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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Too scared to meet my online girl...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 932 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Right, so.. I'm a guy, and I'm 18. I've had some pretty bad relationships in the past, and I probably will do in the future as well.. But that's not even the point. I guess it's a part of it, cos I'm afraid of being hurt (that's right, I'm a GUY afraid of being hurt!) Well... (160 words)

Afraid my "best" friend is going to try and steal my boyfriend... Again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I'm afraid my 'best' friend is gonna try n steal my guy....again... When me nd my boyf james* first got togeva she tried everything for it to not happened...telling me and him poisonous stories about one another etc. 6 months down the line and everything is great however ... (232 words)

Can't get over my girlfriend's ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I need some serious help! I am in college and have been with my girlfriend for 3 months now. She had a previous "relationship" about a year ago for 3 months (I use the quotes because she has never openly admitted to being in a relationship). Our relationship is amazing in ... (428 words)

Should I try and win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I told this guy at work that I really liked him and he said that he liked me as well and even tho he is technically single he is seeing someone. We have been out a few times and get on really well and the one night he even kissed me but then apologised becuase he said it was a ... (98 words)

He hated me being friends with my ex. Now I find that he has initiated contact with his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I got divorced in August. Wasn't much of my choice, he didn't love me anymore. I started dating my boyfriend from high school. Here we are 4 1/2 months later. I am now trying to be friends with my x. Boyfriend doesn't like this. Well, my boyfriend has an x girlfrie... (348 words)

How long until love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - When is it looked on as acceptable to love someone? People always tend to think that you only love someone truley if you've been with them for ages? What do all of you think?... (34 words)

How much is too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

29 December 2005 (F)

- can you masturbate too much? I'm really addicted to it, and think about it all the time. And I'm only 13. Can you help me? ... (28 words)

Totally out of ideas for what I can do with my long-distance-boyfriend when he arrives!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - ok, so my long distance boyfriend is coming up tomorrow for new years and i have nothing planned! i rented a few movies and got him some beer but that is all. we aren't going to see eachother again for 4 months..what can i do to make this time special for the both of us? i live ... (74 words)

My kids love my ex, but I remember the lies and arguments. Should I just forget it and settle down with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I've been seriously dating him for 4yrs. We lived together for 1yr. We split into different houses b/c of the children arguing, he wouldn't get his divorce, he lied for a yr about a situation I took seriously., he never helped out financially, kids...... Now we are in ... (110 words)

What on earth is my guy playing at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Hey ok this may not sound big at all. I've bin with this guy for 9 months and things were going great...obviously they've kinda settled down now but n e way. Hes bin acting really weird with me. Before you think anything....im not clingy...dont call him 24/7 or anything lyk ... (303 words)

I lied about my age to the woman of my dreams. She thinks I'm 20, but I'm actually 26!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I have been dating the woman of my dreams for 10 months. Everything has been going great... but I've kept one big secret from her. I lied about my age. I told her I was 20 years old when in fact I am 26. She is 19 and I feared that if I told her my real age she would not be ... (131 words)

My wife tracked down an ex for 15 years, then had an affair! Now she says it's out of her system...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - My wife recently had an affair with a man she has been thinking and fantasizing about for the last 15 years. They were together as teens, never had sex and had a bad break-up that she felt guilty about. She has just told me that she had been looking for him for 10+ years, even ... (362 words)

When we're together, I think he's attracted, but then he says there are other girls who like him too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - There's this guy. We use to date but we broke up. Now he lives really close. We started talking and holding hands like couples do; we even kissed. Now he is saying he is confused cuz a lot of gurls like him. I asked him out and he said he would think about it, but when wer... (86 words)

I'm not sure about my feelings towards my baby's father

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Feelings for my babies father. I started dating a guy about 2 years ago when I was on the rebound from splitting up from another partner. Things moved very quickly and within three months I was pregnant and he was talking about marriage and I panicked and decided I wanted... (284 words)

Does she like me in the way that I like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - hi, please can you answer my question. I went to a party and i was with a girl nearly all night. all we really did was cuddle alot (and i mean alot),sit next to each other with our arms around each other while she rests her head on my shoulder. and when she had to go we just ... (171 words)

I love him even though he is with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I have fallen completely in love with someone I cannot have. He is older than me and married. We have been flirting for some time and over xmas temptation got the better of me. I like him and i know its not going to go anywhere as he loves his wife and I should feel bad ... (129 words)

I get so jealous that I'm afraid of losing him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - ok i shall start with my relationship with my boyfriend.I don't know what really happen to me.Starting of our relationship is good.But for not long i started to get jealousy and hot-temper.My jealousy is really high.Is like when he never sms(phone messaging)to me i get angry ... (130 words)

I really like her but how do I convince her not to worry about the age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - ok so im an 18 year old male and I really really like an older girl. In fact shes 23.....I can't seem to think that there is this chemistry between us but this age thing seems a "taboo" to her. WE get along great we are the best of friends and I know that there is something ... (170 words)

I despair... My Xmas present from my younger boyfriend was a 2nd hand book about rabbits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Iv'e been having a relationship on and off for more than 3 years now with a man who is 9 years younger. I am 42 and have 2 grown up children, I'm educated and have just become a grandmother on xmas day,(which he made a sarcastic remark about me becoming a grandmot... (520 words)

Would like a traditional wedding but without the formalities. Your ideas please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - hi! i recently got engaged,and me and my partner are planning our wedding for 2007. we were thinking of having a civil ceromony in the hotel where he proposed. neither of us really like all the formal dining after a wedding, as nice as it would be. the hotel is about 100 mil... (147 words)

My wife hates the idea of my close female friend. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 876 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, Please help me solve a problem with my wife. I have a married female coworker who I have become friends with. We talk on the phone daily as we are not always assigned to the same location. She sends emails and pictures to me and my wife. My wife is complete... (373 words)

My parents object to idea of me living with my partner before marriage... I'm 23 so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating a really good man for a few months. Things are going well, but we still have issues that we are working through. At the end of the school year, I might be moving and he has offered to come with. By that time, we will have been together for a year. ... (311 words)

Out of state ex-girlfriend and mother of my child won't return my calls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - my ex girlfriend lives in another state. she got pregnant by me and everything was fine for a while. i was going to save up money and move out there, to be by her. not with her, but by her to help out during and help raise my child. but all of a sudden, she was telling me that ... (107 words)

I had unplanned sex with my girlfriend, but I'm not yet 14. She couldn't be pregnant, could she?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - Hi People, I am a 13 year old male who is almost 14. Recently (for about 2 months) I have been going out with this 16 year old girl. At first all we did was kiss, make-out and foreplay etc, but last night my parents were both at hen/stag nights and both stayed at a hote... (515 words)

I left my girlfriend but now she has kept all my stuff!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I had been in a four year stormy but loving relationship, which she broke up a few weeks ago after a minor silly row,and i moved back to my house, i found out it was just an excuse to get me out the house so she could give her brother somewhere to live after being in prison for ... (232 words)

We married young. She left with no sign at all... Is there anything I can do to save our marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - if anyone could help please do so this is my question me and my wife started dating when she was only 15 and i was 16 we date right at six years before we married we married in sept 2005 an when we married i change as far want to go party and hung out all night i want you... (164 words)

Love or friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid i have been seeing my best mate of 9 years' girlfriend and she told me she loves me and i think i love her... what should i do friendship or love... (33 words)

I will do ANYTHING to impress people!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

29 December 2005 (F)

- Basically, I have a huge problem. I am a try-hard, and will do ANYTHING to impress people. I lie, exaggerate, and make things up to make people like me. I realise that the whiff of desperation is hanging around me, but I can't help myself! I have no friends, I don't kn... (65 words)

My boyfriend is insanely jealous... Is there a solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over two years. For the first year we lived near each other and now he lives three hours away. We are both in our thirties. Our problem is this: we argue constantly often times blowing up into huge outrageous fights. He accuses me ... (370 words)

Bored with my boyfriend. Time to pack it in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

29 December 2005 (F)

- iv been with my boyfriend for over two years,the trouble is,i think im getting bored with him.When we go out together its alright and we have a good chat but when i havent seen him for a week or so,i dont seem to miss him,where he seems more keener.I dont know if i still love ... (70 words)