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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I have crush on a co-worker and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Dear Agony aunt I have a crush on somone who works where I work. I think he likes me too. He only just saw me once where I did a photo shoot. He's a photographer, and I have a feeling he has seen my photos. I don't see him much, but I really like him. I'm too shy to talk to h... (71 words)

I feel guilty but will he ever change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2005 (F)

- Please help me cos i dont know what to do.Iv been seeing this man for nearly 3 yrs but i felt i needed to end it because of the lack of affection he gives to me.He wasnt very good in bed(he lacked foreplay) even though i told him what i wanted! And he was only really loving if ... (156 words)

My man wants to "work on" his marriage, but does he still love me too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 960 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I'm not too sure what to make of my relationship with man who has recently decided to work on his marriage (he has been separated for 2.5 years). I have told him that it's best we break off this special relationship, but it seems he wants to continue. He says he misses me and ... (101 words)

His possessiveness and the age gap are driving a wedge between us. Is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I'm a college student and am in a relationship with a man 7 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months, however I feel trapped in our relationship, he is extremely possessive and this is pushing me further and further away from him. I don't know ... (116 words)

Can't stop thinking about a girl at work, but she's engaged...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - I’m 21 years old and I haven’t had a steady relationship for the past two years. In that time all I have had is quick flings and a couple of one night stands. But there is a girl at work who I have known for a couple of years and I am absolutely crazy about her, I can’t get her ... (110 words)

My feelings for him aren't as strong any more. I don't want to be selfish, but I want to explore the world before I settle down!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - I have been with my boyfirend for 2 years. After about a year we got so close and we even talked about marriage. I thought that this is what I wanted. About a year ago he moved away and I supported it because I knew it would be a great opportunity for him. From this however ... (207 words)

When things are good with my bf, they're great... so why don't I feel secure about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 965 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. Before we got together he was engaged to this girl he'd been dating for 3 years. We got together 3 weeks after they had broken up (I didn't know they had only been broken up that long) For the longest time he still talked a... (427 words)

What do we do about the rape allegations and our son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 963 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - My 16-year-old son was suspended from school over allegations he raped someone, when he was raped himself. He told me he had been raped, and that the allegations that he raped someone was a lie, and he is not sure what to do next. How do me and my wife deal with the situat... (76 words)

I can't understand why my guy wants to pretend we're not actually together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I have a problem. I feel like my new boyfriend is trying to hide our relationship at school. He says because his ex girlfriend might kick my ass. He says he likes me a lot, he just doesn't want me to get hurt. I'm not sure if his ex coming after me is the only reason w... (157 words)

No time is ever a good time for sex with my husband, and it's affecting my self-esteem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I'm having problems at the moment with my relationship. We are not having any fun in the bedroom and I'm feeling unatrtractive. Last night, when my little daughter was asleep in her own bedroom for a change, I tried to be intimate with my husband by giving him oral pleasure... (207 words)

Should I accept our marriage is over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Here is my dilema. My husband and I were married in April and separated in June. I love this man more than anything in this world. But after we got married, thing went downhill. He totally shut me out of his life, did not ask me to a family reunion, is only an every other ... (177 words)

Her ex is causing so many problems...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and she tells me she wants to have my baby, wants to marry me, loves me more than anyone. The problem is her ex came back two months ago to see his daughter, he was unemployed and made no contact with his daughter for ... (250 words)

I still have feelings for the guy I first kissed but I'm married! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I recently saw an old boyfriend from my teen years after 20 years. He was my first kiss and every summer we would flirt and then I would go back home till the next summer. The last time I saw him, we got caught by his parents having sex. He wrote me a very long love letter ... (358 words)

He's engaged to another and I think it becoming more than just a friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I posted a while back about not being friends with an engaged male.... I need to change that. I don't think I see him as a friend! We had an affair earlier in the year and because I'm an emotional person, we fell out over me over reacting. Since then, we've sort of begun to ... (168 words)

Any tips on talking to girls...one on one?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - hi im 18 yr old male - sorry for the stupid question - it's not one anyone can answer really - but i thought i'd say it anyway.... it's just that i never know what to say to people (especially girls). i like being in a big group and just chipping in occasionally, but i never ... (72 words)

He treated me so badly yet he treats her so well and I can't forget him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F)

- My ex-boyfriend finished with me 6 months ago and is now in love with someone else. He does absolutely everything for her, even stopped seeing his friends because she told him not to. He really respects her and I have to see them together all the time or hear how wonderful they ... (224 words)

I she seeing him properly or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend for three years now. we broke up for a while in between and saw other people. but she has never fully broke it off completely with the guy she was seeing. we havent been having sex for about 6 months. this isreally frustrating! she said its just her, ... (173 words)

She blows hot and cold...where do I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid, Well !it's been just over 6 months since my girlfriend and I broke up after being together over 3 years. Since breaking up, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions ! My ex-girlfriend would not talk to me one day and then the next she would call unexpectly,... (158 words)

Am I right to cut my husband's family out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F)

- My husbands family have never accepted me into their circle ... I am 12yrs older than him and we have been together for 7yrs. My mother in law is bosom buddies with her 2 other daughters in- law and they gossip about me behind my back. I have decided to cut them off from me, ... (78 words)

How do we achieve a healthy sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I have been with a my man for a little over 2 years. Things were always fab with us, sex, laughs so much in common and we are madly in love. We have a great relationship except for the sex, as he's not interested or can't be bothered.. what do i do to get it back ? I have ... (520 words)

Do I tell her what her boyfriend says about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - I was recently at a works night out with the girls from work and their is this girl who i realey like she is so nice very careing and wuldnt hurt a fly and she sees good in everyone but when i was standing at the bar her boyfriend was slaging her off sumthing awfull i could ... (122 words)

Should I be upset about him using drugs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F)

- I just found out that my bf is a pot smoker. I'm not just talking about doing it at parties, but that he has a hidden stash in his bedroom! I'm upset because my bf knows I am VERY against any drug use. He has always told me he can't stand drugs. So he has been lying to me al... (147 words)

I am so worried...he says he is going to take pills and never wake up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - Hi I have a very serious problem, my bf has been away in the uk for 1yr and i'll be joing him early next year. I received a call from him that he can not take the pain of bein away from me, and that he wants to die, he said that he is goin to take pills and never wake up. I ... (286 words)

Her online friend is making me feel so hurt...how can I get help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - I have been with my partner for 3 yrs and we have a beautiful 2 yr old daughter. For the last few months our relationship has been really rocky. I feel like we are growing apart and I can't help blaming myself. The problem began with my partners emotional distance and low ... (1156 words)

My best friend only ever talks about her new boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 967 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I really need some help on this. My best friend has a bf and I'm very happy for her and all that, but it's just that since they're dating she seems changed. I mean all she ever talks about is Joey this, Joey that. It's so annoying but I can't tell her that, she'll be mad at me. ... (163 words)

Why would my guy stop contacting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We talk everyday, on the phone or through the internet. I am at college so I can't physically be with him. Anyway, the past couple days he hasn't called or instant messaged me. It's driving me nuts, because I catch myself just ... (113 words)

We broke up but she says I'm perfect-so why can't she decide if she wants to come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 967 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - Hi, im 21 and my girlfriend is 19. We both went through a lot of troubles together and i helped her through a family crisis that her friends did not help her out with after only a week of going out. We've been goin out for 7 months but after the 5th or 6th month, she started to ... (366 words)

My future girlfriend knows all about my upcoming divorce and I don't understand why she's avoiding me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 966 days ago

3 December 2005 (M) - This is a really tricky one and I would appreciate it if you would read the whole thing first. I am 28 and have been with the same woman for about 10 years. We have been married for 3 years and are now expecting our first child. The last 6 years have not really been that... (497 words)