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writes: I have recently been dumped, and am finally starting to get over her, I have tried to find a friend to confide in, and as usual its one of my male friends.recently I met a girl, and now i feel I love her but she has a bf.however I feel her bf isnt making her happy, and feel that I could.I went out with her drinking, and got a bit drunk, and slept with her, and I know that it was not the right thing to do. and I feel really bad, as does she, but we both admit, it was amazing.I feel like I love her, and she says the same to me, but i do not want to hurt her. I need advice, how do I deal with this, how do I stop our feelings taking advantage again?how can I protect her?
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reader, Adrian.Dion +, writes (18 December 2006):
 ...in my opinion, just continue in being a great support system to her.
If her current relationship continues in a negative direction, you maybe a great source for her to fallback on.
You seem to really care for her, although she's involved. In saying that, would you ever question your trust in her, when you two finally become a couple?
She hooked-up w/ you, cause the grass was greener. Are you concerned that she would do the same, if things didn't progress as nice as it started?
I'm not trying to be negative, just a thought. My advice.. Keep on being, everything he's not: an encouragement to her happiness.
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