

Is something wrong with me? Do girls just like bad boys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 573 days ago

10 December 2006 (M)

- I'm 19 and I have a problem. I seem like a nice and smart guy (and I think I'm attractive) = I have good confidence and people think I'm funny. But whenever I start meeting new friends that are girls when I have the courage to ask them out they always say it's best we stay ... (76 words)