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Worried as a black-guy that my "package" isn't up to par with my brothers

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Question - (8 December 2005) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2005)
A male , anonymous writes:

On the subject of a man's "Size" what do Black women think is small, average or big. We all know what is said about black men, but I just don't feel I measure up.

They say that average is 5-7", but it seems like that is mostly for white men. Should I be concerned if I am not as endowed as "rumor" says I should be? I feel very insecure because I don't prove this rumor to be true and barely even measure up to be average by any standard.

Are black women satisfied with a package that doesn't live up to the hype?

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A female reader, fairyangel South Africa +, writes (9 December 2005):

fairyangel agony auntWhat is with all you guys and the penis thing?

You all put far too much emphasis on your "size" ...

Let me tell you straight...

The chicks are not concerned with your size... it is what you do with it that counts.

It is not the size of the waves that matter, but the motion of the ocean... You must learn to relax.

Silly Boys.

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (9 December 2005):

Bev Conolly agony auntErection is the great leveller, black or white. Most guys are around the same size when they're erect... and that tends to be around 5-6" (not 7").

I'm sure yours is fine!

I can't help wading into questions about penis size, because so many men seem to be so insecure about theirs. I'm white and have had sex with black and white men. I've never found any significant differences in size. However, what's always mattered to me is skill, not size. So please align me with the other female respondants who firmly believe that size isn't an issue.

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A female reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (9 December 2005):

Phyrekiss agony auntMost woman dont believe the "hype". In fact, if you get with a woman and she really loves you, size wont matter at all. 5 to 7 is average, but not for just 'white guys'. its a typical male average.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005):

size doesnt matter-don't worry

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005):

are you for real...this a dumb joke right???

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