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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm too scared to tell this guy I like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- well i have liked this guy for a while now when i began to like him he didnt want anything to happen between us we didnt really know eachother that well then but now we are so much closer i dont want to tell him i like him incase he doesn't feel the same and our friendship ... (148 words)

Flirting with my cousin's husband and guess what! now I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i've been flirting with my cousin's husband on the internet and now i cant stop thinking about him. he keeps making suggestive comments and says that if he wasn't with her he'd slept with. every thing is so mixed up. what can i do? he's 34 and i'm 22. help... (50 words)

Love my bf but snogged another guy. How do I get this other guy off my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hi guys I've been going out with my boyfriend now for about two and a half months and I'm pretty sure im in love with him. He treats me like an absolute prince and is so loving and caring to me, its unbelievable. However on xmas eve, while out with work I snogged this lad... (131 words)

He's been acting a bit distant almost like he's losing interest! what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. We're still somewhat young and already have plans for the future, and for Christmas he got me a promise ring. Things were going well up until recently, He's been acting a bit distant almost like he's losing intrest, I've ... (115 words)

I have a new bf...How do I explain my lack of sexual experience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I have been with my new boyfriend for 3 weeks now and i really want our relationship to work for the both of us, but feel that the trouble with us is that he is 15 years older than myself i am 36 and have only had a few sexual encounters in my life, he is divorced with 1 child ... (126 words)

He will not introduce me to his parents. This is driving me nuts because we have been together 7 years!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Here is my issue and I'd love some feedback on it. I've been with my current boyfriend almost 7 yrs now, living together for 6 and engaged for 5yrs. My problem is that he will not introduce me to his parents. This is driving me nuts because we have been together so long and ... (294 words)

He's gorgeous..we hit it off but--he doesn't call me! How do I want to make him want to call me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- hello, first of all happy new year and merry xmas... well, I'll get straight to the subject, I work as a mass com teaching assistant in uni, and there's a guy who works as an architect engineering assistant in my uni as well...I recently broke up with my bf of 8 months cos he s... (272 words)

How does one deal with unconsciously saying hurtful things your other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - how to deal with hurtful past incidents? How to deal with unconsciously saying hurtful things your other? How to deal with your other half when they become angry?... (30 words)

He says he's gay and can't love me the way I want him to...how do I get over him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Im in love with my best friend. He says he is gay but I think he is bisexual. He is always around me, calls me all the time, texts me everyday and when I hang out with him.. he plays with my hair and kind of flirts. He also was trying to cheer me up and th... (152 words)

Is our age gap inappropriate? Advice please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I've recently started a relationship with a girl who's 15 - and I'm 19. We're pretty well exactly four years apart, and she is definitely that best thing that has happened to me as far as relationships go. I met her through where we work. Obviously, I post here b... (224 words)

My past pain with the first wife is ruining my second marriage! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age - when my first wife first started seeing other men my so called best mates tried to cover things up to the point they would go out of their way to take me out so she could be with her lover the two people were my best mates or so i thought when i found out what was happening i ... (152 words)

He has baggage..a lot of it! A bitter ex wife, a pregnant ex gf...who are constantly harrassing us! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i have finally found what i need in a man...but he has some baggage i am unsure of how to deal with! he is married but seperated...due for divorce in feb. he has two kids...the mother causes havoc because i am in his life. he was also seeing a girl before he met me...he left ... (103 words)

I am in love with my best friend...but he is gay!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am in love with my best friend. The problem is that he is gay. He always calls me,texts me and hangs out with me so much which is harder for me to let go of my love for him. What should I do?... (49 words)

My LD fiance may have cancer. What can I do to help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - What can I do? My fiance just told me he might have cancer not sure they are going to be doing more tests after new year, He had been feeling way he does for about 3 month now and hasnt went to see what was the matter. He said didnt want to wait being busy we have got distance ... (452 words)

Is there something I can do or say to get him to put a bit more effort into our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now, when we first got together i knew he would never leave me and if we were to split up it would be me splittingup with him now it feels like im the one who wont leave and it will be him! his parents or friends dont know about his ... (250 words)

Fallen for this man online--he cheated on me and I need to know..what can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i have fallen in love with a man online, and we havent met yet, we have been talking for 7 months now, i feel we really conect well together. recently he cheated on me and had sex with another woman. he asked me back and i told him he gets one last chance. he seems to have ... (117 words)

I want to be with him, but family committment keeps me here! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- Well, i'm in love with a guy. We are the same age. The only problem is he lives in England and i live in Scotland.(i was born and raised in England, Bolton) We met on holiday in malta 2 years ago where i found out he lived in Bolton. We have kept in touch and everytime... (172 words)

What are the tell tale signs that a guy likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - hey hope everyone had a good christmas! what are the tell tale signs a guy likes you? i mean like what does every guy do when they like a girl? have a happy new year! xx... (43 words)

How do I say no?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I have a problem with saying no to boys. Last week this boy said he liked me and he was a great friend and i said i liked him to, even though I didn't cos I felt sorry for him.I'm scared in the future I might do something i don't feel happy with cos i can't say no, i don't no ... (114 words)

I'm not sure what he really wants...so am I wasting my time here, on this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6314 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i met this guy a year ago and since then we have become really good friends we speak regulary on the phone and internet i just don't know how he feels as sometimes he says that we should be together and other times im not sure of what he wants i have explained that if anything ... (90 words)

I constantly think about her and I'm going out of my mind, here! Advice please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6318 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Can anyone help me? I find myself constantly thinking of someone I work with. She's in a another department so we don't work majorly closely but I'm really worried about awkwardness if I try anything. We exchange a lot of emails between each other when there ain't much work ... (129 words)

Xmas day with my long-distance b/f was perfect - presents, good fun and good sex... now he's left me for another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for two years, he works away.I never saw the distance as a problem because I love him dearly, looked forward to being with him and we both shared the travelling.He said he felt the same, but because of his current financial situation him being in ... (148 words)

Am I overreacting to my girlfriend's lesbian bombshell?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - I have been involved with a girl I really like for the past few months..She seems like a great person and we seem like a great fit..I am 30 and she is 25..We have the same morals, beliefs, sense of humor, ect..Last week we were talking and she told me that she had been with ... (214 words)

Had sex five days ago could I be pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i had sex with my boy friend 5 days ago and came of the progestrion only pill on monday can i still get pregnant through this. I am having a period started on tuesday morning and i still on today if we have sex tonight could i get pregnant and how long will it take beore i ... (63 words)

Why doesn't she want to have full sex with me... after two whole years!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Dear cupid, why doesn't my gf want to have full sex with me? i am a 21yr old guy and my gf is 20, we have been going out for nearly 2 years and get on great except with sex. we have being doing oral and masturbation and nearly everything except for sex since about 2 months into ... (140 words)

My bf hates kids and I think I'm pregnant! How do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - hello my name is fiona and i think i might be pregnent and i dont know how 2 tell my boyfriend cuz he hates kids and advice... (27 words)

My friend moved in on a girl I liked. He says he didn't know about us.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

29 December 2006 (M)

- hi guys im not sure how i put this question but here goes.i started talkin to this girl ages ago we got to be pretty good freinds then after a while we got more serious . then a m8 of myn that didnt know about me an her started asking questions about her i told him bout me an ... (369 words)

He's much older and uglier than I am, and provides her with 'security'. How do I persuade her to date me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - hi. i recently confessed to this girl that i've feelings for her. she said shes confused, dazed and also seems like a dream to her. but the problem is she has a boyfriend already. but she says her boyfriend cannot connect emotionally with her, doesn't truly understand her, and ... (196 words)

My bf says he's bored with making love to me! I feel so self-conscious! How do I deal with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age - My bloke of two years said i don't do enough during love making. I thought everything was ok. He says i don't touch him as much as i used to do. I just lie there and let him do everything. It's not true and has made me feel so conscious. We do always seem to end up with him on ... (122 words)

I like my bf's brother...should I take this further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend, and we love each other. but ive been talking to his brother and hangin out w/ him and i like him, but i don't know if he likes me and if i should get w/ him? ... (42 words)

Why do many females, that have been raped--become sexually active after this crime agianst them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5210 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Look Im at with young females so they ask me this question " Why does female became very sexaulity active after they been rape. So can someone please answer that question for me.... (33 words)

I creid a lot when he went away and now, I worry..that he may think I'm too clingy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- Hi everyone Hope you had a good xmas Ok my prob is iv lost a lil self confidence since iv started seeing my bf Its not that he makes me feel like that The opposite He is sweet and caring and tells me how sexy I am He has just gone away on holiday and i miss him loads We ... (235 words)

Do you think he hs just lost interest, or genuinly wants time alone? Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 months. I was cautious about getting into anything because I thought he was just after a bit of fun, but anyway things progressed and we have seen each other every day since the start of June this year. I moved house back in september and ... (357 words)

He is ignoring my calls and my texts! Should I dump him or did he just 'not' get my messages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- My latest relationship has been bliss, but recently after Christmas, he hasnt reply to any of my Texts or emails, he is never on msn, And i cant get through to his home phone, I have been thinking of dumping him, And i Changed my mind, part of me thinks he got the message, but ... (76 words)

He holds grudges against me for a long time, even after I say I'm sorry! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend has a lot of past issues and we never really argue but when we do, if i say anything nasty, which is purely heat of the moment, no matter how much i say sorry, he carries a grudge for ages, saying that i've really hurt him. i don't understand... (51 words)

We broke up and he still teels me I am sexy! He has a new gf and I don't like this. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - I dumped my boyfriend 3-4 weeks ago and he just wants to be friends now but once he almost strangled one of my best, best friends (he claims it was an accident) and he has whispered to me that i am sexy in class. and he has a new girlfriend, What should i do?... (55 words)

Is there a toll free number I can call, for my relationship problems?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - is there a free phone number i can call to talk to someone about my relationship problems ?... (18 words)

We broke up 6 weeks ago but he can't afford to move out. We're in limbo and this is so hard on me. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend and I broke up 6 weeks ago because I couldnt cope with him having female friends. We stayed in the same house as neither of us could afford to move out. He has always said there is a possibility at some point we can get back together and I've clung on to this ... (546 words)

Iv'e fallen for Richard but he prefer this other horrible girl. I'm heartbroken. Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F)

- hi well i was just wonderin if you could help, you see i had completely fallen for this guy and i knew he was the one and i was a lot of the time depressed because i thought it would never happen. but me and him were starting to flirt so much i actually asked him out and he ... (169 words)

Went to the store-came home and caught my bf with porn! Is this a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - i sure can use some advice. I went to the store early morning and told my boyfriend of 6 years i would be back in an hour. i got to the store and realized i forgot my coupons. ran back home and there was my boyfriend in the middle of the living room. p*rn in a dvd on the tv and ... (104 words)

When I am dating women, I'm not sure what I am doing wrong? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

29 December 2006 (M)

- I need some help. I have no problem asking girls out, but I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. For example (I've only been with 2 girls, firs tone was typical high school one which was just holding hands, and I'm 19) the last one lasted a month we went on 4 dates, talked, went to ... (139 words)

She's 7 months pregnant..does anyone know of good sex positions to try?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6143 days ago

29 December 2006 (M)

- Me and my wife are expecting our first child (she's 7 months pregnant). Lately she has been asking me if I still find her pretty, attractive etc. and I say yes of course I do. Though if she was convinced then she wouldn't keep asking. I've concluded tht it isprobably because we ... (77 words)

What does it mean when a guy tells you that he likes you more than he should? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy tells you that he likes you more than he should? confused by this, it makes no sense, help!... (25 words)

I have a bf and Like porn on the internet! Am I addicted to it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend and i search porn on the internet.does this meen i'm cheating? i'm very ashamed of this but it makes me feel better, i've only been doing this since i found out he had been flirting with other girls and kissing them. everytime i get a phone call he says who ... (173 words)

We got together to talk and it went further. Do I tell my bf or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend which I love. He is the best thing that has happened in my life and I am so happy with him. There is this guy from my past with whom I had a 5 year old relationship. We are best friends and we sometimes fooled around and well I have never been capable of ... (248 words)

MArriage is about to end because...she had the front flap of her ear pierced!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - I need some help and advice as I think my marriage of 7 years is almost at an end and I'm not sure what to do. Let me start with some background - been with my wife for almost 11 years now and she's known for pretty much all those 11 years that 2 things that I absolutel... (518 words)

His response to my text message really freaked me out! What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - I have a friend who texts me every day and we talk about anything. He's told me that he really likes me before and I told him that I like him too as a friend, but yesterday I sent him a text message saying; " okay I just got to the gym, I'll text you later when i'm done" and ... (93 words)

Does my attraction to this other guy mean--I don't love my bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am a long distance relationship- was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years before he moved overseas in July. I hate doing the long distance thing but I'll be moving to be with him early next year. When he first went it took me ages to get used to not seeing him, and I missed ... (303 words)

I am 14, and showing no signs of puberty. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - im 14 years old and show no sign of puberty. what should i do... (14 words)

Where do I go? To my bf I'm unhappy with or this other guy that likes me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I been together for a year...someone from my past came back into my life on the day of our 1 year anniversary and well me and the guy been talking everyday since..when i ignore him or act like i dont care about what he has to say he always finds a way to make ... (165 words)

Are my kids being ungrateful or am I expecting too much from them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age - am i expecting too much from my children age 10 and 14. just had christmas on my own as the ex did not want me to visit. i had my 2 the w/e before and we had our christmas, i had to ask did they enjoy the w/e and the presents. the little one, got a phone on xmas day and i only ... (122 words)

I found out my wife lied to me, so many years ago and can't get through this! Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

29 December 2006 (M) age - My wife and I have been married for 15 years after two years of dating. Recently we received a card from a woman that revealed my wife had an affair with her husband for over a year while she worked for him. The relationship happened before we were dating. However, my wife ... (174 words)

How can I tell if I'm good in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi my name is Lizzie and I'm 21 and I'd like to know how can you tell if your any good in bed and if you're a good kisser. My friend recently got told she was a quote "lousy f***" and i thought this was horrible and it started me thinking have others thought that i was a no ... (139 words)

Should I tell my guy I slept with his best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - well my bf and i have been together 3 years. And i was at a party one night, and slept with his best friend. I really regret it n still love him. So do u think it'd be best to tell him or just leave it alone?... (47 words)