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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex is very painful for me and I am getting white spots. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1029 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - i am in a sexual and serious relationship. we have been having sex but it is too painfull for me! then i start geting white spots? is this normal? is starting to worrie us now!!!... (37 words)

Can a friendship exist when one of two people is madly in love with the other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1030 days ago

9 December 2005 (F)

- Hia, Same person as last time. We've now established where we both stand in our relationship. We're just friends. He really likes the other girl, and I'm happily flirting. But I still love him, can a friendship exist when one of them is madly in love with the other? (i've wat... (75 words)

He's worth waiting for but I don't know where I stand. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1025 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I have met a really sweet, wonderful guy and would love to be his girlfriend. He has indicated that he would like to be in a relationship, but on another occasion he has also said that a ‘friend’ of his betrayed him really badly and I wonder if, as a consequence of this ... (213 words)

never had a bf because I lack confidence...any ideas on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - im a 16 year old girl and i have never been with a guy.i have two problems i am very shy and lack confidence.it gets me down that i have never experienced a relationship because all my friends do be talking about there boyfriends and it makes me think is the something wrong ... (92 words)

Still a virgin because girls leave when they see my little todger!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - I have a small dick (3.5"). I am quite capable of attracting girls and getting them to take their clothes off. But when they see my penis they run a mile. Because of this I am a virgin at 20 yrs old. This is driving me crazy. I am at university and I should be rampant. Instead ... (108 words)

It hurts me a lot because he kisses other girls..what can I do about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 370 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - i like my boyfriend and he says he likes me 2 but we keep having fights bacause he kisses other girls and if i kissed other boys id be dumped so i dont know what to do about him. i dont know if he really does like me he hurts me a lot... (53 words)

Ok so he IS a goth AND shorter than me BUT we both like each other. That IS all that counts... Right!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are different in a lot of ways. For instance I'm a girle-girl while hes a goth, I'm a year older than him, I'm a little taller than him...... then again does it really matter? We both like each other thats all that counts...right?... (47 words)

I'm a good looking, laid back guy...so why can't I get a gf?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - im a single guy of 28. good looking not over weight. no baggage or issues, very laid back and easy going. one of those real good guys that is honest and reliable. doesnt get jealous, gives space and trust. can be quite shy and so on but defo have something to say for myself and ... (113 words)

Can I ever trust the woman who cheated on me with her lover, even after we reconciled?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1030 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - Are my concerns real or imagined paranoia? Can I ever trust my partner again? Will our fears tear us apart? The back story, is that I have been with this girl for over 2 years. This was a long distance relationship for the first year. 1.5 years into our relationship we ... (564 words)

My ex bf has assaulted me and smashed my car...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I have an ex boyfriend who has been giving my life hell for the last 4 months he has smashed my car and assaulted me.... (25 words)

Who do I choose..my new college bf or my long-term steady bf??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Please help me. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years since i was 15, he has been my first sexual partner as well. Im at college at the moment and have been for the past five years. There is this boy at college who has liked me from the start (September) and he asked for... (755 words)

Stay with my boyfriend or take a chance with a guy I met through text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for a year, with a guy I have known romantically and not for four years. It is a very good relationship and makes me happy. Over the summer we seperated for 6 weeks and through text I met a guy who I got along well with but never me... (129 words)

He doesn't follow through on the plans we make-why is he like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Hi all, thanks for taking the time to look at my question. The problem is that we make plans and my bf never keeps to them and most of the idea is his in the first place. its causing me a lot of embarassement always explaining to family and friends. he has insisted three t... (190 words)

We met on a dating site-but his profile is still active and logging on to it, regularily!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I have been dating a guy i met on a dating site for 8 months now, and i thought everything was going really well. He has got to know my kids and is buying them xmas presents, we have been on holiday etc... So, i was showing a friend how the dating site worked because she was ... (127 words)

My gf is very shy and when I get the chance to kiss her...I chicken out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 7 months! shes really shy and she is normally like that and is starting to really open up to me. i really want to kiss her but i can never get the chance or when i have the chance i chicken out. what do i do???... (62 words)

Want to meet my online bf... but my family don't support me and they embarrass me by the way they act!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1031 days ago

9 December 2005 (F)

- I have a few questions in relation to my situation here. Basically I'm 16 years old and in high school. I have known a guy called Andy for a while, on the net. He's a really good person. Now before anyone even starts to warn me about all the possibilities of him lying and not ... (547 words)

Does he mean what he says about love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - hi, ive been with my current bf now for nearly 3 months, not long i know. in the beginning we took it really slow, not knowing what we both wanted, but the last month we both had long chats about "us" and we both decided that we wanted to be serious with eachother and faithful... (389 words)

Is my friend just using me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (F)

- Hello, Ok so I know this question isn't exactly relationship related, well technially it is, i mean 2 friends have a 'relationship', but im gona ask it anyways. I have had this friend since I was in year 4 (so thats almost 10 years!). We met in primary school and you know han... (417 words)

I lied to my girlfriend...now what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - i need some advice i recently told my girlfriend a lie i told her that i owend my house but i dont. NOW i regret it how do i get out of this mess?I dont no why i told her that.... (41 words)

What can I do to get her to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is afraid to open up to me. It's not that she dosen't trust me, or is afraid that I will not care for her anymore, but she dosen't like to make herself vulnerable. There is something from her past that she wants to tell me but can't bring herself to do it. We talk ... (80 words)

How can I move on from him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1024 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - I need to know how to move on from my boyfriend we have split up due to his job as he is in the navy and getting good education but feels we can't be together because he can't give me the time and affection i need. Please please help me i need to move on and stop crying and i ... (62 words)

I cannot trust my bf because he lies..but I love him so how do I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 953 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Hi guys. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs. he is 28 and i am 26yrs. am afraid he isnt a very good person but his family and him keeps begging me to stay with him. his mum says i am good for him and will help him. Earlier on in the relationship he admiitted to me to be involve... (333 words)

Can anyone help? I need some advice on how to tell if my gf is really into me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - How can I tell if she is really into me...need some ideas besides the ones I already have...I just came back from Iraq and have my doubts. please email to ldej01@aol.com... (31 words)

Is it normal to never having any feelings for another person? I only seem drawn to females for physical reasons...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1032 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - Is it normal to never having any feelings for another person? The only things that draw me to women are purely physical. I watch everybody around me being in love and doing certain things I could just never imagine myself doing. I've never felt love for another person. ... (127 words)

My bf and I are both very shy people and our relationship is going nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1033 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend hooked up a few weeks ago. The problem with our relationship is that we both are incredibly SHY! I've tried talking to him but then I just freeze and stand there. Don't get me wrong I love my boyfriend but I also want this relationship on a higher level. I ... (103 words)

Was my ex just using me? Or is there a chance we can work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1033 days ago

9 December 2005 (F) - My ex and I broke up a week or so back. We have spent alot of time together since, and things have been better. We ended up having sex again the other night, and now I'm confused. I know I want to be with him, But i dont think he feels the same. He said he loved and cared about ... (110 words)

I know I'm being silly, but I'm so paranoid about my girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - I think I am losing the plot. I have a great girlfriend who I a currently with who has never given me reason to doubt what we have. However my paranoia means I ask questions and I get scared and worry about what we have. Tonight my weird episodes have gone a stage further. My ... (103 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from a girl... Should I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1033 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - About six months ago I asked a female friend who I really like if she would like to go out for a drink with me sometime. She sent me a text message back saying she would thought she was busy the coming weekend she suggested the following weekend. The following weekend I was ... (579 words)

I want to help my gf cope with her parent's divorce..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1033 days ago

9 December 2005 (M) - Dear Alice, My girlfriend's parents are recently divorced. She is 17. She lives with her mum at the moment, but her mum has taken to drinking and is constantly criticising her and making her feel awful, and they are constantly arguing. She has tried living with her dad but he i... (182 words)