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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it selfish of me to prefer sex when he's wearing a condom.. because he lasts longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- When my boyfriend was using a condom, he would make me come multiple times. After I told him I'm taking the pill, he stopped using condoms. I'm not afraid of STD as I know I'm the only girl he will ever sleep with. My situation is this. I know my boyfriend enjoys sex much ... (135 words)

She says I'm too clingy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - ok i have been going out with my girl firend for about a year and every thing was great ok but i tend to hang arounder her in school now she says i am too clingy in school and i am on my last shot with her and i am trying i really am but she is still up set and today i was ... (85 words)

He has 7 women on the go and I gave him 2 BJ's...he's an idiot so why do I have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- Well..i sort of started things with my driving instructor..(i know its wrong) i gave him a Blowjob well 2 blowjobs and now all he sees me as is a shag and i see him as a shag, and plus apparently he has 7 women on the go (as he says). Any way ill cut to the chase.. i dont wan... (135 words)

How do I get a bunch of prep guys to go out with my girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - How do I get a bunch of prep guys (no girls) to go out with my girlfriends? It would be fun. I talk to all the guys at school but I haven't hungout with them before.... (37 words)

First relationship! How long should I wait to hold hands-kiss him on the cheek and so on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - It's my first real relationship... and I really like this guy because he's a close friend ... But I want to know how long should I wait to hold hands ... kiss him on the cheek etc ... ... (38 words)

I wanna give him another chance but I need some space...how long should this 'space' be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey Everyone To start off my name is Bridget and i am currently 13 years of age i attend a middle school and i am in seventh grade. I have had an account on here before but forgot my password and email...i guess stuff like that happens. My former display name was Sweetie Pie ... (354 words)

Does it hurt the first time you have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Does it hurt the first time you have sex? I'm ready for sex but will it be umbearably painful?... (19 words)

Selfish gf lacks control..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - "My gf is selfish and lacks self-control. What should I do about her?" My girlfriend of 9 months is a strange one, she acts like shes single sometimes, getting over exited and showing me up when were out with our mates (which is all she talks about doing which frankly do... (286 words)

He's trying to push our friendship further than I'm willing for it to go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Ive just broke off a relationship after the friendship got serious and i didnt really want it to get that way. This person had sex with me twice and i had known him as a friend for four years. I broke off the relationship as i didnt fancy him as a lover I liked him a a friend... (133 words)

Boy's don't fancy me because I look 11 when I am 13! How do I start to look my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey Cupid! I need a little help here! Boys never seem to fancy me coz most people who meet me think i'm in yr 7 or that i am about 11 but i am actually 13 (nearly 14 and in yr9 ) How can i start to look my age? Please reply, thanks!... (54 words)

Am I selfish because I didn't have sex with him when he wanted it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- I decided to end my 3 year relationship with my boyfriend because i felt we weren't getting anywhere etc.He txt me asking for me to see him before he goes away for 2 months to the middle east as he's a service man in the RAF.I went to meet him because i wanted to say a proper ... (175 words)

He had a serious relationship before me so is this 'romance' just in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6322 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I have this guy that says he likes me and wants to get to know me..we went out on a double date with one of his friends and i thought it went well and he said he enjoyed it..the thing that gets me though is that he hardly ever texts me or anything..he has full daytime job and ... (118 words)

He's got much more experience than me so I'm scared I won't impress.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6319 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi I'm 17 and I've been realy close with this lad I really like more than anyone I have met and he feels the same! we have been seeing each other for about 2months now and he's quite expericanced I hardly am! I want to do things with him but im scared incase I'm "crap" lol do ... (80 words)

I found out that she is planning on breaking up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - hey there i feel that this is pretty important i have a girlfriend and we have been going out for 1 year and two months so arguements are just going down and love levels also, well last night i was doing some snooping(which is bad on both ends) so i have her msn password, which ... (137 words)

Meeting him has shown me that the men I dream about are out there

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I'm still at university and recently have been on a law placement and met a really nice guy. When I've pictured the man I will marry all my life, this is type of guy: intelligent, attractive, considerate, a gentleman, successful and ... (238 words)

How do you find love with/o scaring the guy away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - dear girls, i have a terminal illness, how do you find love with/o scaring the guy away?... (20 words)

My dad thinks she is jealous

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M)

- Hi, i need some help here, my ex gf and i broke up a fair while back and now i'm with someone else called Holly, now my ex claims not to love me or anything or even fancy me anymore, however on my msn screen name i have i love Holly, and last night my ex popped up in co... (205 words)

Should I dump him before Xmas... or after?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- Me and My Boyfriend we have been together 2years. I do Love him, but there is the Guy I Really, Really Like(Jon*), Me and Him are Really close Mates, and One of our Mates(Sam*), turned round and told me that Jon Fancies me. Sam and I share everything and he would not lie to me, ... (175 words)

I'm worried now that I've spent too much on my boyfriend for Xmas!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi. I bought my bf a really expensive gift this year and have been so excited about giving it to him for a few weeks now. We've been going out for almost a year and i decided that this gift would make him happy and i love him enough to spend the money on him. However, i get the ... (182 words)

He tests the condoms afterwards... but I'm still worried I could be preggas!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- My body tells me my period should come anytime now, but I'm still worrying. I've been having the usual pre-mentsrual cramps, but no period as yet. Started my last period on the 16th of November, it is now the 21st of December. The last time we had sex was the 3rd of December,... (154 words)

He's not hot but he thinks he is... I dread to think what he's like at work!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - My partner of two years is such a flirt. He isn't gorgeous to look at but he thinks he is. Everywhere we go, i know as soon as a good looking girl comes in he will ogle her. somehow he will end up making her notice him. If we go in a pub the barmaid has to be targetted. If she ... (204 words)

I really should not have got married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi. I dont even know where to start. I thought i had life sorted. I was marrying my best friend. We had problems for a while. Anyway to cut a long story short. I started an affair . I tried many a times to stop the affair but it felt so right.. He felt liek my soul mate. My... (251 words)

After everything... Should I give my ex this present for Xmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hi , Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago, It was a bad brake up I keeped going back to her. And got shot down. She had a son and I wasn't there enough. Then we all went on a family vacation it was a disaster. We also work together and we don't talk but I love her to death. ... (84 words)

He's asked me to move in... but he doesn't know that I've had some "fun" with his housemate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - my bf recently asked me to move in with him what I need to know is should I?? im 19 yrs old and my bf 25.we were together 3 months broke up 4 a month and got back together 5 weeks ago. What he doesnt know is that when we had broken up me and his friend/housemate (who he... (138 words)

We hang out, have phone sex... but she has a boyfriend away at Uni. Is she leading me on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

21 December 2006 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there is this girl at my work and we both got drunk one night and i admit i really liked her. Then she admite she liked me but the problem is she has all readdy got a boyfriend who she has been seen for over to years now. But the thing is we phone each other up for a long ... (238 words)

He likes me and he likes her, as well-is he stringing me along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

age 30-35 - hi... i really need some advise and asap. i went out with this guy for over 3yrs and i broke up with him about two yrs ago...i've never even got close to getting over him and i still like him alot...i love him...he added me on instant messenger earier this yr and he said he s... (144 words)

Not sure if I can trust my bf who has a lot of female friends. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi, well ive been with this guy for 6 months now,im 17 and he's 23. and im feeling very insecure. for a number of reasons. he has a lot of friends that are girls and they ring him all the time one of them flirt with him alot and i heard that he used 2 like her, but some of them ... (211 words)

My best friend and I are on the outs because we both like the same guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

age 30-35 - i've have a really big arguement with my ex-best friend becausewe both like this guy...i talk to him on an instant messenger and she doesnt(she does have a pc at home)....when I told about it she seemed jealous...so to try and save our friendship so we wouldn't fall out over a ... (145 words)

He said he has trouble with his phone when I can't get through---do you think he's ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- I fancy this guy at school. I think he fancies me but I'm not sure. Anyway the other day I told him I fancied him and he didnt say anything to me about it but he acted normally. Hes quite flirty with me. The point is since we split up from school I've texted him twice asking i... (152 words)

I don't need her support, but I do want her back. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age - My partner of 3 years left me 3 weeks ago saying she wanted to be free to go anywhere at anytime although she is still very fond of me. I have never objected to her going anywhere alone.It was only til 2 months ago she wanted to go everywhere with me.I dont need her support but ... (64 words)

I like this guy, but the age difference is a barrier. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have this good guy friend of mine whom i like and im sure he likes me too but our age difference is up to 16.This has been a barrier between us,what should i do.... (35 words)

Can a Teenage guy get an erection just from hugging a girl ?

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 2503 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi. could teenage boys get an erection even from a girl hugging them? ... (15 words)

I am due to see my husband after 3 months, we split and are selling the house, I feel so unhappy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- Hi, its almost 5 months since my husband and I split up (married 7 years), I havent seen him for 3 months and am dreading the time when i have to. I am in the process of selling our home which is really upsetting me as we have only lived in it 3 years. I am tired of beating ... (152 words)

I am looking to marry before my baby is born. How can I organise this cheaply, but stylish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - OK, dear cupid's I need some help, advice.... anything which my help!! me and my partner are expecting our first child in July! We are very excited about this. But we really want to be married before the baby is born! So we have set a date! 24th February. I need help on ... (85 words)

My wife had an affair. She still sees the guy regularly, but claims she doesn't love him. I'm so confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6310 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - My wife and I have just split up after 8 years of marriage and 18 years of the relationship with 2 children. I recently found out that she has been having an affair. Although when I found out she told me it had only been going on for 2 weeks. She now stays with her mother ... (195 words)

I have a crush on my dance teacher... could it be he likes me or did I read to much into it ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Well, here's the thing, I have a crush on my dance instructor (cute, ha :-)). Anyways, I've been seeing him for the past few months once or twice a week and, well, he's been acting pretty weird. At first, he's been giving me really a lot of attention, but I was pretty stuck up, ... (211 words)

Should I leave my girfriend for an old flame?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - My GF of 3 years is perfect except that she has always had problems with physical intimacy. I've brought it up, but things haven't improved. The old flame does it for me in a way my GF never has, but I don't know what I'd be getting myself into in a relationship with her. ... (94 words)

Hes going to be away for 3 months, will things be the same when he gets back ??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - My boo is away for 3 months, we've known each other for 3 yrs,we talk on the phone daily,will our relationship be the same when he gets back?... (29 words)

How can you bring a spark back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - simple. im a gurl. with a guy. the relationship is going no where. we are difficult. and itz hard to communicate. not meaning to sound mean but i am bored. we could both use some suggestions to help bring back a spark. thanks.... (43 words)

My girlfriends Period is late, could it just be a normal change ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfried and I just had sex for the first time we are both 24yrs old. I use protection and when i getting ready to relase i pulled out and she help me out and after i checked to make sure the condom wasnt broken it was fine. my girlfriend is 4 days late is this normal t... (66 words)

Thank you so much to all the people who responded to my questions-it's much appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age - Thank you so much to all the people who responded to my questions this year. It is a busy world....people are busy and yet people always responded promptly and compassionately to my questions....appreciated so much.... (35 words)

I thought I could get over this insecurity but I still can't get over my bf's past! Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- No matter how hard I try I cant get over my bf's past. This is a long post, but please take the time out to read it. I was a virgin when I met my bf (we met when I was 18, he was 24), he had been with five other women. I know too much about his past for my own good, and its ... (315 words)

I think she has a new guy but she's afraid to tell because it might hurt me! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

21 December 2006 (M)

- i heard a rumor last week that my ex girlfriend has a new lad i told her about the rumor and she claims it's all bull s**t. but when i txt her it take's her a good 10 - 15 mintutes to txt me and sometime's there's only a few word's. i saw her on tuesday last and she told me ... (171 words)

Should I stay friends with this guy.. Or should I date him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - there is one man who is crazy about me.He makes me feel happy and I think I love him.I have known him for a long time and I have never done anything with him in fear that I might get to attatched to him in a sexual way.I dont want to hurt him by telling him that I will never ... (97 words)

I feel like I am alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I feel like I am alone.I have empty sex with guys who Im sure dont want to see me in the morning and when I feel like a man is getting to close to me I push them away.I have a couple of guys who want to date me right now but for some reason Im afraid of dating.Im scared of ... (95 words)

Should I tell my ex how I feel when she comes over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Me and this girl have been broken up for about 4 years now. We hooked up when I was a freshman and we fell in love. She was a senior and she had more experience than I had with relationships especially ones that were gay relationships. Well I ended up hurting her because I ... (252 words)

I am thinking about doing kinky photoshoots with my sister. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I know this'll sound really weird but here goes....my older sister works as an escort/adult model and,as i'm an amateur photographer,i've done some promo shots for her recently.no nudity or anything,just poses and some bondage stuff.i've got a real "thing" about bondage and ... (131 words)

How can I get rid of my spots? I can't get the girls anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - Hi. about 5-6 months ago i had no spots what so ever and i could get pretty much any girl i wanted. but now i have abserloutly tons of spots and i can't get no girls no more. what can i do to get rid of spots or get a good lookcing girlfriend again ?... (55 words)

How can I ask her out? How can I cover myself if she rejects me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

21 December 2006 (?) - i really fancy this girl in my school. i want to ask her out. she's really shy. i talk to her on msn everyday. today i started talkin about a girl my mate fancies than i slowly asked her, she said no one. she asked about me, i said someone. she had to go and said she'll talk ... (88 words)

The girl that likes me already has a bf. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

21 December 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. she is 16 same as me. she has 10month boyfriend. her boyfriend is seein another girl as mates but they are always together. my friend is really upset, she's always been close to me, but today all us mates went out cinema. everyone left and i walked ... (178 words)

Does he genuinely like me, or is he just being a nice guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6321 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey there, I met this guy Nov. 17th. He's a bit older than me. Normally, I'm a very shallow person but when I saw him, looks were the last thing that I thought of. I'm starting to really like him, but I don't know if he likes me in return. Like he calls me and everythi... (227 words)

My childhood crush has returned. How can I snap myself out of it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

21 December 2006 (F)

- Hi Everyone. Let me get you caught up with this first..:) When I was 12 I had this major crush on a TV star..like most 12 year olds,with Posters, dolls, Tee shirts...this show was an escape from my abusive parents. I would lose myself in it for as long as possible. Well.... (252 words)