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writes: Hi, i am worried about my weight, im not really fat or anything but im alight over what i normally should be, i am currently on a diet but its taking its time and i havent had a proper girlfriend, i always worry what girls think and i just want to be able to love a girl who loves me the same, i want to be able to care for her protect her. i worry sex is a problem and i have never had sex im 17! what can i do? plus im shy so that is my main problem.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Try to build you self esteem, by reading self confidence books.
A relationship is more likely to last if the girlfriend likes you for the person you are not the physical looks.
But if loosing weight is what you want, then exercise as it is more effective than diet, swimming is good and requires less motivation than gym. Do it for yourself!
Do not worry about being 17 and being a virgin, the right girl will find this irrestible!
Good luck
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (19 December 2006):
 You're 17 and you've never had sex. So! It doesnt really matter. I'm a girl and I don't think that's anything to be ashamed of. It doesn't hinder your chances of finding a girl who loves you. It really doesn't. So don't worry about that side of things.
Great you're on a diet trying to look better and improve your health. Diets take time before you see results but if you keep at it you will see. Be patient.
Plenty of girls like shy guys so maybe one day that will come in handy. You're only 17 and you still have plenty of life left to live so don't worry about it so much. ok?
One day you will find the girl who is right for you. Don't rush to do things because you think it is what is expected and because everyone else is doing it. You'll only end up with regret. xx
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