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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My husband, who I've known for 7 years, suddenly starts talking of drugs and orgies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I've known the man I married for the past 7 years. We got married last year and I thought we were doing just great. Suddenly, he's talking about having mutiple sex partners with me taking part in the orgy. He's suddenly become interested in taking drugs, quitting his job, ... (197 words)

Should I book the round the world flight!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I really like a man who lives on the other side of the world, thinking about booking a flight going over there rapping on his door and asking him out on a date. Do you think I should??... (45 words)

Got a boyfriend so I dumped all my friends. Now I miss them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - hello, i am just writing because i feel like an absolute loser and i have since my long distance boyfriend moved to where he is now. i guess it is the classic case of girl dumping her friends once she gets a boyfriend. i sort of did that. now that my bf is gone, i feel like i d... (329 words)

I caught my fiance lying and cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 3 years we recently moved I know no one here neither does he but, I just caught him lying and acting different I suspected him cheating I found numbers and I questioned him he finally came out and told me he was talking to a girl ... (172 words)

Should we break up or stick it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Broken Heart wants to know I have been dating my guy for 2 years and things have slowly been getting bad I love him deeply but things got so bad I dealt with my problems wrong and I strayed and ever since then he has treated me like I am a peice of shit. Which I can unde... (194 words)

My parents want me married ASAP, but now my ex has returned, swearing commitment!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Hi to all, I am 24 years girl who is engaged to a cousin. Before I got engaged I was madly in love with a guy. We had a nice relationship, but than things worsened up due to his familial issues. He simply adopted silence and did not contact me,although I tried to contact ... (254 words)

Told my boyfriend I love him... But all I got is silence in return

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am in a similar situation as one of the other readers. I too told my boyfriend I loved him with him not saying that in return. I am so scared now that I will have scared him away. That night he was extra sweet and I have to say that I kinda shunned him but just cause I was ... (116 words)

Why does my ex keep in contact? Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (F)

- I was with my ex boyfriend for 18 months. It was an on/off relationship because one minute he wanted me, the next he didn't. I also felt like he was using me for sex. He could not make his mind up about whether he wanted me or not and carried on acting like this. I kept tak... (317 words)

Is it safe yet to talk to girl who my mom embarrased me in front of?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - Last year I asked a girl out 2 years below me and I she came to my door and I thought she was going to say yes, but my mother said i couldnt come out so I never found out, and then after everyone had teased me and kept asking her, she just hated me. But the other day she was ... (86 words)

Should I tell my best friend I was a webcam-sl*t with the guy she likes? I only did it to get back at her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 913 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - theres this guy he's my x (lets call him will) i still like him even though it was me who ended it. lately hes been sending really dirty txts to my best mate i act like im not bothered but i rly rly am. i havnt told her. yesterday i got back at her though by... uh... being a ... (131 words)

I started it and I finished it with the guy. Can I start it again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Ok..here's a quick recap of what happend. I used to have a crush on the paperboy. I talked to him and went after him but he didn't seem like he got the signals so I backed off. I didn't talk to him for a month because I got busy. Then one day he shows up at my door with a C... (147 words)

I showed her how I felt and now what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - my girl told me she needs a breakup after which u told me to forget her due to the way she behaves knowing that i loved her much. then she never think by relenting, avoiding and harrassing me just because of the way i begged her to be back. apologising no matter who was ... (292 words)

How long to fall in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 930 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - how long does it take to fall in love?... (9 words)

How do I realise my dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - I recently asked for help about how I had aspirations and feelings/dreams that I would be an actor, rich..etc.. and that I felt that I could make it happen. But so far, I still have the feelings, but I dont have the means - I dont know how to begin. I realise this is a ... (70 words)

I feel so alone as if no one cares...how can I stop being so sensitive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - Please help, i am highly annoyed. I am 22, a male, and far too sensitive for my own good, I get hurt and offended quickly and take way too many things to heart, I take things personally and any little thing gets me down. when im feeling down and I need someone to comfort me, ... (200 words)

How do I tell my family I'm involved with a man from another race?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I live in South Africa in a small town and has just got involved with a man from another race and i do not know how to break this news to my kids (Divorced mother) and my friends and family Please help as i do come out of an very racialistic family and i do not know how to ... (67 words)

He cheated on me and I got pregnant by someone else...but does he really love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - i`ve been dating this guy for about a year until he cheated on me,when i called to confronthim about it he said i should believe what i want,and so i left him.try to get over him i had a fling with my ex(the one befor him).we then made-up and thats when i found out that i was ... (148 words)

I've tried to leave him but he always has a reason for me to stay!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for 4.5 years. for the last year and a half i've been trying to leave him for various reasons (unfaithfulness,backstabbing,lying,etc). every time i tell him this, he has a better reason why we should try and work it out. he claims i don't have ... (145 words)

He does not respond to me at all...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am 30 and married for 3 years without children. My marriage was nothing I asked for as I did not love my husband initially but the love grew from his fondness and care for me. However now, he does not love me anymore. I say that because everytime we fight, I am the only one ... (165 words)

How do I move on from her when I see her all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - I've been broken up with my girlfriend for a little more than a month now and I'm still thinking about her all the time. We never had an official break-up, but we decided to slow down our relationship, and now she no longer contacts me. I've made attempts to contact her, but ... (160 words)

I get an orgasm each time I get intimate with my boy... Normal or lucky?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I've read some of the questions about what an orgasm is and some replies said that they're not even sure it they've had one. It took him a while (about 4 mo., it was both our first times having any kind of sexual pleasure by another person), but now my boyfriend is able to give ... (80 words)

How do I get through my Xmas-day breakup with dignity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me on Christmas...we had been fighting a lot lately and he is moving away in 3 weeks, but just that night before he left me we had been planning on trying long distance. I just don't understand how this happened. I feel so alone right now and ... (260 words)

Cheating and lying is out of my character... But it keeps happening!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Well where do i start, my best friend (lets call him James) has been in love with me since we met. I have realised over the past two months that i love him and it's not friendship love its deep love, i have been with my bf Alex for three months. I do really like alex and th... (243 words)

I've never really had a boyfriend, and I don't understand it... I think I'm friendly and have a lot to offer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am a 23 year old female who hasn't had a proper boyfriend. I hear things like 'people can't love you until you learn to love yourself' and similar things, but I do love myself and feel I have a lot to offer and a lot of love to give. I go to clubs to try to socializ... (96 words)

My ex just wants to be friends, but I really want to win her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 941 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid I was in a relationship for 6 years since high school with a smart and beautiful girl. About 4 months ago, I felt like things were going downhill. The sex wasn’t like it used to be, and I found myself interested in other women, so I decided to break up with he... (318 words)

If I get pregnant, can we get married at 16 without our parent's permission?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

28 December 2005 (F) - I am 16 years old and I will be 17 in July of 2006. I live at home with my mom and my brother and I am just so tired of being treated like crap. My boyfriend is 16 also and he will turn 17 two days before me. We have been talking about getting married and having a baby. Th... (162 words)

I can see my wife making the same mistakes during our separation that I did. How can I make her understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

28 December 2005 (M) - My wife and I separated last year for a year because of my verbal anger problem, and had a female friend that I did not do anything with until we were fully separated but she thought otherwise. Six months later she asked me to come back to her and I did because I knew I had ... (624 words)