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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Married, but in love with a work colleague

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I'm a married man desperately in love with a female working colleague for 2.5 years now. I never tried to seduce her, but I've been as nice as I can to her. I'm treated nicely, but not really corresponded. I hate living with my wife but I love my kids. My wife thinks she's my ... (67 words)

He's been taking viagra! And I didn't know it..I'm devastated! Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - when i first met my boyfriend(18months)i found out that he was taking viagra of course he denied this,as time moved on for us i didnt think he'd need to take it as we have a great sex life(so i thought)i found viagra in his pocket accidently,this devestated me all this time the ... (72 words)

Is it okay to go for this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 566 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 22-25 - ok answers based on UK law if possible please. as i live in the Uk am a 22 year old man and yesterday due to many random events i got a girls number. she is 16. and here in the UK age of consent is 16 so its all legal. there is nothing atm, but i sense a big possibility of ... (66 words)

I sometimes wonder what it would be like to have sex with my good gal mate...is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 18-21 - can a guy and a lass really just be mates?? im really good mates with this girl but i sometmes wonder what it woud be like to sleep with her. is this normal??... (34 words)

I am a man and I'm deeply concerned that pornography is affecting my relationship! Am I an addict?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm concerned that pornography is affecting my relationship. Over the last few years I have got into a habit of browsing internet porn, 3 or 4 hours a week. I had previously thought this to be harmless, but it seems to be devaluing sex with my partners (current and pr... (304 words)

He had a vasectomy but...I want children with my husband and it's depressing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am 34 years old and I have been married to my husband for 10 years now - he is 51 years old. I have brought up his 2 daughters and both have moved out now. My husband had a vasectomy and has tried a reversal about 5 years ago - this did not work. He has a... (230 words)

Does thinking too much leave you paranoid ? How do I stop this over thinking all the time?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid I am in my teens and am 16 years old and i seem to be worrying and thinking about things every single day and i dnt know how to stop, i sometimes cry with because of thinking to much, my main concern now is "does thinking too much leave u paranoid and end up in a ... (101 words)

I split with my boss and things are awkward at work! I miss him, too, which is making things worse! Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F)

- hi im 18 i broke up wit my boss 2weeks ago(he is 35 married with 2kids) nobody ever found out about the 4month affair thank god!!!i cannot quit my job coz i signed a contract for 3years so i will quit when the 3years are up but its so awkward at work coz he gives me real evil ... (279 words)

I feel like I'm too controlling in this relationship - any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 22-25 - I am in a relationship right now going on 7 months. I am 21 and she is 17 and a senior in high school. I see her every single day. When i don't work I am at her house. When I am at work , She comes up and is with me the entire time because my job allows this as I work kinda as ... (231 words)

I like her and want to get to know her, but never seem to have the chance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (M)

age 22-25 - hi i am 23 , i got this girl i like , i see her at the bus stop everyday but i need to make converation with her but it hard for me cause she is with friends or it crowded bus stop , also i want to know her more but dont know what days she work or finish work also i do not know ... (95 words)

I think that he may like me, and if he does what do I do/say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - Well...there's this guy in my class and I like him. And I think he (may) like me...well i just dunno. He will talk to me in the corridors and in registration and it seems like sometimes he looks my way. The other day, I pretended one of my best mates was round at my house and I ... (127 words)

My parents don't get along with my bf and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - Hi. I am 21 years old and have been dating my bf (first ever), 23, for almost a year. We've never had any problems or fights or anything, and i know he has a good heart and he treats me well. He loves me very much and i love him too. The only problem i have with him is that ... (526 words)

My guy doesn't understand his actions affect other people! What's his deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - Is my man's behaviour because he has AD/HD or because he's an asshole? He seems to not understand that his own actions effect other people, and he has serious social issues, in that he'll be best friends with someone, but as soon as they start to piss him off he'll just stop ... (96 words)

My man is ignoring me and goes to the bar every night! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 10-12 - Is My man leaving me? He won't have sex with me, won't kiss me, won't touch me, He doesn't want me to touch him. he goes to the bar everynight after work and lies to me about it. I confronted him about it, so now he really won't talk to me and won't answer his phone. Wouldn't ... (179 words)

I don't know how to deal with my ex being in a committed relationship w/ someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - I've been ok with my ex bf (the love of my life) going out with girls, because I know him, and he can't hold a relationship (which is why we're not together), so I know that none of these relationships mean anything to him. But he's just started dating a friend of his he's ... (110 words)

He doesn't keep promises and only meets for sex! How can I get out of this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have a long distance relationship for 7yrs. He only calls me when he's in Durban, we meet only for sex. He promised weekends away but it never materialised. I know I'm wasting my time but each time I breakup with him he begs me to come back to him. I love him and cannot ... (65 words)

My best friend is hanging out w/ another girl but not inviting me. I'm feeling left out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - i have one friend well i have others but one best friend and we do everything together anytime i go out with someone else she will come or if she does i will come, its lyk we just come together we're very close but recently she has been going out alot with this other girl who i ... (104 words)

I think he's playing me and his baby's mama! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. I'm very suspicious of my boyfriends behavior. I see him around five times a week, but it isn't consistent. For example I'll see him on Sunday all day. But on Monday I won't hear from him at all. And it will continue like this all week. ... (110 words)

I want to go all the way, but no girl has ever wanted to. Any pointers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 18-21 - Hey, I'm an 18 yr. old male. I'm a virgin, and I hang out with the kind of crowd where you don't find many. I'm a college football player, and a talented musician, so most of my friends are pretty popular. I've wanted to go all the way for some time, but no girl has ever ... (83 words)

How can I find out about my dad who left when I was born? My mum shouts when I bring it up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 16-17 - When I was born, my dad left when I was very young. I can't even remember him. Now, 14 years on, I want to know about him. I want to know all about his life and if I have any brothers and sisters because at present I have none that I know about. I would really love to ge... (223 words)

My boyfriend slept with my sister the morning our son was born! How do I deal w/ this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 38 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - My boyfriend slept with my sister the morning our son was born. He hasnt talked to her since I found out about the two of them and he hasnt been with anyone else. But how do I deal with this?... (40 words)

I think he may be meeting w/ another girl for lunch! But is it just me being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - my b/f of a year and a half usually doesnt call me in the mornings from work..Its always for the most part anyway been in the afternoon. (like 12-3) It seems like he has been calling me a little earlier..one time it was 9:30 am..and then when i called at 1pm, he was only able... (239 words)

My long distance gf doesn't seem to appreciate me - should I end it or see what happens?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) - It's very weird... my girlfriend (long distance by the way) has been bogged down with work... constantly! I feel like I'm now something she gets to when she can rather than being able to set aside time for me. I feel like we have grown apart significantly because I say all ... (124 words)

My bf went to a ball w/ her, shared a bed w/ her, and said they have 'chemistry.' I'm so hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - i have been with my boyfriend for 18months now. after 2 months i was introduced to a girl at a party (a friend of his) during the night i got the impression she fancied my boyfriend, but let it go. at christmas he went to a ball with her as she had asked him to go before we ... (175 words)

How can I trust him when he makes me feel worthless? He just lies and denies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I'm mid 30's and moved away from my boyfriend in june atfer a crazy uncommitted relationship from him. I'm single mum 2 kids. He tracked me down with undying love in august, promised me the world to be with me. came 250miles to see me at wkends but the wkends he didn't come ... (146 words)

He's overly friendly to women and loses his temper when I confront him about it! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - Help! I think my b/f has explosive anger disorder! He's normally pretty laid back and sweet most of the time, but sometimes when I try to talk about something that bothers me in our relationship, he flies into a rage that seems out of control. He's never physically abusive, ... (361 words)

I can't stop getting so angry about stuff! How can I control myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F)

- I'm not sure how to deal with myself and keep my emotions and anger controlled. I have been getting upset lately, but I would like to talk it out instead of yelling and getting laughed at. Well I don't usually yell, but I do speak very meanly. Yesterday was my holiday party at ... (382 words)

I have a bad feeling about this girl and don't want her around my bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 18-21 - there's this girl at school i really don't want around my bf, cuz i think she likes him and she really threatens me. my bf used to sit beside her in class and talk to her about lessons, theyre always groupmates etc and when i told him about that im not comfortable with it he ... (192 words)

Bf and I split a month ago...is it too soon to date again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - I need some help my ex boyfriend finished with me about a month ago! And i was out last night and someone who i have liked for about 5 years kissed me and he give me his number and i give him mine! We are arrangeing to met again i really do like him but is it too soon after ... (71 words)

She likes him in a romantic way..but I found out, he doesn't feel the same way. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I'm really worried about a friend of mine. I met her online about 8 months ago and we have become quite close. She has been interested in a guy who I also known for some time, and in February she went to meet him (she lives in America and me and the other guy are from the UK). ... (420 words)

My friend posted a hurtful question about me on this site..how do I talk to her about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F)

- Dear Agony aunts this is a question for you. I have come across a question posted by someone I know. I have recently told this person that I am an agony aunt on this site. And I recommended this site to that person. Now however, they have done the most malicious thing. And I ... (170 words)

How can I get over her cheating on me? I can't stop crying.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 591 days ago

8 December 2006 (M)

- How can I stop the tears from falling? How can I get her out of my head? How could she cheat on me when all I did was love her? She was my world and now she has gone.... (39 words)

My relationships never last over a month and it's giving me a bad rep! What can I do to keep a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - Dear all Please help me out, I am 26 years old and a very pretty and attractive lady but I have never had a serious relationship with a guy. All my relationships wont go past a month. I have tried everything on planet to make the relationship work. The longest relation... (266 words)

I try to be supportive of my friend who is getting over cancer, but I feel she's just using me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F)

- My best friend is getting over cancer at the moment so I try to be nice and call her everyday or every 2 days, I sometimes go with her to tratment as her mom is ill,I try to be suppportive and nice though she keeps including a boy a don't trust and like at all in many of our ... (249 words)

I'm split w/ my wife and fell in love with a girl 16 years younger - is this just a mid-life crisis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - hi i would like to get some opinions from you i wonder can any of you help me with this quistion.i have just walked out on a 21 year marrige and left behind me a wery loving wife and grown up kids my youngest is 13 and oldest is almost 22.i fell in love with a 24 year old girl ... (213 words)

It's torture not telling my coworker my feelings for her, but we need to stay professional at the office!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (M)

- Can anyone offer any advice on what to do when you find the girl that is the " ONE " you have been searching for all you life, but the problem is you work in the same office as them. i am 31 and she is 21, and the age gap is not a problem here. I have been working with her for ... (371 words)

How do I make lovemaking more enjoyable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 594 days ago

8 December 2006 (?) - Can't satify my girlfriend in bed Please do help with this presently condition. I have a girlfriend, never satify her with sex, due to inenlargement of penis or over openess of her ass. I find it not enjoyable with her when it comes to love making. pls help me out. ... (56 words)

I'm rethinking why I broke it off with my boyfriend. Should I do something about it now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 592 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hi Feel really awful - I recently broke off after 3 months with a guy because he hadn't called for a week - we live 150 miles apart. I had been told by a female friend at the start of dating him that he had a bad reputation for chasing women, another male friend interpre... (174 words)

When it comes to other girls and my boyfriend, I can't control my jealousy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - my bf is hot and i am not gorgeous but im smart and fashionable. in our university there are a lot of pretty girls and i just get too jealous even if theyre just doing projects together or sitting beside each other. there's this particular girl that im very jealous of, i do... (156 words)

I wish I never met this other guy - I don't want to have an affair!! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I have been married for two years, no kids. My husband Peter wants a baby, I dont, never will, have always told him that never though I would change my mind. We have virtually no sex now as he is always tired or not able to perform, this has been for over a year now, we have ... (623 words)

We got back together after 3 months apart, I want to abstain from sex, but he says it will prove my love!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - my ex bf and i just got back together after 3 months of separation (he broke it off). he came back to me saying he realized his mistakes and wants us to be together. i have already moved on but after some talk i agreed to get back with him, but now i am extra cautious, i dont ... (328 words)

He lied to me, He was married with 3 kids all along!!... Im hurting and empty and feel I will never find the right guy!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F)

- hello. i just broke it off with my bf. we were dating for quite sometime now and few days ago i found out he is married with three children and all the things he told me about himself were all lies at least his name was real, when i asked him he denied everything and claims t... (241 words)

How can I prevent my hands from sweating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 13-15 - I get sweaty hands. It's really embarrassing at school when we do dancing or I'm shaking hands, or I'm making hand interaction - and I don't want a boyfriend because I would be embarrassed of my hands getting sweaty. I researched a little about this and found out its called ... (86 words)

What do I tell my 4-year-old to keep her safe from strangers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - One day my 4 year old daughter and I were talking about kidnappers after watching a story on the news about a 5 year old little girl that was missing. I told her to watch very carefully because their are a bunch of sick, pervert, weirdos out there who torture and kill ... (425 words)

Do I give off bad vibes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 595 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - This is not a serious problem as some of the other ones I have read here. I am an outgoing and friendly person but I wonder if I give off not so good vibes to other people. I was out for dinner with people I had just met last week and one guy at the table was really snarky with ... (101 words)

What are the signs you're in love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - well i was just wondering how do u know when ur in love???... (13 words)

He asked me out with him and his friend - good sign he is single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) - There is this guy that i like and he asked me to go to the movies with him and his buddy. Well i would like to know since he asked me to go to the movies is that a good sign that he doesnt have a girlfriend? ... (51 words)

I am a little scared by what her responce may be

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 596 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Dating or Not? I have been seeing this girl for several months now on and off. Lately we talk alot more on the phone get together almost every possible chance. Sometimes it feels like we are dating, sometimes like friends hanging out. I like her a lot but have not told her... (109 words)

I know I want to be with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 506 days ago

8 December 2006 (M) age 26-29 - Hi. I know a lot of people ask these types of questions here, but every one of us has an experience that is just a tad different. For starters, I am a 24 year old male, married with a 5 year old little boy and a little girl on the way. I have been married for 6 years now. ... (450 words)

He says it doesn't matter now

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

8 December 2006 (F) age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now we have had or ups and downs . A low blow came last year when i found that im unable to have children . Now he says it doesn't matter and it didn't to me untill last couple months now i want them how do we get past this . a friend ... (87 words)