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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2005 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any help for my girlfriend's sore vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - my girlfriend's vagina is always sore the morning after us having sex, despite using lubricant. this in turn is leading to a decrease in our sex life. is there anything that can be done for this?... (39 words)

I want to marry my long time bf but he insists we only live together. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I am a divorced 45 year old women. I have been dating a 48 year old man four 4 and a half years. I feel we are at a juncture in our relationship as to whether we are considering marriage or not. I have also a 12 year old son. My boyfriend just purchased a 2 family home as we ... (176 words)

My wife let her male friend know she's unavailable-is it possible for them to remain just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

15 December 2005 (M)

- I have a question and I hope Irish49 replys again.(others too) It was about my wife being out and a man approaching her and hanging out for a while. She made it clear she was married and not to get the wrong impression. He said that was fine and he liked to meet new people ... (469 words)

My husband tells his family every single detail of our lives... But he doesn't trust me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - i have been married for almost 4 years with two children.my husband doesnot trust me at all.i feel like he is married to his family.i mean they n know everything about our life...every tiny detail thanks to him.they tell him stuff and he keeps them from me.i tried talking ... (77 words)

Why is my Mum playing games with "my" guy!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I love my Mum to pieces (she’s my best friend) but yesterday she really annoyed me - big time! Although she has a downer on men in general (not fair, guys, I know!), she has been encouraging me to get to know this man that I like which has been really supportive of her. ... (364 words)

My bf doesn't trust me and tell his parents everything about us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - the problem is that my bf does not trust me. he is always keeping secrets. in spite of that,he has a big mouth. he tells his folks every little thing about us. what am i to do?... (37 words)

Been chatting to a girl for 6 months and I love her. We plan to meet..will it work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - Well, i met this girl in a chatroom after 6 months i have really got to know her and we talk almost everyday for hours (online) we have great conversations about everything. We are both 18 and are desperate to meet each other even though she is in Russia and i am in England. I ... (160 words)

My lover doesn't believe the depth of my feelings for her! What more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I have been in a lesbian relationship for 4 years. I deeply love my partner but she still doesn't believe I love her. She suffers from depression and it'sstarting to really get me down, as I'm not sure what else I can do to prove I love her. We live together and we do everythi... (71 words)

We love each but time constraints and responsibilities are creating a problem. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - I have been dating my girl friend for over a years now and I love her very much and we both have kids, I have one, she has two. We both work full time and it's hard for us to find time during the week to see each other. Her ex takes there kids two days a week but does not take ... (196 words)

My bf forced me to have sex and I'm confused..I was turned on by it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend forced me to have sex with him. We just finished having a really bad fight and sex was the last thing on my mind. He ripped my clothes off and threatened me with a knife. I cried the entire time. He just kept telling me to shut up or he'll "deck me". I ... (83 words)

What is the proper balance of control and submission in a relationship between a couple? Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6700 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - my boyfriend My boyfriend's dad was controlling to his mom. My mom is controlling to my dad and to me. Neither of us wants to turn out like our controlling parent. I've always been submissive to my mom, while my boyfriend struggles not to become controlling like his dad... (296 words)

I was forced into an arranged marriage which I didn't want. How do I get out of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6705 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I was forced into an arranged marriage which I totally don't want. I want to go separate ways and my entire family instituition is not allowing me to.HELP!!!!... (28 words)

We had an argument and he slept with another girl. Do I forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4yrs he is the love of my life, we recently had an argument and hadn't spoken in two months, within these two months he met this random girl and slept with her and now he wants to get back together and i am so confused do i forgive him?... (56 words)

I want to date her, but we are so different...will it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (M)

- i'm 16 and i need help i cant seem to stop thinking of this girl. she is a close friend and she dosent know how i feel. i dont know if a relationship would work because were very different people and i dont know if i can keep it a secret please what should i do... (56 words)

I really like this girl and we have dated. How do I tell my family I am bi-sexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6705 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - Ok well. i am a 20yr old female, i have only ever dated men but have known for nearly a year that i am bisexual. There is this girl, call her jenny. She is the most beautiful thing i have ever seen, and we play on a sport team together. A week ago we kissed and it was amazing. ... (255 words)

He was seeing someone while I was sleeping with him. I'm devastated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6704 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I hope you are able to help. During this year i lost my virginity to my best friend. We slept together quite a lot over a period of a few months and although we weren't in an official 'relationship' we had mutually crossed over from being more than just friends. I recently... (180 words)

He's a famous singer in a band and we've dated..so do I contact him or wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6705 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - i have been on a date with a guy this week and i;m totally smitten there's only one problem... he's a famous singer in a band. the question is do i contact him or wait for him to contact me? we're both away for the xmas period so we won't have a chance to se eaechother for the ... (108 words)

How do you get over someone you believe is the love of your life...I can't let go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - How do you get over someone you believe is the love of your life?? I'm only 21 but have been going out with a boy for 3 years. We're best friends, tell eachother absolutely everything, anyway I think we just didn't have time for the romance and my bf thinkis that hes fasllen ... (90 words)

Desperately need help after my first girlfriend dumped me, then I found my best mate making out with her! (long)

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - Hi there. I am a 17 year old male living in the UK. This summer (start of August 2005 to be exact) i started going out with a girl who is 15. Now i have knew her family (mainly Auntie and Uncle) for a couple of years. And i get on with (and still do) them now. So anyway her ... (1042 words)

I'm happily married but fell for a colleaque! What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - I know this sounds crazy-I am truly happily married but fell for a colleague who's been dating someone else (not seriously) for a while. I've been trying to hide this feeling by being just a helpful friend to him. Not sure if he suspects anything. But it's so hard and ... (68 words)

Help...why am I fantasizing about my wife having sex with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - I have fantasies about my wife having sex with other individuals, we have a healthy sex live and we enjoy each other but it's over 5 years that I been having this fantasies, why?... (34 words)

I am reserved but the gentleman I like has this certain "something"... help me understand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

15 December 2005 (F) - There is this guy I like but he is extremely outgoing and I am reserved. He is very sweet and a gentleman. I am told that he likes me too, but I’m feeling confused about his feelings for me and about an aspect of his character. I have never met anyone quite like him before - ... (570 words)

I'm a sex addict. How do I stop thinking about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6678 days ago

15 December 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a sex addict. How can I stop thinking about sex and just get on with my life? I'm 51 years old widower, I've looked after three children on my own for the best part of ten years. These children although they are still at home are becoming quite independ... (273 words)