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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I still can't stop the internet gay porn thing...why am i so weird and what should i do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - Alright I am fucked up, From what I can remember I always seemed to be attracted to girls, but I never had much luck with them growing up. I seemed to always end up in the friend zone or for being to nice in jr high and high school, i figured it must be my looks (i wasn't in ... (1078 words)

Haven't seen my guy in 10 years, but I'm still in love with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Almost 10 years ago, I met a man. Basically although I have had very bad relationships with other men, this relationship was only sex but we got along great, We would talk about friends and family and he would drop what he was doing if I called. But the thing is I actually... (298 words)

Just come out of a long term relationship... What are the dating rules nowadays?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (?) - I came out of a long term relationship the beginning of the year and have started to date again recently, but i am worried in case i am expecting too much too early, what is the dating rules? I have been seeing a guy for 3 weeks, once or twice a week i've met up with him and ... (99 words)

He's a christian and I have had sexual fantasies about him! I'm embarrassed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I've told my bf (because I want to be honest with him) that sometimes I have sexual fantasies about him which was really maybe a bad thing to do on my part because he he reacted calmly and was actually a little surprised and then he told me he never had sexual fantasies of me. ... (238 words)

Why does my boyfriend avoid talking about our future?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We both say we love each other, yet he never will bring up the future. Whenever I try to, he always says he does not know if we will be dating. We are both in our twenties and I just want to make sure that he is as ... (70 words)

People think we'd be a perfect couple. Everyone, it seems, except the guy I fancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Im a student at the moment and living with four other people. I really like one of the guys I am living with and have done for about a year now. We all moved in together in September and I have grown to like him even more than I did last year. He had a girlfriend last ... (261 words)

Can't deal with the thought that my wife cheated and had unprotected sex with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - My wife had an affair and I am struggling to get the graphic images out of my mind. We have worked through most of the problems in our relationship that lead to an affair and continue to communicate better than in the past. The biggest part that I am unable to get over is t... (197 words)

Intellectually, we're a great fit together. I just don't know if I love her as much as she loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - Hi there, I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 25. We've been together for a year and a half. We get on really well, have a lot in common and the sex is good. She gets on well with my family and me with hers. We spend pretty much all our time together out of work and get on really we... (175 words)

How do I find out for certain that he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (?) - Hello, its me again, thank you all for your time in answering my questions by the way, it means alot. I know that i keep on about this but its really bugging me. I love flirting with him and when he looks at me i get butterflies in my stomach and i havent felt like this f... (446 words)

How do I turn my life around when I miss him so much??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Very Confused: I've written a couple of questions on here asking for help and to recap on my problems.... I got dumped a month ago by a guy who i would have done anything for. I loved him entirely although he was selfish and had little respect for women and also an al... (310 words)

Should I ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - hey i'm 14 and i fancy this guy in year 11 at my school. The problem is, I went out with his best mate last year and his other mate fancies me. I don't want to hurt their feelings by asking this guy out. I just want your advice. Do you think I should ask him out? ... (60 words)

I had sex with him the first time we dated...now, he hasn't answered my message. What's happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

20 December 2005 (F)

- Hi I met up with a guy from an online dating site on Sunday. I'm 32, and haven't been in a relationship or had sex for a year (yes - a year!!). The dating site is a good one - doesn't seem to have many of the usual players on it. Anyway - for the first time in my life, I... (367 words)

Does he want a relationship with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I am friendly with an editor at work....and there is an attraction , even though we are both in relationships. I am writing a book , and asked him to read it in a professional capacity. However when I got his notes and comments about the book he had written ... (134 words)

How do I get the approval from my family about who I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F)

- Fallen in love with my sisters friend, bearing in mind she's 16 and I'm 21 About five months ago i broke up with my boyfriend, we were dating for 2 years, i broke it off cuz i was afraid of commiting. So not to soon after i ended things with D i had a fling with R at h... (272 words)

How can I forget about my wife's past?

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex about ten times each for ... (162 words)

When my girlfriend is more horny than I am, she guilts me into sex, then says "forget it!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - Hi, basically my girlfriend is horny 24/7 and always wants sex any given moment. I like sex, but I'm not as horny as her! Whenever I'm not in the mood and I'd much rather sleep, I just say "I don't feel like having sex tonight babe", or something, and she always says: "Oh fine... (101 words)

My guy has to get permission from Mum before he can see me. Is this a deal-breaker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 871 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I am 18 and have been dating a guy of 19 for seven months. I believe he is my one true love. His mother is possessive and controlling, and he has to ask her for permission to see me. She often says no. He lives around the corner and this is killing me. He is very affectionate ... (81 words)

Can't understand why my willy just goes limp?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 908 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - I'm 19 years old and have been "fooling around" with girls for a couple years now. The thing is, recently, I was with my girlfriend, and we were really getting into it. I had a super hard erection that was ready to go. She gave me a bit of a blow job, then I went down on her ... (229 words)

We weren't that close when he was in high school, but I want him to know how strongly I feel now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when he was a senior in High s... (353 words)

Are there any differences that come along with dating a black guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 947 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Are there any major differences between a spanish female and a black male who date? I'm dating a black guy right now and he is very sweet, but are there any differences that come along with dating a black guy? I've only dated an egyptian guy and this is my second relationship, ... (63 words)

This new bf is wonderful so why...do I still feel like I am not worthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Why do you think a 24 year old would want to date a 20 year old? I mean, there's more to it than age, but I was never the type of girl that got asked out by guys because I was overweight and had low self esteem and bad skin. I grew up never thinking I was attractive and ... (209 words)

Dating my bf for 6 months..so do I buy gifts for his cousins and brothers, too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Should I buy my bf's cousins and brothers present for christmas? i've only been going with my bf for 6 months and i'm thinking of just getting him cologne for christmas but now I have like 5 other people I was thinking of getting stuff more--not sure if i should buy them ... (62 words)

My home is a battleground..my wife and my oldest son are bickering all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (M) - I am 35 years old and have been married for 10 years now. I have 3 kids the oldest is 11 and from a relationship the other 2 are with my wife. For the past couple years things have been pretty bad at home fighting, bickering, major tension between my son and wife while the ... (248 words)

How do I build a stronger relationship with my bf's parents and show them I am a quality person.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - How do I build a stronger relationship with my bf's parents and family? I'm shy and I get insecure around them and unsure about what to do with myself when they are around and I don't want them to think I'm off-putting or there jsut to eat their food and make out with their ... (89 words)

At his home-do I visit with his folks or do I stay downstairs with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I'm not sure how to act around my bf's parents--he's 24 and he lives with his parents and I'm 20 and I still live with my parents too, and we usually end up cuddling at his house in his room while watching a movie or soemthing, but I feel weird because his room is downstairs ... (167 words)

I don't trust him but I love him and care so much. Am I a Fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - Am I A Fool? My husband lies to me and hides things from me that I find out later.I don't trust him but I love him and care about so much. What do I do?... (35 words)

Should I stay with him or should I break up with him? Help..advice needed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I need help badly. I just found out that my boyfriend is 13 and I am only 11. Today (12-19-05) he hugged me at school. I do not know what I should do because we just got back together. He really loves me and I really love him. So should I stay with him or should I break up with ... (61 words)

'm busy with our 5 kids-and he treats me like crap. Help- I need his respect and love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I have been married for 4 years. We have 2 children and I take care of his other 3. I am 27 years old. I am a very busy person with no outlet for letting go. My stress level is to the roof. I get no help with the kids or anything for that matter. He treats us like crap all the ... (267 words)

He wants me just for sex but I love him. How do I get him to love and respect me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F)

- Dear cupid.. I have been in love with a guy for over three years now (I'm 17, he's 18), I want to be in a relationship with him. Trouble is that he is ony physically attracted to me, and will only ask for sex.It seems to me like he regards me as just another slut who... (181 words)

Caught him kissing another girl and I sent him packing...but I miss him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 948 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - a couple of days ago i found out my boyfriend was all over and kissing a girl in a night club.ive sent him packing but the thing is this is massively life changing for me.we have been together for 3 years and have a daughter together and i do love him and very much want to keep ... (154 words)