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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He has a gf but I want to date him...do I take a chance and talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I've had an extremely close and flirtatious relationship with one of my friends for the past year. I'm afraid I might be in love with him, but the problem is he has a girlfriend. They've been together for a long time, but the relationship is very rocky, they fight constantly ... (144 words)

I love her, she loves me, but can teenage relationships really have fairytale endings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 957 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I am a male teenager nearly 16. I have a girlfriend of 3 months, and I know what i feel for her is real love. She is 15. I have been with several girls in my life, but she is the only one which makes me feel the way she makes me feel, which is almost indescribable, a unique ... (370 words)

He flirts with me..he kissed me but claims he just wants a friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - i got to know my next door neighbour and we got close he asked me to kiss him one night he would flirt with me all the time but when i was drunk one night we kissed and almost ended up having sex but he stopped and said he just wanted to be friends but continued flirting and ... (107 words)

My unaffectionate bf said he's willing to change...should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (F)

- Im the person who wrote in about my fella not been able to give me the love and affection i need.I got 2 answers and they said forget him.Well he called me and said that he was willing to change.He said that i should write a list out of all the things that needed changing,i ... (109 words)

I think I'll be famous, rich - and probably beatiful too. Big-headed... Or confident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Im nearly 16 soon, but all of a sudden, I have a feeling, and this might be big headed, that I will be famous, and rich. But where does this come from? And is it just a crazy fantasy or might it happen? Im confused, because when I have asked friends, they have said they believe ... (70 words)

She's unaware I know about her cheating...how do I bring it up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Hi, i dont like to bring other people into my problems, but i need some other suggestions and opinions. Im 21 and have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years and we have been living together for 4 months now. But, she went away for a week to finals for her team, ... (437 words)

Is it true I could do 22-years jail-time for making love with my girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I am a 16yr old boy. My girlfriend is 14 and she wants to have sex with me. I said no because loads of my friends told me that its very illegal and I could get put on sex offenders list and get up to 22years in prison is this true and what would happen if i did have sex with ... (62 words)

Worried as a black-guy that my "package" isn't up to par with my brothers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - On the subject of a man's "Size" what do Black women think is small, average or big. We all know what is said about black men, but I just don't feel I measure up. They say that average is 5-7", but it seems like that is mostly for white men. Should I be concerned if I a... (111 words)

Help. I broke up with my bf because he treated me badly..but I still feel sexually attracted to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 958 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I broke up with my ex bf to be with another man. my ex was no good for me he treated me very bad, but I am still very sexually atracted and turned on by my ex my new man is very good to me treats me like gold and would give me the world if he could, but he doesn't turn me o... (161 words)

My best friend and I like the same guy-he wants to date me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Im 15 years old and I really like this boy. I have been out with a few guys but I have never really felt the way I feel about this guy. There's a problem though, my friend who is my connection to him really likes him and I don't want to hurt her. But me and this boy really do ... (157 words)

She is with someone else but I love her...help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I can’t cope anymore – need some help! Last year I got moved to a small office with only four people. One was around my age, a really attractive girl called Lana. I knew from the start she had a boyfriend and I myself was in a new relationship. Anyway over the coming... (1290 words)

Why didn't I enjoy sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - i had sex for my second time and it did nothing for me! it still hurt slightly and didnt arouse me. whats wrong?... (23 words)

Why have I reacted this way about my ex's engagement?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (?) - Please help me! i have just found out that my ex boyfriend, whom i was with for 5 years has got engaged! i am with someone else now and i love him dearly but when i found out about my ex it really hurt! why am i feeling like this? i am in love with my boyfriend and i have no ... (170 words)

Is it safe not to use a condom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - HI this is a gay related sexual question me and my bf have only bn with each other, we want to have sex without the condom, what are the risks even if we dont sleep wit other people? is it better to use the rubber or bare? i want us to feel more intimate without it. tha... (61 words)

He wanted to be with his friend...this makes me feel uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I've been in a wonderful relationship with a great man for 6 months. On our first date I asked him if he had been in a relationship since he separated from his wife two years ago. He said that there is only one person that he has wanted a relationship with and thats his ... (181 words)

Can I cope on my own when I'm expecting two babies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Hello, I am in a right pickle. My boyfriend told me he didnt want to know when he learnt I was pregnant and has disappeared to another town: nobody knows where he has gone. I am a lone parent with thre teenagers, and had been with this man over a year. I work long hours and as ... (136 words)

My sister has interfered so much we have now broken up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - My sister begged me to give her brother-in-law a chance at dating me. After saying no for a couple of months, I finally gave in to shut her up. Fortunately, we did hook and fell in love. During this past year in our relationship, my sister has put her nose where it doesn't ... (519 words)

When my wife enjoys the attention of another man, I feel threatened, even though I know she wouldn't cheat...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (M)

- What is considered normal as far as enjoying attention from members of the opposite sex, while married? Is it normal to be flattered if you know somebody is attracted to you and you enjoy it? If someone approaches my wife in a bar and she makes it clear she's mar... (123 words)

I'm married but very attracted to a co-worker...so ashamed of the way I feel.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I'm a married guy, that has been in a very loving stable relationship with my wife for over 10 years. We have a young child. My dilemma is that i have fallen deeply for a much younger co-worker. I do not know how this girl feels about me but i am very concerned about my ... (374 words)

I had phone sex with one of my bf's friends..trying to understand why would I do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 959 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I had my contraceptive implant removed a month ago. Since then my feelings have been up and down all the time (don't know if it because of this??) My partner works away from home Mon - Fri and during the week I had phone sex with one of my partners friends and this is just... (140 words)

We separated temporarily...and he slept with another woman. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - my partner and i have been together five years. 2 years ago we had a seriously bad patch and the time i decided i no longer loved him and we decided to temporarily separate. i knew he had connections with a woman at work, but he only confessed yesterday he slept with her ... (72 words)

My current gf told me to choose between my two daughters! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - I have 2 children to different mothers! one child is 7 one child is 7 months. I met my girlfriend 3 years ago. Our relationship was great and i looked after my 7 year old child every second weekend, but as soon as my other child was born my girlfriend told me to choose ... (152 words)

I want to rebuild my marriage but my wife refuses to talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Hi i have recently split up with my wife,i realise where i have gone wrong and would like to be with her again, but she wont speak to me. I love my wife very much and would love to her to give me another chance. If you think you maybe able to help me,please leave a message and ... (72 words)

How do I get away from my verbally-abusive, drug dependant ex boyfriend so I can get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Sorry, this is kind of a long one, but it is quite a story, so hopefully someone will read it and give me some advice. I am almost 30 and have been with my 26 year old boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. I moved in with him 3 years ago. After I moved in, things changed - not ... (1312 words)

I'm sure I'm not attracted to men, but I'm turned on by she-males!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Hello. I am just wondering, if I find she-males a turn on does this mean I'm gay? I am 20 years old and love girls but recently I seen a movie on TV with attractive naked shemales. No one would believe they are men until the knickers come off, but I must admit, it turned m... (97 words)

He lies about everyday things and it's making me frustrated with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - my question is what do i do. I have a partner, we have been together for 2 years, i have a 3 month baby girl. I love him he means the world to me. The problem is that he lies to me. not as in cheating as i dont think he ever would. Its the day to day things that bothers me as i ... (189 words)

My husband compares my body to porn stars...and it hurts. Should I take the kids and leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Hi Guys, What should a woman do if her h tells her that he finds the women in porn so much more beautiful than his wife? Especially if the wife takes great care of herself but he is unhappy about changes associated with aging and having been pregnant. (ie things she cant cha... (122 words)

How do I move on from my ex-bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 918 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - I have this guy who is my ex boyfriend. im his first girlfriend and we broke up because of me because he given me 3 chances but still i failed and he broke up with me and i cried a lot and he had this new girlfriend and my 1 friend saw the picture of the girl then she said that ... (166 words)

Who comes first...the wife or the husband's family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F) - Basically without going into all the details of the conflict, my husband thinks his family (parents and brothers) should come first before me. Ironically he's not close to them at all and complains they treated him terribly, on the contrary me and him had a very close and ... (117 words)

I thought we were soul mates, but them my girlfriend did things I simply did not expect..!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - What follows is a story that I still find it hard to get my head around. I live in Reading. I was married for ten years, but have been single again since 1995. I’ve had a few relationships since then, but nothing serious until this year. In February I met a lady off Dating... (880 words)

I date guys who are bad for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (F)

- I really dont know how to stop hurting myself! I've been single for over a year now but every time I get close to someone I just end up hurting myself. I go with guys even though I know they're liars and cheaters. I end up falling for them and end up seriously hurting myself! ... (114 words)

My girlfriend has never once been wrong... or sorry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend will never admit she's wrong. I always have to say sorry to her first if we argue. Then she doesn't even say sorry back. She has never said sorry once in our 2 yr relationship. Things that are clearly her fault; she won't say sorry just fall out with me. So I have ... (66 words)

We've already fallen once, and broken up once. Now I see it happening again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 960 days ago

8 December 2005 (M) - Over a year ago I got friendly with a new girl at work who I discovered already had a long-term boyfriend (1 year). A very close bond had started to grow between us because of her illness which I had experience of. Gradually I fell in love with this girl and I thought she felt ... (125 words)