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writes: Im 15 years old and I really like this boy. I have been out with a few guys but I have never really felt the way I feel about this guy. There's a problem though, my friend who is my connection to him really likes him and I don't want to hurt her. But me and this boy really do have chemistry and I really like him but I don't want to hurt her I wish I could just be with him without causing any problems. The worst thing is that she's tellng me that she doesn't like him but this has happened to her before with another friend and she said the same thing but now they hate eachother. I don't want the same thing to happen to us. We're perfect for each other and I would do something about it if I was sure she didn't like him but I'm not. What should I do?
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reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (9 December 2005):
 You know in the first part of the question you said she liked him. In the second part of the question, you said she didnt like him. You really should talk to her about this. Ask her if she would be ok with the two of you dating, or would it honestly cause problems with the friendship. If your friend is worth keeping, the two of you will be able to work out something. Communication is extremely important, even concerning friend relatinships.
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