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Not even a teen yet and I'm sooo ashamed I stripped for him, when all he wanted was a laugh!

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Question - (17 December 2006) 8 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi

i'm not even a teen yet and i stripped in front of this lad who i thought liked me when really he just wanted to have a laugh. that was like a year ago and i still have nightmares and visions of what happened. i see him every day pratically and i know he remembers. i 'm so scared hes gonna tell people and people will call me a slut. i just can't say no to boys i don't no whats wrong with me. i am so ashamed of myself.

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A female reader, CurvesAndConvergence +, writes (1 January 2007):

if he was going to tell somebody he would have already, i wouldent worry about that. but ive done some things in my day that i regret and would do anything to go back and change them. but you have to remember that you cant..as far as your nightmares..cry it out, get over it & move on. thats what i did. sounds harsh, but its the cure. try finding someone that cares for you and doesnt pressure you into anything.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006):

hey, you should learn to say no to boys, u remind me of myself, i was 11 when i lost my virginity because i couldnt say no to boys. wait untill the right person comes along before you do anything with a boy. you are still a kid and you should not be forced to do anything you dont want to. any boy that doesnt take no for an answer is not worth your time, the boy that says "when you're ready" is worth your time. hope i helped you hunni xxx

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A male reader, dorfmeistersfan +, writes (27 December 2006):

dorfmeistersfan agony auntMaybe when you don't see him on a daily basis or in your life, the dreams and nightmares will go away.

Why he laughed, probably b/c it was VERY FUNNY!

Apparently, you weren't very mature in expecting any possible outcomes of this experience.

Just move on to the interest of something else special in LIFE!

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A female reader, XxXLoveAngelXxX +, writes (26 December 2006):

XxXLoveAngelXxX agony auntTheres no need to be ashamed about this. We learn from our mistakes and everyone makes them! When I was 12 I was doing stuff with guys and yeah, I regret it, but I know now that I'm not gonna do it again! You need to know who you trust and who you don't. Don't fall for charms and be wary in the future. If i helped, add me to you favourites! Good Luck XxXxX

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (20 December 2006):

AngelofLove agony auntYou made a mistake: trusting the wrong guy. you are not alone.

This guy is the one who needs to feel ashamed, for being a prick!

Learn from this and be more cautious from now on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

hey, seriously don'y worry about this everyone makes mistakes. i have i lost my virginity when i was 14 but i'd done stuff like foreplay at the age of 12 . i'm not proud of it but it's done now you can't change the past. i'm now 17 and i have been with my current bf for a yr and he knows about my past but he knows i'm not a slut. sometimes it will be difficult as it was for me. but prove your not like that and people will see it. 1 other thing NEVER do as a boy says again i was in the same position. you should never feel like you can't say no. if you don't want to do anything you don't have to. Saying NO stops the name SLUT being stuck on you!!!

Take Care and i hope this helps you

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you for helping me. I feel like someone cares, and that feels nice thank you ! :D

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A female reader, scared16 +, writes (18 December 2006):

scared16 agony auntyou must forget about this sweetie. every1 makes mistakes. i woz exactly the same as you when iw as younger and evry1 called me a slut but u gota work hard 2 make people realise ur not. if it was a year ago and he hasn sed nethin then the chances r he won't so just relax n it shud all b fine x x x

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