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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband has threatened...either the pet dog goes or he moves out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 956 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am a newlywed, married in August. When my husband and I were dating, I had a dog. My husband had never owned pets in his life, but seemed okay with it. Some months before the wedding, my dog was killed. I was grief stricken, but I always knew I would get another dog; I am ... (352 words)

Last year we could only be "friends"... so is his interest now a serious one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - Ok, brace yourselves I met this guy last year, right? and we went for a coffee then started texting each other, He was so sweet, he even texted me on my birthday at midnight!!! Well, after about a week he told me he just wanted to be friends. I was gutted obviously. I st... (163 words)

We aren't getting on and we are expecting a baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (M) - Hi there. Bit of a complex one but would appreciate your advice. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years is pregnant. It was an unplanned pregnancy - she came off the pill on medical grounds and we did have sex a few times without condoms. I guess we're both to blame and also a ... (218 words)

Some of my husband's family members were upset we didn't include them in the wedding party!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F)

- we got married 5 years ago and at our wedding, which was very small and intimate, we had one bestman, my hubby's best friend, and one maid of honour, my teenaged daughter. my husbands brother has a daughter, who is my husbands godchild, which was arranged before we met. we did ... (177 words)

I fantasize about my bf having sex with another woman-am I crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am very happy in my recent relationship of 7 months. I am a 30 year old female and my boyfriend is 29. We have a very healthy sex life. We are exclusive. But I am concerned about a habit of mine - I do not understand it. The thing that gets me most excited when ... (184 words)

My bf has kept his sex videos and nudie pics of previous gf's-should I be concerned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 961 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My new boyfriend who is 29 (I am a 30 yr old female), is friend's with almost every ex-girlfriend he has. Some he hangs out with and others he just talks to. We have been dating for 7 months now and we are exclusive. He also has old personal porn with some of these exes - ... (199 words)

Help! I love my husband but my friend's hubby makes me feel like a real woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - i have deep feelings for my best friends husband and have had a affairs seen about july of this year and i just got married what do i do i love my husband but her husband makes me feel like a woman again what do i do please help me i dont know what to do anymore i dont feel bad ... (81 words)

My husband thinks I should perform all the same scenes he sees on porn sites... It's awful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My husband stays up late at night and all day on the computer on porn sites and expects me to perform as he has seen ( which most of the time it hurts me)and he saids I should be willing to do these things with him if I love him. He will not work and support this family do to ... (181 words)

My son wants a mature girlfriend...what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am worried about my son. He is 16 and wants an elderly girlfriend... what do I do? A Worried Mom... (25 words)

How can I cope with my girlfriend wanting space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

2 December 2005 (M)

- I've been going out with my gf for nearly 5 1/2 years, and all of a sudden last week she said 'things' were bothering her and needed to chat. She told me some 'home truths' and I know i need to change these things...and will NOW and in fact have done already. Inst... (119 words)

We're happy but one thing bothers me-his friend's wife likes to flirt with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend (of about a year) and I moved in together, we have a great relationship, we're starting a business together and we're pretty much happy. There's just one thing that nags at me - and that's his friend's wife. He and her flirt back and forth all the time, she ... (138 words)

Dad rejects my boyfriend..how can I speak up for my bf and myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - Hi i really need your help...my dad found out that i've been seeing a guy that i meet on hoilday last year, our family's are close we are both muslims. He asked to marry me but my dad said no. he said does not have an education but he works. i love him. i've never been able to ... (77 words)

My son-in-law dumped his sex problems with my daughter-in my lap. How do I talk to her about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My son-in-law has placed a problem on me with regard to my daughter not responding in bed. I have no idea how to bridge this as in October she went through a bad bout of depression which ended up in her trying to take her own life. I was under the impression that all was sorted ... (122 words)

I get erections easily and instantly and it's very annoying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 628 days ago

2 December 2005 (M) - hello, i am an 18 year old male, and, whenever i am in a club dancing with a girl, or even just squeeze their bum as i walk past them, or hold their hand, or hug them - the smallest sexual things - i get an erection, and it is really annoying. I have recently started to ... (74 words)

I met this great guy when I was drunk...did that turn him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 965 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am scared What should I do? There is this guy who is so fit. I haven't seen him for awhile and we haven't spoke for awhile. I am scared that someone has told him that I fancy him. When I first met him I was a bit drunk and we got talking to each other and I was going to kiss ... (128 words)

I get so drunk, I don't remember anything-my bf is fed up with it all

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and after a year of being really happy together we decided to move in to his flat together, now all we do is argue especially when I have been drinking. Everytime we go out I get blind drunk and cannot control my actions. I get ... (152 words)

My bf finds it very hard to ejaculate-he gets close but it doesn't happen. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend thinks he has a problem, I dont think it is a problem, but he is uncomfortable about it and I promised to try and find out some advice. He finds it very hard to ejaculate. As I say, he is embarrassed by this, but it doesn't bug me. Can anyone assist me with... (93 words)

Can he love me if he kissed another girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - Firstly,sorry for the long question. My bf of 3 years recently kissed another girl. He was always completely against cheating and would be really disgusted if any of his friends cheated on theiir gf. He's v embarassed and confused at mo because he was positive that he... (387 words)

Why don't I feel like having constant sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 822 days ago

2 December 2005 (M) - Hello. I am with my girlfriend just over a month now but we never have much sex. i am 20 and she is 18 and we only had sex twice. i don't understand but my sex drive is not as big with this girl compared to other girls i had on one night stands. I prefer to have a cuddle with ... (98 words)

My boyfriend wants to be alone with his depression, but wouldn't my support help him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend has been depressed for the about half a year. Recently it has gotten worse. He now says that we should break up because he needs time by himself to sort his life out. He says that he loves me, but that he needs to be alone. I want him to get better and I want ... (124 words)

Should I find a random girl to kiss, just to get me started?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 835 days ago

2 December 2005 (M) - Hi, I am 18 and have never had a girlfriend and never even kissed a girl. Do you think it would be good for me to pull a random girl in a club to boost my confidence? I have always thought that my first kiss would be (with someone) special. What do you suggest?... (54 words)

Two miscarriages in 9 months...has caused my bf to lose his sex drive-he's scared to put me through another pregnancy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

2 December 2005 (F)

- My b/f and i have been together for 2 years, over the last 9 months i have been pregnant twice, with both pegnancies i lost both baby's very early into the pregnancies, this has cause alot of phyiscal and emotional pain for myself, my b/f has recently told me that he has lost ... (131 words)

My dream about my bf and best friend deeply troubled me. How do I get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - Ok, I know this is weird but I had a dream that my best friend, me and my bf where at the movies, and I noticed he was completly ignoring me and I saw him and her keep talking (In real life they seem to have more in common than we do) until I saw him put his head on her chest. ... (109 words)

I'm attracted to man even younger than my current bf...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am so confused I am in a relationship of five years that I am not happy with (that is another story) I have been unhappy for a while now I met a man that I am very interested in but the only problem is that he is 22 years old and I am 42 my boyfriend now is 27 I don't know ... (147 words)