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writes: i got to know my next door neighbour and we got close he asked me to kiss him one night he would flirt with me all the time but when i was drunk one night we kissed and almost ended up having sex but he stopped and said he just wanted to be friends but continued flirting and asking for kisses i went back with my ex and he started seeing this girl but he still kept telling me he loved me, we went out to a night club and he was going to fight the guy that i was kissing but he still only wants friendship??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005): Get away from this guy. He's confused, and that's just going to screw with your head, no matter how good his intentions are. Tell him you want a friendship, or a relationship, but not this weird in between thing. Since he seems incapable of keeping things strictly platonic, it sounds like you need to be the grown-up and just avoid him. If/when he's ready for an actual relationship, I'm sure he'll find you.I've learned that there are all kinds of reasons that guys will want to be with you more than anything, yet can't bring themselves to just be with you, so they send so many mixed signals. Almost none of these reasons have anything all to do with you. It's stuff going on in their lives, in their heads, and there's nothing you can do about it. Don't take it personally; just move on to someone else. I know that sounds hard, but I've been where you are, and I've learned from it. Please, trust me.
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reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (9 December 2005):
 Talk to him and ask him what he really wants. He cant control your life and be territorial over every guy you talk to if he's not with you. You need to tell him to either step up to the plate, or back off. Some guys just want their cake and eat it too. He wants to have you as his, but probably doesnt want to be tied down. Just tell him what you feel, and ask him what his intentions are. Just dont be too pushy :)
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