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He pays no attention to me and always looks at other girls? Should I let this one go?

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Question - (17 December 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey there i need help how can i get my boyfriend to pay attention to me he never does. he is always looking at other girls should i break it off with him ??

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A male reader, guylostinlove +, writes (19 December 2006):

By the way, I just wanted to add another observation that came to me. My girlfriend's cousin ... he had a girlfriend who was hot by every standard .. face, body, etc. I would rate her a 8/10. But, when I was around him, I noticed he was always making comments about how hot the girl on tv was or some girl that was around. I believe a few times he did this in front of his girlfriend too. I didn't hang around enough with him to notice if he ogled women on the street. But, I think sometimes these types of actions/comments are a natural persona. Other than those few comments I heard from her cousin, he was a nice guy in every other way.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2006):

willywombat agony auntI am gonna be really harsh with this. He is a no mark....if this is his behaviour all the time and you are not getting anyhting out of this relationship, dump him.

There, is that what you wanted to hear?

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A male reader, guylostinlove +, writes (17 December 2006):

If you've had a talk with him about this before ... try reversing the tables on him. When you're out in public, try giving another guy a look or comment like he does with the girls. I'm sure it will probably catch his attention. Especially if you make it look nonchalant enough like it's a normal act for you. Sometimes, nothing like doing unto others to make them pay attention/notice.

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