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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He lied to me about having a fiancee-do you think he lied because he's confused and wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - hey! i'm hoping someone can shed some light on a confusing situation! basically there's this lad that i really really like and i've liked him for ages and we've kissed on loads of occasions when we've seen each other out, the only trouble is that he's always got a girlfriend ... (316 words)

Afraid to approach guys for dates...not sure if I can handle the rejection.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - When I was in my teens I was not afraid to ask guys out and if they said no, it didn't really bother me or hurt me. Now after a few years and a few relationships in which I didn't make the first move, I find myself wanting to ask someone out but I feel that all that courage I ... (130 words)

He's depressed and needed space-so we broke up! Now when I attempt contact-he ignores me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - I was going out with a really great guy for nearly a year. He has been going through a lot of problems recently and dipped into a depression. He told me that he loves me deeply. But now he wants us to break up. He talks of how he has become a bad person and how he must be ... (202 words)

We argue a lot and have great make-up sex...is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 942 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - my boyfriend and i have had a steady loving relationship for over a year now and i love him to bits. however i think we argue too much, he said that he loves our fights and loves making up. i wont denie that he makes me feel very special and our arguements are often exciting ... (72 words)

Our first attempt at sex was a disaster..now he blames himself for what happened.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time a few days ago...it didnt work out too well. We didnt use lubricant and foreplayed only a little bit. When he tried to enter me, I was too tight and after 30 minutes of trying we eventually gave up and decided he was too ... (127 words)

Our past makes me hesitant to tell him how I feel about him. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - There is a boy that I like at school, he acts differently around me but we have had a complicated past (long story) and I don't know whether to tell him how I feel because of this. He makes me feel safe and happy whenever I am around him. What do i do?... (53 words)

I like this new guy a lot but how do I persuade him to leave his bf for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

4 December 2005 (M)

- hiya, im 22 a gay male, ive meet a really nice lad who i like alot, he likes me aswell, the only problems is that this lad ive meet already has a boyfriend, wot can i do to persuade him to leave his boyfriend for me, me and this lad have already spent many evenings together and ... (145 words)

Everyone else has dates for the school dance..it's getting me down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - This may sound a bit stupid but to a young girl at school, trust me it ain't, well hear i go, am having trouble at school, its the school dance soon and i think i'm the only one without a date, all my friends have a guy or a girl to go with and the fact that i don't is really ... (92 words)

I'm confused..does he or doesn't he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - Hey everyone, sorry if this seems all whiney and pathetic and I know that loads of people have much bigger problems, but here goes. So theres this boy who i used to think was really good looking but he was going out with this really pretty girl in my year. Anyways they bro... (196 words)

I don't want to break up with my gf; I just want us to be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - Hiya, my girlfreind wants to break up. She says the relationship is going nowhere. We've been together 8 months and since she started her new job about a month ago we don't get much time together - maybe twice a week. I don't want to break up. I think we still have a lot to ... (63 words)

My girlfriend is so completely changed... I don't even know who she is any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - This is a long and winded question. My girlfriend and I of four years recently split up terribly. Over the past four years her and I were best friends, companions and talked about everything to eac hother. For four years I truly felt like I knew this person as she told me I was ... (758 words)

Suddenly I'm attracted to a girl a year below me. I don't know how to start talking to her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - Hi everyone, I have a problem. I'm in year 11 and for some reason I have feelings for this girl in year 10 who I have never spoken to in my life. Why is this happening? How can I start a conversation with her? It's hard to talk to her because she doesn't even know who I am and ... (68 words)

He's got no time for me any more! Should I just put up with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - I need help. I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years and he is 11 years older than I am. Now before this year everything was good between us; we did things together and we always showed we loved each other. Now he has no time for me at all, he's always busy or goin... (127 words)

My best friend moved in on the guy I used to like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (?) - Hey I'm 15 and am feeling as low as possible. Me and my best friend have been so close for like 7 years. She's like a sister to me. We were really excited about a house party she was organising. I got all dressed up and started to have a really good time. There was this bl... (196 words)

I want to be with my sister

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - When I was 14, being on holiday in spain, my 15 year old sister got drunk. And while she was asleep, being curious I performed oral sex on her. She doesnt know what happened but I want to tell her so that we can be together. What shall I do?... (50 words)

Do we have a chance despite his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - where do i begin? ive been with my current bf now for just over 2 months. It was never really easy for me in the begining when i met him, as he has a young daughter from a previous relationship. Ive never been out with anyone with a child before, and didnt really know how to ... (502 words)

Should my friend's ex and I be together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - Hi. My friend split up with his girlfriend. The other dy, i went with my other friend to see his girlfriend, and my other friends ex was there. We got talking, and we got on really well. It ended in nus kissing, and now i feel bad because i think my friend might be angry. ... (89 words)

I suffer from depression and I feel no one cares...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (?) - Im 17 and suffer badly from depression so much to the stage that i have been hospitalized twice in the past 18 months from suicide attempts and i cut my thigh with a razor blade often.I have problems with a genetic illness which is destroying my family so i cannot speak to my ... (261 words)

Why won't he introduce me to his friends and family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - My question is quite unusual: I have been dating this guy for 8 months and in all this time he refuses to take me home or introduce me to his friends and family. He always asks to meet in a restaurant or pub etc near where I live "to save me travelling". Now I am sure he is ma... (168 words)

Should my best friend and I really be together??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - i have had a male bestfreind for 15 years that i have had sexual realsions with for alot of that time even while in other realasionships which 1 of those i was engaged and had two children.does this mean my best freind is the one.i do love him very much.we have never offically ... (60 words)

He wants me to have sex with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 940 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - I have been with this guy off and on for almost 4yrs and he wants me to have sex with another guy before he takes me back i don't know why but he said he wants me to full out of love with him and then full back in love with him but i can't bring myself to have sex with anyother ... (89 words)

Should I go out with her though she's seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - There's this girl at my school who I've liked for a while now. We're in different classes, so we don't get to see each other much even at school. But, I noticed whenever I led a TA session, she'd come to my session, and we would exchange looks in the hallways occasionally. ... (144 words)

How can I fix my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - i am 16 years of age and im trying the best i can to fix my relationship. my partner is 28 years older then me and i love him too bits my friends and family have funally approved of him and we have been going out for 5 months. but we just cant seem to stop arguing and fighting ... (169 words)

Do I stay with him or do I date others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - im sooo confused.. i love my boyfriend, dearly.. but hes 22 and im not even 21.. and hes like one of my only friends..He is sooo serious about us, and i dont even know how i feel about him. and i dotn want to lose him... but i still have an erge to date other people, and i ... (220 words)

Are we having sex too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 944 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have sex on average once a day, and about every 2 days it's twice a day. While this is great for me, and for him too, I'm worried that this will become a problem at some point. Am I just being paranoid? Or is this normal?... (50 words)

He's an alcoholic and can be abusive...but I love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 942 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - How much can I take? My relationship began over 3 years ago with a man that I fell in love in with. He is charming, intelligent and handsome. He is also an alcoholic. At first he hid this from me, and when we moved in together two years ago I began to see the signs. I thought ... (139 words)

We have a daughter...but will we ever be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - I was good friends with this guy for 5 years. We did not talk for a while becasue he went to prison I went and picked him up from prison in december of 2004 he came and lived with me at my house He had nothing I helped him get everything he needed we winded up getting involved ... (392 words)

My boyfriend is leaving for the Army in a month. Should I try to stay with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 943 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend just joined the Army and he says he wants to still be with me, but ths past weekend and week he has not really talked to me or hung out with me. I have talked to him and he says he loves me and everyone needs time with him cause he leaves in 1 month. I have bee... (76 words)

How can I get her to orgasm through sex alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

4 December 2005 (M) - Well, I just wanted to know what the hell i could do to finnaly get my girlfriend to come. I mean she comes from oral stimulation... (and she comes hard too) but for some reason she cant come from normal sex. I dont know what would be the problem. I mean I guess its that when ... (140 words)