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writes:I have to fight for her love,I'm in a Love triangle with her and her ex.but she wants me not to give up on her.Sometime times i feel like its not worth itBut i do really love her.I feel like im always losing as it being her ex and they have all the history
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Perhaps she is still on rebound. Not sure how long this has been going on but this girl needs to decide who she wants as it is not fair on any of you.
Talk to her and ask for for time apart to give her time. Agree with Dagwood about 1 month. No more than this as she may forget you!
If she keeps going back to ex, she might not really love you. After 1 month be supportive but if she chooses you and you still want to trust her, give it a go.
Good luck
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reader, Dagwood  +, writes (19 December 2006):
 Hi Buddy,
Listen, this happened to me a long time ago and it never worked out. I loved her more than anything in the world but her ex would always be waiting in the wings when she felt like she was missing him. She went back and forward for 7 months before I finaly caught her in bed with someone else not even her ex! He was just an excuse and I think she never really loved me.
My advice is to be strong and tell her that you want a break of at least 2 weeks to 1 month with no contact so that you can both sort yourselves out. Don't give her an ultimatum as this rearly works with women.
If she comes back to you and you still want her go for it!
Be strong! Ciao Dagwood
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