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Archived questions from: 11 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We broke up because of her problems...do I give her space or do I help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up yesterday, ending a 11-month relationship. She broke it off because she's unhappy with us, and thinks that she's unhappy with us because she's unhappy with herself. She said she still loves me but wishes to break it off to deal with herself first. ... (79 words)

Was my boyfriend's porn CD really just "something a friend had given him"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

11 December 2005 (F)

- Hi, found some cds with porn on it and a dvd porn movie in my boyfriends office, i told him i did not like him looking at it and i found it hurtful and an insult, i asked him why he looks at it and was it becuase i am ugly or if i am boring in bed and instead he kept going on... (198 words)

Dating an 18-year girl old as a 26-year old guy... What am I letting myself in for?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 19 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I am attracted to an 18 year old girl (and she is attracted back) but I feel I shouldn't be as I am 26. Surely people of these ages are in a different place in their lives and it wouldn't work. Despite all of that I am probably going to unable to restrain myself. What am... (68 words)

How can you make your EX-boyfriend interested in you again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - How can you make you ex-boyfriend intersted in you again without making it obvious? He acts like he still likes me, but is also interested in other girls.... but when I try to talk to other guys he gets all nervous and then tries to make me scared I will never talk to him ... (98 words)

I'm obsessing over how my boyfriend lost his virginity... Drunk, in a tent, with a non-virgin-girl older than him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 905 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Hi. My name is Polly, I am 18 years old, and I'm having a bad time. I feel I should warn you in advance that this is likely to be an extortionately long email, as I have a lot to get off my chest, but I really just want to start from the very beginning and tell somebody ev... (1426 words)

Uni guy asked me for a drink but now I've seen him out with his g/f... What's the real deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Okay so I like, well really like this guy "Donny" in my class at uni. We get on dead well and are always dead flirty and he has kinda hinted to me that he'd liked to go out with me ("We should go for a drink smtm...")But, shock horror, I was on the bus the other day and ... (82 words)

He's so friendly that he's hard to read..is he interested in me as girlfriend material?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - I need some advice. I met this really lovely guy just over a year ago. He gets on really well with almost everyone he meets, but I am unsure whether he is interested in me as girlfriend material or whether he is just being his usual friendly self. He is a very open and ... (336 words)

Internet lover of 4 months wants to marry me! Is he just playing a game with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - Im a guy and with a relationship with another guy over on the internet for 4 months. We both love each other very much. My partner has ask me to be his husband and hes serious! Does this show that he really loves me or just playing games with me? side note(we havent met but ... (62 words)

My bf is is obsessed with collecting paraphernalia from 1992. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is 26. Recently he has become obsessed with 1992; he has newspapers, magazines and video tapes from this year around our house. He even says "1992 was the best year ever. Things were more technologically advanced then compared to now". He ... (90 words)

Can I trust and forgive him..even though he has sex with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Oh my God! i need advice on this so much, i hope someone can help. ive been with my boyfriend now for 3 months. about 2-3 weeks ago, he said that he wanted to be serious with me. in the begining it was just fun, neither of us wanting anything serious, i noticed myself s... (849 words)

Girls mistake my abundance of pre-cum fluid for premature ejaculation. It's embarrassing...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - During foreplay I have an abundance of pre cum fluid and it can be very embarrasing and almost impossible to hide. Girls that I date often mistake this for ejaculation and assume that I "am not up to the job". Is there anything I can do to control this?????... (49 words)

She has feelings for me and her ex..do I forget her or keep trying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I was seeing this girl for several months although about 3 of those we were apart for summer brake as we are both at uni, but live in different towns. About a month ago she texted me sayin that she just wanted to be friends to which I found out she still had feelings for her ... (145 words)

My friends tease me about my ugly gf-I thinks she's beautiful! What can I do about these friends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 921 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I have a girlfriend currently but a lot of my friends think she is ugly but i think she's beautiful and i love her. I do get teased sometimes and it really gets on my nerves. what should i do???... (40 words)

Husband is visiting dating sites just for 'fun and games'...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 933 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - how do i know if my husband is lying? i found out that he has been going to dating web sites and trying to find a girl. when i confronted him he said that him and his friend were just doing it for fun and games. I went to his profile and the title for it was fun and games. ... (88 words)

Help!! I'm so vain! I spend hours gazing at myself..what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Please help me. I am so vain. Whenever I pass myself in the mirror I look at myself and pose, sometimes even naked. I brush my hair and put makeup on just to look at myself and I can never draw myself away. Sometimes I even talk to my reflection and kiss it! I must l... (88 words)

I don't have the same feelings as she does-how do I tell her with causing hurt feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I have been Going out with this girl for few weeks now and i did fancy her. But recently i feel as though we should just be friends. But i dont no how to word it 2 her, she still very much likes me but i dont feel the same way. Can anyone help me out on this matter? How can i ... (77 words)

My friends have bf's and I'm a bit jealous. How do I get the confidence to talk to to guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I don't really know how to start this. I really want a boyfriend, I guess. There's a guy I really like who's 13, but I hardly know him, I've just seen him around and he's mates with one of my other guy friends. There's also a group of guys who are 2 years younger ... (224 words)

Scared by physical intimacy... What if I hyperventilate when I kiss!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (F)

- hey, I have a problem with the physical side of a relationship. What I mean is, I'm to scared to kiss a guy who might be my bf or go any further. I am 16 years old and have had 2 bfs, the first one only lasted a week and he dumped me because I wouldn't go any further. The ... (290 words)

Any ways I can reduce my sex-drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 936 days ago

11 December 2005 (M)

- Are there any ways to reduce sex-drive for guys? Pills, techniques, ways of thinking? I am a 27-year old guy whose sex-drive can sometimes become an annoyance. When I'd rather be working, I'll be thinking of screwing or seeking out pornography. I'll happily jerk off (if sin... (87 words)

My experience with my best friend age 10, over a decade ago, leaves me thinking I may be gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Hello,i got one question,i remember at the age of 10 my best friend(f) and i were playing and eventually we started touching each other,kissed and it felt good,my mom walked in and caught us,we were immediately separaete for life,i never saw her after.we changed schools and ... (109 words)

Did I make a huge mistake by issuing an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - I just broke up with my beau after 2 1/2 yrs. I am 38 and he is 37. We had a wonderful relationship but I gave him the ultimatium and he just can't commit. I am devestated. He said he has to think about it and he will call me. It has been almost 3 weeks and no call. I am ... (140 words)

We loved. We rowed. We split up... But now I just slept with him again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - I am a 21 yrs old female and was dating this amazing guy for 3 years (who is now 23). Things were always amazing in our relationship except that we would have "heated conversations" about how we would get married and how our kids would be raised (ie: if we would circumsize ... (434 words)

With my husband since I was 16, but now I'm in love with my brother-in-law!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

11 December 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, I might be in the most confusing situation then I can ever think of. Well first let me start off that I am a young wife and mother of two. I am only 22 years old. My husband and I have been together for about 6 years and married for two, but before we ever got... (262 words)

I don't like the way my girlfriend's been treating me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 927 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 22 years old and my girlfriend is 26. I love her more than anything but don't really like the way she treats me. We been togeather for 1 year. She treats me different compared to the way she use to, like she used to be more caring and loving. I always try... (130 words)

I've fallen for a lad I know on the net... but he has a girlfriend already!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

11 December 2005 (F)

- Ok well here goes I really need some advice! I talk to a lad regularly on the net, we get on great, and we have become great friends. The thing is, I feel like I have fallen for him now and I don't know what to do. We've told each other we like each other in the past, and we... (278 words)

No confidence with girls because I feel so short!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I'm currently 15, 16 soon and have had 1 tiny growing spurt this year. Everytime I grow, everyone else seems to tower above me. When will I have my growth? I don't want to remain tiny all my life! I have no confidence with anything especially girls because of my height.... (51 words)