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writes:Hey people I have two questions i have never really been in a relationship before and now in my 20s am a lil confusedQ1 How long is it till a relationship becomes serious I have been seeing him or sixth months Friends for three before that I feel serious about it but wonder what my guy thinks and dont wanna rock the boat by asking himQ2 When do people generally say I love you. I feel as tho this is quite a big thing for me to say and feel ready to say it but dont think my guy feels the same Any advice plzThanks
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reader, whisper01 +, writes (23 December 2006):
 a relationship is serious from the beginning if both people feel that it is. my friend has been dating a guy for about 6 months as well but as soon as it started it was the main thing in her life, the most 'serious' thing in her life. Its serious if u want it to be.
As for the l-word if you feel ready, say it, first time say it casually in a situation where he doesnt have to answer. for example say it quietly when out with some friends and then ask another person a question not giving him the chance to reply. Get him used to it before you put him in a situation where he knows you expect and answer.
Good luck
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