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Archived questions from: 31 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

The girl I love is engaged and needs time to decide to leave her fiance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I am in love with this girl. She is supposed to be getting married this summer to someone else. I just met her but it is love at first sight. She also feels very strongly about me or at least she tells me she does. She said that she needs time to make decisions (leaving ... (120 words)

Is it illegal for me (aged 18) to go out with a 15-year-old girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I am an 18 year old male and I have been friends with a 15 year old girl. We now have relationship feelings for each other. Is this illegal if we did go out? Or would it be illegal only if we had sexual contact?... (45 words)

I got dumped after a week with my boyfriend. Now he's not sure if that was the right thing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I started my new school in September. I love it. There's this really fit boy there. I went out with him, then after a week he dumped me. I don't know what I did wrong. I asked him why and he said I don't know why I did it. I still really fancy him and he fancies me. We are r... (203 words)

I'm always the person who has to take the initiative with my relationship. Should I just break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - Should I break up with my boyfriend? He doesn't call me or talk to me at all. I usually have to push him to do stuff, like asking me to a dance. He's a great guy and I don't want to regret anything. I really do like him but our relationship is getting boring!... (55 words)

My friend's boyfriend hits on me whenever she's not around. I want to say something without hurting her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

31 December 2005 (F)

- Hi, My problem is kind of simple, but how do I tell my friend that her boyfriend constantly hits on me when she isn't around? I don't want to tell her because I am afraid she won't believe me, but on the other hand I want her to know what he does. Please help me. If I tell her... (109 words)

My wife masturbates when I'm asleep, then blames me for not wanting sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My wife of 23 years is bringing me down at every turn. She will sit up virtually all night(3.30 - 4.00am) and frequently masturbates, then revels in telling me. I get the blame of not wanting sex with her which is total rubbish. Shes now watching programmes about sex and ... (69 words)

She left me without an explanation and all I found was a text from some guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend has just split from me and I have no idea Why. We have been going out for 2.5 years and everything was going great. We had moved in together last March. We had everything we always wanted until last week when I found a text from a guy. How Can I get her back?... (56 words)

My boyfriend wants to get married and we love each other a lot, but I can't help dwelling on my past mistakes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we went out and bought an engagement ring recently which we are both thrilled about. My problem is, I am disgusted at my past- who I have slept with, mistakes I have made, and subsequently feel that I don't deserve hi... (130 words)

We've been engaged for a year, and it seems like all his friends and family hate me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

31 December 2005 (F)

- I have been engaged to this guy for a little over a year now, and things between us are good, but when he moved here to live with me, since I own my home and I live about a hour away from his hometown, all his friends have been telling him he's crazy for moving, saying they're ... (274 words)

Bored with my 5-month-old relationship. Any comments from readers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I've been in a relationship for 5 months now and I'm kind of getting bored. I don't get those butterflies anymore. I'm an indecisive person and she knows this but she still asks me questions to something I can't choose. Then when I decide to do something she says:" ahh naaa, I ... (133 words)

I think we're connecting and want to be exclusive... but he's still got his profile on the dating site

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I met a man on a date site and we hit it off. On the third date I found out something was there, so I asked 'what are we doing?' He said 'we are connecting, taking our time dating ...taking one date at a time'. But he's still on the dating site so I got back on the site as ... (88 words)

Already attracted to a good friend, now I'm also falling for HER best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 938 days ago

31 December 2005 (M)

- I'm a 16 year old bloke and I don't know what to do. I think I might be falling for one of my best friends, but I already have feelings for another friend, and they are best friends together. The one I'm falling for knows that I like her friend but she doesn't know that I think ... (77 words)

My career is my life and my kids hate me for it. I'd love a relationship, but where are all the single men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 December 2005 (F)

- I have been split from my ex-hub for 9 years now and have two children. I have had a few relationships which did not amount to anything but pain, and plunged myself into a career. This has had a major impact on my relationship with my kids who resent this greatly although they ... (187 words)

I don't understand why guys my own age just don't seem interested in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

31 December 2005 (F)

- I don't understand why guys appear to not be interested in me! I'm 16 years old and have had 2 bf's, and never even been on a date with an other guys. All my friends at school have all the guys interested in them and at work, all the guys are interested in all the other gi... (338 words)

I unhooked her bra when we were kissing, but that was going too far! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - Hi. I have been with my girlfriend a month now, and it was going great. Until last night. We were kissing and I thought maybe we could move to the next step. So I undid her bra at the back but she immediatly stopped kissing and shook her head. I feel really bad now, she won't ... (67 words)

My girl doesn't want a boyfriend when we go to college, but I know she still loves me a little!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 931 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend is going to college and has always told herself she didn't want a boyfriend in college. At this point we are both 18 and have been dating for a year and a half. When we started dating, she fell hard for me, yet I didn't want to get attached too quickly because I ... (203 words)

Four months after I got her number, she's still got excuses for why we haven't gone out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - Is this girl interested? Is it harder to tempt a girl who has approached a guy? I have had an approach from a girl and I got her phone number. It's 4 months on but have never been out on a date. She keeps agreeing to go out on a date but doesn't come up with a suitable ... (160 words)

She gets so drunk, she's always talking to her exes, and I can't help but wonder: Is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend of 6 months has been drinking a lot lately. Whenever she gets drunk she calls all her exes. I work in a remote location for 2 weeks at a time and every night I call she's so drunk. I call and she's always talking to an ex. When I was with her in the bar once... (146 words)

Why is dating so difficult for me, when it seems to natural to other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I am 39, tall and always smart dressed, and have got a good but dry sense of humour, but I find it almost impossible to find women. I have not had any sort of relationship for over 8 years. I am sick of girls who I do get to know keep saying "you're such a nice guy, but ho... (154 words)

I'm jealous of my friend's success with guys. I'm much prettier than she is, so I've slept with 4 of her boyfriends!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - I was at a club with my best friend (Alice), we where having loads of fun. This guy came up to us and had a dance with Alice. They traded numbers. Although I danced with loads of boys I felt jealous. I feel like this a lot. Anyway about two weeks later, Alice had been on two d... (353 words)

When they're sober, my gf's folks are OK with us dating, but when they're drunk, they want me locked up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - Hello, I'm 22 and have been dating a 15 year old girl for about 9 months now. Our relationship is very good and understanding. We haven't had sex and don't plan to till she is old enough. Her parents do drugs and drink a lot so their permission to go out with me goes off and ... (156 words)

My girl walks all over me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 934 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend never seems to stick to commitments with me when we plan to see each other, i'm always asking her "when is it best to see you" i'm always having to ask when i can see her next, and more often then not she never sticks to the plans and ends up out with her mates ... (292 words)

She fancies sexy guys on TV... But shows absolutely zero interest in sex with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - why does me girlfriend seem to show little or no interest physically? hi, i'm 18 and been with my girfriend for just 1 year and 3 months. we've never had sex but have came close but i had to stop as she said it had hurt when i had penetrated her. my problem is that my g... (168 words)

Little things make my husband snap and become verbally abusive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - My husband has an anger management problem -- over the smallest thing he flares up and becomes verbally abusive, never accepting what he has done wrong. I can't handle it anymore -- what do I do?... (36 words)

My husband lied about ogling other women and now I wonder: is he lying about other important issues?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 290 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - When I met my husband I was honest and told him I couldn't handle a relationship with a guy who ogles other women. It wasn't until I was pregnant that he admitted he had lied and had been doing it A LOT! But then he told me he had changed. I forgave him and we married,... (119 words)

The absence of sex in my current relationship is leading me to check out other guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

31 December 2005 (F) - My relationship is becoming a lot better. The sex between my boyfriend and me is still very little if even that. But, my question is, do I still keep trying to perk it up or what? My eyes are really starting to wander. I have this co-worker that I am just dying to get with, ... (83 words)