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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I beat my gambling problem and moved away to be with my girl. Now SHE has a drinking problem...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - ok, here's the deal: i have a gambling problem, but haven't gambled in over a year. my gf and i had alot of fights about it and i decided she was more important to me than my lifestyle. we have since moved in together in her home town (which is several states away from my ... (183 words)

I want to be an actor-should I hire an agent? How do I get auditions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 935 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - Hi, Im 15 and reside in England, and have promising GCSE results to go on to further education and university. Although I want to act and have done so previously a few times on stage. I wish to act in movies really, so how can I do this. I also want to have something to fall ... (99 words)

My Mom refuses to meet my new boyfriend-I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Well i find myself not really knowing what to do anymore. My boyfriend and I have been going out for the pass 2 to 3 months, and its going good.. I am 16 turning 17 and he just turned 19. The problem which I have with is with my mom ... once again i know that she did not like ... (285 words)

Don't know what to do! My boyfriend can be either nice or abusive and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 936 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Im so unsure what I should do. My bf and I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs. I am so in love with him and he can be the sweetest, loving bf.. at times. He also can be someone totally different too. He talks down to me, says hurtful things on purpose, tries to change/control me, ... (630 words)

She's been gone only 2 days but I want her back here with me. Am I being overly selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a 17 yr old man with a 17 yr old female gf. we've recently fallen in love with each other, but she has one to New York for 11 days and we said we will be emailing each other while she is over there. but she has only been gone for like 2 days and i'm really missing h... (95 words)

My wife would rather be with her computer than with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 937 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt.... Since I hooked my pc up to the net I have lost my wife to it. She spends her days and nights infront on the pc. We don't have a sex life anymore and she gets irate if I ask her to come to bed. I don't know what to do please help.... I just need to... (70 words)

I'm 13... and I don't think anyone likes me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 926 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - I am 13 and I don't think that anyone has ever liked me for me. I think that I am nice, non-judjmental and optimistic. If a friend is down I always help them out. I feel that there is a problem. I am overweight and in my opinion pretty but not very pretty at the same time. ... (134 words)

I'm sorry for my bad behaviour in the past, but I can't change it. Can we ever get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Before I start sorry for such a long mail. i'd really appreciate loads of advice as I just need someone to tell me it'll work out!! My bf of 3yrs and I recently broke up. Was quite a weird 3 months, i broke up with him as I felt he wasn't spending enough time with me which up... (567 words)

He has problems with his workmates...and he comes home very down and depressed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Okay, this is not really a relationship question, well it is affecting our relationship, but I am worried about my partner. This is quite a long question but I believe it is a very serious issue. My partner is 24 years old and is the youngest in his garage where he works. ... (532 words)

It could be real love if we got together, but how do I ask him out without embarrassment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - I really like this guy at school and he is really nice to me. I don't know whether to ask him out or not in case he says no, because I don't want to embarras me or him. He is so sexy but see as I'm only 13. I think we could give it a try. I know people say how young puppy love ... (77 words)

It took me ages to move on, but now that I have -- my ex is trying to be ME back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Hello, I am 22-years-old and going through a lot with my ex of almost 6 months. We were pre-engaged and together for almost 3 years and back in June, I broke up with him for creating online profiles saying he was single so he could talk to girls. They weren't just any profiles, ... (413 words)

My husband wants to keep "his" money separate from "mine". Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been married for almost a year now. I grew up in an old fashioned home setting. I grew up seeing my father bringing home his paycheck and giving it to my mother, who also worked. She would then use the two paychecks to pay bills, buy food etc. I have a p... (160 words)

Still carrying a torch for my 9-years-ago ex. Should I try to contact him one more time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - I came to live in Switzerland 11 years ago because of a man that I loved. I was very young at the time we got together (20 years old). He was the same age as me. We stayed together for 2 years and then he told me he wanted to marry me. I just panicked as I was very young and ... (367 words)

I thinks she's just leading me on and playing the field..should I give up on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - I've been seeing this girl on and off for months now, the problem is I think she is just leading me on because she likes the attention. We talk on the phone alot and text each other but it never goes anywhere. She called me up a couple of weeks ago and told me she loved me but ... (104 words)

I refuse to be 2nd best to his former gf...am I just wasting my time on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - You may remember this question from last week, but I still need some advice real bad. On our first date my boyfriend told me (after I asked him if he'd been in a relationship since he separated) that he had wanted to be in a relationship with his friend Jill and during the ... (302 words)

He got me and his ex gf pregnant...now he's leaving me for her! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 915 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Me and My boyfriend were together for 3 months, when we found out I was pregnant. Then his ex tells him she is 4 months pregnant with his child. Now he tells me that he is going to be with her so he can raise their child together. When I asked him " what about me" he only ... (91 words)

He'd rather go out with his mates and just leave me at home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 890 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - my partner of two years makes me feel like he doesn't want to be with me. we live together but the only time we spend together is when we are out together and i always have to get a babysitter. he goes out as often as he can with his mates and doesn't understand that i need ... (178 words)

My parents said it's okay for us to have sex...but my bf is afraid he'll go to jail

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - ok im fifteen and my boyfriend is 19 and we had to sex and my parents said we could and he is afriad to go to jail and i to talked to the sherif and he said he couldnt but he wont beleive me could u help me make him beleive that he cant go to jail ... (60 words)

How can a guy avoid the dreaded "friendship trap"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

12 December 2005 (M)

- When getting to know a new girl, how is it possible for a guy to recognise and avoid the dreaded "friendship trap", where the man's advances are taken as friendly and reciprocated as such. i.e. purely platonic. What signals can the guy give to ensure that the girl doesn't thi... (89 words)

How can I win his heart though he is with someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 87 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - i am starting to really like this man, but he has a girlfriend. he says there's nothing there, but he is afraid to make her go because she has no where to go. but he won't make our dating experience known to her. but everyone in my family knows and friends. i want him to ... (68 words)

Does my boss fancy me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 922 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - my boss has recently been very playful with me ,and saying things like i havent seen you today, and saying things like i like you. we were play fighting, and he likes to get in my face, and i have to back away, it kinda makes me nervous. what does his actions mean? by the way, ... (60 words)

Can you explain about bleeding when losing virginity?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend says i took her virginity away but she didnt bleed, she said her boyfriend masturbated her and she bleed, for some weird reason its tough to beleive, is that common? what do i do?... (36 words)

I don't know if I feel enough for her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 938 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - i am with this girl undercover right now for the past 2 years, she has liked me for 8 years, before i just used her as a "booty call" but never had feelings for her, she was always around my and my friends, now i am really attached to her and i like her, but at times i doubt ... (86 words)

My "perfect" girlfriend wants to take a break to build up a friendship. How do we do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are perfect for each other, we know this, but we rushed into it. Both parents like each other, so that's good. I am almost 21 and she is a senior in high school. We had some difficult times and we argue. She told me that she wants a break to build what she... (107 words)

Why won't my boyfriend distance himself from his ex?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a problem with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They split up 2 years ago, and he and I have been dating for 2 years (and living together). The problem is that it really bothers me that she is still in the picture (after she dumped him 2 years ago). By this I m... (368 words)

My boyfriend didn't tell me he'd been looking for work 3 hours away until he had the job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 939 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend moved away from me 1 year ago. I am 22, he is 24. After he graduated from university, he applied for a job and got one 3 hours from where I live. We were living together and had been together a year before he left. I think I am still a little resentful toward h... (207 words)

Who should I date...my ex bf or this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 940 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - My Ex Boyfriend and I just broke up like 4 or 5 days ago. Well I still really like him and he likes me to but I like this other guy. He is REALLY sweet and tells me im beautiful and other stuff, but he lives like 30 minutes away. And he is afraid to date me because he doesnt ... (84 words)

I'm white-she's black..we're engaged. My family is making me choose them or her! Can you help me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 923 days ago

12 December 2005 (M) - dear cupid, i am i white man engaged to a black woman i love her so much but my family is pretty much making me choose them or her can you help me?... (33 words)

Totally devastated by discovery that my husband masturbates and fantasizes frequently! Guys: Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 914 days ago

12 December 2005 (F) - My husband masturbates very frequently and fantasizes about other women or images while doing so. I just found this out and I am absolutely devastated. We had what I thought was a GREAT active and monogamous sex life for over 13 years. I have always been very attentive to his ... (89 words)