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I'm 13 and he's 19 w/ a gf. We kissed - does he really love me?

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Question - (17 December 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2007)
A female age 30-35, *nLove001 writes:

Hey, I rele love this boy and he said he loved me. A week ago we kissed, I knew he had a girlfriend but it just happened. He's 19 and I'm only 13. I don't know whether he is using me or if he rele means he loves me how can I tell??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007):

WELL I'M 16 AND THEIR WAS THIS GUY KISSED AND HE WAS FIFTEEN AND I LIKE HIM ALOT I STILL DO YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT SOME GUYS USE YOU SO THEY CAN HAVE WHAT THEY WANT I FELT BAD BUT I GOT OVER IT

HOPE THIS HELPS

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A female reader, XxXLoveAngelXxX +, writes (26 December 2006):

XxXLoveAngelXxX agony auntIt might be hard to hear, but its pretty obvious that he's lying. He probably says the same thing to his girlfriend, who hes cheating on! Just because he says this it doesn't mean its true. In my experience, I know how hard it is to walk away from someone who means a lot to you, I'm going through the same thing right now! But its the best thing to do. XxXxX

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A female reader, scared16 +, writes (19 December 2006):

scared16 agony auntwell if you think about it this guy is obvioulsly capable of cheating as he has cheated on his current gf with you so do u really want 2 get involved with someone like this? also, u r doubting what he says already. if your unsure i would probably wait till he splits up with his gf IF he splits up with his gf. this may help you decide whether he is sincere in what he say x x x

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A male reader, guylostinlove +, writes (19 December 2006):

How long have you known him?

Just reading your question ... I would make a assumption that he's kissed other girls before and said that to them. You know he has a girlfriend, why get yourself entangled into such a mess. You're only 13 .. plenty of time to find a boyfriend. Especially one closer to your age. You have all the 13-17 year olds to choose from. I'd hesitate to trust a guy who would tell another girl he loves them when he as a girlfriend. So, the girlfriend doesn't mean shit. Even if he "means" what he says to you .. he's likely to easily have a change of heart and tell another girl that also well. Don't you think that a older man like him might think he can tell you little white lies and get something in return?

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