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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can't form relationships with guys because of my Dad... e.g. we didn't talk for two whole years despite living under the same roof!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Can someone tell me what is wrong with my Dad and how I can get around this problem we’re having because it is seriously affecting me in that I can’t form relationships with men (by that I mean boyfriend/girlfriend relationships)? From my teenage years until now (early... (1089 words)

I keep falling head over heels in love after girls show the slightest interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - please someone give me some advice im a real nice decent guy, im honest and im, said modestly, good looking. im quite shy although i can hide this by being over confident but in general when it comes to the opposite sex im quiet and have always struggled to get a girlfriend... (114 words)

Finding it hard to make any moves with my girl. What if she's lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - Hi, I have been going out with my girlfriend for little over a week now (I know it's not really that long) but I am finding it hard to make the forward advances or be myself round her. I really do like her and don't really want to lose her through my shyness, but I don't think ... (132 words)

Married for 12 years, no sex, sleep in seperate beds... I want to leave for my lover but what about the kids?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - We've been married for 12 years and have 2 children but have slept in separate rooms for about 5 yrs (since kid no 2)and sex is just a 3 letter word. Thru work I've met a woman of similar age, with partner but no kids, who I've fallen madly in love with. Been seeing each other ... (112 words)

Paranoid that my Internet lover will turn up and reveal all to my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - this is a really odd question but its really starting to worry me. i have been married for 4 years now and its been up and down most of the time. during one of these down times i met somebody over the internet. we have only ever met twice and chat quite alot on the computer. i ... (147 words)

Is eight years between us too much to make "us" work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a girl and 17 years old. I have been talking to a 26 year old guy on the phone and online every day for the past month and 1/2. He is very sweet and we know each other through a family member. We are starting to like each other but we feel like the 8 year difference ... (92 words)

Met a guy I really connected with, but he seems afraid to fall in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - I met this wonderful guy in Oct 05. I'm 31 and he's 25. He works out of town a lot in the metal pipe/construction business. We hung out a lot for the 2 weeks he was in town and we really hit it off. He stayed over a couple of nights and we really felt a connection (no, we ... (306 words)

Do I trust that my boyfriend is only friends with other girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6689 days ago

17 December 2005 (F)

- Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now. He tells me how he talks to other girls on the phone and hangs out with them including his ex girlfrinds. He goes to parties and everything. Should I trust him that he is not going to do nothing with any other girl? He... (67 words)

He doesn't have an orgasm through intercourse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great sex life- we're really attracted to each other and always have been, and I orgasm nearly every time we sleep together. The only problem is, although I know I really enjoy myself and he insists that he does too, he hardly ever comes during sex ... (132 words)

I'm afraid I'm moving too slowly for my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6698 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - Hey, I have a problem with being too shy with girls (it's the reason my last girlfriend dumped me). I can never work up the nerve to kiss the girl no matter how much i dig her or she digs me. I'm not saying I can't kiss them or move to the sequential bases but i just move ver... (85 words)

My jealousy is destroying our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6695 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Hello. My problem is quite stupid but here it is. I'm 21 and have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a month. We really love each other, but I get really jealous, and it's sick, but I can't help it. I lost my virginity with him, but he lost it like 6 years ago with a girl. ... (140 words)

Have I ruined my chances for a relationship AND friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - I am very good friends with a guy i work with, he is a few years younger than me, nothing has ever happened between us but we are very close and other people assume it has. I know that he has strong feelings for me, yet mine are stronger for him. Lately he seems to have backed ... (98 words)

Is my ex really in love or am I just being used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6697 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Hi, my partner and I broke up 4 months ago. We were together for 5 years. He was going through a bad time when we broke up as his father had just died and he wasnt in a great frame of mind. He has told me since then that he regrets us breaking up and selling our home. H... (216 words)

Am I too needy or is my boyfriend being cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years, we plan on getting married when i graduate from college. we are in a long distance relationship and he plans on moving back in march. the phone is our way of communicating and i feel that we should talk to each other as much ... (115 words)

How long is too long to wait for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - We are only platonic friends but I want more out of the relationship. For several months now, I would say that there is only a handful of days that I had not hung out with him. All of our mutual friends want us to date (I want to date him and I have been totally up front an... (216 words)

I had a sexless marriage until my sexy scrabble playing webcam girl turned up... But now she's found someone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid-I've been married 23 yrs to a good woman.however we are mostly :"freinds" now.About totally sexless. @ yrs ago I was playing games on the net when a woamn asked me to paly w/ her & freind.it was "dirty scrabble".had a blast. I was down at the time & this ... (198 words)

Am I just too nice to my girlfriend?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - Is it possible to be too much of a nice guy...(wishy washy)? Could that drive a girl away, even if she says that all her exes were assholes compared to me?... (31 words)

It looks like we like each other, but how do we make that next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. I think this happens to everyone but I'm not sure how others go about it. There is a beautiful lady that I see almost every day at a local coffee shop. I've gotten to where we say hi and wave. She smiles when she sees me. That's all, thou... (138 words)

We fight a couple of times a month. Is that healthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6670 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Cupid: Hi, my boyfriend and I fight like 2, maybe 3 times a month. Is that healthy? And it's not no little fight either; we usually go at each other worse than cats and dogs. What should I do?... (40 words)

Is it just my boyfriend's stepmom who's getting in the way of our living together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I are supposed to move in together, but I haven't heard from him in 10 days. Then I heard that he was leaving the house, he was living in with his stepmom. They keep telling me he doesn't love me, but when I talk to him he tells me he loves me and that he can't... (78 words)

Our breakup lasted just long enough for him to be turned down by someone else! Do I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6699 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me and asked someone else out, then dumped her within a day and asked me back out by note. Should I say 'yes' and go back out with him or should I say 'no' and not go back out with him?... (49 words)

She's just too tight and it's a strain on my penis!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

17 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend's vagina is really tight. I have an uncircumsized penis and every time we have sex, it kills me because my skin gets pulled back and actually stays like that. I have to pull out and fix it, it gets annoying. We don't want to use a condom or lubricate, so I make h... (69 words)