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writes: Is it possible to be in love with someone who you feel does not respect you? I feel my husband has betrayed me several times in our marriage, In several different aspects. He says he has never cheated but honestly I am not 100% convinced he has not not. I have no trust towards him. I also the love him the way I once did. He thinks I am stupid. He looks at other women when we are in pubic places. He looks at porn knowing it makes me feel like crap about myself. I don't think he is attracted to me. Yet, I do think he loves me. I am sure I love him more than he loves me. Although, I don't think he respects me. I journal everything down to release my feelings of resentments towards him so it does not play out in our everyday life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): I would have to say get to a couple's counsellor PRONTO.
Without trust, your marriage will fail.
You both need to address some issues and do so with a mediator present.
You need some individual as well to help you better cope, deal and sort out what you are feeling and help guide you to being stronger and love yourself.
So work on getting stronger so you can see this with new eyes and therefore make a decision with newfound strength and respect in yourself.
Please let us know how things are going.
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