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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My bf talks to his ex gf once a week..I don't like it so am I over-reacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend talks to his ex girlfriend - who lives about 8 hours away from us - at least once a week and, on top of this, they send each other presents for Xmas/birthdays. I told him that this makes me feel very uncomfortable, yet he thinks there is nothing wrong as they are ... (65 words)

My sister in law gets drunk and flirts with my husband..should I just ignore her behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

1 December 2005 (F)

- My husband was transferred 2 months ago and we now live close to his married brother. My sister in law is a real bitch towards me and treats me in a condescending manner, she also flirts with my husband and hangs all over him when she's had too much wine, which I ignore, as I ... (187 words)

Looked at his cell phone messages-I think he was planning a secret rendezvous with another girl.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend choose to hang out with his best friend which is a girl on thanksgiving instead of me and my family. i chose to stay home with him to see whom this girl was. ok when i saw her i felt really stupid because after seeing her i realized i had nothing to be jealous ... (156 words)

My friend's gf likes me-I like her. What do we do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - my mate's girl friend fancys me and i fancy her. wat shall we do. need help. tar ... (18 words)

Two sexual partners..and neither can make me climax.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6680 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - I have had 2 sexual partners whom i did it with several times however i never came. what can i do to climax?... (23 words)

His gf-the mother of his child...deleted my phone number because she was jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I got this guys number about two months ago. He's 22 and I'm 26. We've talked for about a week or so afterwards and then I didn't hear from him after that. Now last week we bumped into each other and he told me his "baby's mother" deleted my phone number because he was jealous ... (101 words)

Isn't Christmas Eve a time for family-not a night out with the boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is 36 years old and we are about to spend our second Christmas together. He is a bit of a drinker (drinks every night but not enough to get really drunk) and he likes to drink quite a bit at weekends and have a good time. The thing is every Christmas he has... (193 words)

When my girl gives me a blow job-I can never come. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - When my girlfriend gives me a blow job I can never come even though it feels like I should, then it goes and I feel like need a piss and I lose my erection, does anyone know why?... (38 words)

I am so scared about getting pregnant...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we have such a strong relationship. We will probably be married within a couple of years and we are looking to buy a house together within a year. I am 21 and he is 22 years old, and I have been on the pill for over 5 years, ... (141 words)

She wants a break because I'm too overprotective-what do I do while we are apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - Ok, my girlfriend moved in with me b/c she had problems at home. We lived in a hotel 1-2 months until i found an apartment. She was still in school, I graduated the year before to give you an idea of age. We were so happy to be together and did many fun things. Finally got the ... (407 words)

I moved to the US to be with my boyfriend, but it was too much, too soon.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Hi there, I hope someone can help as I'm going crazy. I moved to the us to be with my boyfriend but it was too much too soon and I was defensive while he became distant and panicked. he tried to talk to me and I moved out really upset. He let me go and said we would just s... (362 words)

My son is 19 and his gf is 38...my wife and I are worried about the age gap.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - My 19 year old son is dating a 38-year-old woman and I am concerned for him. My wife is worried about the age difference and our son; what do I do? The age gap is 19 years - and I'm worried for him. Thankfully he's not talking about marriage or anything like that, he... (130 words)

He says she's just a friend, but I think there's more to it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year, but I've been worrying about our relationship. I don't know how to get him to open up.. We've been making an effort to see each other more regularily but now he cancelled on me to go climbing with a girl who's just a ... (138 words)

She has a bf..but I like her and I want to ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - i like this girl bev and she likes me i think but i dont no how to ask her out. but she has a boy freind how do as here out ... (32 words)

My 16 year old bf is sleeping with my grandmother! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6701 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 16 too. Recently I found out that he has been sleeping with my grandmother and has been having an affair with her for 3 months - and I didn't know until now! I feel sick, disgusted, jaded.... what do I do? Katrina from North Wales... (59 words)

Need advice on how to stop thinking about this guy at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - How can I get this guy out of my mind? Desperatly seeking advice on how i can stop thinking about the guy at work! This situation has been going on for about a year now, very early on I made my interest known and he has never actively discouraged me. However, have si... (190 words)

How do I start dating again after so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6716 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - I was married for 5yers then got divorced because i sufferd from depression .Now ten years on i am still on medication for depression but i am very happy. the only thing is that i have only had one relationship with one girl and it faild. I work with lots of girls and they say ... (154 words)

Should a 40 year old man want to date a 19 year old woman and then get her pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Is it normal for a forty year old man to want a relationship with a nineteen year old girl and then get her pregnant?... (24 words)

He's cheating-but I'd go to hell and back for this man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My fiance and i have been together 8 years and have a 3 year old son. We are from very different backgrounds as he is asian and due to this we have had to overcome many obstacles. From day one everyone has been against us except for a few close friends and yet we are still ... (248 words)

Since the baby, he doesn't want to sleep with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - i had a baby 10 months ago and my boyfriend doesn't want to sleep with me anymore i have put weight on and i'm doing all i can to lose it but if i mention sex my partner says he's tired we havn't slept together in months what should i do... (51 words)

I have just found out he has a 13 year old child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend that i have dated for the past five months, recently i just found out that he has a child who is 13 years old. He has a second girlfriend that i donot now of. But recently there was a wedding at his family his sister child ws gettingmarried, i found out then ... (145 words)

How do I get my friend's husband out of my mind??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I think I am a happily married 41 y/o woman. My husband is attractive, caring and loving. We communicate openly about everything. One of my close friends has been having marriage troubles. She has admitted to having feelings for another man and has been emotionally involved ... (153 words)

Does he really want me or is it more for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Is he falling for me? Iv'e been with my bf now for two months. When we first met we took it really slow. I think in the begining neither of us wanted a bf/gf relationship, so what we had was based on fun, company and sex. After about a month and a half i started to find mys... (302 words)

Why do I want to dress in opposite sex clothes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - i am a singel man and i keep on fantisising about crossdressing. I think of dressing as a woman and having sex with a man! dressed as a woman!I no i am not gay or bi as i like girls. And i was married for 10 yrs! Am i just replacing girls by crossdressing as a woman! as i have ... (72 words)

Feel neglected and rejected since he begun his divorce

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months.The last 3 months his divorce proceedings have begun and since then he's been a completely different person.He is angry, moody and distant.He told me that he wants to spend time alone and can't function in a relationship but ... (87 words)

He loves me but I don't love him...but I don't want to hurt his feelings...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I've been with my so called boyfriend for about three years It started out good but i took him to a family event and he acted stupid ,he had too much to drink i decided to leave him so we took a break for three weeks in those three weeks i started messing with a guy that i was ... (184 words)

Why would a man not want to ave sex all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I have just started dating this man. So far we have only had sex when he is drunk. We have sex once every two weeks, even though we spend every day together. I complained to him and he said he doesn't have confidence, doesn't think sex is important, doesn't want it to be ... (91 words)

My coussin is coming to live with us and we've slept together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Well like 3 months ago i wen on vacations and i have this really cute cousin im 18 and his 19 so the first days we just talked then we started drinking and we would drink in his room my aunt would let us be in the room by ourself because she trust us we drank many times in his ... (331 words)

I lied and I got sprung. Now I want to get my boyfriend to trust me again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Hi. I have done something incredibly stupid. I lied to my boyfriend. He might be leaving or at least sleeping in there. A few weeks ago when I went home to visit friends and my parents, I went to a party. Knowing how uneasy it makes him about my drinking without him, I told h... (143 words)

I'm nice to my girlfriend, so why is she always so unhappy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - I'm 16, and I've been with my girlfriend for a while now. I'm always nice to her and I always try to make her happy. But she always seems to be unhappy. Most of the time, it's about absolutely nothing though. I know it can't be her period, because this is a constant thing. I ... (72 words)

I gave birth, 3 months ago...and now certain sex positions hurt real bad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6715 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I had a baby 3 months ago and now certain sexual positions that were pleasurable for me before now hurt really bad, and a lot of times sex is just uncomfortable in general (physically). has this happened to anyone else and does it get better? any suggestions will be appreciated... (50 words)

My bf's religious beliefs makes him celibate but I am finding it tough.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I find my bf sexually attractive, but his recent religious convictions make him not want to do anything physical, which is perfectly fine with me, although it's difficult sometimes I have to admit--but whenever we go out for the day and come back to his house, we almost always ... (123 words)

After he kissed another girl, he assumed I'd dump him. Should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - My bf kissed another girl last wkend, he told me straight away and basically assumed that I'd dump him. The thing is I do forgive him, I admire the fact that he told me straight away and he even went and told his parents and I know he feels miserable about it. We've been tog... (252 words)

Feels like I can't compete with my boyfriend's relationship with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6718 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Okay so here's the story. I'm 17 and my boyfriend's 18. We've been dating for 10 months now. His last relationship ended about two years ago. Him and his ex were together for two years. At the beginning of our relationship he would always talk about her, which drove me crazy ... (141 words)

Things slowed down between us. Should I call her, or assume she'll call when she's ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6696 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - I'm in a bind. I was dating this girl all fall and out of nowhere things started to slow down. She says she still has feelings but we haven't been out in about 3 weeks. I will get an occasional email or text message. I reply and get my hopes up that something positive will ... (159 words)

Six months of dating and he's so wonderful...is this too good to be true and will it last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - There are times when my bf seems to good to be true: meaning that he listens, is considerate, takes time to come see...we've been going out for about 6 months..could I confidently say that this is a part of his character and be confident this good behavior isn't just a way of ... (89 words)

I want to stop competing with my bf...any good suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6707 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Sometimes I feel like I'm competing with my bf when it comes to different things like who works more or who does the most exercise or who has to go through the hardest time...as dumb as it may sound, I can't help but feel like I have to one-up him on everything, and I don't ... (72 words)

After almost a year of dating we haven't had intercourse...and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

1 December 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a little under a year, and we have a fun sex life, with one exception; we have never had penetrative sexual intercourse, and she says she wants to wait until she is married. I do see my self marrying her, but not immediately, and the ... (93 words)

He was difficult to live with so I moved out. Now we miss each other! Do we try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6719 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now.. Everything has been PERFECT! I mean perfect... until I moved in with him. We didn't see each other any more or less but something wasn't right. I know I over-reacted alot but it seemed like he just didn't care about seeing me and ... (121 words)

I need advice on how to keep that spark alive, in a love relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6717 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - How do you keep the spark or chemistry alive in a relationship? Is there any advice you can give to a person who has gone through the mid-point of a relationship?... (31 words)